Anyone else here have some serious issues and finally find a moment of peace and just want to bask in some positivity for once?
Tell me something good in your life, something good that happened, something that made you happy, however simple.
We all deserve a moment of happiness
If you are still unhappy share what would make you happy and I will encourage and cheer for you
i graduated high school :3
Hey do you need advice for something or what faggot
Finding my own place and living in solitude would make so happy
Girl bumped into me today. That's always nice.
yay, I bet you feel this sudden sense of freedom and relief, what's the plan now?
many people have this struggle and you start to think it won't happen but it will! I think a lot of it is timing, and if you consider a new area entirely, you may find more options.
lol you know what that's cute
Guy used to have crush on can't stop thinking about me... I feel the same but haven't said anything because I'm not "supposed" to. It's been eating at me forever but it's nice to know I'm not alone in this
I'll give you a (You.) Its nice that you are so eager to help your fellow user.
When you have depression and anxiety, good moments mean more. I've been struggling so much.
If you want to offer advice, give me your best piece of advice for anything you know :)
Not supposed to, hm I know how that it. Well everything is about timing, hope it doesn't cause you stress
I have been rejected so many times, it doesn't hurt anymore, I'm pretty happy about it.
I see. I was rejected a lot socially too, I think you are stronger now and better prepared for life's difficulties.
huh, i guess i never really thought about it that way. It still hurts initially for a minute or two but then i just kinda brush it off...
Oh I have one to share.
There was this time I was doing a show for children. The show was alice and wonder land and I a guy got to play as the duchess. I fucking owned that role for those kids and I was happy to do it. The nicest part was when a little girl told me I was her favorite. I never been a favorite before.
>If you want to offer advice, give me your best piece of advice for anything you know
My best advice is to come to the advice board with something you want advice on.
I have been going to gym for 1 month now. Regular, didn't miss a single day.
Not too long ago even getting out of my room was a big deal for me, I was a shut in.
I'm going to study bartending, join the Air Force in US and study psychiatry
That's fucking amazing, what motivated you?
>what's the plan now?
killing myself
Struggles with depression and anxiety. Come back when you learn to read.
Oh cool. The chpta or whatever had a picture near my house.
Your faggotry is recognizable and I appreciate it when you make these posts.
This year has been one of going up. I started dieting and going to the gym. Moved to a nicer apartment. Quit excessive drinking. And guess what, when you get your shit together, it's a chain effect. I even got a gf without looking for one.
I might get a chance to at the very least hang out with a girl who has a lot in common with me.
It's a work in progress.
I won $200 gambling yesterday and I i spent it all on things i needed.
Been trying all year to clean up my diet and other habits. Was tough the first months but its really starting to show results. Goal is to limit processed food, eat a fuckton more vegetables, quit porn and limit coffee (coffee triggers my rosacea).
I´m actually proud of myself. These last weeks I´ve made my own food (mostly vegetables with lentils or quinoa, lots of fish). And no porn or coffee at all.
So awesome!
Come back to advice board when you can offer any sort of advice, you aren't contributing, you are envious that others are happy when you are not, and I am sorry for you.
That's amazing! Having a reason to out and a place to go, and taking care of your body are very good things to be proud of.
I love the ambition! With air force you will learn to fly a plane right? So I'm envious, it is a dream but so expensive.
Is this your final resolution?
If you want it to end, then you are fearless to go for anything you want knowing that whether you succeed or not doesn't matter. I hope you find peace, I have resolved to do the same soon if I can't get more moments of happiness. So I live like everyday is the last.
>Come back to advice board when you can offer any sort of advice, you aren't contributing, you are envious that others are happy when you are not, and I am sorry for you.
not him, but the purpose of this board is to offer advice, not to "be happy", not your blog or social network or anything, sorry.
Congrats!!
Yeah, that really sorted me out too. Do you have a plan?
Its the little things, isn't it user?
Why aren't you supposed to?
And one day you won't be rejected, for all your efforts, and a new form of happiness will mix in with your old one too.
That's amazing!! Maybe you should go into theatre user
That's incredible bro, your progress speaks for you. I'm gonna work out today because of you, thanks.
Sounds like you made it user, big ups and congrats, I'm jelly.
Anything's a good start user. Gz on winning the money, hope it does you well and make sure to treat yourself!
Quitting porn is something I've never been able to do, so I'm very impressed. It sounds like you're really getting things made there bro, your confidence must be sky high now!!
If you don't like it, report the thread and move on. All you are doing currently is bumping it further.
Oh hi "not him" I'm sure you say the same thing in the multitudes of r9k threads and bait threads ;)
Oh thanks for taking over. I guess there's a time difference and I can't reply quick enough anymore.
>That's amazing!! Maybe you should go into theatre user
I already did, stopped after years of doing it
My therapist and my mother (different people). I am grateful to them.
Ive been considering quitting
getting good grades to go to good uni (not top of the top but above avg is good for me), not depressed to the point where i do nothing all day anymore, i actually have a few friends i see almost daily, dealt with mental health issues greatly over last couple years(without friends/family or docs or meds, which im strangely proud of). life is looking up, until i lose motivation again.
If the job makes your miserable then leave. Life is short. I support you!
It comes and goes. Be proud of yourself.
I’ve come to the realization that people are just drones but we need to be around them. I’m trying to focus on myself and get my shit together but it’s fucking hard. Keep going anons.
>lots of work to do on my plate
>can't concentrate for shit
>procrastinating left and right
>so bored and tired of putting any effort in anything
But I don't really give a fuck mates, I'll die one day and none of this will have mattered by the slightest. YOLO
Good attitude m8
Going on a date tomorrow. It’s a girl from college I’ve known for a few months now, but we usually only hang out in a group context, it’s rarely just the two of us. On one hand it’s good because we have shared experiences and know each other, on the other it’s bad because most of the “first date topics” are stuff we’ve already talked about over time. Hopefully I don’t spaghetti too hard
if you already know each other, worst case scenario is its kinda boring and you agree to just be friends. be urself
She cute
Her name is Marie Kondo, user. She's a great organiser
My cat's flopping around me. She's 16 and acts like a 10 year old.
You're picture made me happier today. Know that in case you might lose some motivation.
Moving to a better city/state soon. I'm excited and getting most of my preparatory shit done for it. I'm going to be getting rid of all my shitty older clothing/stuff that doesn't fit/i don't like (3/4 of it i'm trading in for credit towards new (second hand) stuff on a website for reselling clothes/shoes) and getting new clothes after i move for a fresh look. feels like a snake shedding its skin. all my old burdens are getting purged. feels clean man. i'll finally have the life i want.
I've been a skeleton my whole life but since I started working out seriously last week I'm actually seeing results. And just last night I drilled it into my head that it was okay to enjoy anime.
You're seeing results in a week? Share your workout plan user, I've been a skeleton for years too and I only started seeing significant results in a few months. The fact that I eat like shit / barely eat probably doesn't help
I'm not talking crazy results, literally the bare minimum of muscle definition, which is a huge positive in our columns.
True. Keep it up user, the first few weeks are the hardest part. Also rolling this post for pushups