Sexual thoughts involving minors

Don't worry about it, I sometimes find 11-13 year old girls attractive, you didn't do anything wrong by just thinking about the boys.

Consider this if it's something that is significantly troubling you. It would also be worth considering finding a therapist that specializes in working with clients that have paraphilias. Assuming you haven't done anything with a kid, your sessions will be completely confidential. It's very common for therapists to hear clients sharing taboo thoughts or fantasies. Their job is to give you a private and safe space to examine those thoughts without threat of condemnation.

Therapists can't be trusted with something like this, they can easily twist and misinterpret OP's thoughts to give them a reason to call the police.

Fook therapy, uv done nothing wrong, I sometimes feel attracted to young girls especially around age 13, it's natural it's apart of nature.. We place age of consent laws that are in many ways completely unnatural.... Just dont act on ur thoughts Nothing wrong with havn them.

>Just dont act on ur thoughts Nothing wrong with havn them.

This is true. I only recommend therapy if someone is still having distress/anxiety over having the thoughts, since it can be distressing to have taboo fantasies, even if there is no intent or plan to act them out.

When a therapist suspects that there is an immediate risk of child abuse, they do not directly call the police. They typically make a report to a child protective service, who then assess whether there is adequate evidence to begin an investigation.

Therapists hate doing this unless they absolutely need to by legal obligation because:
1. It fucks up rapport with the client.
2. If the therapist makes a report without having a reasonable suspicion (being able to point to more evidence than just "He told me he was into kids"), then they can lose their job.

>>Just dont act on ur thoughts Nothing wrong with havn them.
>This is true. I only recommend therapy if someone is still having distress/anxiety over having the thoughts, since it can be distressing to have taboo fantasies, even if there is no intent or plan to act them out.

I don't have thoughts on having sex with kids but if I think about something long enough I eventually do it wrather it good or not. It probably comes from a lack of self control :(

Even if you have thoughts of having sex with them, they are just thoughts, they're not illegal.

Again, I would recommend therapy.

What's therapy going to do?

What is taking no action in on these troubling thoughts going to do? Dumbass...

At the very least, OP won't be put on a sex offender list just for having those thoughts.

We don't choose our thoughts. They are generated by our brain based on the emotions/sensations/other thoughts in our brain.
BUT, we do choose what things in our consciousness we give our attention to. If you pay attention to your thought, feeding it and indulging in it, your brain will generate more thoughts like that because you've given that thought more room in your consciouness, which is where your brain gets the information it uses to make new thoughts. Sooner or later you are fantasizing. You aren't always responsible for your thoughts but you know if you are fantasizing you definitely are.

Choose to divert your attention elsewhere and the thoughts will pass. That's your moral burden. When you have these thoughts just pay attention to something else.

What in the name of Jesus did i read

Shut the fook up, nobody is here to judge another user, did they not teach u that in Bible class, no?

Well the fact you went to Bible class is all I need to know about why you think it's acceptable to be attracted to 11 year olds

That wasn't me, why wouldn't it be acceptable to be attracted to beautiful 11 year olds? Where's the harm in that?

I sometimes have thoughts about kicking kids in public. Not out of anger or anything, and I'm not violent. I don't want to make it out that pederasty and physical abuse are equal, but it might be similar in the line of weird thoughts that you don't want to act on. I'd try to not obsess over it.

A lot of people around you have always had those thoughts everyone just learns to suppress them and as long as you don't act into it its alright.
Humanity has always been too fucked up to function but it still managed to thrive for thousands of years despite being built from its own blood.

OP, ur takn the piss with ur talk of "lack of self control" either u want to fook a child or not, an attractive nature in this case will only lead to rape of another. It's sounds like uv already lost the battle.... Havn an urge doesn't have to end in the rape of another, take sum responsibility for fooks sake.... Nothing wrong with an urge, morality isn't real but consequence of our actions are real, of course only if one is caught.

I'm nihilist ur the one bringing ur morality into it and jesus

>what the fuck is wrong with me?
You're gay this is part of the package

See It will give you an opportunity to talk about self-control strategies, if that is a concern you have. In addition to having a chance to share and receive unconditionally positive feedback from someone that isn't an internet chucklefuck.

Op here, I wasnt the one who said I lack self control.
Why doesnt this website differentiates op posts from other posts?

You could use a name in the Name-field.

Ty didnt know

Based

Then die

kys tranny

I know right I saw this toddler walking around in the mall last month and immediately imagined punting it like a football over the railing and down 2 stories.

kys faggot

>tripfag masquerading as a woman accusing others of being faggots
Hahahahahhahahhhahahhahahhahahahahhaha

>user just being a faggot, as usual, says the internet is only for homosexual males, no question that he obviously sucks massive dick to get all of his factual information.