Do women actually get horny and enjoy sex? Feels like only men chase sex

Do women actually get horny and enjoy sex? Feels like only men chase sex.

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Women want sex just as much as men, just not with ugly men like you

yes of course wtf

Sex does feel like a great hassle from a women's point of view when you could just masturbate and feel good if not sometimes better than with a guy.

Sex (with Chad) is really the only thing women enjoy.

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women want sex but not nearly as much as men do for obvious reasons

the fuck you think the entire female sex toy industry is for? they would not make vibrators for vaginas and toys specifically for female bodies just for show.

At the start of a relationship you both want sex as much as each other.

After a few months you want sex more than her.

After a few years she wants sex more than you.

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Makes me feel better that so many women let me play out my gf fantasies with them just because well endowed and good in bed.

Being female means
>zero education on how your own body works because your body is considered taboo
>being and feeling completely unequipped to talk about what you do or don't like
>being taught to see sexuality as a game of you playing goalie/defense/prey against aggressive/predatory men
>getting blamed if anything bad happens to you
>internalized disgust/anxiety/shame because your body is considered taboo
>lots of men don't care if you cum or not, there are still (still!) men that don't believe your orgasms actually exist
>internalizing the idea that you're a passive decorative object in sex; pleasure is for men, not you
>pregnancy risk
This environment creates sexual dysfunction. Level the playing field and see what happens.

And what can we do to revert this? I don't even have a gf but I'd expect her to tell me what she does and doesn't like in bed, and I don't care if she wants to bring toys or anything if she enjoys it more that way.

Women are punished and scorned for masturbating or being sexual, but the second she's in a marriage or relationship she's expected to flip a switch and turn into a sexual dynamo because men are just natural cheaters and shouldn't be expected to control themselves if she doesn't hold up her end of the bargain.

>orgasms

I swear to god, some women are so hard to make cum its ridiculous and most normal women are so tight its literally a nonstop struggle not to cum in the first minute. That struggle often only gets harder if she audibly enjoys it, or is active even when underneath. Then the smaller girls who just wanna get railed by big dudes for hours but don't realise they're the human version of death grip fapping.

It's not easy to make you guys orgasm, even when we try. Sometimes it takes multiple attempts and different approaches to figure out what works and doesn't work with you.

Bitch.

The best thing would be to tell her those exact things. Communication will make or break a relationship and its sex life. The next best is education. There are plenty of books and websites about sex written by women for women. I really enjoyed Emily Nagoski's books and blogging on the subject.

I know some women who crave sex more than most men do. The difference is they tend to not be as open about it as men, and you typically only see it when you’re someone they have their eyes on

Most women struggle to cum from penetration alone. You need to get rid of this idea that your cock is going to do the trick. Ask her what she likes, ask her to show you.

>getting blamed if anything bad happens to you
Can't see you taking any blame in your post

speaking on average a high libido woman is a regular man
i mean i'm sure there are some girls who have pretty high libido but the standard for men would easily be twice a day if life didn't get in the way

>reaching this hard
The long version:
If a man is wronged by a woman, he's encouraged to think of her as a bad person and that's that. When a woman is wronged by a man, she's peppered with accusations. She always puts out too early or too late, or should have recognized this sign or that, or should have been more authentic, or should have tried harder.

>level the playing field and see what happens

What happens is low IQ chad gets thousands of vaginas while 80% of men get labeled viloent female hating incel basement dwellers because of extreme hypergamy and then get blamed for not supporting female hypergamy.

You should try viewing the people around you as, you know, people, instead of trying to slot the world into shitty character classes. The world is not broken up into Fuckables and Unfuckables, or Sad Underdog Nerd versus Big Dumb Jocks. That's all your illusion. Stop taking your cues about how life works from teenage comedies and porn.

If my ex had her way, we’d be having sex for a minimum of three hours a day

81% of men on ok cupud were rated as being below average attractiveness. There is a direct correlation between attractiveness and perceiced quality of personality.

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OK cupid men are really ugly as fuck tho. Hot Chads everywhere in my school, the girls can't keep up

Attractiveness directly correlated with perceived quality of personality

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It's a virtuous circle (except for ugly incels). Good looking guys are seen as more pleasant and pleasant men start to be more physically attractive.

Take a look at the study on finnish men and women. Men are having less sex than ever around the world.

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I guess there are more men that are shut ins and hikkis than before. It's harder being a hermit than a NEET.

I should clarify in developed countries. Countries where women usually work and are allowed to be sluts without judgement.

But women aren't shut ins? Its obvious a small percentage of men are having most of the sex and many more women are having multiple sex partners than ever before.

Missing the forest for the trees. The problem remains social media.

Yes social media showing women that the average male should look like a male model and live like a king. Everyone photoshopping muscles and chad jawlines onto themselves. So women refuse to settle for anyone besides chad.

>Feels like only men chase sex.
What experience has lead to this conclusion.
One girl I was FWB with for a while was always the initiator she'd basically rape me some days to get me in the mood.
Also first gf in highschool had a tendency to stick my hand down her top and her pants.
In my experience girls ate as horny if not hornier than males.

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To be fair it's the same with women, the average woman is a fat ass not an Insta thot with fifteen surgeries

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Me too. You can call me a fag but I wasn't ready to have sex at first (feeling nervous) and my first gf nearly raped me the first time.

And those women are still having sex but men of equal attractiveness get noone.

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But for some reason ok cupid women aren't? Fucking lol.

>quoting from r*ddit

> finnish
Finland is the most promiscuous country in the world. Even if the men had a 50% drop in sexual activity, they'd still have an average on par with the US, which is already plenty degenerate.

Probably being late 20s - early 30s and a virgin I'd wager. Can you even imagine how different a life experience someone like that would have? It's not just that they haven't been getting laid, it's that they've never been intimate with anyone in their entire lives. Something so integral to the human experience and a natural process 99% of people go through as teenagers passed them by entirely and now they're "adults" with this entire section of life experience missing.

This. It's easy to not want sex when you know that you're probably not going to get an orgasm out of it because the guy is so keen to stick his dick. Make her cum during foreplay, maybe then she'll want it more.

This.
I'm a virgin at 27 and honestly I can't even consider myself an adult.

The depressing part is that even though I'm working on myself now, going to the gym + looking into new hobbies + trying to find a career, but I'll be at least 35 before I straighten myself out by which time all that's left of the dating pool will be single mothers which means no sex basically ever.

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>New Zealand
Where can I find this data about the US?

Women would rather a cheater chad than a loyal beta

I'm a guy and I don't enjoy sex

Maybe because da jooz fucked up while cutting your dick

every woman hides to everyone just how perverted she is

I don't have to imagine.

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Most women aren't attractive enough for it to be worth it

And attractive women are demanding which tires me out

They definitely don't chase after guys like me, you, or the vast majority of men. The top-tier breeding material does get actively hunted down. Such men can only physically satisfy so many women at once. Usually women "compromise" I.e. settle down with lesser men whom they aren't really attracted to and his worth is a function of his confidence, and social and material success.
They do enjoy sex from well endowed, virulent, and romantically passionate/dominant men. Anything less and she's bored but pretends to be pleased so her beta provider sticks around

that's shit hoes do, not women.
nigger

That's the same with men though

Guys might end up having sex with average women out of pure desperation as if they were using a fleshlight but after the act there's no feeling of satisfaction.

Proof?

Try men, faggot. You can just ask them to fuck you in the ass and leave.

Well, we're not talking about men, now are we? And, even if this were true, the expectation is always on men to do the hunting. There's nothing special about a man seeking sex. Op's point that I was mostly responding to was
>Feels like only men chase sex.

The short answer is yes and yes but I'm not horny all the time like a guy is nor is every decision I make focused only on having sex.

Like most teenagers I was horny a lot but also disappointed frequently when I did have sex. Horny level 10 and enjoy level 3.

So then there was a period I realized there really wasn't much enjoyment for me it was always about the guy so sex was just pleasing him if I wanted a bf. Horny level 5, enjoyment level 3.

Then I met this man and I felt tingly and didn't know what it was and every time I saw him it was more intense and I DESIRED him. Like WANTED him. Blah, blah, blah, I made love for the first time in my life and it was like the most intense feeling EVER in my life. I totally lost it and found my self thinking about his touch all day and when I heard his voice I was wet and trembled. Horny level 10, enjoy level 10, obsessed level 10.

Eww

>fucks the guy's best friend
Heh, nothing personal

>Do women actually get horny and enjoy sex?
Yes, are you retarded?
>Feels like only men chase sex.
Just cus a chick doesn't chase you doesn't mean she doesn't chase anyone.

This. She chases attractive men: not you, op.

what guys best friend, did you reply to the right post

The last guy. The guy "she" "wanted" and "desired." Ostensibly the one she "loved." Gotta make sure you tell a guy you love him before fucking his best friend

Hell yeah I'm always horny and ready for sex

Even though my guy was the one to initiate the actual sex first I was the one who asked him out and all that too

That is me and I have never had sex with the best friend or anyone else. You're fabricating a narrative.

I do not apologize for finding a man I desired and he didn't disappoint, actually grateful I did.

Maybe you will find that special someone too user.

No, it's good you like someone. That's what "my" girl told me a while ago. Before she fucked my best friend. That's all I'm saying. I'm glad you found love. But a great way to show love is to fuck your guy's best friend

You're crazy, sorry. She's also crazy

This, because attractive men and women are what I like.

Haha I'm the crazy one. Yep. Yup. I said, "go ahead, love, my buddy said he wants to fuck you." And she said, "k, bye, love you." And that was that and now we're happily married and I'm raising his kids because all three of us love each other haha funny how these things work out because I'm the crazy one.

Thanks cpt. Obvious

Just clarifying: I'm not crazy. She left me for him and that's that. Yeah, fucking a guy's best friend isn't a good way to show love. It fucked me up but I'm not crazy

Feminism and gynocentrism has raised women to objects of worship. There is no female oppression save for the weight of their own narcissism. You are not oppressed, you delusional ape. You are the agents of this satanic system with your constant victimization-empowerment charade. You are their useful idiots, with everything this system offers you to "liberate you" from your honor, sanity and chastity.

I have no pity for those who are not active in their own life. You have to take what you want, life isn't going to give you handouts because your not doing so well.
I spent 10years of my childhood relentlessly training martial arts, as such I had one of the best bodies in school most of my school life. It want because I was blessed it's because I put a decade worth of work into my passion while everyone else was doing childish things and goofing off and the results were there for everyone to see.
What have you achieved that your proud of? What have you worked for?

literally just do more foreplay fag

o hell yea we do.
the feminine sex is sooo good man, I've heard it actually feels like 2x better than guys, of course, we enjoy it. clitoral stimulation is wiiiild.

Why do you think there are so many sluts? To much surprise it's actually for more than just attention, it's for attention and dick.

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What do you think a slut is... retard

The one about women being taught to see sexuality as a game of goalie against men for being predatory is really the biggest culprit IMO

feminism and gynocentrism are different, user.

Facts:

1. Males are angry because they know women given the opportunity will drop them asap for much more attractive man.

2. Women will rather share a man instead of having a "low quality" guy (average) at her own disposal.

3. Marriage is a social contract that benefits the average male.

4. The average man is getting sex less often.

5. Women are manipulative.

6. The average male is resentful.

7. Girls don't want to get pregnant.

8. Woman do prefer tall men always.

9. Women use avoiding strategies.

10. The women brain is designed to look for the "best" genetic material available.

11. Women are raising the standard reaching an impossibility.

12. 80% of women are not worth to breed.

13. The most used strategy for males is to breed with many females as often as possible bc they don't get preggo.

Etc... Etc...


Females are designed to look for the "best" genetic material because they are the one who get the burden of pregnancy is instinct, but you are forgetting the fact that many times the best material is nothing about attractiveness, but the men who are the top at social hierarchy.

The most masculine, the boss, the rich, the smarter, the leader.

This is the difficult part because most guys lack these too.

They are;
Porn addict.
Masturbators.
Fags.
Dumb.
Depressed.
Drug addicts.
Alcoholics.
NEETs
Playing Fornite after 20 yo.


The good thing is that women decrease their value over time bc if they get preggo when old chance of having a miscarriage or a kid with down syndrome increase dramatically.

Men lack this problem but men have to increase their value in order to have sex and breed.

Men are not born men are built.
This is a natural strategy that worked for millions of years.

If you want to have a chance,

Join NoFap
Sell your PlayStation
Exercise
Get a Job

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Even through my PC screen, I can smell the mommy issues on this post

Ikr? This list is basically "I'm angry and mommy didn't love me or dad, and all men feel this way cus I do"

Yes.

This girl i'm hooking up with right now wants sex all the time when we're hanging out. After we've had sex multiple times in a row i seriously need to tell her that i want to go to sleep because i'm tired and my dick is starting to get sore.

So yes, most women enjoy sex just as much (if not more) as men do as long as you're atleast decent in the bedroom.

Lol Wat? I was saying the true, can you adress my reasoning from life experience and stop using ad-hominem arguments what I can deduct from it is that it makes you feel bad.

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Yeah, but they were all black women

Exercising and eating right won't fix the fact that 90% of men are below six feet tall and 98% of men are below 6'2. Exercising won't fix your face or your hairline or make your dick grow. Yet fat/old women are still able to get dicked down anytime they like. A small number of men are getting almost all of the sex and those men are not looking to settle down/have kids because getting hot sex is easy for them. Women going after the top men makes them get pump and dumped.

yeah women are whores lmao

Woke up super horny this morning, HB fucked me twice before work and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it, and wanting to suck his cock all fucking day. Women want sex. Especially when they are in love and attracted to their SO.

That's why you have to excel at something.

Don't feel bad, the average women live a mediocre life with an average brain trust me, to get laid all they need is to open their legs.

Don't isolated yourself because you will lose track of reality, the sense of proportion and be depressed.

Again most women live a mediocre life they crave a man to lead them they will die to find a man who they can trust to be and act as a man when things get rough they are full of anxiety they are ANXIETY incarnated you can't be an anxious faggot your job is to be a man.

Stop Masturbation.

Be a man of value of die.

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That third line is usually false. Men always want sex more than their significant other at all stages of the relationship. The culprit is testosterone.

They do seek out sex, but if they do it like menthen they are considered sluts(or at least that was in the past/present)

Then most women are sluts these days.

Yep,
I was a solid 4 in /soc/ after many changes 2 years after now I get 6 and 7 til now not a single 5 I interpret this as, "you are ok" apparently.

The changer was the day I realized Pornography addiction was my biggest problem till the point of considering fucking a trap bc easy sex (embarrassing), but now I can easily spend months without sex or Masturbation but one thing I realized is girls are looking for sex very often I was the incel buffoon that never realized about that, all they do is let the guy know they want it with plausible deniability and make him the initiator they make them self obvious.

For 16 years I was a porn addict and stopped I felt so angry about the whole thing all the time wasted bc I didn't know any better I lost interest in sex at least for me looking for it actively, time after some girls showed interest in me and acted friendly (most don't I think) but they all trust me because I don't have ulterior motives I literally don't care I can spend the rest of my life without sex some straight up asked me for sex I'm still not strong enough to turn them down if they are attractive one asked me for marriage and another one technically raped me.

TlDR girls are cock craving whores and there's nothing you can't do about it.

Women:
>I need you to make love to my entire body to make me cum
Also women:
>eww, why is your dick near my mouth?

Alright faggot we get it. You cry yourself to sleep often

Yeah, keep your dick away from my face. ewwwwww