I really wanna fuck a lot while at the same time I'm afraid of stds

Do people really get blowjobs with a condom on in the early stages of dating or is that just a meme?

Little secret here, no one gives a fuck about herpes. 90% of the world population has herpes. Ever got a cold sore? That was either hay fever or herpes, and assuming you don't live in a third world country you probably didn't have hay fever. Source washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2015/11/02/you-probably-have-herpes-but-thats-really-okay/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.d6584aea540e
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Afaik it doesn't really happen. If you ask me, if you care that much just leave blowjobs out until you both got tested. A condom doesn't just ruin it for the receiver (the sensations of a mouth are still softer than pussy) but it's also gross for the person giving them. Even with flavored condoms it's hardly fun.

Ive heard of some people doing this. I tried once with my ex. I actaully dont like bjs. I dont find it enjoyable and human saliva disgusts me. She likes giving head so I tried to compromise by putting on a condom but she got insulted instead.

>i don't like bjs
what

>nobody gives a fuck about herpes
That’s what everyone says until they get herpes.

One of my friends is a chad and used to say the same thing. Then one day he discovered red sores on his balls and since then he stopped being a chad

Also, condoms don’t protect from syphilis either

The guy you're responding to is talking about type 1 herpes. Your mate caught type 2 herpes which is shit.

well, condoms don’t protect from either

People care about type 2 herpies (genital)
Type 1 (oral) is the common one

jackass

Some people just don't like them.

I don’t like them. It feels weird to me

Herpes are nasty as fuck. If you knew your partner has herpes, I bet you wouldn't fuck her.

Fuck off

Hey, same here

I hate girls sucking on my balls too. I never understand what's the pleasure about women sucking your balls.

>tfw South African

I’ve never had a girl put her mouth on my balls before. But the feeling of my dick being in a girls mouth is really weird and it makes me feel stressed out

>really weird and it makes me feel stressed out
This. And I never know what I'm supposed to do while getting one.

it makes me stressed. Because i don’t feel like I’m suppose to cum in their mouth, it doesn’t seem natural. But they make it happen, so if actually causes my body stress. The last time I got my dick sucked I had a very very bad headache the moment I came

Basically welcome to the paradigm
Either you strongly filter anyone who comes through, or you wear a condom and it's at least a full point of enjoyment lower, takes an easy 8/10 fuck down to a 6 or a 7 for sure

I agree with these, I don't get what all the fuss is about. Maybe I haven't had a good one before, I think the idea of it is hotter than the actual sensation. Same with fucking in the ass. The last girl I got with insisted I fucked her in the ass so I did but honestly I am a bore who prefers missionary. I can't see anything when I'm doing it from behind so I have to let my imagination do the work.

100% of sex is a gamble, so that’s why people couple up with other people who’s sexual needs are around equal.

>I think the idea of it is hotter than the actual sensation.
Yeah definitely. When I masturbate I often think about getting my dick sucked. But in reality, it makes me very uncomfortable

sex isn’t a need though

It is at first, just as we get older the soul reason for existing stops being sex. Life becomes more about finding a best friend who won’t bail on you. Then making good memories with them.

>the soul reason for existing stops being sex
This is incorrect. The purpose of life isn’t to have protected sex. It’s to reproduce

Always disagreed with this statement.

The sole purpose in life is to survive and to enoy the ride as best you can. Depending on the person, this may mean to reproduce, have casual sex, or do whatever else to make you feel fulfilled. Granted most people do choose to reproduce, but it is not the meaning of life

Yeah well after reproducing you quickly realize the flaw to that logic, especially if the woman decides to be a single mom and you didn’t marry her soon enough so your parental rights are limited.

Point is, not all women worth fucking should be moms.

No, that’s not true. That may be your opinion. But the FACT is that the purpose of life is to keep it going via reproduction. That is a fact. That’s the most basic purpose of all life in existence.

You can go have casual sex if you want. But it’s just that, a want. Not a need.

The purpose of life is to keep yourself happy by whatever means necessary. And different people have different ways of achieving that.

Bottom line

that’s still your opinion

It doesn’t always work out, say a miscarriage happens due to health problems. Does that render your life meaningless? In your logic without offspring you failed at life. I can tell you I see a lot of winners who have no children.

As reproduction in an age of overpopulation is yours, Alabama Adam

So what if you have kids but you're still miserable and depressed? Have you still fulfilled your life?

Yes it actually does. In ancient times those who could not reproduce would be outcasted from society because they would be deemed useless and just a waste of resources. It’s because again, the only point of life is to reproduce. The only difference is now that we have technology, life has changed for humans. The biological reasoning for sex and life has not changed. These are facts.

I agree that yeah people should be fulfilled. But these are opinions

You just realize what life is and debate your cynically correct point.

I'm just gonna put this out there. 5 years ago I came to the conclusion that I absolutely did not want to be a father. I have had no interest in sex since and have been celibate the whole time. I couldent be happier honestly.

Doesn’t mean you will feel fulfilled, but it would mean that you served your biological purpose

That’s fine. But all it means is you didn’t serve your bio purpose

Selfishness isn’t something to be ashamed of, if more people thought like you do there wouldn’t be so many people clogging up the system.

>muh biological purpose

How can you be that limited?

And what about people with severe mental health issues, should a schizophrenic couple who can barely look after themselves reproduce so as to achieve the "only point of life"? Or should they focus on bettering themselves and doing other things that bring them happiness

Well yeah they should focus on bettering themselves. But I’m just saying, their only purpose of existence is to reproduce. That’s all I’m saying

>comes to Jow Forums
>insists that quality should exist here
But why, Anonymous?
Why would you think that?

And then there's me whose body cannot handle any hormonal contraceptives OR copper. I hate my body. I mean there's condoms, and in worst case abortion would be an accepted thing over here, but I still am worried when having sex.

Respect

Hello brother

>I dont find it enjoyable and human saliva disgusts me

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sex is not a 'need' like food & water, you can still survive without it

that's cuz she could chomp down on you at any moment! pomf~!

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Desu the first time I got a blowjob it was really whatever. Not like what all the porn taught me it'd be, this infinite sensory overloading thing. But when I asked her to put my balls in her mouth just to see what it'd feel like, holy FUCK I couldn't believe they were so sensitive. It was fucking wild and I still prefer it over straight blowjobs. Getting deepthroat is good, too. All this warmth enveloping you.

DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS SHILL. Being addicted to sex will always end badly. Learn self-discipline, it will improve your life drastically.

do women like the balls? I mean, aside from being an ornament they don't really do anything...

My ex liked mine due to the aforementioned sensitivity and the fact that they're pretty big.