I’ve been with my girl for three years. I truly love her and see her as my best friend, but lately things unraveled when she found out I cheated. Although she is amazing to talk to and cuddle with she never initiates affectionate love or sex or anything. She’s really lazy and waits to be loved. She still shows love and she clearly,loves me, but It lacks that fiery passion. I often feel inadequate around her. Mind you I’m a jacked dude and I practice martial arts. It’s confounds me. I make her cum a lot too so I’m at a lost. Regardless, things have been getting more complicated.
At my job there is one gorgeous girl whose developed a growing crush over me for almost a year. She’s visibly into me and I’ve always thought she was sexy and nothing more. But the way she expresses her femininity, how she takes care of her students and looks at me is really attractive. She even helped one of my students do well for a test. This past Thursday while walking from the cafeteria I saw her through the window and I felt something let go inside of me. I gave an effortless sexually charged stare into her eyes, and she froze locked on my eyes as her mouth was ajar. If we were anywhere else we would have fucked hard on the spot. I haven’t felt anything like that in a long time.
Now, I’m juggling my emotions for my gf and this gorgeous coworker. I still am mystified how it just happened like that and now I feel I’m at a fork in my life.
Would ditch both, your boner wants one and your brain tells you you should have the other, But you're forgetting the most beautiful person of all this and that's you, you puckish scamp, so why don't you ditch both these roastie toasties, and find you some time alone to do you.
Definitely drop your gf tho, she don't sound worth the work
Jackson Reyes
She’s still such a lovely girl. She cleans and does stuff for me if I need it done. But she sleeps so much and is so reluctant to admit she doesn’t show sexual affection. She refused to address it and I cheated as a result. It sucks, I fed, terrible but I felt amazing to feel like a man,
Ayden Stewart
Oh, you're another of the guys that is in love with himself. I would tell you to leave them both alone, you've mind fucked your gf and want to do it again with this other girl, but you'll do it anyway. Your ego is enormous and needs to be fed.
Jose Green
Either leave your girl to chase better sex, or settle for the lower tier sex and keep the good girl.
Personally I would advise you to break it off, since you've already cheated and there is probably no future together for you two
Carson Davis
Too bad man, you're hurting each other and that's not good. Split or suffer, my dood.
Cooper Robinson
I'm confused. You cheated on your girlfriend and are surprised she isn't as affectionate anymore?
mate, what are you on. I’m a physically active chad by Jow Forums standards. I’m sexually charged. My gf does not care about this part of me. It drives a man insane after a year. I waited and tried doing everything I could to boost her to no avail.
Sure, this new girl could purely be a product of strong lust but the the most important detail is how important femininity and sexual affection is to me and I’m sure many guys,
Hurts to think I cannot manage it. I wish I wasn’t this way and could be happy with what I have but I’m left unsatisfied. Really sucks.
No, she hasn’t been initiating much of anything for over a year iat the start of our relationship. I endured it with no hiccups until I snapped because she was lethargic and clueless about femininity and initiating anything.
Joseph Lewis
Well, you can chill and keep suffering and cheating, just don't come back here like we haven't told you that a split is healthy here.
Christopher White
>No, she hasn’t been initiating much of anything for over a year iat the start of our relationship. I endured it with no hiccups until I snapped because she was lethargic and clueless about femininity and initiating anything. Ah. Well it's time to break up with her, user. You say you've tried, and tried, and she refuses to change. Everyone's hear this because it's true: People have to want to change to enact it. She clearly doesn't want to change, and you've got your dick out the door. Break up with her so you can both find people who can make you happy.
Jeremiah Walker
Cheaters don't get sympathy here. OP deserves whatever mess he's gotten himself into.
Dylan Rodriguez
So what are you waiting for? You and your gf are sexually incompatible. Now man up and break it off before you hurt her because you don’t know how to keep it in your pants.
Anthony Thomas
so. she found out you already cheated and stopped having sex with you over it? dumb bitch she is giving you encouragement to cheat again. If a woman can't keep her man under the table, she's a terrible woman. fuck the rest of these incels, you gave yourself the answer you need >She refused to address it and I cheated as a result. She is still not giving it up so go get some.
Jordan Walker
We’re very close and we’ve talked over what happened. 4 months ago I experienced a very special realization and I changed to be honest and not try to have both ways. I’ve been good guy and as loving as possible but I cannot fix said problem. I’m now probably going to tell her the truth in which I cannot endure this without hurting her.
The thing is this girl helped made me a better, Person and I helped her grow and get through school. We have a lot in common and share the same sense of humor, but fuck this gay world I can’t be happy with this hole, I never thought that such visible attraction was imperative for me,
Robert Reed
Terrible diction on my part.
We have sex. She understands why I did it. She sees men do it a lot at the restaurant she helps. I just feel inadequate around her because she doesn’t show sexual interest until I do anything. I can’t keep doing this.
Adam Lee
Hey op who is that girl on the image
Grayson Ramirez
okay so point blank, you're emotionally cheating on her
my kneejerk response is that if your current gf doesnt show you affection enough then it seems like maybe this new girl might be a good option
this just sounds like the makings of a break up
Joshua Fisher
She sounds quite depressed tho, have you tried to talk to her how she is doing mentally?
Anthony Stewart
If you keep that mind-state you're gonna lose your girl. Hate to break it to you, but most girls in relationships don't initiate sex. In the beginning they might, because hormones are going crazy, but after that phase it usually doesn't happen. Stop watching porn. Girlfriends don't just walk up to you and start sucking your cock like in the movies. Unless the girls a whore. Be proud that your girl isn't a whore, and stop being a low esteem faggot. Half of Jow Forums wishes they even had a gf.
Lincoln Jenkins
Emotional cheating is one of the dumbest terms to ever be fathomed.
I think maybe living where we live has killed her energy. Perhaps had an effect on other part s of her as well.
Thanks for your words, mate. I’m lucky to have someone as nice and sweet as her. Prob is the fate of most relationships.
Juan Richardson
>I truly love her
hm sure jan
Angel Flores
People cheat when they feel like there's something missing from their lives/relationship. In the wind up to the actual cheating, your mind and hormones will actually do a mind-trick on you where you will become extra critical of your long-term partner and extra-forgiving to your crush. You can remember this happening or will notice it happening if you ever get over a one-itis or a crush. I know it definitely happened to me. During that phase when my heart was wandering and my dick REALLY wanted to wander straight into her softest parts, the new girl that had my attention seemed like the most amazing, cool, ambitious, sweet, and sexy like make-me-diamonds-with-just-her-smell female in the universe. We crushed on each other mega hard and came really close with our late night talks and passionate cuddles. It never came to pass and now when I really think back on it, she was actually kind of average.
