So, I’m 19 years old. I was dating my ex for almost 2.5 years. It was the best relationship I ever had; the only real point of contention was that throughout the relationship, he always asked me if I wanted to have sex and I always told him I just didn’t feel ready. He never “pressured” me, but I could always tell his disappointment. The most we ever did was making out/heavy groping with clothes.
Well 6 days ago, we broke up. He told me that he loved me, but he just didn’t feel sexually satisfied and that he wished me the best, but he thinks it’s best if we see other people. I was obviously distraught. I felt ugly and unwanted and that nobody would ever love me.
3 days after when I was feeling particularly down, a co-worker started hitting on me. I was feeling really low about myself and he talked about how sexy I was and how my boyfriend was an idiot to break up with me. He suggested that maybe we should go to his car. We did and to make a long story short, we ended up at a park having sex. I just felt like I lost everything because of this dumb virginity thing, and he made me feel so wanted and beautiful.
Well that night, my ex called me begging for me back. That he’s okay with waiting and that he loves me. I was so happy but I felt SOO guilty. I tried to bring it up subtly (I said we should get tested) and he was insistent that he didn’t even kiss another person, but if I really wanted him to, he will. I hinted we should probably get tested together when he said that was a ridiculous idea and he knows I’m clean.
I admitted to him I was feeling really low and actually did end up hooking up with someone. It looked like his heart was being ripped out of his chest. He was solemn for a bit and told me “if you just did some heavy petting, I don’t think you need to get tested” when I admitted we actually had sex.
He turned extremely angry. Let me be clear; I’ve known this man for 2 years. He’s never even cursed when he hits his foot on the bed, so this was completely out of character. He said if “all I wanted to do was whore around, then I should’ve told him a long time ago so he wouldn’t waste his time with me” and a bunch of other horrible things that makes me sad to repeat :(. He told me we were over and to never speak to him again, and then he blocked me on everything. He also told ALL of our mutual friends that “I wanted to be a hoe and fuck my old, creepy co-worker a day after we broke up and that I’m a raging bitch”. My mutual friends all sided with him and nobody wanted to hear that I was just lonely and needed someone, nor would anyone acknowledge that we were broken up at that point and I didn’t have any obligation to him.
My friends’ reactions’ hurt; I lost many of them and everyone’s bullying me. I feel horrendous about the entire thing, but I still don’t see how I was in the wrong. HE broke up with ME, and in my mind, we were done. AITA for sleeping with another person?
A lot of people are asking me how I felt "ready" for this new guy but not my boyfriend:
It's different though! I loved my ex, truly. But I just never felt "ready" throughout our relationship. I didn't want to rush and regret it immensely
After we broke up, I just felt so shitty about myself and thought I was the ugliest person on Earth and my coworker made me feel so beautiful. I realized that "saving" my virginity is why I lost the man I loved, so I thought "fuck it" and did it. I can understand him being hurt, but he doesn't have a claim on my body.
I understand him being hurt/betrayed, but I would think the appropriate response is to talk each other maturely and get past this hurdle because that's what someone who claims they love you does. Not just calling you a whore and spread rumors to your friends.
Thank you for your comment. You're right; my coworker is in his mid 30s and has a habit of creeping on younger women (even me before I was 18 in a relationship...)
And you're here telling us all of this shit exactly fucking why? Fuck off and die. No one wants to hear about the stupid fucking soap opera that is your shit filled life. Fuck off.
Listen, you are a fucking dirty whore. This guy loved you and was with you for years....and you won't fuck him. Then the instant he dumps your ass you grave male validation so badly you fuck a 30 year old dude is his car like a whore, because you are a whore.
Levi Thompson
Funny that you are probably a grown man larping as a chick, deepthroating yourself with dildos. Go fuck yourself faggot. Women do not come here in my knowledge.
Lucas Reyes
demoralization thread take your shit back to Jow Forums there's fertile brains to be poisoned gtfo
you should feel fucking terrible, you really really should. You dated a guy for over two years and never had sex with him? even though you loved eachother? and the day after he understandably leaves you you whore out for a 30 year coworker? This is why men aren't getting married anymore. hoes aint loyal, hoes aint shit. Fuck you and your degenerate friends, poor fucking guy honestly.
Brody Ward
You're a filthy whore.
Easton Roberts
based
Jeremiah Rodriguez
Neither do men who know any women. Unless you count the ones across the street they watch bringing in their groceries while they pant and jack off with one of their dozens of fleshlights.
If this was under islamic sharia law, the female and her lover would've been stoned because sex before marriage is forbidden and contradicts the word of allah and the instructions of the prophet (pbuh).
A correct, faithful muslim man marries, has children and beats his wife (in a certain manner of course) to educate her if she disobeys. Mashallah
Alhamdulillah I was born a chad muslim and not a white cunt
the more I think about it, the more based Islam is. Islam is the ideological equivalent of fascism, which I kind of like.
Elijah Jenkins
some girl was trying to pull this shit with me when I was young. I fucked around on her THEN she slept with me. women are fucking stupid.
Angel Gutierrez
I literally put the link there and they still can't fucking figure it out.
Or maybe western men will stop being betas that care about women that aren't already fucking them.
Hunter Diaz
how would you know? huh faggot?
Tyler Rivera
If this is unironically true it's just more proof that woman are stupid, feeble creatures essential one rung above dogs, though I say that with hesitation since a dog will be by your side till the end, unconditionally Revoke woman's suffrage now
Astaghfirullah islam doesnt meet fascism in any way, its those who apply it in a wrong manner. The word of allah is simply meant to achieve justice on this earth and lead a faithful muslim to the correct path. Applying the rules of islam and the word of allah should be done carefully. Those who apply islam brutally are worse than jews and will go to hell
Hey. I like whores. This if there were a single grain of truth in it is something far worse. A whore does not betray you by having sex with others. 50% of the women I see socially (my GF’s - not really, my fuck buddies who like to party with me) are strippers/escorts/brothel cats. I got a new ‘GF’ (whatever) last night, a Romanian stripper who has just arrived in the U.K. and started stripping for the first time and is scared basically. Needs white knighting. Since the last stripper I was seeing (from the same club) I got to walk out of there forever and she’s now in rehab for her cocaine addiction is away for 3 months at the rehab and I won’t see her again (lasted about 4 weekends, because I took one weekend off, that’s a long time by my standards) I’ve recruited this chick as my new version. BTFO whores. They are gud girls and they never did muffin. The OP fiction is about a selfish slut who should not have taken the boy back. Simple. Why torture someone that way for selfish reasons? Truely horrible.
You didn't love your boyfriend; you were just using him for comfort and social proof until a guy who turned you on came along. He's lucky to know the truth. If he caves in and takes you back, he's going to expect sex, and you'll either give it to him resentfully or cuckold him further by refusing what you already gave away. You need to let him move on and stop trying to get him to say it was okay.
Jack Watson
you are stupid cunt You tried to stand your ground but as soon as you had opportunity bc of ((feelings)) you fucked some dude. I geek for the dude. And if he had balls he would never go back to you.
Jason Bennett
The fuck? You got seduced by a fucking stranger because you were feeling "down" holy shit
Dominic Price
Wait so you never fucked your ex and then just immediately fuck some other guy? I literally can't wrap my mind around this. It makes no sense
Chase Fisher
Please stop spamming my board with low quality copies from plebbit. Thank you.