No friends

What do i do if i dont fit in with anyone?
I have never in my life met someone who i feel comfortable to be around

This has actually made my life miserable and i dont know whats wrong with me

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You find activities that don't require other people to have fun. There are a shitload of activities that don't require other people but they usually require practices. Arts, literature, crafts, etc.

Have you considered that you might be the problem and not the rest of the world?

Yeah i make music, vidya, and program
Those activities are all very fun and fulfilling on their own but when the loneliness comes it crushes me
I assume i am the problem, do you know how i can fix myself?
I look and act normally, and can make conversation with anyone from the chads to betas.

You are uncomfortable with people who you don't know so you avoid them but the only way to be comfortable around them is to actually get to know them. Basically you need to force yourself to be around someone and be uncomfortable for extended periods of time if you ever want to fix your shit.

Intresting, thanks for this advice
I definitely dont feel comfortable around my parents or siblings though, by comfortable i mean able to open up, be myself, talk honestly, etc...
Maybe its different for people you arent related to though

First thing, stop idolizing Lain, because idolizing shut-ins who live online keeps you one.

What kind of level of discomfort are we talking here? Dissociation? Anxiety? Apathy? Disgust?

How is posting one picture idolizing?
Dissociation, apathy, sometimes contempt/disgust
And by comfortable i mean able to open up to and actually act like my true self around them
I can socialize with people fine but i feel no connection to them even if we share similar interests.
The feeling of belonging to a group or fitting in i have rarely ever felt. I wish i didn't but i yearn for that feeling so bad.
I really don't know what separates me from everyone else

The thing that really sticks out to me here is that you added in 'contempt' there, and then mention about having little connection with people. I can't really offer you any valuable advice without knowing more so I've got to try encourage you to speak more about this problem, I'm guessing in the end it's gonna boil down to the contempt side of things. Also guessing maybe the contempt comes from these people not understanding you or what you say to them?

If you can socialise fine that's great, if you desire that connection and miss it's absence that's also really good, means you are more human than most in this situation. The lack of connection I just had no idea on here

I'm the same OP, but I'm not shy and I kind of got rid of embarrassment, and don't care about what others think (like, really, or at least not comparing to before)
So I just say random shit to my classmates or whoever I feel isn't judgemental and that fulfils my need for socialising, kinda. I'm still lonely and don't know how to talk to girls or when I'm supposed to etc., but I'm not uncomfortable around others. Except family, I don't talk with my family because they don't care about me anyway. I mean they never give good advice, just some normie bubble shit they live in

Sound like my grandma real talk!!

>actually act like my true self around them
Horseshit. You don't connect and don't feel like you belong because you're never there. How are you supposed to connect with people you're lying to?!

>Also guessing maybe the contempt comes from these people not understanding you or what you say to them?
Yeah, its just that when i get down about this issue i eithier direct my angry/pain at myself for something being wrong with me or at everything else and thats when i feel contempt.
Overall i would say im confused more than anything of why i have to struggle with this issue and why i feel its so hard for me to "connect", feel natural around other people, or have a sense of belonging. Especially since i can behave and feel normal in everyother other aspect of life.

I have to leave for a few hours now

take acid dude

There are 8 billions people in this planet, I'm pretty damn sure you can find someone like your miserable ass

Same boat as you OP.
I'm not shy or anything but I just don't click with anyone.
The few friends I have are mostly platonic relationships. I don't connect with them on a deeper level or talk about my nerdy shit.
It's why I keep coming to this God forsaken place.
Just deal with it and fake it with others to get some semblance of normal life.

Hey OP let's be friends.
I'm serious.
Gimme your discord.

First perfect (within practucal measures) yourself and know your qualuties (and weaknesses) before seeking validation from others, especially in this selfish era.

Then just keep in mind that in any puzzle, only a few pieces are meant to be near each other. Some belong further away. So you wont get along with everyone, doesn't have to mean you're enemies or like that.

Most importantly, never desert your truth, never forsake your love.

This is actually a good point, i do make myself quite reserved around others. Its getting past the point of feeling the need to reserve myself and opening up that is hard
I think i can work on this thanks
I already tried this... didn't gain much other than a false sense of feeling "awakened" for a few days. I dont regret it though
Does it bother you? Most of the time i can live my life but sometimes it just really bothers
You can post yours if you want but i dont want mine to show up in this thread in the archives.

>Does it bother you?
All the time. But I've come to accept my fate and that the problem is most likely me.

> i dont want mine to show up in this thread
Fair point. I'll make a temporary email and use that one here once I get home.

Sounds like you just don't know how to trust people.

Why exactly do you feel like you don’t fit in with others? Are you interests too obscure? Do you have trouble trying to keep up with a conversation?

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