Why are these people so horny about girlifrends in this section...

Why are these people so horny about girlifrends in this section? The amount of people asking for “how do I get a girlfriend?” is so fucking ridiculously. It’s as if this whole board is a broken record on rewind. You think these people will learn that you should put yourself first instead of dealing with a lunatic who’s gonna cheat on your ass quick. Better yourself and achieve to be your best first and foremost before you throw your life away for some girl. So many betas swarming in here clinging to nonsense is just ridiculous. Go out, volunteer somewhere, get involved and then you might find someone genuine.

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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA GIVE ME A GF NOW I DESERVE HER

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That’s what they all sound like. Lol

they live in a society where these people were abandoned and or they pushed away from mental illness or what ever, so much that fantasy worlds can be an excape and have this romantic idea of having a gf. Thing is they like everyone else shallow and they refuse to drop their standards.

100% true. Anime, porn, movies and all these forms of media have

Dammit I pressed post by accident. Anyways continuing on. These forms of media really have poisoned these people over time with false narratives of romantic stories and they can’t get it through their minds that it’s unhealthy.

can you blame them?

they don't experience social life for their first 15 years.

Then their family members are like, so when are you getting a girlfriend?

And they're like, what is that? They have no idea, no clue, nothing about social interactions, in their minds on how to interact with people, and then they see people getting girlfriends in a couple days, and when they ask, they hear the advice "just be yourself", and "ask her out", IS ANYONE EVEN SURPRISED THIS DOESN'T WORK?! THIS KIND OF ADVICE IS NOT SUITABLE FOR PEOPLE THAT HAS NO SOCIAL EXPERIENCE OR LEAD A NORMAL LIFE.
Some learn about social interactions later on, but others don't and they kill themselves or do school shootings. But it's not guranteed, no one cares about their problems, and no one will help them. They also aren't self aware of themselves and how society perceives them, or their peers, because no one will tell them what they do wrong.

If you lived in a cave for 10 years, and you went out, people will avoid you, and you wouldn't know why, until they tell you it's because you haven't showered in years. How are they supposed to know such things?

but its not just them, frankly everyone is. You are and they are more realistic goals but you do have your own fantasy brought about from large scale media.

I really want a woman who isn't my mother to love me

fucking disgusting

Because society conditions them into thinking that in order to become an man you have to experience sex. They really believe that losing your virginity will change your life. The problem is society pushes that statement too. So it makes the problem worse.

When, in actual reality. Losing your virginity changed absolutely nothing, and sex doesn’t matter.

just teenagers being teenagers. Girls is everything in that time

Why is such a basic desire considered disgusting

you're depending on others for your happiness. Assuming you get one, then you will be terrified of her leaving you, so you can't win. And you'll be always at misery, with or without gf

woman here, I love you.

the problem with that line of thinking is that its to make it seem like they were forced, but they werent. They chose to live that life because the videogames and anime felt safe. They could have made a healthy back and forth with Anime and socializing. They could have kept their identity as a nerd to themselves and let people judge them for themselves. Its hard to accept but a lot of this is self harm.

why would you socialize, when socializing for you means getting bullied or being ignored by your peers, you'd rather never go out.

can you elaborate please

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I’m 29 and only just got my very first gf 2 years ago. She wants us to get married, but I’m fucking terrified because I don’t think I could ever marry. The thought of me getting married makes me sick. But at the same time, she’s a good woman so if I leave her then I’m fucked.

Fuck

not everyone is gonna bully you. Thing is sometimes you just have to develop thickerskin, Not everyone who disagrees with you is a bully. Not everyone who isnt on your side hates you, it doesnt mean anything. It just means you have a different opinion and thats that.

what makes you so terrified?

marriage is scary. It’s a massive massive commitment

Marriage isnt something to fear and well if you have these fears maybe you dont love her that much yet? or you dont love her and you are together out of fear being alone.

Not that user,

But think it like this, although i agree with your premise i think you are wrong in a few intricacies of the situation.
>Imagine a 10 year old, he is short kid, shortest in his class actually and he just goes to school and back to home.
>Son of a widowed mother and a big brother who lives more like a roommate instead of a big bro.
>The kid is trying ot be a good son to his mother, who provides for everything.
>Doesn't go out much, plays at his computer single player and playstation offline.
>He is a shy one, so never showed romantic interest in anybody. And nobody in the family will ask him about it until into his 20's with the "are you gay?" talk
>The kid isnt gay but he never had a girlfriend in his life, now reaching into his 30s.
>be me

I only noticed sth was wrong with all this when i was 26 and life isnt a romcom. I understand sth is wrong with me and i should have been more attentive to my surroundings but not like my environment didnt play a part. So now i am trying to catch up, i lost my virginity at 28 to an escort. I had my first date a few months later. Emotionally, academically, career regards i am a manchild. I came from an upper class family so never had to work a day in my life.

So sometimes actions the people around you take for you effect you in insidious ways. Now i am trying to take back control but it is hard.

Marriage is a lot of fucking pressure. and no, I do love her. She’s a very good woman and we get along very well

Marriage is Russian roulette with three bullets in the chamber. You should absolutely fear it.

I think there has been someone redirecting Jow Forums freggs to Jow Forums in order to know how to get a gf.
Yeah, it is impressive how many threads are like that.
IMO there should be some kind of sticky on how to get a gf. As well a daily treminder to not care on what women want given how they don't even know.

Didn’t you get the memo? This is the beta incel containment board.

You've clearly never been bullied properly. If you were, you'd know how it clouds your judgment and makes you paranoid about everyone.

If they are so happy together, why is marriage necessary? It's just a forcible bind.

Dropping your standards doesnt seem like something that you can just do.
If im not getting hard because the girl im with isnt attractive to me then that seems like an asshole move. I would rather be honest because she deserves someone who legitimately finds her attractive.

Internet culture deals in hyperbole and they live in the internet, so, basically it's because they refuse to take examples from real life and just take the worst of both worlds really.

It's like you want there to be some complex explanation but the cold reality is they're just excessive pessimists.