Should I be worried?

Been friends with a girl that I wanted to date
We end up making out one night
Things move to the bedroom
She pulls out a condom from her drawer
Have sex

In hindsight, should I be worried that she had condoms on hand like that? I know it's sensible but it makes me uncomfortable that she's prepared to fuck guys like that.

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She’s most likely fucked a lot more guys than you’ve fucked girls if she has them on hand

Are you dating her? Are you a couple? Then probably not, who cares if she fucks other guys just as much as who would care if you fucked lots of girls?

What makes you say that?

Jesus Christ dude. how the fuck are we to know? and assuming she has sex with lots of guys, what would be the issue here? you're using a condom and she seems to be smart enough to do so too, so you don't need to worry about catching anything. if she's had sex with lots of guys that means she'll probably be pretty good at it, so that if anything is an advantage.
so what exactly could you be worried about? that you're not the chosen one because she's had sex with others before? grow up

She's asked me where we go from here but I haven't really given her an answer.
I think I would've respected her more if she was unprepared to have sex. She's had a couple of serious boyfriends but having condoms spare like that would imply she's prepared for casual sex

>should I be worried that girls enjoy having sex?

I don't expect women to have condoms prepared like a goddamn whore. It suggests she's had one night stands, which if that's the case I want nothing to do with her romantically.

>it's ok when she has a one night stand with me but not other guys

I'm not some random guy she's just met in a club. We've been close for awhile now. I didn't sleep with her for the sake of it, I want to be with her.

>When do we go from here

Well since you are a nasty used up slut I will use you like a toilet a few more times further degrading you then ghost your fat ass

sauce nigga

Except you don't like the fact that she might not see sex as a sacred ritual like you

I don't put any value in casual sex, no. I think it's cheap for women (and men) to bang anyone they don't have any intention of being with.

If they aren't virgin they are useless for anything but bukkake

>I don't put any value in casual sex
user spur of the moment sex that you had is considered casual sex

OP clearly thinks that because they've known each other for years that he's been building an intimate relationship with her.
He sounds like a psychopath desu.

How is that psychopathic? I'm not some random dude who just wanted to fuck her. I've known her for years and we're very close.

Look at it another way.

She's prepared because she doesn't want to get caught in a situation, unlikely or not, where sex is on the table but a condom isn't available. Perhaps she had a pregnancy scare with an old boyfriend. Maybe she liked you too and wanted to have some on hand in case you and her hit it off, seeing as having to stop and go buy a condom is kind of a mood killer.

If guys can carry a condom in their wallet, why not girls?

Because you're incredibly attached to a girl who saw you as a friend and fucked you one time

>If guys can carry a condom in their wallet, why not girls?
I've never ever carried a condom. I've only ever bought a pack if I was anticipating a good time.

Continuing with
Did you even have a condom with you?

user.

She was anticipating a good time.

Because women are valued on their purity and men on their wallet

>If guys can carry a condom in their wallet, why not girls?
Because there's still lots of guys who believe that chastity is a mark of shame for men but a commodity for women

No, because I never anticipated it. We'd been flirting a lot for the past few weeks. She cooked for me, we watched a film, ended up fooling around. I wasn't expecting we'd have sex but one thing led to another and next thing she pulled out a condom for me.

Again. She anticipated a good time. This isn't to say she saw it as a foregone conclusion, but it's not like condoms go bad overnight.

If you insist on looking at women as the gatekeepers to sex, you should at least realize that they might plan ahead on these things.

Give up user.
OP isn't looking for advice. He's looking for validation for his 50 year old mentality

if you were so adamantly against it, you'd just have said no
complaining about her now is hypocrisy

I wasn't against sleeping with her, as I've carried a torch for her for some time. It wasn't until the next day that I wondered about the implications of having a condom at the ready

It means nothing except she has fucked 100 dudes and how do you stack up against them in 100 different categories, also she is probably sterile from all the promiscuous sex so you can rawdog her next time and catch 102 strains of hpv

>has sex with her without being in a relationship
>worries that she might sometimes have sex with guys she's not in a relationship with
thingken

you're probably best of looking for a virgin if you're that insecure/immature

NO!
do not let that guy anywhere near a virgin

So as soon as you get your rocks off you start looking for faults in the relationship you can use to justify leaving.

Either you have personal intimacy issues or you don't actually like her that much.

>should I be worried that she had condoms on hand like that?
yes.

>she's prepared to fuck guys like that.
that's exactly why

Now may I ask you why you're doubting yourself? Why, when you are able to observe reality, do you try to escape it?

>who cares if she fucks other guys
The guy who ends up marrying her. Her worth is significantly measured by her sexual behavior.

Men and women are not the same.

Umm. Having sex doesn't put you in a relationship

holy shit you're a fucking idiot
OP expressed that he's known this girl for a few years, even if it's not a bf/gf relationship it is still a relationship in the sense that it includes the relations between two people holy shit

Fair enough. I think under the assumption that everyone on Jow Forums is an incel and uses the term relationship in a very binary context

If a chick has condoms lying around in her apartment, it obviously means she's open to the possibility of fucking a random dude.

That being said, it's no immediate evidence of her being a total slut. I've always had a box of condoms in my drawer ever since i was 16 y/o and i've only slept with 3 girls.

I am a guy though. If it makes any difference.

I'm not looking for excuses not to be with her, but it did make me wonder if she's prepared for one night stands.

Yes she is.

Lol She lets every dude she fucks know she is a massive whore

Let's ignore the fact that preparedness in no way indicates the frequency with which such events happen - guys can keep the same box of condoms in their nightstand so long that they expire.

Instead, let's ask if you'd rather she wasn't prepared and was getting rawdogged.

There is this chick i'm hooking up with right now who has condoms in her drawer.

...Yet i'm still rawdogging her.

So even having condoms doesn't mean she's using them if she's getting banged.

So we can ascertain from this that the presence of condoms could mean anything from her having no sex to her having no sex, or even have nothing to do with how much sex she has.

Having no sex to her having lots of sex*