I'm still shocked.
For the first 4 months everything was perfect.
We laughed so much , our sexual chemistry was awesome, compatible personalities, shared interest and hobbies.
But we had a few disagreements , small ones. But she's always cried like it was the end of the world.
It kept escalating in severity and it culminated in her becoming critical of me, me saying I'm walking on egg shells, her saying all her ex's say that, that she has mental health issues and is unlovable and a relationship with her is not worth it. I reasured her and tried to connect but she kept pushing me away.
And two weeks later dumps me - saying she doesn't wanna work through things about me that anger her - I'm very extroverted and I take social risks with humor that can be risky but it pays off most of the time as I quickly build relationships and social circles. It's how I met her.
She told me I've made her friends uncomfortable at times and EVEN though they've never said anything , or displayed any body language and would continue to laugh and talk with me,( and they still really like me)that my social approach to people is unacceptable to her and she doesn't wanna work through it.
Boom over
The weird thing is she recently cut out a large chunk of her social circle and they've been inviting me out even though I'm not with my ex anymore - making me think her friends really do like me.
You might guess correctly she's a typical liberal "sjw"
I just have a hard time believing she'd not try to work through things, as she said no ones ever treated her as well, our sexual chemistry was amazing and all her friends and family like me. We had so much chemistry.
She tried to work things out with a heroin junkie. She tried to work things out with a verbally and emotionally abusive person. But me, she's not interested in working it out.
Why? I thought we had something special.