ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

of course yes
but as a woman you don't risk anything legally.

>ethically
No. I'd be extraordinarily pissed and not at all amused if I found out, though.

They're not the only ones, but their kind is sadly the most prevalent in society, and that's reflected in the posts here.

Anyone have any tips/rules/advice for texting conversations? They always feel clunky to me, and its just walls of text. I'd rather call, but our current timetables don't really accommodate.

That's fucked up
Clean his place
The only way is to tell him to lean back and take out a pair of tweezers yourself

because ironically they're the most successful people on this site when it comes to dating.

On 100 guys how many are into hairy girls and how many woud just not care as much?
How do I ask the guy I'm dating if he actually likes my body hair or he just doesn't mind it without him lying not to hurt my feels?

How hairy are we talking?
Some light body hair isn`t really an issues, but if your legs have more hair than mine then its disgusting

something like this is hot

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Is it true apologizing to women makes you seem weak?

I agree, this fun
but facial hair is a big turnoff

you're drugging him which is illegal but you're a women so it's legal

Imagine being so much of a thott that you not only need to ask this question, but your affinity for herbal pseudo-science would have fucked up your date rape attempt anyway. Get yourself out of his life, he doesn't deserve the sort of person you are.

I like my armpit hair - which anyway I shave once in a while - and I just trim a bit down there. Not really hairy legs but I'm not running to shave my legs as I have hair growing back.
Big deal is armpit I guess, pic related

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Eh, that much is still fine as long as you don`t start to smell too strongly from there

>On 100 guys how many are into hairy girls
How am I supposed to know? I only have one mind. For me, I can say that I like it, provided they still have good hygiene.
I'm white and only into whites, also--racial traits would definitely come into play.

>How do I ask the guy I'm dating if he actually likes my body hair
If he isn't saying anything, don't feel obligated to do anything. But he shouldn't be seeing anything really important until you're married anyway.
Also, good excuse to share
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>tfw all unshaven girls are degenerates

It's not smelly, I shower, that's a misconception. Men have hair and don't smell bad unless they don't wash themselves. Head sweats too and hair don't smell like sweat.

I'd like to know that my date loves my armpit hair as much as I do, but I don't want to put him in that position where he has to say if he likes or not something about my body

It's an aphrodisiac not a roofie.

>It`s just to make him horny without his knowledge so that I can fuck him
>Thats not the same as giving him something else without his knowledge so that I can fuck him
You are just an asshole, please kys

Ladies, how do you feel about man pubes? Should I just ask my girlfriend if she wants me to trim/shave?

It's about as much of an aphrodesiac as a bowl of fucking soup. It doesn't change the fact that her intention is to drug him into a state where he would be more pliable to sexual suggestion were he otherwise not. That's fucked up.

Yes, it does. When in doubt, swap the genders. You're scum btw, I couldn't imagine anything grosser than sleeping with someone who wasn't just as naturally enthusiastic to sleep with me.

They're not, they're just the ones who were awake.

Don't clean his place, he probably has specific places for things to be. Find his favourite take out and order his favourite food, get a couple drinks in and watch a film he loves. Let him lean his head on you and scratch his scalp gently. Shit like that.

If you're close to him, just tell him. I have a rule about telling people shit wrong with their appearance that can be sorted in 30 seconds if it's during the day and 5 minutes if we're headed home, so I'd certainly say do it toward the end of the day.

It's pedophile excuses dressed up under misogyny, so subjective as hell so no one can call it objectively wrong because that's how these people operate.

There's plenty of generic texting tips on the internet, are you looking for something specific?

Maybe to other men or maybe to manipulative women to whom you haven't actually done anything to, but I genuinely see men who refuse to apologise for things as weak, cowardly and of poor moral fiber so it's kinda the inverse.

I like hairy dudes and don't really care about manscaping, but every woman is different. I'd just ask her personally, see what she wants.

If I get lost down there they're too long.

Simple answer: Whether or not it's date rape it's a form of sexual assault. You're slipping him something without his knowledge that will have effects on him physically. You are taking his sexual agency away from him and trying to force him to feel a certain way. You might not be forcing him to have sex, but you are still forcing things upon him. And that is absolutely both illegal and immoral.

How to get bussy real FAST????

What the hell. As a woman, I don't understand. What's attractive about that?

I like blonde downy hair on women. It looks so soft and fuzzy and feminine.

It's cute

I love them and prefer them untouched. Asking her personal preference never hurts though.

I don't like it, and why would i lie about it? It's one of the easiest things to fix with the lowest effort and expenses. Would be much harder to honestly tell a girl to lose weight.

We've not been together for very long but I think I've fallen in love with my bf. The idea makes me wanna end the relationship and run to the hills. Ignoring the fact I'm a retard, it's starting to stress me out bad style. How do I sort this? I'm obviously not going to actually break up with him.

Body hair can be attractive on the right girl.

If you're fat, it makes you look unkempt.
If you have dyed hair and strong political views it makes you look insufferable.
If you're masculine it makes you look more masculine.
If you're cute and slim it's cute.

If you're worried, just ask what he would prefer.

Grow up. If you don't want a serious relationship, end it. If you want it, stop whining like a bitch and behave your age.

I do want a serious relationship, nice literacy on the "I'm not being up with him". Also kek @ "just deal with it", thanks for your help bro.

In a relationship with a narcist, is it all a lie, the good things? I told this guy I like narcissistic qualities in a man and I like pain, humiliation etc in sex. He told he's really glad to have found a girl like me who he can be himself with and he shares about his narcissism. Is this a lie, too? What a mindfuck if so.

Because to me it's important to feel good myself and my body is my choice. Yeap I do have strong political views - he shares my standpoints too - but I'm more a petite looking girl.

Your boyfriend is probably too much of a pussy to criticize you so do literally whatever you want, even if it's a pathetically being attached to body hair as some kind of statement.

What exactly are you asking then? You seem to be wanting to do whatever you want, but seeking approval in it being also the right thing to do. A few compromises are acceptable in a relationship, if you can't deal with it either find a passive man that accepts everything and demands nothing or fix that attitude. Political beliefs and fucking body hair have nothing to do with each other.

Every time I see a guy who thinks women's politics have nothing to do with body hair I think of all the men who politicise the act of men not having facial hair (if your dad's hasn't got a beard, you've got two mum's, you're not a man of you don't have facial hair, etc.). How do you deal with the cognitive dissonance?

Am not saying I will do whatever I want even if he doesn't like it, I was explaining why it would be difficult to him to say something about it. It's like I'm bragging how much I like a new hairstyle and you have to turn me down with a "Ah you looked better before". Not saying anything doesn't make you a pussy, it's a white lie not to hurt someone's feelings.
So I was wondering how common or uncommon is to actually like some body hair on girls.

Where the hell do you live? Never heard something that stupid a single time in all my life.

>if your dad's hasn't got a beard, you've got two mum's, you're not a man of you don't have facial hair, etc
wtf are you on about lmao

I live in the UK and it used to be everywhere to be honest. It's only when hipster bears hit high fashion a couple years ago it dropped off. There's plenty of references in lots of mainstream media of boys not being men til they can grow a real beard, even at the age of 25, and plenty of jokes towards Asian men not being real men because they don't have traditional facial hair or body hair. How do you feel about the act of politicising male body hair, which has been done for literally decades, and the cognitive dissonance that women's body hair cannot be political according to yourself?

>you're not a man of you don't have facial hair
That's actually happening - guys make fun of each other for not having a proper beard or chest hair

Or men shaving is gay

Bodies are political

Are you from the Middle East? Nobody talks like that. If anything, women who make a big fuss about
>CAN YOU IMAGINE BEING EXPECTED TO SHAVE!?
comes off as out of touch and self centered to any man who can't grow a full beard. Body hair feels icky to touch and pubes get in the way of eating you out. This is why people don't take you seriously.

Exactly what I said, but I've elaborated a little here;
Its a very common phenomenon, especially in Western culture, I'm intrigued where you guys are from if you've genuinely never seen any of this.

Playful banter mocking effeminate men.

What's your point?

Well, it really depends on what kind of hair we're talking about. If you turn into a gorilla it won't be pretty. If they can't be seen without looking for them it probably won't be a problem.
It's on those white lies that the demise of a relationship is built, imo. If i don't like it i don't like it, why should i lie? I would also like to hear if i'm doing something the girl doesn't like, i probably didn't even notice. Why would i want her to be a little more miserable instead of improving myself?
All my grandpa generation is perfectly shaved, many of them with a manual razor. Dad's generation is the same, but there are more beards due to social movements of rebellion and shiet. But really, no one cares. The only times something like you mention happens is literally at middle school but just guys that already have beard being proud about it. No shaming on those who don't.

I'm from Italy.

No, I'm from Britain. I'm not asking about your opinion on body hair, I don't care. I'm asking those two people how they deal with the cognitive dissonance of saying women's body hair isn't political when men's body hair clearly has been for several decades.

I'm also from the UK (). Please, continue talking down to me about experiences you're projecting on to me. Or, you know, pull your head out of your arse.

>been crashing at bf's apartment more often recently
>start sleeping in same bed with bf every night
>every single night he sneaks out of bed while I'm sleeping
>usually find him asleep on the couch or in his computer chair the next morning
>ask him if there's a problem with sleeping with me
>says he's just restless at night
>sleeps like a log when I'm not in bed though
>he dismisses it whenever I bring it up
>don't mind if he doesn't want to sleep together but just want to know why
>woke up alone and just feel like I'm missing something obvious I'm doing wrong
Do I just drop it, or keep bugging him about it until he gives me a reason? Any idea what it could be?

>effeminate men.
point is that you're supposed to do some things to look "normal" for society. So not following that rule makes your little act to do what you actually prefer a bit political

>men's hair is political, clearly, here's my evidence
>gets told -- by the people who would presumably be on the receiving end of such behavior -- that it doesn't exist
>COGNITIVE DISSONANCE SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP
Feminists need to stop talking about male issues like they have any manner of authority.

?

Well your bf has some issue communicating. Maybe just say you'll stop sleeping there since you feel it's bothering him

Perhaps it is cultural then, I see many men mid twenties here mocking their friends for having no body and facial hair, lots of men giving their sons a "playful" hard time as they're coming out of puberty with patchy beards, etc.

I'm not projecting anything on to you, either calm down or learn what that word means. Just because you've never seen it (how?) doesn't mean it isn't a very common trope. Other people who don't see the thing I have have been able to respond without throwing a temper tantrum, probably because they aren't offended.

I mean, there's loads of evidence for it. Just because two dudes have never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist, I have other people in the thread saying they know what I'm talking about. The cognitive dissonance was the guest thing I asked about, not something bright up as an attack as you're trying to imply in your response aaaaaaand I'm not a feminist, I'm just asking questions. I think that clears up all your misunderstandings.

shallow banter is bonding, not politics. I'm a man who has never seen another man actually mocked for not growing facial hair.

1. A member of a group saying something doesn't mean shit. This modern view that we have to "listen to the affect community" is new-age, unscientific bullshit. Who's right is right regardless.
2. You're most likely talking to a man who holds views opposed to feminism trying to point out a hypocrisy
3. This is a non issue so shut the fuck up.

Sounds like mental illness or too much time on the internet. Maybe it's where you live? Tell me where it is, so i cannot make the mistake of getting there.

>for not growing facial hair.
Not for the choice of not growing facial hair but for not being able to grow facial hair and having a body that looks like puberty body. I've seen that, and male friends told me about it.

I live in South Europe but it's really everywhere. No one will insult you on the street for it but some judgment is there

Eh, there is judgement for literally any existing behaviour. Someone will critics whatever you do, given the chance. Doesn't mean there's active crusade against beardless men or anything.
I have not really good facial hair, they are scattered and not do much beard volume so i trim them once a week. No one ever said shit to me.
If you are a bullying target for other reasons, anything will be fine to joke at you. Whatever they see works, they will say. A friend of mine, who is actually beautiful and very successfull with women, is really insecure about his lips. I could see him really hurt once from a guy commenting on them. But there is no "remove big lips" social movement going on, it was just as good as anything else.

Do young women not like sensible men that make smart decisions?

young women like dick. all different types and varieties of dick. they can't stop thinking about dick. they see a guy all they think is "i wonder what his dick feels like"

this
ever seen a dick making sensible and smart decision? no, you got your answer

We do, we just don't like men so boring you could replace them with a cardboard cut out, which is what most men who think they're "sensible men who make smart descisions" tend to be.

Retards

I have a gratitude journal

I want to show my bestfriend (girl) that she's in it

good idea or no

>does slipping a man an aphrodisiac without him knowing count as "date rape"?
Not at all

The female body is an aphrodisiac

It’s probably best you say it rather than show your journal. See how she takes it first.

What do you mean by boring?

Are you ugly? If so, yes.

true

"hey i wrote about you in my journal"

Some of us do, a lot.

Dear femanons, how important is the state of a guys car to you? If it's clean and tidy, do you mind when it's a beat up, 20yo old rustbucket?

Sure. But for what reason are you telling a person this. A journal is personal. Why not just say what you fee about her without bringing documentation for it. It becomes a little weird. Like it’s more about you for having a journal rather than saying something nice to someone.

OK true. I guess my intention is to simply tell her im grateful for her prsence. Youre right the journal is extra

I like hair but it needs to be keept in check /trimmed .
Just ask him the fuck is wrong with you kids?

Cool. Good luck, it’s always nice getting a sincere compliment.

Tricky.

1) do clean his place but don't move anything out of place. Guys are territorial, so, if you make the living room look nice, that's a plus. Don't go into his bedroom and change anything though. We are chaotic creatures, but there's a method to the madness.

2) does he drink? Go to the local liquor store and get him what he likes.

3) just be really happy when he gets home. Throw yourself at his arms line you're a puppy waiting for the owner to come home. Sounds cliché but it's the little things. Let him talk. Listen to him. Don't offer opinions on what he talks about, instead, ask him if there's anything you can do. He'll likely say no, but you can give him a massage.

Guys like to disconnect when returning home from work. Giving him a couple of minutes to himself might help too. If he turns on the TV, he's not ignoring you: he's coping with a routine to endure not being close to you.

Sex. Lots of sex.

Don't imply anything. Men don't give a fuck.

Kindly tell him straight up or shut your fat face and mind your own business. You already have a man to nag.

Tell him?

Men are direct creatures. Unlike womeen as per your post.

If he takes it wrong, lol he's an idiot.

Is it offensive if I tell a Korean girl she looks the same as other Korean girls?

I meant it as a compliment, since Korean women are beautiful, but I'm worried she may have interpreted that as not being special.

Would she be mad that I made this comment?

>Would she be mad that I made this comment?
Probably. The reason is the one you said.

>Is it offensive if I tell a Korean girl she looks the same as other Korean girls?

Offesnivee yes. But that shouldn't stop you.

With the power oof humour and charm, you can even call niggers, niggers, straight to their faces with the right amount of humour.

Hair is permissible depending on location.

Legs/arms/back: as long as it is extremely thin, light, and not all over... it can be very charming.

Face/armpit: literally kill yourself. Fucking disgusting. Inexcusable.

Pussy: acceptable, but your hygiene must be impeccable. When girls piss, they get their piss on their hairy pussy, then wipe it off with toilet paper. Well guess what? Hair retains smell. I called this one girl out for not properly washing her pussy when I was about to eat her out. She cried. I explained: "just be considerate of me. Don't be afraid of soap, and don't use shampoo or any of that stuff. Just soap - nothing afterwards like creams or lotions."

She ended up putting lotion on her cunt. "Why did you put lotion?" "To smell good" "great. Smells like coconut and tastes like bitter shit. I'm out".

You missed assholee hairs.

Women,

How do I determine whether a girl is a virgin if we've hit it off as acquaintances/friends but before anything romantic without insulting her?