what are traits of guys who can easily make girls like them? what do they do? (besides looks)
What are traits of guys who can easily make girls like them? what do they do? (besides looks)
>Being passionate (without being obsessed)
>Confidence
>Humour/wit
>Being comfortable with one's sexuality
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how do you know these things
Observation.
I don't know if this counts as looks, but body position is a huge thing. Stand and walk with your shoulders back, stand straight, head up, speak assertively and look at people in the eyes when taking. I know it seems kind of weird how that can make a difference, but it made a massive difference with me.
Basically, if you aren't confident, then just act confident and then (weirdly enough) you actually do become a REAL confident person.
>if you aren't confident, then just act confident
How are you supposed to know how to act confident when you're not confident?
You can't act in a way you do not know.
>funny
>doesn't seem desperate to get in your pants
>confident without being cocky/macho
>intelligent, passionate about a subject (that's not something retarded like anime or playing LoL all day)
>>Being comfortable with one's sexuality
Elaborate on that ms. trips
>Being unafraid of showing oneself as a sexual being who has sexual appetites
>Being unafraid of one's body or the other's body
I guess you're right that not being afraid of physical contact is Chad thing.
What if the girl is not into chads
>girl is not into chads
What is Chad according to her
she speaks the truth
and everything comes after confidence
fake it till you make it
>Implying I'm a woman
sorry, then you are well adjusted.
I said she because you posted exactly what I would have posted :D
You cant fake the confidence
>you are well adjusted
it's okay we all go there.
but you can force yourself to act confident until you feel it genuinely, that's what it means to fake it til you make it. let go of mistakes and be easy on yourself.
Wait, how can you be acting confident when – not being confident – you don't know how to do it?
How can you do something you don't know how to do?
Step one is to calm down.
Most people who arent confident aren't familar with what they are soing and so they are nervous. You have to get rid of the nerves. Even if some remain, push through it and you are still charming.
Step two is practice. Find your comfort zone and then push past it. After that is comfortable push past it again.
Step three is reinforcement. Feelings are consistent. You'll have good and bad days. You have to remind yourself, encourage yourself, compliment yourself, regularly. For this try talking into a mirror.
>calm down
Fuck. I'm not good at this.
>You have to remind yourself, encourage yourself, compliment yourself, regularly
This is hard: my self-esteem is low enough that I can't even imagine considering myself someone worthy of anything positive.
>comfort zone
If i do something unfamiliar i just say to myself "this is stupid, this isnt for me"
Same here: it feels like I'm committed to a role I can't get out of, because no one (including myself) would take such a change seriously.
being physicality attractive
thats it
>what are traits of guys who can easily make girls like them?
Start not caring about what girls like and do what you like. Suddenly girls like you
He just told you how, fucking retard.