Let me just say I've been a lifelong Eva fan since I was 14, 28 now. I'm at work and my gf is texting me saying she wants to fuck, as is our usual Friday evening routine. Oddly though, I don't feel like seeing her. I feel tired from a long week of overtime, and at the same time I'm excited to see the first stream of the last Rebuild of Eva movie that will happen in about 9 hours. I just feel like rewatching End of Evangelion, Rebuild of Evangelion 2.22 and 3.33, then checking out that reveal stream. Maybe play some Mario Maker 2 and Bloodstained.
And at the same time, I feel like an ass for telling her I'm just not in the mood tonight. Can any other guys with super horny girlfriends relate? I'm a literal, diagnosed turbo aspie and she understands that I'm mad autistic and weird. I feel a little bad binging on my nerdy shit rather than fucking her though.
Am I an asshole? I do want to see her tomorrow at least.
Pic related is you. Stop drinking onions, stop watching porn, stop watching anime, lift, stop drinking out of plastic bottles. You chose watching a shitty anime, that you have seen dozens of times, over having sex? Kys
why are you even asking the question if you're just going to justify it anyway
You're overthinking it user. Its fine to have alone time every once in a while as long as it doesn't become a habit and you still make time for her other times.
LITERALLY JUST TELL HER: >I feel tired from a long week of overtime, and I've been a lifelong Eva fan since I was 14, I'm excited to see the first stream of the last Rebuild of Eva movie that will happen in about 9 hours. I just feel like rewatching End of Evangelion, Rebuild of Evangelion 2.22 and 3.33, then checking out that reveal stream. Who knows, maybe, just maybe if you tell her how you feel, she'll understand and let you have some time to decompress from a stressful day.
>wanting to watch the Rebuilds That’s the biggest problem here
I guess I just needed some idiot to call me a basedboy for me to realize it's actually ok to just need some alone time.
I didn't tell her about the Evangelion stuff, but I am genuinely tired. She seems disappointed but she understands. And honestly... I think I'd just annoy or depress her right now. I just need to spend some of my free time on myself, which I really haven't done in a long time.
If you don't like the Rebuilds, you're entitled to your opinion. But personally I'm doubtful of whether you ever really actually understood or appreciated the original series and movie ending if you can't see how a completely different interpretation of the story and unfolding of events can also be just as interesting to watch. People complain so much about Rebuild 2.0 and 3.0 but I adored these movies and they made me appreciate Anno's genius so much more. And if I ever want to rewatch the original series and End of Eva, I can always do that too. The ending of 2.22 and 3.33 were pure kino. Basically I expect 3.0 + 1.0 to be the greatest anime film of all-time, or at least on par with End of Eva.
I said this a thousand times. Women are a waste of time. The mindgames, the manipulation and the never ending list of demands you have to meet for the "privilage" of being "loved" by a woman.
get a non busted gf above 3/10 next time. as you stand you're no better than the average incel. thank me later
>manchild humblebraging to incels about his abomination of a girlfriend that he can't even get it up for Also, Nintendo. This shit writes itself and it's beautiful
>gf >sex That's degenerate, you should have watched more anime from the beginning.
She's a very attractive girl. Personally I'm kind of worried I'm increasing my chance of losing her by doing this. I'm just tired. If you ever had a woman ride you like a horse day in day out, eventually you'd want some time to yourself.
Yeah but having companionship and sex is pretty healthy for a man to have in his life.
Imagine being on the other end. My wife and I had sex a lot while dating, she was the house(girlfriend), and we waited to be married to move in together because it is statistically more plausible relationships last longer when couples wait. Also I was her first sexual partner, which makes me feel very special. But now... now we barely do anything sexual.. on average once every two weeks. It’s depressing to me because I have a big sex drive and love kinky weird things— and want to share those things with her but, after marriage, she’s become a homebody, in the bad sense, and doesn’t want anything. I am the bread winner and am out all day making enough to help us live comfortably so I understand that she wants to go out when I get home, and we do, but I feel the magic is fleeting between us and I’m not sure what to do. She’d rather watch Netflix or look for clothing for her small dog than fuck or enjoy the things we used to do together. Interestingly enough, it is the constant presence of having her around that makes it hard for me to get aroused when I’d like to. It may be the same for her but I’m not becoming a slob. I can tell you that it feels terrible being the side that would love sex with someone who doesn’t want it. I feel my sexual and perhaps, emotionally clingy perception may be the issue but I feel bringing up the situation will only make it the problem real, which could make things even worse. Have sex with your girlfriend because she loves you and wants to enjoy it with you.
>it is statistically more plausible relationships last longer when couples wait That applies to waiting for sex, not just living together, baka
Wrong. According to multiple studies, spotlighted in The Defining Decade by psychologist Meg Jay, “...a dozen studies conducted since the 1970s have shown the very opposite outcome — that cohabitation prior to marriage is linked to lower marital happiness and stability and a higher chance of divorce. This substantial body of research found that couples who lived together before getting married were in fact 33% more likely to split up than those who didn’t.” Moving in together before marriage was a lie most millennials bought into believing that testing the waters was the best way to determine a relationship’s future, which led many to realize they’d ruined the relationship by skipping the wedding preparation and family involvement. Another quote from Jay “They vaguely had the idea of testing their relationship, but they didn’t venture into areas that typically stress a marriage: They didn’t pay a mortgage, try to get pregnant, get up in the night with kids, spend holidays with in-laws when they didn’t want to, save for college and retirement, or see each other’s paychecks and credit-card bills.”
>My wife and I had sex a lot while dating >But now... now we barely do anything sexual.. on average once every two weeks >but, after marriage, she’s become a homebody, in the bad sense, and doesn’t want anything >She’d rather watch Netflix or look for clothing for her small dog than fuck or enjoy the things we used to do together. She doesn't want to fuck you because she's getting dicked by Chad. Hate to be the bearer of bad news senpai.
Note how I said not *just* living together. As in, you should have waited to have sex as well
Lol how would that fix the sex issue genius People have sex, a lot of sex during and before marriage with one person. Antidepressants are killing our sex life
>I'm excited to see the first stream of the last Rebuild of Eva movie that will happen in about 9 hour WHAT? What the fuck are you talking about? 4.0 isn’t out yet, is it?
Lol, I kinda have this same issue but I’m the girlfriend. I usually hint or just straight out ask for my boyfriend to have sex with me later that night and he’ll agree until it’s time to actually do it... we usually do it before bed but lately he’s been staying up later and later on Xbox or watching movies he’s already seen many times before, I ask him to wake me up once he’s ready but I always end up waking up next to him, disappointed the morning after because he never woke me up. It’s getting to be really annoying,our sex life wasn’t great to begin, he cums quick almost every time, but I’m always satisfied with the feeling of his dick in me alone considering I never get to feel it much in the first place...I just don’t see how it’ll get any better if he completely avoids it.
That's gay. Not because you choose anime, but because Evangelion isn't that great.
We should switch women
My wife has never asked for sex ever
>>onions I love how the filter always gets these right winger redenecks that hate people that are nerds.
Go some place meant for you already or learn the filter system.
I know your pain bro
>be me >happy by myself with my hobbies, friends and interests >little no no sex drive for women >gf I live with begs for sex every other hour of the day >she equates the amount of dick she gets from me to her personal worth as a human being >the constant pressure just makes me put it off even more >want to leave her because we're just not compatible and I know it >too bad I already fucked up and we have a kid >this is my life now
Do yourself a favour user and have an honest think about what you want in life and what will make you happy in th elong run and on the average.
How do I know you're a fucking loser
Shut up, Christ. You understand nothing about genes, brains, mammals. NOTHING. Go apply your boy scouts faggotry to glorious winged faggots.