Been friends with a girl that I wanted to date We end up making out one night Things move to the bedroom She pulls out a condom from her drawer Have sex
In hindsight, should I be worried that she had condoms on hand like that? I know it's sensible but it makes me uncomfortable that she's prepared to fuck guys like that.
She’s most likely fucked a lot more guys than you’ve fucked girls if she has them on hand
Ayden Brooks
Are you dating her? Are you a couple? Then probably not, who cares if she fucks other guys just as much as who would care if you fucked lots of girls?
Jacob Cruz
What makes you say that?
Alexander Cruz
Jesus Christ dude. how the fuck are we to know? and assuming she has sex with lots of guys, what would be the issue here? you're using a condom and she seems to be smart enough to do so too, so you don't need to worry about catching anything. if she's had sex with lots of guys that means she'll probably be pretty good at it, so that if anything is an advantage. so what exactly could you be worried about? that you're not the chosen one because she's had sex with others before? grow up
Liam Hill
She's asked me where we go from here but I haven't really given her an answer. I think I would've respected her more if she was unprepared to have sex. She's had a couple of serious boyfriends but having condoms spare like that would imply she's prepared for casual sex
Samuel Myers
>should I be worried that girls enjoy having sex?
Grayson Lewis
I don't expect women to have condoms prepared like a goddamn whore. It suggests she's had one night stands, which if that's the case I want nothing to do with her romantically.
Grayson Reed
>it's ok when she has a one night stand with me but not other guys
Charles Anderson
I'm not some random guy she's just met in a club. We've been close for awhile now. I didn't sleep with her for the sake of it, I want to be with her.
Parker Morales
>When do we go from here
Well since you are a nasty used up slut I will use you like a toilet a few more times further degrading you then ghost your fat ass
Cooper Torres
sauce nigga
Adam Hall
Except you don't like the fact that she might not see sex as a sacred ritual like you
Isaiah Ward
I don't put any value in casual sex, no. I think it's cheap for women (and men) to bang anyone they don't have any intention of being with.
William Nguyen
If they aren't virgin they are useless for anything but bukkake
Colton Davis
>I don't put any value in casual sex user spur of the moment sex that you had is considered casual sex
Jaxon Allen
OP clearly thinks that because they've known each other for years that he's been building an intimate relationship with her. He sounds like a psychopath desu.
Dominic Fisher
How is that psychopathic? I'm not some random dude who just wanted to fuck her. I've known her for years and we're very close.
John Barnes
Look at it another way.
She's prepared because she doesn't want to get caught in a situation, unlikely or not, where sex is on the table but a condom isn't available. Perhaps she had a pregnancy scare with an old boyfriend. Maybe she liked you too and wanted to have some on hand in case you and her hit it off, seeing as having to stop and go buy a condom is kind of a mood killer.
If guys can carry a condom in their wallet, why not girls?
Luke Rogers
Because you're incredibly attached to a girl who saw you as a friend and fucked you one time
Gavin Anderson
>If guys can carry a condom in their wallet, why not girls? I've never ever carried a condom. I've only ever bought a pack if I was anticipating a good time.
Jack Gonzalez
Continuing with Did you even have a condom with you?
James Diaz
user.
She was anticipating a good time.
Grayson Lewis
Because women are valued on their purity and men on their wallet
Daniel Anderson
>If guys can carry a condom in their wallet, why not girls? Because there's still lots of guys who believe that chastity is a mark of shame for men but a commodity for women
Michael Ramirez
No, because I never anticipated it. We'd been flirting a lot for the past few weeks. She cooked for me, we watched a film, ended up fooling around. I wasn't expecting we'd have sex but one thing led to another and next thing she pulled out a condom for me.
David Fisher
Again. She anticipated a good time. This isn't to say she saw it as a foregone conclusion, but it's not like condoms go bad overnight.
If you insist on looking at women as the gatekeepers to sex, you should at least realize that they might plan ahead on these things.
Grayson Baker
Give up user. OP isn't looking for advice. He's looking for validation for his 50 year old mentality
Brayden Torres
if you were so adamantly against it, you'd just have said no complaining about her now is hypocrisy
John Lee
I wasn't against sleeping with her, as I've carried a torch for her for some time. It wasn't until the next day that I wondered about the implications of having a condom at the ready
Anthony Morales
It means nothing except she has fucked 100 dudes and how do you stack up against them in 100 different categories, also she is probably sterile from all the promiscuous sex so you can rawdog her next time and catch 102 strains of hpv
Kayden Gray
>has sex with her without being in a relationship >worries that she might sometimes have sex with guys she's not in a relationship with thingken
you're probably best of looking for a virgin if you're that insecure/immature
Blake Fisher
NO! do not let that guy anywhere near a virgin
Ryder Cooper
So as soon as you get your rocks off you start looking for faults in the relationship you can use to justify leaving.
Either you have personal intimacy issues or you don't actually like her that much.
Anthony White
>should I be worried that she had condoms on hand like that? yes.
>she's prepared to fuck guys like that. that's exactly why
Now may I ask you why you're doubting yourself? Why, when you are able to observe reality, do you try to escape it?
Elijah Green
>who cares if she fucks other guys The guy who ends up marrying her. Her worth is significantly measured by her sexual behavior.
Men and women are not the same.
Sebastian Edwards
Umm. Having sex doesn't put you in a relationship
Liam Sanders
holy shit you're a fucking idiot OP expressed that he's known this girl for a few years, even if it's not a bf/gf relationship it is still a relationship in the sense that it includes the relations between two people holy shit
Dominic Brown
Fair enough. I think under the assumption that everyone on Jow Forums is an incel and uses the term relationship in a very binary context
Ethan Rodriguez
If a chick has condoms lying around in her apartment, it obviously means she's open to the possibility of fucking a random dude.
That being said, it's no immediate evidence of her being a total slut. I've always had a box of condoms in my drawer ever since i was 16 y/o and i've only slept with 3 girls.
I am a guy though. If it makes any difference.
Samuel Torres
I'm not looking for excuses not to be with her, but it did make me wonder if she's prepared for one night stands.
Ian White
Yes she is.
Mason Clark
Lol She lets every dude she fucks know she is a massive whore
Jose Cruz
Let's ignore the fact that preparedness in no way indicates the frequency with which such events happen - guys can keep the same box of condoms in their nightstand so long that they expire.
Instead, let's ask if you'd rather she wasn't prepared and was getting rawdogged.
Gabriel Stewart
There is this chick i'm hooking up with right now who has condoms in her drawer.
...Yet i'm still rawdogging her.
So even having condoms doesn't mean she's using them if she's getting banged.
John Jones
So we can ascertain from this that the presence of condoms could mean anything from her having no sex to her having no sex, or even have nothing to do with how much sex she has.