about a year ago my wife lost her dad and started putting on weight. it wasn't too bad, and i actually found her new body really attractive. we decided to have a baby so i got her pregnant but 5 months later her mom committed suicide and the wife put on more weight. i still overlooked it but then she had a miscarriage due to all the stress and put even more weight on. now she's fat and ugly and i've completely fallen out of love with her. what's worse is there's a coworker at work that's a total cocktease and dtf
should i divorce my wife or just cheat and not say anything? i literally can't get hard for my wife anymore but i feel like if i divorce her she might kill herself too
Dude be a fucking man and help your fucking wife. The easier path is to cheat actually attempt to fucking help her instead of leaving the off set chance she commits suicide.
Jack Flores
The right thing to do is often the hardest thing to do user. Live a life you can be proud of and support your wife.
William Hernandez
Help her lose weight and get better you monumental faggot. Also, general for the guys here : a woman is like a tree, the more you give it love the bigger it gets. Get em thin and hot cause they're getting fat anyways
Daniel James
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Levi Harris
Tell her to lose weight.
I told my wife repeatedly. Don't be scared.
My wife is down to 145 and I'm telling her to lose more.
It's 2019, sugar coating things not to hurt a womans feelings is over.
Luke Perez
I've been in your wife's position. My dad took his own life, put on some weight. Got pregnant shortly after, put on slightly more weight but platued because of complications. Once the baby was out and I was cleared I just started eating like trash again.
My husband essentially just said one day that what I was doing wasn't healthy and he started eating right and exercising with me. Down 30lbs so far and I have another 30 to go. Just talk to her and be there for her. Or if you legitmately don't love her anymore even if she lost the weight than you need to leave her.
You ASSHOLE TILL DEATH DO YOU PART IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH
how fucking dare you consider leaving your WIFE or any human being for that matter after she’s experienced the death of THREE EXTREMELY CLOSE LOVED ONES? How fucking goddamned selfish can you be?? Maybe she’s stip emotionally eating if she had a fucking husband who supported her and wasn’t daydreaming about fuckinf his coworkers
Luis Evans
Why not both
Gavin Torres
>both parents commit suicide >have a miscarriage >get fat >husband divorces you tough year
Julian Garcia
Lmao relax roastie
Jace Martin
Dude by leaving her for becoming ugly and going for the other woman you'll take her will to live and shatter her heart and soul. Tell her to lose weight, support her as good as you can. You can have a good looking wife again in a few months but you have to help her
Zachary Scott
You never loved your wife asshole
Elijah Stewart
Is this is OP you’re human scum
Evan Russell
fuck man that is a lot for someone to go through. I know you feel pity but so much is just too much. Maybe its time to get her on her feet. Make sure the miscarriage is a one time thing, force her into a diet and excersize. If she has no chronic illness then she has no excuse.
Blake Sanchez
basically op, you gotta pull her up and work out with her too.
Eli Watson
Why dont u try help her get heathier?
Jayden Reed
You absolutely suck, were you actually expecting people to be on your side of this post? Do your wife a favor and kill yourself.
Nathan Morales
op here
i think i offended a lot of people and that wasn't my intention. i've decided to take her out on a date and discuss everything over dinner. my coworker and i still text/flirt but i haven't done anything besides that
Christian Hughes
op here again
i understand my wife is suffering but that doesn't mean i am not suffering too. it hasn't been easy supporting my wife while simultaneously losing the woman i married. now kindly gtfo
You sound like a real pice of garbage guy. fucking wife lost her father then lost a baby i hope she leaves one day you bro.
Isaiah Myers
>i want to ditch my wife for gaining weight during the hardest part of her life >youre a roastie if you see anything wrong with this
Unironically neck yourself
Kayden Gutierrez
Look, man. If you are gunna fuck up, don’t fuck up with a coworker. Just find a whore who looks like your coworker so you keep your job n wife. However if you want to be a better man, you at least have to help your wife be better too. Lead and work with her to sort shit out. Be strong, bro.
Henry Green
you took a fucking vowel, so fucking stick to that shit. bitch ass fuck.
Cooper Johnson
>Wife gets EXTRA THICK >this is somehow a bad thing Some people just don't realize how good they have it.
Connor Johnson
Jesus, lots of moralfags in this thread
Ayden Collins
>Having morality is a bad thing
Brody Lee
It isn't, but it feels like half the thread is filled with 20 yo who never even had a girlfriend telling OP to kill himself instead of giving advice because they would never ever stop feeling something for their onetis who definetly exists.
David Adams
If you're married to her, chances are you still actually care for her - work through her issues together and try to resolve things.
>Should I divorce or just cheat and not say anything I'm going to be blunt - if you or anyone else cheats while in a committed relationship, then you or that person is a piece of shit to be honest. If you're not happy in a relationship and don't want to/can't fix things, then leave. Cheating just screws the other person around, and they will eventually find out and leave them in a worse situation than if you had just broken up with them. People quite often develop lasting trust issues after being cheated on.
Grief counselling or therapy might be a good idea - losing both of your parents and a child are all really damaging experiences. The weight gain might be a symptom of her coping mechanism, and either way she needs support to get past her grief.
