Gay guys flirt with me heavy and keep touching me

Not op but this is good to hear. I've had a gay dude straight up pull up beside me and offer me money for "pictures", and other encounters. But I'm 27 yo virgin because I'm too lazy to chase girls.

So you cold approach? That doesn't actually work, user. Especially if you're so nervous.
If you don't know how to approach a woman (and men who do strikeout a fuck tonne. It's not socially acceptable, it rarely works, they spam it) you're stuck finding girls like the grand majority of us. Having a social life, meeting people organically, befriending women the exact way you befriend men, knowing when there's interest.

No I don't cold approach. I speak to women in social settings and events where it is entirely normal to speak to them. They just dont seem interested. Some women even give off a vibe that they're scared of me

Well you did mention you're nervous. People can literally smell it (chemosignals) and read your body language.
It's naturally threatening because that's how human brains work and interpret it. Try to find some confidence user. Don't make a big deal out of it. If you can make friends at all, you can talk to women.

You can even go to the doctor and say you're nervous and Shakey and ask for beta blockers.
Super mild drug, normally used for high blood pressure and heart conditions. But it reduces nerves a lot and they'll prescribe it in a heartbeat if you ask for it. Try that out?

you must be either too girly or too hairy to be a gay magnet. Maybe girly and hairy. I dunno what gays like.

>girls generally don't approach men
yes they do, theyre thirsty thots

Girls don't work like mens.
You should demonstrate to them your values.
Talk to them.
If you fail nobody gives a shit, but you learn how to be better the next approach

A lot depends on your hairstyle and wardrobe. You may be sending massive homo signals without realising it.

Ask a female friend or a gay friend about this problem, someone whom you know in real life. They will probably point to how you dress and your hair as the problem.

there is nothing on this earth easier than being a straight girl. They don't need to pay attention to guys because all of them have any attention they want and get boyfriends whenever they want.
Dating as a gay man is more difficult which is why they put more effort in.

girls aren't usually very forward
even when they are though, i still manage to fuck it up with autism and awkwardness lmao
i'm a fucking dork but decent looking enough and artsy hipster enough for tumblr type girls to be into me. more than once these types of thicc art hoe girls have thrown themselves at me and were explicit about thinking i was attractive, and still freeze up or turn into the most boring shit saying monotone crap because idk what to do.

to be fair, the type of guys that gays go for (feminine twinks) girls aren't as into

Younger girls like twinkish guys. You can get 18-22 yo thots if you put a little effort in the gym as well.

Most gay men are into the typical masculine man. Twinks are less popular than you’d think.