Cozy advice time

Ask a cozy sleepy person for advice on anything

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Tell me about your dreams user, I study my own dreams for 12 years but haven't really gone into details about anyone else's observations

how.to.stop.thinking.about.her?
I'm sleeping 3 hours daily, it's fucking me up

I often dream of random landscapes that are a combination of different places from my childhood/past.

When I am busy or stressed I dream about being late/lost on public transit.

Sometimes I dream about my partner leaving me but not as much as I used to now that I am a more secure person

This is it. This is the moment the band aid comes off. You will never feel as deeply for any other woman again after this. It is quite an experience. I will bare this pain with you. I understand what you’re going through. I’m sorry.

Keep busy / tire yourself out with other things:

-Exercise
-Clean your living space
-Talk to friends/family
-Volunteer
-Read

I'm glad, I have been tormented for years on and off with dismemberment and maiming and stabbing and slashing and slicing and shooting and maulings(by a shoggoth) very unfortunate but interesting either way. I mostly study aspects of dreams that are shareable experiences among others, such as how dreams work.

I got something of long winded blog to make, errr
would i put you to sleep if I posted it?

Post that mother fucker. What do you think I’m doing here?

OP here, go for it

fuck you OP, i hope you have nightmares

Ugh, I think that's a response to me. Okay here goes some rather pathetic beta shit.
So I pay this girl to cuddle me, On a bi-monthly or so basis.(Pathetic and beta I know)
she's had a rather tragic life.
She has a bf and he knows I pay her to cuddle with him.
I've bought her gifts and showed her some nice places to cuddle in.
I want to tell her that I love her unconditionally, Even if we never become a couple, I want to protect and provide for her, but, judging from past experiences and the fact that she has plenty of friends and a bf, she probably thinks of me as a type of pay pig. Which could very well be.
I'm so sick of dating and trying to get a gf, I've come to want to settle for just affection, the money isn't that big of a deal to me but, her turning me down/ghosting me would be a major blow to me.
Do I tell her that I love her, unconditionally not as in bf but, as someone who truly cares.
Or do I just keep it to myself and keep things casual?
I don't want to ruin my own provider of affection but, I dunno if I can keep it in forever either.
I don't want her to ghost me. I've known her for a year.

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Oh goodness.

You gotta get the hell out of there. That situation is bad for everyone involved and you gotta get out now.

I’ve been there. I’ve been in the most pathetic situations you could imagine. It’s degrading, demoralizing, and just generally destructive.

Why is it bad for everyone involved? Maybe I already know but, it would help to hear it in anons words.

Haha

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So, it’s bad for you due to the reasons I mentioned. It’s bad for her because she’s selling her body for money. Not a good road to start going down. Even if she doesn’t wind up full blown prostitute, that’s still technically prostitution.

It’s like paying a friend to go to a theme park with you. It looses its value. It bad for her bf because he has to know his gf is cuddling some other dude.

That has got to make him feel like shit and I bet they both feel sort of bad for you which I bet plays a role.

Oh that’s good.

Okay those are all valid points
So I just ghost her or should I say good bye?
I mean, brothels exist, tinder is a thing,
there's prostitutes to fit evey kink but, if I pay for cuddling I'm some kind of massive degenerate?
What is the world coming to?