Is Tinder a good place to find a guy date? if not, where can I? I am a female btw
Is Tinder a good place to find a guy date? if not, where can I? I am a female btw
Its not.
Attend social outdoor hobbies.
>Attend social outdoor hobbies.
And then? Sorry I'm social autist. I have no idea how to approach.
I understand. Your only goal is to spend time around other people in a casual non work, non school setting a few times a week. Everything else will perfectly fall into place. Its that simple.
You will get plenty of guys to choose from sp you'll surely find some sperg on it. Women on tinder do inherently better.
>I understand. Your only goal is to spend time around other people in a casual non work, non school setting a few times a week. Everything else will perfectly fall into place. Its that simple.
I would do but is it fine, that I am reluctant on approaching (because I'm shy) or will that make other people think of me negatively? And do you have an idea where I should go?
No, it's degenerate trash.
Women generally don't have to approach first, but Tinder (and online dating in general) will simply get you inundated with thirsty manwhores.
If you need to try a site, use Bumble, but like the other user said, meeting in person is far better, even for a sperg.
Depends on what you are looking for. Hookup, serious relationship?
I am looking for serious relationships.
Alright, thanks.
Not him, but nobody gives a shit if you're shy or apprehensive. For girls it can even be endearing. As long as you can actually communicate with people when the need arises (like if someone asks you if the building is open for the night, you won't just stare at them and mutter incomprehensibly), you won't be thought of in a negative way at all.
And obviously you should go somewhere that interests you. Be mindful of sausagefests like a D&D meetup, and don't do anything unsafe, but it's up to you.
Im saying that by forming relationships with other people in a non traditional setting such as work or school, these insecurities with not be an issue. Trust me on that.
Be creative, yoga class, tai qi, kayaking, swimming clubs, bird watching, sun set gazing...
Go with the sole intend to make friends and socialize.
Worth a try despite the naysayers here. You will also find guys looking for a relationship there, just ignore the ones who immediately try to talk sex.
Of course, I always respond when spoken to, but since I am shy with strangers I might seem quiet, wondering if that is a bad thing, because I have been approached one time before and I almost had nothing to say, he stared at me and walked away. I just felt ashamed. Ah, I love D&D, I cosplay and other things like playing video games. These are some of my interests. I am not sure where to go.
>Go with the sole intend to make friends and socialize.
I, indeed, need to start socializing better. Thank you
Alright, thank you
>since I am shy with strangers I might seem quiet, wondering if that is a bad thing
No, it's fine. A lot of shy girls give the 'deer in headlights' reaction when approached out of nowhere, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. If you didn't really know the guy who approached you, then he was either a degenerate who has asked out a ton of girls, or he was inexperienced and didn't know it was a bad idea. I know because I was the second guy, kek. Point being, I guarantee he beat himself up afterwards rather than think you were 'weird' or something.
Just to be practical, you could think of what to say in such a situation beforehand, but there's nothing wrong with the instincts you have.
I don't play D&D myself, but my guess would be that going there would be easiest for you out of the three interests you listed, since you can show some of your personality through the game.
Its a tool to meet new people. Dont judge the tool, judge the people and how they use it.
If you will go on date with a dude who pose without his tshirt on his profile and his second text is
>wanna smash?
Then dont cry that he just wanted to have one night stand sex with you and doesnt even own switch.
There are qtie nerd bfs on tinder as well. Just look at how they type and how their profile looks like. That alone can give you decent idea with whom you are matching with.
That's right it was a stranger whom I hadn't seen before, in any case, I guess it went both ways. I need to practice how to make conversations. etc. I have always been shy with strangers and i've been told that my sentences are short, which may be troublesome. Thank you
I hate useless pieces of shit like you, uwu owo I'm shy senpai, shut the fuck up bitch, talking is easy, listen if you are shy fine, but if you are also an useless trashbag then fuck you. Usually shy girls are also retarded low IQ autist spergs that can't function in real life, they are just incredibly stupid and retarded and their brains can't process logic. Let's say they see you carrying something really heavy, and your hands are busy, and you have to go through a door that is closed, the fucking bitch wont fucking open the door for you unless you ask her because she is too damn retarded and her cognitive abilities are that of a fucking 3 year old.
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Geez man calm down
High IQ attractive Slavic master race male here.
How people type is an excellent way to filter people, especially if you're looking for people who want to stand out. That being said, it's just ONE of the filters.
Being shy for women can be advantageous. From my perspective it indicates she'd be much less likely to cheat or have a penchant for going out, perhaps introverted - which suits my personality as I prefer to just stay in the room.
>high IQ attractive Slavic master race
Pic or didnt happen
I haven't taken pictures of myself yet. But I will in due future since I'm planning on creating media content and participate in social media in general.
Potentially also for the purposes of finding a woman.
>I am looking for serious relationships.
Would you be interested in marrying a stranger just for the lulz and see if it works?
i feel your pain.
you sound like a serial killer.
Yes it's a great place to find dates. It's rapidly emerging at the best way of finding dates.