Former doomer fags, how did you break out of it...

Former doomer fags, how did you break out of it? It’s so fucking boring and I just want to feel like there’s more to life. For real, help.

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Honestly I was just taken aback by how much cool shit people out there do. Like I find a thing called Bian lian (youtube it lol) and it was just so random but so cool. Then I just went on to find my own cool niche shit.

What are you into, user?

I play video games and sit in my house. Or I go places and buy pointless shit. I try to socialize but it leads me to overthinking or trying too hard and then feeling like shit. I guess music has been a constant in my life that’s always been there unconditionally.
So yeah I like music.

Give yourself to improving the lives of others. I accepted that Im not born to be happy and that I'll likely never achieve my dreams. However, that doesnt mean I cant make other people happy, and through that improve the lives of countless other people even long after Im gone.

You ever tried making music? Or playing an instrunent?

Get an outside hobby
Being outside in the sun and around people does a lot

I hate people though. Any way about doing this that you’ve put into practice? I’m willing to try if you give me a simple step to starting.

I’ve never made a song but i played the trumpet when I was younger. I don’t really have interest in making music but it sounds interesting if that makes sense.

Examples?

Photography and hiking are two prime examples

I go hiking all the time photography sounds boring

>No PMO (porn and masturbation fuck up your hormones and your tastes and constant orgasms lower your ability to feel pleasure)
>No video games (Video games give you a false sens of accomplishment that tricks your brain into thinking you don't need more motivation since you've done enough for the day)
>Gym (Boost your confidence, boost your testosterone, makes you more attractive)
>Getting a job (Gives you a real sens of accomplishment and usefulness, gives you an easy opportunity to socialize and you get paid for that)

Also, dropping as much bad habits as you can is helpful

What helped me was realizing that the only one limiting your, or in this case myself, is me and that you need to overcome yourself in order to truly blossom. Another big "revelation" was that emotions like sadness, anger, depression and the rest up that alley are nothing to be afraid or ashamed of and that you just need to understand them and figure out where they come from so that you can properly treat them. I've also planned out the next several years of my life and will start realizing said plans with each new day until I've done so. One of the things that you'd find most helpful is to find people irl and to quit Jow Forums since it does you no favors and only creates a lot more trouble than it's worth. Everything is inward and you'd do yourself a tremendous favor by having a real talk with yourself and seeing where you currently stand, then figuring out how you can get yourself out of that hole you've dug and lead a life worth living. Hopefully some of what I wrote here will be helpful and best of luck.

Fapping ain't a problem as long as you're doing it once per day in the worst case scenario and are relying on your imagination and stuff like erotic fiction. Porn however is a different matter and something you'd do better without.

this just makes me feel worse about me ;(

Then that should be a clear indicator that you need to start doing something instead of making self-pity posts on Jow Forums.

i am completely unmotivated today
how do i get out of it

Step one is realizing motivation means absolutely nothing and to just go out there and do the shit you need despite feeling "unmotivated".

that's reasonable
thanks user

Always here for my fellow anons. Godspeed!

First of all, stop tricking yourself into fitting into these dumbass labels

you'll stop limiting yourself mentally as much and you'll be more open to things.

just open yourself up to life, somehow, anyhow, and ignore these retarded identity memes. they're designed to culturally herd young people like cattle into lower class positions with no social mobility and no hope for the future so they're easier to exploit

GO LIVE YOUR LIFE

This, so much this. Like Shakespeare said in Hamlet: "This above all: to thine own self be true."

Doomerism is when you have an anxiety disorder but convince yourself you see the truth and things really are this bad, to avoid acknowledging that you are scared and not tough