Do you think she is going to ghost me?

Met a girl from online yesterday for drinks. We really hit it off and honestly I think she might be the one.

Wenger said goodbye I suggested going for a picnic on Saturday which she agreed. We hugged and she lingered and I think she wanted a kiss but I let the moment pass.

Anyway when she gets home I send her a message.

Next day she does not reposed so I try sending another message to restart convo.

Am I fucked? Did I just ruin it

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MAYBE
you shoulda kissed her

I think she already kinda ghosted you, from the looks of it.

See by the end of tonight

Why the fuck are you using emojis like an autist.

Kek

But I feel bad for op.

Why make plans with the guy if you’re planning to ghost him.

Next time just send her one message and wait for her to respond. Sending 3 texts in a row makes you look desperate imo

Move on to the next and don't mess up

But I really like her what can I do

if shes not responding theres nothing you can do. dont send any other texts. how much time passed between the first and last text you sent?

About 7 hours

bruh it's over
on to the next one

Okay but can someone just tell me why she would not just say she’s not interested.

We literally made plans yesterday and she was really keen as well.

I’m just very confused.

Yeah man you fucked it
Don't use emojis
Keep texts strictly for setting up dates
Don't text inbetween dates
On the date, keep cool and stoic
Do all the above and you will fair much better next time.

because they don't have the balls to say no directly

She's likely going out with some other dudes tonight or tomorrow and wants to see how it turns out.

Girls and even many guys are scared of conflict. Ghosting someone is considered “easier” than dealing with the potential backlash when they tell someone they’re not interested.

Because they can't. They'd rather let you down easy than risk some sort of confrontation.
Also making plans for the next date while you're still on your first is pretty beta. Next first date your on, don't bring up the next one until a few days after the first.

Just had a samey situation with a girl. She's not interested, move on a soon as possible

But I put so much effort into every date.

Like not only do I have to win over the shallow pictures, then I have to be witty and then if I’m lucky a date. Even then like now if it’s going really well and there is chemistry they still flake.

Like I have no more emotional energy left.

How do you keep doing it without losing your passion I don’t want to become some sort of robot.

Most of them don't reject guys directly, just deal with it. Also, she probably wasn't keen at all, you just imagined it because you lack experience.

>put so much effort into every date.
If you're putting too much effort, it becomes clingy and off-putting. A date should be a relaxed get-together.

then lose the passion and just meet them for the sake of meeting them

I'm sorry op I really feel your pain. This is why I have up online dating.

After turning 30, a (female) friend of mine due to a mix of biological clock ticking, peer/parents pressure and desire to meet her soulmate, decided she was fed up with being single and prioritized dating over basically everything else. With meticulous preparation (she even kept a spreadsheet) and hours of daily swiping on Tinder, she was able to date 90 guys in 90 days. As her friends, we were amazed at her mental strength and perseverance. After 90 days she was still single, completely exhausted by the continuous disappointment and since then — 2 years later — she has not dated anybody.

You are very similar to me in the way you are describing yourself. My advice is focus on other things and don't obsess too much on girls. Also I like to be very direct and ask - why do you act like this, but if she doesn't respond she's just not interest. The girls I had a stable relationship with I found them by accident and without playing games. Everyone has faults but not every person is able to forgive your kind of faults

Not OP, but i have a female friend in mid 20s, she's 9/10 and is obsessed with finding a guy. She sometimes add up to a 100 guys on Instagram in a single day. Goes to doctor visits just to hit on doctors. Made several dating site profiles, Tinder and stalks guys in libraries. She's still single. The looks draw tons of guys in, but she's just too crazy for anyone to handle.

Some people just don't have the luck.

wow this is depressing to read
>don't be upbeat
>don't use emojis
>don't plan next date
basically just robot your way into pussy

So she doesn't get killed or beaten by the incel op

Cope.
No one is good enough for princess stacy.

honeslty this make my blood boil

we as a society of men have let women become literal cock carousel riders

my parents by the age of 25 were married and had me already.

I have such pain for our generation. There is countless young men out there who will never experience young love.

Yet these men will have to settle for these fucking roasties when they settle down.

1. if she thinks you look good you could be childishly autistic and she will still want to fuck
2. bitches love smiley faces
3. If the hardass thing works for you, it works for you but it's not the thing bitches are attracted to, refer to #1

Just don't send her another message for a few days. If she hasn't hit you up in three or four days, send one single text that reads "what's up?" She will either respond to that or she wont. Don't expect any sort of direct timeline to her responding to it, either. might take a minute, might take some hours, might take a couple of days. If that text hasn't illicited a response after 3 days, then move on. She's either lost interest of doesn't have the time for you, even if she is interested. But don't give up yet, just don't overdo it by sending another message so soon.

go to youtube coach corey and you will learn a lot

>Next day she does not reposed so I try sending another message to restart convo

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I just watched it and he said you should always go for kiss on first date

Fuck the only reason I hesitated was because we set up a plan for second date.

That's bullshit, you can't possibly think that if you are living the moment

Don't do this. Corey is purple pilled. Instead watch Mindful Attraction

oh and AMS

Manchester?

Dude the way you write her sounds so fucking stupid.. are 50 or just a incel freak?

If you ever were successful with women you'd know how intimidating it can be straight up rejecting someone. Cucks like you always use the line
>well why didnt she just tell me she doesn't want to see me?
But the second a girl does tell you that you chimp out and become stalkers or by the off chance that you actually do find a girl that is into you but one you feel is beneath you're such a coward you wouldn't even practice what you preach and end up ghosting her, I can guarantee it.

>she's just too crazy for anyone to handle.
>Some people just don't have the luck.
You realize these two statements are contradictory don't you?
If you can't find anyone despite being above average looking it's entirely your fault you're alone because it's an issue with your personality which is one of the easiest things to fix.

kek

first date I actaully touched her knee under the table while in public, man you could see the reaction she had on face, didnt know what to do all embarrassed but I did went for kiss on the first date and she got scared and giggled with her face into the grown and was mumbling something, at first i thought it was rejection but later kissed her neck on the third date, she still didnt wanna kiss me on lips

so I distanced myself a bit , and last week she ran into me and she literally asked me to ask her out again

dont know if im dealing with a extremely shy or immature girl, but yea you have to show youre not scared to go for it

if she asked you to ask her out, then she's very interested. Just go out somewhere quiet maybe a park or a place with few people, then she might feel more comfortable to kiss or have some intimacy

you over pursued by texting her the next day. ALWAYS remain mysterious