Why are mommy fetishes so common?

Why are mommy fetishes so common?

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because teenagers never grew out of their inability to take responsibility for their actions phase

I don't have a concrete answer, but I think it has something to do with bad parenting and broken families

It’s not that common.
But I do wonder if there is a correlation between anime and mommy issues.

because most mommy-issue types are socially inept

Hopefully someone with one of these fetishes speaks up, I have only theories

But I doubt its as common as you think it is

I dated one of these. His relationship with his mom was terrible. Mostly she just wasn't around, was in and out of jail, doing meth, etc. Then he got a hot step-mom when he was like 9, who was younger than his bio mom, which made things even more confusing I guess.

I don't know that this is necessarily the cause though.

I don't have a mother fetish, but I am dating a woman nearly double my age. AMA I guess

How is your relationship with your mother?

It's good and unremarkable

They're not. Jow Forums is NOT a representative sample

I like it when women are nice to me.

because men want a woman like their mother and women want a man like their father.

incestuous stories are pretty hot when they first came out. Its just the feeling of Tabuu that makes people horny.

Like others have said, they're not. Anons here are just fiercely lonely and isolated people, so they conflate a healthy amount of affection with motherly affection, which is constant approval and support despite the lack of any attempt at personal improvement.

This.
A sad reality.
I will never be anyone’s momma gf, ew.

It seems like daddy fetishes are far more common, what I want to know is why daddy fetishes are more acceptable.

Why?

because guys feel like they can't deal with being the one in charge and always giving. With a mommy gf someone else not only takes the reigns but they give you the affection you never got as a kid

Because men are emotionally neglected, they always have been but it's gotten worse with women flagrantly getting better treatment due to feminism.

I have a MILF fetish which translates to step mom fantasy in porn because all good MILF porns are mommy porns

2 generations of normalized single motherhood

beacuse the new generation is lazy and wants a girls too take care of them like their mother did while also being able to fuck em.

My mother was emotionally absent and abusive durin my early development and I desperately seek the love and affection I feel I never received.

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>the new generation
>implying it hasn't been this way since the dawn of time

>voluptuous
>cooks
>cleans
>tender & loving personality
Why THE FUCK wouldn't a man want a mommy-girlfriend? Men want a domestic woman. Why the fuck can't you thots understand this simple shit? It has nothing to do with broken homes, it's simple fucking logic.
>But why don't we reverse roles? Women work and men take care of the house!
Women can work. But look at what they've done with it. They don't raise families. They don't marry down. They don't financially take care of a man. They only have a limited window of time before they become infertile and it's not enough time to make a real career. You either choose family or career as a woman. You can't have your cake and eat it.
>But that's sexist!
Wow, guess what? Biology is sexist. Women get pregnant and take care of their young. Men want a woman can do that effectively. They need to have motherly traits. Why the actual fuck do you think it's called motherly traits in the first place? Wise men want mommy-type girls because it's logical.

Traits that indicate motherliness are attractive, wowzer.

Sadly that's a myth. Besides abortions/women's rights to decide what to do with our own damn bodies being taken away, mens emotions aren't being neglected, they're being whined and cried about forever. You want validation? Blowjobs? Attention? Go fucking remove evil people in the governments that are trying to destroy our planet and autonomy. Do things to improve yourself as a person. Read a book and get off 4chanbto commiserate.

Outside of hardcore mommy fetishes, on the light/regular side there's an ancient/old saying For women to wake their men like a mother, feed him like a sister and fuck him like a whore

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>abortion
>doing what to do with our own damn bodies
No

Not so much a mommy fetish, but I'm in love with a milf that's like 10 years older than me. I think its more that I'm at an age where I really want to be a father, and I think shes a fantastic mother (she has kids. And a husband. That isn't me) and over great person to have as a partner. Unfortunately it wont happen

I'm really into mature women
Idk, makes me feel safe, i guess
I like feeling loved, i like being caressed, i like hearing cute things towards me
Also, tits

I think guys get mommy fetishes the same way girls get daddy fetishes. I lived with just my dad for a large part of my childhood, and i'm a little bit into gentle femdom. I wouldn't be surprised if in an alternate timeline where I didn't get to see my mom regularly after my parents separated that I ended being hardcore into mommy stuff.

>have bad relationship with your mother
>like motherly women
Wow you must have mommy issues
>have good relationship with your mother
>like motherly women
Wow you must have mommy issues

You just can't win with these fuckers. Men like "motherly" women because they're kind, loving and feminine. Traits that a healthy man wants in a partner. Not everyone has mommy issues because of that preference.

The allure of the maternal is primal. We crave fetal warmth, the damp ease of the womb

It's mostly just not being able to dorm a strong bond with your mother, typically due to family strife, parental splits, and other shit. My mom wasnt the best and I started living all the time with my dad at age 10, I guess it is no surprise I like gentle femdom. But that could also be due to how I got /ara/'d by a senior girl when I was a freshman in HS. Hadn't even hit puberty by then.
Tl:dr; male likely was not nurtured enough through childhood and adolescence.

I like MILFs, not so much the nurturring thing tho.

Based and mommypilled.
I think what keeps happening though is that it often gets conflated with having a literal mom take care of your ass while you slack off, or even with degenerate diaper shit, rather than just having an openly loving sweetheart you can be fully open with right back. The cute names and interactions are just small symptoms of that.
This is objectively the purest relationship one can have.

Something Something Freud.

Why are daddy fetishes so common? (In fact significantly more common than mommy ones)

Well just look at it and the traits associated with each parental role

Dad
>firm
>protective
>authority figure
>leads
All of these are traits usually associated with masculinity that women like.

Now look at the mother
>Kind
>Tender
>Nurturing
>Protective in a different way
>Understanding
>Usually one of the few figures with which a man can be vulnerable and open up
All feminine traits men like. Any man in good standing with his mom loves her and would do anything to protect her.

You're basically asking why do men like feminine women and why do women like masculine men.

I don't think dudes who simply like motherly or caring women have mommy issues. That's pretty normal. It's the guys who literally want their gf/wife to treat them the same exact way that their mom did when they were 5 years old that have mommy issues.

Pretty much this. Women find safety attractive and the first person to provide that is dad.

The women that really have dad issues are women with unavailable dads that go on to look for men that ignore them, causing a cycle of pursuing men that dont love them and use them.

I don't think those "dudes" exist commonly, as OP has stated. Don't try to move goalposts.

>feed him like a sister
what did he mean by this

Your woman should feed you good and nutritious food/feed you like she cares about you

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>Voluptuous
Keep your cow tits, I like thin women
>Cooks
Mmmm a sloppy shitty casserole! Keep your cooking
>Cleans
Get a maid
>tender & loving personality
>Men want a domestic woman
No man, YOU want a domestic woman and therefore think it's logical because your thoughts are the only ones you think matter. As a MAN, I take pride in taking fucking care of myself. I don't need anyone to do this shit for me, and you don't get fucking bonus points for it. I want someone attractive who makes my life more fun, and is fun to have sex with too.

A "healthy" man should be able to take care of himself and not desire these things, for he has already acquired them on his own.

I don't know why you fucks keeping thinking this "kind, tender, and nurturing" shit is what every man wants. That shit is boring. Every time you bring it up I imagine you're the kind of dude who is one mean insult away from needing to go have a nice long cry.

Is that what your sister does for you??
Am I the weird one?

This is another stupid thing. Why the fuck do people equate feeding with love? Maybe keeping someone fed in the days communities where all of the men were in some kind of manual labor I understand, but now this is literally just how people get fat.

Obviously you never had a homecooked meal prepared by your wife after a long day of work with no lunch.

You sound fun to take to parties. Jk.

That's nice for you (I can tell you're fresh out of highschool) but that's the common opinion among men.

Retarded incel shill cuck

This is either a woman or a boy.

Am I the only person confused by the 'sister' part? I understand that feeding is an act of love but do you guys' sisters prepare food for you?
said
>feed him like a sister
and that doesn't make any fucking sense.

Why the fuck would apply one random post to everyone else? Fuck off, retard.

user I don't have a sister I'm just passing along the saying
It takes effort, is a labor of love and means you want that person to be well/well fed

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I never eat lunch at work, and I've had a girlfriend try to do this shit. It's annoying, not loving. I wanna get home, relax, have a beer, watch the game, not eat a burnt casserole that I have to accept because she made it with good intentions.

I'm being a little bit of an asshole but I've known a couple of mommy-gf folks and they were always hardcore losers who wanted someone to love them instead of ever working to improve themselves. They constantly complained about how everyone was mean to them, too.

32, and no it's not. I barely know anyone who wants this replacement mommy bullshit, and we openly ridicule the few guys that do. Sometimes I think this is one of those city vs. rural things or something though. I can only think of one person in my life that is in a relationship where he enjoys her "motherly qualities," and he's a big man baby who collects toys instead of paying his rent.

I'm a guy.

>I'm a guy

No you're not fucktard bitch ass

Go cry to your mommy, triggered user.

He's just a troll, ignore him.

Sage

I ended a relationship once because she was too doting. I don't like being "nurtured" and "cared for"

My dad might be into that kind of woman to do everything for him but not me, no sir

>be attracted to women with motherly personality traits
>Really want a woman who will be a good mother to my children
>Enjoy being taken care of once in a while, and more than willing to return the favor.
Gee I can't imagine why I'd want that...

Thanks. That’s all I was saying. Being overly cared for is annoying. I’ve handled my shit without living with mom for 14 years. I can cook for myself, I can take care of myself. Feel free to call it toxic masculinity or whatever, but I want to stand up for myself. My hope is the girl knows I don’t need her constant help.

It doesn’t mean I hate affection or intimacy, but I trust in myself and have close friends to open up to if I need to.

Because you retards do not realize that depression has an effect on fetishes.
Most anons are depressed because of lack of affection, therefore wanting to have a beautiful busty cute woman (i.e. what every man except faggots want) who also happens to love you for who you are.
As well the straight answer for incest is just horniness.

For me, my independence is very important and I like to think I'm self-sufficient. Kind of an important aspect of who I am desu

The girl I broke up with is a good friend to this day, and its a better arrangement this way

Nuclear family was broken down when women were 'allowed' to enter the workplace. Allowing women in the workplace effectively forced them into the workplace, because doubling the workforce halved the worth of labour.

One salary was no longer enough to support a family, so mommy had to go to work too. She got a few months off, maybe a year if you were really lucky, and then she was gone again, a welcome but absent figure in your formative years.

You crave intimacy because that is human, and you crave maternal intimacy because that is what you missed as a child. Because you never had a proper mother figure to bond with as you grew up you now long for a maternal figure to feel good around in an intimate way, but as hormones kicked in 'intimate' became synonymous with 'sexual', as opposed to emotional.

So you end up with a desire for a maternal figure to hold you close and make you feel good in the only way you can imagine a woman could do.

Theyre not common outside of r9k

>the thread isn't about me
>but please make the thread about me
>AMA
Who am I quoting?
>>>/reddit/

Someone call the edge police

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It's not edge, it's self sufficiency.

Because mom had a career, and didn't give them enough attention

the taking the reigns thing is a pretty big reason why I have one

Because anime is contributed by many people. And many unstable people

>I never eat lunch at work, and I've had a girlfriend try to do this shit. It's annoying, not loving. I wanna get home, relax, have a beer, watch the game, not eat a burnt casserole that I have to accept because she made it with good intentions.
Fuck huge amounts of cope or literal lies. Not everyone's girl is a shit for brains incompetent retard. Who says shit like "have a beer and watch the game" but doesn't want some good fucking food made by his girl? My fiancee cooks all of my favorite shit and it makes me happy as fuck that I don't have to settle for whatever slop is open if I get home late.

Bigger boobies and experience is attractive to some.

it's mostly bad mothers who let their kids miss key bonding moments whose kids end up with these sort of fetishes

How?

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With your words, dummy. Same as how you asked this question I'm responding to.

What if I get rejected? Imagine getting rejected by a woman past 30 in early 20s

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I like to know someone else is trying to take care of me besides myself.