Should I let my wife know I fucked prostitutes in the past?

That ain't her business. You are allowed to fuck people before you are married. Prostitutes are people.

Most guys have fucked prostitutes. Women expect you to

Why withhold an important truth from your wife? She deserves to know if shes your lifelong partner

she wouldnt tell you she fucked niggers in the past, why even bother

Why is this an important truth?

Don't. There are so much more bad things that can come out of that than good. Even if she forgave you, that mental image will be scarred onto her. If you really did learn something keep it to yourself and never do it again.

Because it shows a deep lack of self respect that you pay for sex. Also a lack of openness with your wife by lying about it

Or maybe user just had a hard time getting pussy. Maybe social anxiety. Its in the past now.

I don't think so. I would keep it all to myself unless she asks about this.

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if I've moved on from it why does it still matter? should she know everyone of my sins?

If you do, it should be in passing. Driving down the street years later with kids. "Hey, thats where I used to pick up hookers."

Depends on wife and her world view. If you think she can handle it and still love you and respect you, fuck yea tell her. Maybe you guys will be able to laugh about it and you wont feel so guilty. But this isn't a black and white question. This could ruin your relationship if she that doesnt jive with her principals.

The only person who can answer this question is you. Risk vs reward. If I were in your shoes, I'd probably keep it to myself unless i was 100% sure she'd be cool with my past. I used to keep all my bad stories and history to myself but recently moved to a new state and started over and I've found I like wearing my heart on my sleeve. I openly talk about my time I've spent in jail, the drugs I've loved, the cars I've stolen etc. I also talk about how much I've grown and how I've lost people in my life. Any girl I'm dating would know this in time, as all my friends know and would accept it and be able to laugh and learn with me. But I know relationships dont always shake out like that. Hell I've been single for years to be perfectly honest so it's not like my story has a happily ever after yet. But I'm happy with living a more honest life, even tho I know it often works against me.

Tho if you tell your wife, she may tell everyone. You're not me and you've got secrets you've kept, and you may have friends who will judge you. I've fucked hookers with my friends lol. Good luck man and dont think your answer is gonna be here in its entirety, figure this thing out for yourself.

Did you learn from it? Will you ever do it again?

This sin is pretty important dude. Sex is extemely powerful thing not to be taken lightly

Found the virgin.

If she had slept with male prostitutes wouldn't you want to know? You shouldn't keep secrets from each other relationships are about trust.

I am done chasing empty sex and regret that shit.

not if you ever plan on sleeping in the same house as your wife...

>>get a sex health test too.

I don't know if I even want to tell my friends. And I dont want my wife to think of me in a bad light even if I have changed.

Found the degenrate who pays for sex

I know it is best not to tell her but I feel shame if I didn't. I am not sure I'm that interested in her sexual past, though if she was a prostitute I'd want to know

Wrong. You just got buttmad at being called out for your obvious virgin post of "sex is powerful and mystical".

Dude this whole thread wreaks of insecurity. Get over it you fucked a hooker. You're afraid of her judging you yet admitting that if the role was reversed you'd be fucking bothered. You need a shrink because your world view and your actions are at odds. Furthermore your holding her sexual history to a standard which you yourself have fallen short of.

Btw I am okay with fucking hookers. I'm the heart on sleeve guy from earlier. But it's clear to me that your insecure and the only way for you to come to terms is to alter your world view. Convince yourself it was okay to fuck a hooker when you did it. I personally never thought there was anything wrong with that. But you do now so u need a rationalize it to yourself. And dont tell your wife cuz she's probably as insecure as u otherwise you too wouldn't be together. Delete your browser history and go to bed

Don't tell her and you might feel bad.
Do tell her and she will feel bad.

Which of you deserves to feel bad?

Its not powerful in a mystical sense but in a biological sense. Sex releases oxytocin and banging random prostitutes wrecks your ability to bond with women

Do you ever talk in your sleep? Ever discuss things when drunk that you regret mentioning later? Are you POSITIVE that the prostitute never talks about her customers, or that she won't 25 years from now? It's not a question of if she finds out, but when. She's going to have lots of difficult questions for you, and it's going to be a massive bitch, but you should make sure she hears about it on your own terms. Realize that the most difficult question she will have for you is: "Why didn't you tell me before now?"

I don't think it would or could ever be revealed outside if my own omission. I was young and dumb when i did it

No.

I wouldn't tell my current GF or my future wife if I have fucked hookers in the past. That's something I would take with me to the grave. Some secrets is just for you and nobody else.

Why are you so ashamed of fucking prostitutes?

I dont wish for anyone to feel bad. though if I tell her I think we still both would feel bad

Why do you keep posting incel memes when it's more than obvious you have no clue of what you're talking about?

First of I'm not ashamed and I haven't fuck a prostitute. Second I firmly believe that is my business and nobody else. And also I live in feminist hell hole were I should be shunned to death if people find out if you had sleep with a whore.

Also know that it will not come any good to tell your gf you have paid for sex. You will seem like a loser.

she must be a woman

but that is what I am. shouldn't I just bee myself

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I don't know should your gf tell you about all the dicks she's taken in the past? Maybe she had a gangbang once too, do you need to know? Maybe she even fucked a black guy, is that necessary information?

My opinion of men gets lower and lower every single day, thanks guys.

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why's that, sweatie?

ok femanon tell me what should I do? Is it better to live in ignorance or the live in truth and be hurt by it?

no, but if it comes up be honest.

*People

if you would like to be single again, go for it

How much harm would it cause compare to good it will do? If there isn't any benefit for telling her about it, then why do it? If you don't tell her, then nothing would happen unless you hookers you fucked often walk up to you and ask if you would be interested for another round

Of course you should tell her, especially if she's the kind of person who values the truth. This is clearly bothering you, living with is for years to come and not telling her won't be easy. She deserves to know, user.

>living with it for years to come*

would you personally want to know? and how would you feel if you knew? would look down or leave the guy?

>would you personally want to know?
Yes
>and how would you feel if you knew?
Honestly, probably very sad and confused at first. But how he told me about it could probably make it somewhat better.
>would look down or leave the guy?
My opinion of him would be affected a bit since personally I'm the type that looks down upon hookup culture and not saving yourself for your partner. But assuming I loved him, I would never leave him because of it.

Let's you were just in a relationship and not married would that change your thoughts?

hmm not that guy but what about a guy who met up with one, paid to do shit, but then felt intense shame before actually going ahead and left instead?

I guess I would appreciate him telling me as early as possible, so it wouldn't be quite as bad as it would be if we were already married.
If he did actually feel guilty about it: same as if he hadn't ever done it.

>If he did actually feel guilty about it: same as if he hadn't ever done it.
huh that's surprisingly forgiving, thanks for the answer.

That should gave come up before the marriage. You dummy

why should it come up with op at all?

Has she told you the exact number of men, women animals,or objects shes fucked. Or orgies and gangbangs she's been in?
>shame or guilt
So you were lonely/ an "incel" like a lot of guys are and instead of a regular hookup you payed for a woman because humans need human contact? Big deal
>youtube.com/watch?v=5J93U-iokyw
>whoism3.wordpress.com/2012/11/17/confessions-of-a-reformed-incel/

Really what's the purpose?

I remember my ex telling me she fucked this black dude with a huge dick in the past.

Didn't do me any good knowing about that and in hindsight would have been better if I didn't know.

When it comes to certain things it's better if you don't know.

Unless you plan on going to prostitutes again, then you should be honest about it.

>en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misandry
>exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/shaming-tactics/

Absolutely not. We've been over this on this board before. Women are very judgmental about these things and most will sex-shame you for it. She wants you to be an alpha stud who could fuck women whenever he wanted, she doesn't want to think you had to pay for it.
Women also view prostitutes as competition. Women like the power imbalance of modern dating and they oppose prostitution because it gives men an alternative.

Never tell any woman, especially your wife.

It doesn't matter. He can tell her he banged some sluts without a condom, just never tell her he paid for it.

No you fucking idiot. NEVER ever tell anyone you fucked a whore, this is a secret that only you yourself should keep.

Yes, because nobody is perfect, and she might want to know if you have STDs.

>implying that's a bad thing
I've come with my dick right in the middle of the tits of a prostitute with unreasonably big, hentai-tier natural tits, fucked a brazilian-tier bunda right in the asshole, i've been jerked off by hot older milfs while calling them "mama" and came inside the mouth of younger girls and made them call me "papa" with cum dripping from their mouths.
All of that is something i would have never been able to do in real life by normal means, i've had loving gfs refuse to suck me, refuse anal, refuse to wear sexy clothes in sexy positions, refuse to let me cover their body with my cum because of some stupid sense of "dignity". It's always the same, you always have to give up a bunch of the good stuff because they don't let you, they hold the monopoly of pussy and they'll pick what to give you and for what price - including giving you dogshit in exchange of your everything.
Fuck all of that, i know you enjoyed yourself while fucking those whores, and you probably did stuff that your wife wouldn't even dream of doing with you.
The best moment in my romantic life was when i obtained the freedom to pick who to fuck, how to fuck, and how much i was willing to give in exchange (i'm not talking only about money here, it's the all the effort, facades, tying yourself up that relationships involve).
Prostitutes are the agents of male sexual liberation, that's why women hate them so much.
Don't be ashamed of what you have done, you took a decision, followed through with it, and like everyone else who has gone to a prostitute before - you must have reached (or at least have gotten closer to) some sort of answer about yourself after doing it.
Once you come to accept having fucked prostitutes as a part of you, you won't feel embarrassed about it anymore, and you won't care about whatever any woman, wife included, may think about it. At that point the decision is up to you - pragmatic omission or moral honesty.

based and pimp-pilled

no
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>including giving you dogshit in exchange of your everything.
>forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=133931371&page=1

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Not OP, but why do I feel so guilty, then? I feel terrible!!

Well, flip the script OP - would you want to know if your wife hired people for sex and/or had sex for money with other people? Is this information that you feel is relevant to your marriage and life?

Dude, it’s not the same. Girls get attention quicker from other people. Us, guys, have it more complex

It's absolutely the fucking same, you idiot. This is a marriage. 50/50. A partnership. The person you (in theory) spend your life with. My answer remains the same and retains it's relevance.

No it is not, you moron. Probably the girl got plenty of dick and attention, while the guy struggled to have a fucking date.

I have never known a bitch to tell the truth about their sex life.

Incel whining about QUANTITY of sex is not the point of OP's question. Reading comprehension obviously isn't your forte, so sit down.

Neither do men. Not even virgins tell the truth. Good try though.

I’m talking from my point of view. But people need attention, sex is part if thst. Go back to your ideal world, you garbage.

Like I said, reading comprehension isn't your forte, because if it were, you'd have caught on to the fact that I was calling YOU a fucking incel bitchboi. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

Why? It's just sex.

I'm not OP. I wouldn't ask any girl about her past and I wouldn't tell mine. I'd marry a few of the prostitutes that I know.

Dude you’re absolutely unable to read between the lines. Yes, I’m complaining like an incel, but people like you create a the problem. You’re probably a feminist, go whine about the problems you create somewhere else, and let the real human beings cope with their problems

1/10. Good try. I'm sure that line of thought made the hamster wheel in your head go into warp drive.

Whatever you community college subhuman.

who gets laid.

>That's like writing to your father that you hate him, which my idiot half brother did and made him cry.

What the fuck, that's cruel man. What were the reasons if I may ask?

>Yeah I feel the same way. There is some shame from being desperate enough to pay to fuck some used up roastie. Maybe I could have patience and worked to get sex but I am to ugly and autistic with women. Even the sex with the prostitutes wasn't even good because I was so awkward

If you live in a feminist hell hole and date within that pool you're already fucking whores, the only difference is they're doing it for free.

I don't think anything good will come about this if you tell her. First of all, why would you even be motivated to tell her? You have literally no reason to, your past sexual exploits are your business and not anyone else. You're just going to give her a reason to start shit with you later on, she will use it against you mark my words. Women hate the idea of prostitutes because of what it represents. They know their main value and power comes from their body no matter how many of them spout off feminist bullshit. It violates their idea of the sanctity of women being the gatekeepers to sex. If men can just pay a whore to get off with no bs instead of jumping through hoops with a regular girl then that completely dissolves the priviledge and special treatment women are so accustomed to in society. Your wife is going to shame you, and ridicule you for that because it makes her insecure and insecurity is a death sentence for relationships, it ain't worth it.

NO

>should I accept that there are mistakes I made, take responsibility for that fact, and attempt to rectify it, or at the very least present the person with whom I trust the most with the truth regarding the mistakes I made... or should I be cowardly?

You know what’s right, you know exactly how difficult it is, you know the wrong easy way, what advice do you want?

also don’t be ashamed having paid for sex, we all have sex and there’s a million ways to slice it. you’re a different person now, and while I’m not saying to tell her every thing you regret doing, just don’t lie to her or lose trust in the relationship

Sex has exactly as much power as you give it. Which should be none, it's sex not a gun.

Just relax and don't think too much about it. It's like going to a nice restaurant.
After 27 prostitutes (and many repeats), I've learned many things about sex, prostitutes, girls... It's an interesting experiment.

There are girls who are tight, average or loose, which is obvious. But it's fun to actually feel it.
Each girl's blowjob feels different. There is one who does it PERFECTLY for me. This one also had the cleanest anus of them all. My dick (condom) got out really clean out of it (like on porn).
Many girls don't even do golden showers, let alone worse things.
One of the girls is a real succubus. She fucks like there's no tommorow and has "all" males of this city after her.

No. They don't think like we do. There's no reason to tell them your inner most thoughts. We are polar opposites at the instinctual baseline. That's why you're even considering telling her. Don't do it though. It's a sign of weakness and you know what happens when they think you're weak.

The real question is: Why do we even want to tell them these things Is that a biological defect in us? Are we intrinsically weak for even considering it? Good thing we have the power of reason and can override the desire to tell them.

Godspeed sir. Don't fucking tell her.

>what happens when they think you're weak
they will exploit in the future. yet they claim they want emotion availability and vulnerability