Femanon University Girl: ask me anything

i would but im in a dorm and its past lights out. i dont really save pics of my face on my phone, never had someone to send it to haha

OP here, I suppose I’m tryna switch it up? Idk I’ve seen a couple of people do this but I get why

I think that things should always end on a high note. Definitely avoid any childlike behavior (such as “shitting” on her). This is just going to leave you looking like you’re still bitter about the way things ended. You should play it cool, if you don’t care for her in your life then don’t actively seek out convo etc. Also, people have different ways of dealing with things and you don’t know how she emotionally dealt with the relationship.

Sorry I’d like to remain a mystery ;)

Dang, not even pictures of yourself in general? Men are strange

OP here,

Sorry forgot to state it was me for
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are you kidding?

when you conceive of yourself as a tool to serve specific functions it typically doesn't enter into your mind that it may be of interest to document any portion of your existence, unless that's just your niche i guess

OP here, well you can’t just be a tool for everything in life can’t you? What purpose do you serve at family functions and gatherings with friends? I’m sure there’s something of you out there user. But you’re like me, you like your privacy

im not someone that values photos. I never really take pictures and when people send them to me i dont bother saving them. dont have social media accounts either.

Would you want to spend your life with someone who will never make more than 28k per year? Would most women?

how many dudes have you fucked in all honesty

What the fuck are the signs you girls show to invite conversation, I can't read body language for shit because I always assume false positives and back off

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Not OP, but I think you’d profit off of reading a book about body language. What Every Body Is Saying is a good one, and pretty interesting.

I get the impression that university girls are really stuck up and shallow. At university any girl I make eye contact with in class or am nice to almost immediately scoffs or puts up walls, and I can't help but take it a little personal. 1, no I was not flirting with you, I am very christian 2, I get lots of positive attention and looks from women outside the university. What gives man?

I am
>University student
>Apparently good looking
>In good shape
>6 foot tall
>Dress well
>Take care of hygiene religiously
>Socialize regularly
>Have mixed gender hobbies
>Have friends of both genders

And yet I’m still a kissless dateless virgin. I’m one year away from graduating and I feel terrified I might leave uni without even getting a date

What more can I do?

What's your advice for guys who due to any lack of social interaction in the past have horrible skills at getting laid?

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>What more can I do?
Be more bold with girls you're into

How about you stop being a vague ass motherfucker and explain this shit with some degree of detail for us sperglords?

>ask me anything

What is the capital of Outer Mongolia?

I've realized I've never held.a conversation with a female peer in my life. At this point i dont even have a strong desire for it anymore. Are there any benefits to knowing them or should i just keep on trucking?

He means you should shoot your shot with girls. You say you socialise with regularly, so when you meet a girl you're interested in make it obvious you're interested in her that way. i.e. physical touch, longer stares etc

you probably come across as a non-threatening guy, there's nothing wrong with that but you're voluntarily relegating yourself to gay best friend status.

desu I wish I was in a position where I socialise with people often, but I find it hard to find friends. I feel like an extrovert trapped in a introvert body kek

Problem is I'm too scared to express any interest in girls... My brain just tells me "if they were into you, they would give you some kind of sign".

Unfortunately no girls ever give me any signs of interest. I feel like I'm hopeless.

Femanon here btw. Did ya hear? Just making sure

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My 2nd serious girlfriend ever broke up with me. She was a unicorn, or so I thought, she had a lot of emotional baggage but we were close friends and in the same friend group for 3 years before we started dating. Eventually she broke up with me after 8 months then came back a few months later and then left two weeks later.

I know this is unstable behavior and she obviously wasn't the right girl for me. But one year later why am I still hung up? I recently moved to Miami, and I haven't even gone on any dates here as I just don't care. I'm 24, two years out of college and its tough to make friends. My best friends here are colombians who do drugs and I go clubbing with them. Everyone in the social group is sucking and fucking each other and I don't really want a part of that.

>tfw can't go back to the days of senior year

any tips to get this bitch off my mind, femanon?

OP here, a lot of women do not care how much their spouse makes. Personally I would care based on the fact that I want a better life for my family and I. You can’t make more than 28k per year because you don’t want to which also shows a lack of ambition.

How do I make you feel happy today femanon? Would you care if I sang you a song? Danced a dance for you?

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As someone who works in retail I'm supposed to have good body language. Have good eye contact, speak clearly, smile. Basically just be user-friendly, imagine you're an iPhone app, or a vibrator.

hey my girl just recently moved to Miami and she's Colombian too. you might fuck her someday
I can't stop thinking about her :(

Nah bro, i'm probably in the top 30% of males but in miami you gotta be in the top 10% to even havea chance with any of these girls. Sorry user, we'll get through this, I hope. Swallowing the redpill hasn't helped, knowing that all women are hypergamous whores doesnt help. Drinking doesnt help either. fml

ouch that's not a good thing to read :(
i've been trying to cope with weed, it works... sometimes

Damn that pic is literally the wojak version of me right now. Lying in the same position and everything
Tripped me out

How do they let you work on animals if you're brain damaged?

Nah bro, best thing that happened to me since my breakup was quitting weed. And hitting the gym harder. At least I have more muscles than I did during the relationship. I highly recommend it. I quit jerking off as well, its been 3 months now without touching my penor and I feel like a king but >tfw not with my qtpi ex gf
is very strong

OP here, 2, one was a mistake. And yourself?

OP here, Girls are usually not as mean as everyone thinks they are. Usually if she’s smiley/keeps looking at you, it’s a good indication that you should talk to her. Regardless, if you don’t come on too strong and just seem like a nice laid back guy then there’s a good chance the conversation will go well.

OP here, yes I suppose that there are a fair amount of women in college that are stuck up. I think a big factor is what kind of university you go to (if it’s known for being nerdy, a party school, etc). If it’s a party school then these girls are used to guys just coming up to them and being jerks/creeps so they put a wall up. If there’s someone you’re interested in talking to, find a way to distinguish yourself from those other guys and even if the university girls scoff at you, try. Also, not all university girls will be like this, but it’s likely they fall under that shallow category if they’re sorority girls/people who are just there to party.

OP here: there seems to be some notion on Jow Forums that girls seem to care about whether or not you’re a virgin/body count. Most of us don’t care at all, you should not feel like this is a limitation. Have you been asking girls out and taking the initiative to talk to them first? If you’re expecting college girls to just walk up and ask you out, then buddy you are wrong. (I’m assuming this is you too?) don’t spend time contemplating whether or not she’s giving you a “sign” just go talk to a girl and see what happens :) most of us don’t bite.. can’t speak for all

OP here: well it’s good to see that you’ve recognized WHY you have been struggling to get laid. If your only intention is having sex, then you have to go to places where most people are looking for the same thing (bars, clubs, etc) and strike up conversation. Flirt a lot, body language and contact are essential and then if you think things are going well invite them back to your place.

OP here: google tells me it’s Ulaanbaatar

OP here: you’re on a slightly slippery slope. Interaction with the two sexes is extremely important imo. I say this because girls are more likely to care about you/for you in a way that’s different than how your guy friends care. I tell you you’re on a slippery slope because you have to be mindful to not fall head over heels for the first girl that cares about you. Unlike guys, girls care for a lot more people (so just because she cares, doesn’t mean she has a crush on you). I think it’s important to speak with women and you should give it a try, there’s nothing to lose really.

OP here: Nani?

So lets say, hypothetically, I developed a friendship and eventually a crush on a girl I knew during highschool and I make my shot because fuck it. She politely declines, saying that she doesn’t see me the same way/not looking to date right now anyway/ wants to just keep things as they are currently as friends.
Now this is fine I guess, not the ideal outcome but I’m also not gonna get on my knees and grovel. But that being said I do still like her so is there any salvageability in this? I know that it happens with some people but is it even worth considering?

OP here: you’re probably hung up on the memories you created with this girl. After all, you guys were friends for three years and dated for a long time too. It’s easy to still be reminiscing the old times and wanting her back. If you think it’s worth reaching out to her and reuniting, try that. If there’s any hope left in your mind, I’d say it’s going to stay there until you know for a fact she is the wrong girl. Miami is a tough place to find a group of friends that you like. Try looking in more places and expanding your social circle. I think part of the reason why you’re stuck on your ex is because times were better when you were with her ( I’m assuming). Moving takes a toll on everyone and it might be a while until you mentally readjust to your environment. In the mean time, you should focus on things you want to do to improve yourself and expand your social network in Miami. Those friends seem toxic, find a way to easily get yourself out of that before it becomes a part of you.

OP here: what a treat, I’d love for you to sing to me.

I am
>community college dropout
>a fucking ginger, look a lot like Ed Sheeran
>somewhat buff looking, but with excess fat and gynecomastia
>5'10"
>dress sloppy
>brush teeth once a day, shower 2-3 times a week
>socialize about once a month, only more if in a relationship
>only hobbies are mostly male hobbies (sports, cars, video games)
>other than women who have showed sexual interest in me, only have male friends

The reason I get laid and you don't is because I don't seem like a person who puts any importance into what people think of me. On a biological level, it is supposed to be women who seek the love and validation of men. Unfortunately, you go out of your way to dress well, put excessive attention into your hygiene, and inhibit the things you really want to say to your friends in an attempt to appease your mix-gender group of friends (about 50% of the content of conversations with my friends is politically incorrect, and I can tell you that many hot women secretly love to hear someone speak against PC bullshit). You, as well as millions of other conformists, are actively sabotaging your natural right to sexual attention from girls by actively seeking their validation.

If you have a basic understanding of electricity, you'll know that you need a positive and negative charge to combine in order to create a spark. The most loving, socially sensitive, optimistic, and validation-seeking girls (positive charge) SPARK with the most cold-hearted, anti-social, cynical, and socially apathetic men (negative charge), simply because it is nature's imperative for these two forces to come together.

It really is your personality that gets you laid - but only if it is a negative personality.

OP here: you guys have a toxic way of looking at women. You’re never going to land a serious gf if you have a “all women are whores who don’t care” way of thinking. There are women who care & will be loyal to you, they just take a little longer to find. Go to places where you’d be proud of saying you met your SO (aka, not a club, bar, any place that’s known for just landing hook ups)

thanks femanon, I know for sure she's the wrong girl and I should have some dignity because when she came back to me a few months after the breakup we agreed to date again and everything was good for two weeks, then i went on a road trip and she blocked me on all social media and sent me a message saying its not gonna workout. Apparently a mutual friend of ours bumped into her last week and she asked how i was doing.

>its been racking my brain

As for friends, yeah im gonna try some meetup groups I guess. I'm trying to figure out who I am at this point in my life, because before I defined my life based on my relationships.

Much thanks femanon

I have no idea where you got the idea that I work on animals.

OP here: if you really care about this girl is consider being patient. It does happen for some people who realize what they missed out on. I’d continue being a good friend, nice, flirty, etc. See if her attitude toward you changes in a couple of months, if not then it’s time to move on

OP here: gotta admit I completely disagree with you. People are typically attracted to positive people, even if they’re positive themselves. No one wants / actively seeks / desires a Debby downer

I'm just being realistic
a 23 year old beautiful woman in Miami is 100% going to get laid :(

OP here: of course user, my pleasure. I’m sorry things didn’t work out between you two, sometimes that happens. Gotta get through the bad to get to the good right?

It’s good that you’re taking this time to re-access who you are, and more importantly who you want to be. By improving what kind of person you are, you will attract who you desire. Much luck to you fellow user!

OP here: women don’t typically seek getting laid the same way men do. They seek a partner to care about them, and sex typically just “exists” but it’s not going to fill any holes.

doesn't matter, she doesn't exist anymore. She's on a different plane of existence than you are. Your paths will never cross again and its better to pretend that they never crossed in the first place. I deleted every single picture I had of my ex, threw out every single little gift she gave me, etc. All I have now is drunken memories that will fade once I drink enough whiskey

>and sex typically just “exists” but it’s not going to fill any holes.
ha
we still text pretty much everyday :/
also lol at quitting weed just to drown it all with liquor

uh oh, you text everyday? cut it out immediately. No contact helps to move on so much.

why don't you just put OP in the name box?

Whats your friends thoughts on black guys?

nah we didn't even have a proper break up cus we weren't really a "thing"
we mostly text about her new life over there now
it hurts brah

ghost her, its for your own good.

How close so you consider yourself to "normie"? Where do your non-normie friends/acquaintances/peers go with at least a partial pretense of meeting people?

ive fucked a total of 0 dudes

I can live with that answer

OP here: ok maybe 1 hole

OP here: never was my style I suppose, also when I’m scrolling through to see new messages it makes it easy to ignore my own

OP here: black guys are just as any guys. Some are hot, some are not that’s just the way things go. There are no real perceived notions of black guys except for what we assume you’ll be packing, so I suppose there’s somewhat of an expectation there.

It literally serves all the same purposes

Yeah, I legitimately would never worry about my size if it wasn't for this expectation

OP here: I’d say I’m kinda a normie but not the “OMG I love The Office, dogs, & Stephen Curry even tho idk anything about basketball” kind of normie. Most of my friends are non-normies. We hang out a lot at my place, the beach, the movies, bowling, restaurants, and karaoke bars. Karaoke bars are a pretty good place to meet new people as it’s easy to strike up conversation. We usually end up going out to eat because there isn’t much to do around.

OP here: you should try sometime it’s pretty fun

OP here: I’ll admit the expectation is there but it’s also kind of present with any guy. I wouldn’t say it’s something we think about often or even at all, only comes up when we’re joking around with one another.

I have no desire to start or do anything but at the same time I can feel my mind atrophying and melting out of my nose and ears and eyes and I'm like one of those Kodokushi, slowly rotting away in my house while nobody outside actually cares enough to check up on me, only I'm alive and the gangreneous decay is only on my brain right now

I already fucking know what guys are gonna say,
But, I really wonder if femanons think the same thing.
Here goes.

I think that's a response to me. Okay here goes some rather pathetic beta shit.
So I pay this girl to cuddle me, On a bi-monthly or so basis.(Pathetic and beta I know)
she's had a rather tragic life.
She has a bf and he knows I pay her to cuddle with him.
I've bought her gifts and showed her some nice places to cuddle in.
I want to tell her that I love her unconditionally, Even if we never become a couple, I want to protect and provide for her, but, judging from past experiences and the fact that she has plenty of friends and a bf, she probably thinks of me as a type of pay pig. Which could very well be.
I'm so sick of dating and trying to get a gf, I've come to want to settle for just affection, the money isn't that big of a deal to me but, her turning me down/ghosting me would be a major blow to me.
Do I tell her that I love her, unconditionally not as in bf but, as someone who truly cares.
Or do I just keep it to myself and keep things casual?
I don't want to ruin my only provider of affection but, I dunno if I can keep it in forever either.
I don't want her to ghost me. I've known her for a year.
Brothels are a thing, Tinder,Grindr Fetlife, those things don't really get any hate.
But, things like rentafriend and cuddle companions are seen as degenerate.
Am I a degenerate for doing this?

If I have to cut it off do I tell her good bye or do I ghost her?

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>If you have a basic understanding of electricity, you'll know that you need a positive and negative charge to combine in order to create a spark.
That's not how electricity works at all m8

Not who you are responding to.
I give you a 4/10
Got some replies and you got me to read, it kinda fell apart, Electricity does not work like that.
Nature's imperative would be the most adaptive to change survive, That populations do not exceed carrying capacity, opposites always exist but, that does not mean it's always a good thing when they come together.
I'm fucking ugly, I faked being a realist and I faked a bunch of shit with a validation seeking girl, I faked shit and pretended to have stuff in common with her, Not every little thing but, enough to make it seem like I had common ground with her to some extent,
I fucked her good and for a good while I kept on fucking her.
You are wrong on so many levels.

>How do they let you work on animals if you're brain damaged?
veteran, not veterinarian

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OP here: I’m really sorry that you’re going through that. I know we don’t know each other, but I still sympathize with the rough patch you’re going through. The truth is, no one is going to get you out of this funk but you. I know you don’t have the desire to start, but sometimes we just have to push ourselves to do something knowing that the end result will be something we’re proud of. You have to remember that this is just a temporary valley you’ve got to get out of

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>imagine you're an iPhone app, or a vibrator.
...elaborate

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OP here: alright so let me first off start by saying no, I don’t think you’re a degenerate. Honestly speaking, I think you just craving physical affection & getting that through cuddling has been a pretty smart way of settling. However, with that being said you’re right in being hesitant to tell the girl you love her. I would suggest keeping it casual and just telling her straight up one day that even though you know she has a bf, friends, etc that you care for her more than her just being a warm body. See how she reacts. Do not jump the gun on straight telling her you love her, this will most likely freak her out. Also, stop saying mean things about yourself you don’t have to justify your actions to anyone. Idc if you’re a beta or an alpha I’m just head to listen. If you do decide to cut ties for whatever reason, do NOT ghost her. This will leave her with too many questions and you’ll come off as immature. Good luck!

Dude just say Mongolia... nobody would assume you meant 'inner mongolia' aka a part of China

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I imagine both those things are user-friendly.

Hey OP, do women ever enjoy getting looks from guys, or is it always creepy?
Obviously eye contact is key and I never just outright look at some girls tits to her face.
Do you hate the fact that guys will look at your ass when you walk, or is it fun/validating

OP here: oh there’s definitely a good feeling that washes over you when you know a guy is checking you out. It’s like a silent compliment. usually it’s creepy when it’s someone who’s a lot older but other than that even if you’re not attractive it’s still a compliment

OP, you seem super bubbly and kind of innocent based on this thread, jw if this is how you actually act irl. It always feels like girls play up this bitchy/apathetic attitude irl to make guys work harder or protect their emotions or whatever, but its hard to tell.