Is it normal to have to try messaging a lot of different escorts? I'm trying to set up an appointment but I either get no response or I get ghosted after a couple responses. What am I supposed to do?
I've been using Skip the Games if that matters
Is it normal to have to try messaging a lot of different escorts...
>normal
No, it isnt normal to use services of prostitutes.
But if you look at it as simply buying service, you are just a customer browsing different shops and looking for good product.
None of the shops will sell to me tho
I've acquired the services of over 100 whores and these are the ones you want to avoid. They're all trash but there ones who can make you feel desirable are the ones you want to maintain contact. Also, Trying to get the attention of a paid bitch when she's not interested is a great way to get hustled.
I dont know where else to find them though
It's not that hard. On first contact you ask rates and restrictions and availability. That's it. What you look like, what you do, your hobbies, which anime you jerk off to, none of this shit matters. You're probably saying to much. But honestly if you're fucking it up with whores you should probably just kill yourself and save everyone the trouble.
I dont say any of that, I ask rates, they usually ask what I want, and then I dont hear back
What I want isnt that weird I dont think, they have more extreme stuff on their page, as well as what I'm asking for
Like I said before. These are the whores you want to avoid. They probably got their drug fix for the day and don't give a fuck about any more clients. They're doing you a favor.
>go to my city, one of the 15 largest in US and coastal
>see all of this on the first page
>and this is only the christian images for blueboard
i've seen some asses that look like they belong on an 80 year old lemme tell you.
>buying used goods
>expecting quality
I'm pretty sure I saw an actual 80 year old on mine
I guess I'll try others if I can find more. Just feels like I'm doing something wrong I guess. Should i start the conversation with what I'm looking to experience and ask the rates for it? I'm interested in stuff that's usually considered not vanilla I think
what city you in?
I'm in southern California, but I dont want to say my city for obvious reasons. You?
This is what I do. Find one I like. Ask what rates and restrictions and if available at X time. If I don't hear back in an hour I move on and repeat. Give at least and hour for response. Might be with a client. When I do hear back I CALL her so I can guage level of sketchyness. If she sounds like an addict say thanks and hang up. If not, while on phone I confirm rates and services wanted and make the appointment. If this can't happen in the first call I move on and mark her number as WOT.
What's WOT?
Also I've NEVER gotten a response in less than an hour. Fastest response time is about 5
>WOT
Waste of time
>fastest response time is 5
Would you wait 5 hrs to fuck a whore? That's your first problem.
I've waited 24 years to experience intimacy with a woman, what's 5 hours?
Welp, sent the last one in my area that's remotely attractive a message, wish me luck I guess
She told me the price for what I asked, i agreed, asked availability, and no response for over an hour, is it game over for me?
the girl has to like you enough to fuck you for money. are you fat? do you say weird shit in your messages?
I mean yeah I'm fat but I didnt say what I looked like and I'm using a backup email not directly connected to my accounts so she cant see what I look like
I feel like I'm being really professional about it? And their pages list openness for way more extreme stuff than what I'm asking for
maybe include a pic?
The other guy said they dont care, and the ones that responded most never asked anything about it
I don't know man I bet those girls get hit up a lot. just keep trying. it's a numbers game like every other woman acquisition method
I added all the other semi-local cities (90-120 minutes drive) to my search and it only got me like 4 more results, only one that wasnt a whale or an old woman, so that's one more chance I guess but after that I'm completely out of options
I'm just so lonely and lately I havent been able to get my mind out of the gutter. Even if I could somehow get a date (which is far fetched as is obviously) I would probably ruin it with perverted thoughts instead of whatever other autism that might ruin it
you should consider moving to a real city
I'm near LA and that's in my search settings, but yeah I'm trying to move to a better state eventually
if you can't even fucking hooker in la, you're completely fucked sorry not sorry RIP
Keep in mind these girls are literally street level hookers who are too lazy to walk the hood for tricks and instead sit their lazy asses at home on the internet. Don't be surprised if they're not reliable. Before internet whoring was a thing I'd just drive around and grab one. Try that.
Can I ask how much you normally pay and for how long?
Are you retarded? Whores don't fucking care what you look like. Unless your a nigger. I met some who refused to do tricks with niggers cause they never pay or rough then up.
For what? A street hooker? 20-40 for bj. 40-80 for a lay. AMPs are 140-160 for 40 mins. Privateers usually 150 and up per hr depending how freaky you get. Only take as much cash as you need and leave the rest including your wallet and phone hidden somewhere not on your person. Never take them back to your place. Expect to be hustled in one way or another and consider yourself lucky if you're not.
whores and strippers absolutely do. It's a completely different spectrum that they're looking for if you know what I mean, but they won't fuck someone they can't bring themselves to
>They care
You're doing it wrong
>Privateers usually 150 and up per hr depending how freaky you get
Fuck I'm seeing and getting quotes upwards of 300
you don't know anything about women or the sex industry evidently
Yea that's what they're asking even if they're not worth it. Women are like that, whores or not. To be honest, I've had the most fun with street walkers and AMPs. I still see one I picked up almost a decade ago on a random street. She's got her own place now but still charges me the old school price cause we've known each other so long. It's like visiting an ex gf for a quickie for me. Good times.
Nobody asked you, nigger
I wouldnt know where to even find street walkers or AMPs except in LA and I'm too scared to randomly drive around LA
Oh and thank you for all your help, I appreciate it. I've felt so lost trying to navigate all this
yes they did it it that's why I'm still here
Find an AMP in your area. They're usually pretty good since their rep means everything to them and the mama san's don't like bullshit or trouble. There's going to be lots in the LA area.
And by AMP I don't actually mean a massage parlor. Those are trash and a guaranteed rip. There are Girls who operate in groups of 3 or 4 out of a condo or house. That's what I mean but we call them AMPs here.
Do they do fetish stuff?
They won't let you tie them up and whip them but they're game for watersports and stuff. I've had my ass rimmed so deep I was actually embarrassed about it.
Oh I'm actually interested in more tame sub stuff, I want to try giving oral and rimjobs, and facesitting
What you want to ask for is daty and dato if you want to eat pussy and ass. Bbbj are standard. Hell I've even been offered raw dog at AMPs.
I'm seeing daty a lot but what's dato? And bbbj?
>dato
Dine at the O aka eat ass
>bbbj
Bare back blow job
Oh, I guess I should have seen that coming from daty
Thank you for your help, I've got a few messages out but it's late so I doubt I'll hear anything til tomorrow anyways if at all
If it's genuinely your first time with a whore I'd suggest going for a cheapie bj from a street hooker first to break the ice. I did that a few times before committing to anything more. Once you get over there apprehension it's super easy.
No worries user. Whoring is fun and actually taught me to be more alpha with the ladies at clubs and bars. Be safe and get fuckin. Ask more questions if you need I'll bookmark this post.
Thank you but honestly i couldnt be less interested in that, I just have these kinks that lately I cant get off my mind cause I've never experienced them
That's really good for you user, I'm glad to hear it's worked out so well for you
How do you deal with the possibility of STDs?
OH WOW ITS YOU!
You’re that Australian user that posts on Jow Forums who got banned from brothels for drinking the toilet water after girls used the bathroom.
Uhhh sorry user but none of that applies to me
I've gotten the clap once but can't say if it was from a whore or a tinder date. After that happened I got shots to protect me from hep and hpv. I know a lot of the girls who work AMPs take Prep and offer bareback.
Got asked race and age by one of them wtf
Is it common? Also what's Prep?
Also, Google 'escort review' and find a forum that covers you're area. Lots of good info there.
Prep is anti HIV medication.
It’ll stop you contracting HIV but not anything else.
You should save you’re money and use miramystin and a condom
ISG and Punterplanet are good platforms
That's a good idea thanks
I'm sure you're not a doctor but are there any that can be caught from what I'm looking to do? Provided I have no open wounds of course
Yea they probably want to know if your an ooga booga nigger or sand nigger (both which they don't like for previously mentioned treating) and if you're an old wrinkly fuck or some underage millennial twat. Just tell them whatever you think your can get away with.
Treating=reasons. Fucking auto correct
"Full service covered but how long are you inquiring I don’t talk exclusive over the phone so you should know what I’m talking about anything else is my roses That means donations I’m pretty sure it’s common sense you know what that means"
What the fuck does any of that mean she listed what I assume are prices previously and i get what she means by donations but the fuck is roses. Her formatting is horrible
They use words like roses instead of dollars in case you're a cop.
Oh and here I was working out how many literal roses
I understood it as one rose for each message, I'm sure you'll get a chuckle out of that
I’m an RN.
Lots of things.
As bad as herpes, and syphilis are, its the MRSA ‘clap’ you need to be very careful of. It’s an expensive long term treatment. Infected parents give birth to blind, or deaf, or both babies.
If you are going to use whores, use miramystin. You should also use condoms, and if you insist on barebacking Prep.
Miramystin is said to kill most STI bacteria within 2 hours of exposure after application.
Spray it up your urethra and into your throat, and over any exposed skin that could get skin contact or microfissures. Eg your junk.
It won’t stop parasites however.
If you hire sex workers you really should use a condom, it’s by far the best protection available
You could catch anything from a common cold to genital warts to hep to hpv to hiv. Name a communicable disease and you have a chance of catching it. Like I said I've been lucky and all I got was a sore dick when I pee which went away after a week of pills.
Thanks for the detailed response, no need to worry about condoms here but I'll look into miramystin
Do I have to get this stuff online?
Yes, unless you live in Russia, Germany, Israel
This reminds me of a whore in town who's around 45 but looks closer to 60 from hard drug use but goddamn she's got the nicest set of fake silicone tits. I just had to pick her up just so I could play with them. Turned out being a super sweet lady who used to headline at major strip clubs in the 90s but got hooked on crack.
Have you considered taking a trip to Tijuana? You could get all the whores you want and all the anti STD drugs from the local pharmacies.
Not sure if you noticed from the thread but I have some anxiety issues, even meeting an escort here is hard, hence all the questions. I could never travel south of the border alone, especially for something like that
Come to Canada I'll take you whoring with me, user. You seem like good people who could use a solid week or two of guilt free sex. My phone is full of numbers from over a decade of whoring.
Tempting but I also dont have a passport and am sort of wanting to rush this so I can get back to normal yknow? I appreciate the offer though
Based Canadian whores. I miss the old Craigslist so much.
Shes cute but what's with the swastika? And yeah it took me forever just to find STG since the only place I ever heard of for escorts was craigslist
>Swastika
Not sure. A lot of the Asian spots did shit like that and other symbols and emojis. That particular place was one of the shit massage parlors I spoke about earlier but had to save a screen of their ad for keks.
Damn I guess ill keep an eye out then if I have to keep looking. I've sorta got my fingers crossed I hear back from a girl that is both gorgeous and seems reputable/not on drugs. Shes pricy but I think it would be worth it
The girl I heard back from gave me weird vibes so I dont think I wanna go through with that
Careful, user. I thought the same. Id fuck a whore when I'm on a dry spell but now I prefer the company of a whore over a regular date most times. I've known some longer than regular chicks and many are waaaay sweeter than any normie bitch has ever treated me.
Sounds like your whore sense is picking up. Good on ya, user.
where do you live? are you willing to travel?
It isnt a dry spell, I'm a virgin and I've only had one gf for a very short period of time. Not sure if you could call that a dry spell
I've just got some kinks that I'm dying to try cause I've been trying a lot harder to get a relationship, but I know that if I dont at least try them it's all I'll be thinking about and will wreck the relationship. Not to mention for about a week I've been focusing on it even more
Near LA, why?
Don't limit yourself to skip the games. Use Google and find a review board for your area. All info will need there and many whores participate in the discussions. It's what I do now since CL banned whores.
Alright, I'll try that if the current messages dont pan out. I really have my fingers crossed for that one girl though
Have you also tried just hitting on an older woman? Lots will get off knowing you're still a virgin and gladly oblige.
No clue where to find them, I dont really go out...ever. Besides I dont really want sex, I want the other stuff. Would that even count as taking virginity?
If your gonna get your dick hard around a whore why fap? Just go for it after you're done with your fetishes.
>Just go for it after you're done with your fetishes
But I partly want the daty/o (ty for new vocab words I hope you're proud) so that I can learn to become good at it/gauge if I am or not.
I'm not well endowed so my fetish for oral is all I can offer sexually, I need to be good at it.
And seriously what was this about my curiosity is killing me
After treating this a second time I would definitely avoid. Seems like shes fucked up on something and can't string sentences together. unless it was your copy pasting that fucked it.
Nope it was her own formatting exactly as I pasted it
She also responded with several messages asking if I was coming now and she would get ready, that sorta thing
Drove my anxiety through the roof there especially cause I didnt even know what the fuck she meant by roses
Treating=reading. Fuck I can't type lying down.
Also knowing the basic terminology will help you from being scammed. It's like learning the language before you travel. Glad to help, user.
I can understand it's difficult with your anxiety. Shit dude, if she's available now and so are you why not call her and head over now? Just let her know what's up and see how she responds. Also, a lot of whores (at least the bad ones) won't or don't want to put in the effort to oblige to special requests like fetishes. These are also the ones you want to avoid. Like any woman, find one your comfortable with and is going to do the things that make you happy. As long as you're willing to pay they are usually willing to oblige. Also, book for a half hour or hour at the most. You can always add time if you're comfortable with her.
I asked because if you lived somewhere near IL then I'd be down into thinking about helping you with your problem myself.
>Shit dude, if she's available now and so are you why not call her and head over now?
1. I still live at home and cant explain why I'm leaving the house so late on such short notice as I have no friends irl
2. She seriously gave me weird vibes and I really wanna trust my instinct with this
That's a good idea though, I'll stick with half an hour
Well, I'm due for a roadtrip, I drove to Texas nonstop just to help a friend move, and I've got a job now. What do you propose? Could we hangout outside of it? Not necessarily romantically if you're not into that of course I'm just not sure I'd wanna go JUST for that
To be honest, I would be fine talking and hanging out outside the actual act if we got along and all that. I feel your concern on that. If you have contact info I would be willing to discuss it with you through there just because it's a little awkward to discuss it through advice.
>Road trip
Careful, user.
How the fuck do I get a prostitute on the east coast
I agree, I cant even use spoilers on this board, I hate it
Heres a throwaway email
throwaway62485 at gmail dot com
I will be, thank you for caring. Worst case scenario I go further and meet up with another online friend I've known for years
Whores are everywhere, newanon. Even Canada.