I meet a girl, I begin to like her romantically. Then she tells me she had several bfs in the past. Breaking up when she didn't feel like it anymore... breaking up by ghosting... talking about it lightheartedly...
Is it wrong to have a clenched heart when I hear this? The disparity between my feelings even for a woman I never went on a date with, and her, imo cold-hearted description of her past, makes me scared, if "love" exists. Also turns me off and makes me scared to pursue a relationship.
What do you think? Or am I just projecting, and if I get more exp, I'll have a different perspective?
Nah, it's a retard flaky whore. Yeah like, have sex and shit, but know she will break up with you.
I mean, i wouldn't even be able to get it up with that on my mind. If you are only for sex go for it.
William Rodriguez
Woman have far more sexual options than men so its hard for them to appreciate us the same way that we do them. Being a man is like looking into a sea of woman, knowing most don't want you, then finally an angel descends from the sky and we have a gf, its damn near miraculous. But for a woman its like being in an all you can eat buffet, they wanna try a little bit of everything.
Jason Cruz
Love exists, but she's a broken whore who is incapable of unwilling to experience it.
Matthew Hughes
Love exists but for pets and children.
For men they're only respected , admired or feared.
Women view love as a vehicle / tool for getting something they want .
As you get older you realize relationships are very much pragmatic. You get a gf or wife because you don't want to be the creepy uncle, she gets a bf because she's going to be barren soon and needs financial support, even though she'd rather be with Chad.
Obviously people can meet each other and be very attracted during the "honeymoon period", but that inevitably fades, and people need to make a conscious effort to sustain the relationship... Is that love? I don't know.
Joshua Fisher
It is nonexistant
Nathaniel Sanchez
>What do you think? I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole no matter how desperate.
Jason Morgan
Let me guess, you don't have many friends, especially not girls, and neither relationship experience.
Adam James
Love is a house you build, not a flu you get. Apply that knowledge to your case and I'm sure you can see the way to proceed.
Jonathan Brooks
Thats a beautiful necklace
Benjamin Torres
no this women is a red flag. what will fallow is heartbreak if you contine to see her
Dylan Martin
Same as there are people like you there are fuckboys man. You've met a slut. Not every girl is one. Jow Forums would disagree since they'd expect a girl to stay a virgin for them even if they wouldn't do a move in 20 years but even if she isn't a virgin she isn't automatically a slut.
If you'rd searching for love, are conservative when it comes to love, stay away. If you only want to fuck her fuck her. Also see it positive: be happy that you found it out now before you've went into that drama.
Asher Watson
Not only had she done those things, she actually brags about it. Probably a psychopath. Write down her name and add to the list of people to fuck over in the future if you're ever in a position of power. She has it coming.
Cooper Hill
Hey, it doesn't feel right to call her a slut. She's been a very sweet and cute person. Probably immature and hiding from responsibility. Avoidant. Also told me her friends find her "rude". But she seems to take comfort in that. "Haha I'm so rude. Haha, I ignored my ex-bfs, I'm cute."
However after leading me on she "decided otherwise and had nothing else to say" after which I got mad and we ended the remaining relationship.
Not sure how to evaluate it. I behaved immature too in that I was too hurt by her rejection, and communicated it. However it's probably fair to be hurt. But I don't want to have hard feelings about her just to feel better. Confused by this, this is one of my first encounters with women and it scared me.
Dylan James
>a woman has never loved you >therefore you cope by saying it isn't possible
Austin Mitchell
She's an honest hoe, respect that maybe have sex with her but someone with no empathy for someone else's feelings is an instant no-boner for me.
Yes love exists but clearly you're looking in the wrong dating pool.
>sweet and cute person uhm yeah that's why she gets so many guys. She's an honest slut.
If you're feeling bad about her, don't. She doesn't deserve that kind of sympathy. Feel good that you didn't get tangled up in her dramas. just keep looking around but don't expect love from hoes.
and yes your anger is justified because she kept you around knowing how you felt about her words.
Brayden Ramirez
Idk if she has no empathy for someone's feelings. I think she just found it more convenient to just ghost them instead of breaking up like an adult. Obviously that's bad but I don't necessarily think it's meant malevolent. She probably isn't empathetic actually. She's a physicist, describes herself as rude.
Also just because she had several bfs doesn't mean she's a slut in today's society. That's quiet normal. The thought of it still pains me and kind of puts me off, as well as her other behavior, but it's more of the norm nowadays.
I think I have a lot to learn. I feel ashamed and bad. However those aren't good emotions to rise up. But I don't want to get angry and bitter either. I'm young and I don't want to become bitter concerning love, this would keep me from pursuing sth like that ever.
Zachary Rogers
>t. Roastie
David Moore
Anybody who describes themselves as "rude" or "a bitch" and takes proud in that, or just say "its my nature" needs to be kept at a distance. These people just make excuses for their shitty behaviour and dont take responsibility. "Oh its just my personality, not my fault! ", yeah its your fault..
Liam Roberts
baka
I doubt she'd even consider being in a committed relationship at that age.
Bentley Rogers
Nah man. End that shit before you get your little heart broken
Thomas Evans
Yes it exists. No you won't find it with the sexy but shallow gurls you like to hook up with.
girls like that go after naive guys like you. because your inexperienced enough to not call her out on her shit
Andrew Walker
Love exists for both sexes but their conception is completely different. For men love is idealistic while for women it is materialistic. Think about how for men it is very common to have a Madonna/Whore complex. This implies men can separate sex from love and in fact sex reduces love to it's bare animal nature. Women have no such complex as this (except for the most masculine of women). For women sex and love are united because sex is a materialistic transaction where she receives genetic material from the male and is in love with this fact. So to again answer your question, love in the way you conceive of it as a man does not exist in women.
Yep, just read Sex and Character by Otto Weininger OP and you will figure it all out.
Jaxson Bailey
I love this board Of course love exists. Just not in some fairytale way More like horror story
James Lewis
This is what dating is for. You get to know a person, maybe you have concerns so you keep dating to see if this holds true or not. Then make a decision. Romance and love isn’t like disney. That is fairy tales. Real life works very different.
