This is a thread about Tinder and dating apps, but it is also a more specific request, I wonder if anybody here can even help. I want to know about Tinder and other dating apps in Japan. It is a stretch but does anybody here have experience and success using apps like Tinder in Japan?
I am living in Japan, have been for months, but I can't figure out how to be successful on tinder or bumble or whatever. I am not going to post my profile or examples of what I say because I don't post personal info on this website, so I would really just like to here examples of what I should be doing. How just I be initiating contact, what do Japanese girls want me to say, how should I act? What exactly should I put in my bio?
Well I think my bio is okay since I get matches. I have got 24 right now, it is just I cant get them to respond to me, and the couple times I got a conversation started I get ignored or ghosted. Feeling pretty lame right now. As far as my intentions are concerned, well I'm not into the whole romance thing, but I wouldn't mind a casual relationship. On the other side, I would appreciate info on how to find these sluts who want to fuck foreigners that people claim exist. Personally I think it is preposterous that something so convenient could exist but if anybody has real advice I would love it.
>TLDR I need advice, opinions, and examples of how to use Tinder or other dating apps in Japan.
Please help me out here, I am clueless. I have only fucked prostitutes the whole time I have been in Japan.
I have been to Japan for 17 days and fucked 3 Japanes girls. But I had almost no matches on dating apps.
Can you speak Japanese? I think that is required for online dating in Japan.
Austin Anderson
I speak a bit yeah. Lots of foreigners dont and are successful though so I am confused.
How did you fuck those girls!?
I have absolutely no idea how to interact with women. Did you meet them at clubs or something? I honestly don't understand how I should act or what I should do.
William Powell
Are they successful online or in real life?
I've had success in Tokyo, but I found Osaka the easiest since people are more laid back there. Kyoto no success.
Yes I met them in clubs and/or in bars. Club game is quite easy in Japan, especially is you like to dance. If you're having a good time, people will notice and want to join you. Here is one interaction I had:
> Doing this pub crawl with foreigners > Going from pub to pub, alot of fun but 95% men. > Finally go to a club > See a cute Japanese qt dancing > Make eye contact with her, smile > She smiles back > Come closer and start dancing with her > Have some small talk; whats your name etc. > Start dancing a bit more intimate > Feel her up a bit, grab her ass etc. > Buy her a drink talk some more > Make out with her > She comments that I'm so cute, ask me if I do sports because I look buff. (Being muscled is definitely an advantage, since most Japanese guys aren't muscles at all) > Take her hand and put it on my chest / abs > Say lets get out of here > She says she can't because she has people staying at her place, she suggest tommorow > Damn, im staying at a hostel so can't take her back > Say to her, lets go somewhere private > Take her hand and lead the way > Go to ladies bathroom > Fuck her there in the club
This all happened in like 30 minutes. Super easy. I can give you some more examples if you like. You definitely have to be the one who initiates, and be somewhat assertive with these girls. Make your intentions clear from the start, if they are not interested they will let you know early and you can move on.
Eli Baker
Damn I could never do that.
Carson Cox
dogs are shite desu
Ryder Parker
it works exactly the same as in every other country
Samuel Gomez
I seriously doubt that. But maybe you are right. Unfortunatley I never used it before now so i dont know that supposedly universal way is.
Brandon Richardson
>(Being muscled is definitely an advantage, since most Japanese guys aren't muscles at all) >tfw 5'6 and 130 pounds
What can a small white boi like me do then? Also I have zero friends here in Japan. I look like a loser going to clubs on my own
Aaron Robinson
Say you want to help her learn English or do some sort of "language exchange." What Miya wrote "I wanna learn English" is basically a demure way of saying she wants to fug foreign guys
Isaiah Morgan
B...but I can barely speak Japanese.
Jonathan Foster
Use your body to do the talking, user
Henry Nguyen
>barely speaks Japanese >expects to get girls in Japan what, did you expect them to speak English? lmao
Kayden Thompson
Ok so where do I meet Jap girls? I'm afraid to enter clubs on my own
Jonathan Rogers
I mean being muscled is a pro but not a requirement. Im also 5'6 btw. One girl called me tall lol, Japan is the best country to be a manlet. I'm black with dreads and rock streetwear, so maybe thats an advantage, I don't know.
You have zero friends in Japan? Do you live there? Why?
Join a pub crawl to meet some people I'd suggest. Or go to a bar and chill a bit. I was chilling in the shisha lounge in Osaka, made a few friends just by sitting at the bar.
Im a pretty awkward guy btw but Japan is really fucking easy to get laid imo. Maybe not as easy as Thailand, but definitely more easy than in a Western Country.
Kevin Robinson
Does that actually happen?
> I'm black
So there is hope for me (black user) to crush foreign puss, user? I thought they were xenophobic as fuck
when me and my brother were in japan, we fucked a diff girl almost every day for 2 weeks
are you even white
Michael Torres
Definitely do that and be their foreign relations guy. The more languages you speak, the more of a mouthpiece you can be for them.
Look, they're like one of the last vestiges of nonshitty organized crime. This could be for you.
My experience with Japanese ladies as little as it is, you want to mind your manners foremost and not undermine them for being women; encourage and foster individuality and expression, and discourage falling into patterns of cultural obligation while assuring that a sense of cultural piety is not misguided.
I'm surprised they use Tinder at all honestly.
Andrew Torres
Nah not at all, have you been to Japan?
Luis Thompson
OP here. That user wasnt me.
Anyway, I have never been clubbing. I frequent bars and concerts but not the kind where you pick up girls and fuck them. I generally dont like that whole scene. So i have no experience at all in any country picking up girls. I guess I should juat give up. I am not cut out for this.
You are all say8ng the same thing and I just dont understand how yoy can all makw it so simple sounding. When i hear about people easily interacting with and picking up girls I literally can not believe it and need to tell myself it is fake to cope. Thanks for replying i guess but I feel worse now.
