Im not looking for validation on why I should accept it
We want kids but fuck we in a bad financial spot
But when we have a pregnancy scare some stupid shit part of my brain starts imagining this fairytale where we start a happy.family
Please remind me of realities of children
I dont want people that hate them, because I love them (kindergarten teacher) , just viewpoints on WHY ITS BEST TO WAIT
Like fuck
I hear them crying and my first thought it
Oh no :(( poor baby is distress. Need sleep, or food, or is.scare
Poor.baby :((
If you have kids when you're not financially stable, the kids might suffer
Whats a good milestone you think
Also that advice is NEARLY /thread level
But also, with enough patience, love and self control it could be good, right?
Growing up I had money, but no love so Im Biased
Please unbias me
Gibe babies ;-;
Im only 18, so dont take me too seriously haha. I have very little knowledge of the real world. But i think if you can cover basic needs like food and education its a good time to have a baby? But you should make sure you give the baby enough time and not give all the time to your job. (You and the father both)
stupid fucking natalist scum
HOW DO YOU FIGHT BIOLOGY
Im chroically ill, and too sick to work, so my life to my husband and kids
Bf has a good job and loves being manly man contributer
Thanks anyway
The way you type makes me think you're a nigress.
Have some empathy to not bring a child into the world that will inevitably suffer. You know they will suffer no matter what so why don't you avoid that? They might know pleasure but they will know suffering without a doubt. If they're never born they will avoid this inevitable suffering.
don't be another braindead drone like 99% of people.
why would you want to have kids when you're chronically sick?
Yeah no, not remotely
If its spelling or punctuation, Im on my phone and its hard to type
>waiting for financial stability before you have sex and babies
And this is the reason why we are all getting replaced by africans.
So..
You're saying to adopt?
Im cool with that too
they bring me a joy I cannot describe
Again, kindergarten teacher (from before I got sick, at least)
Actually, theres evidence to show populations globally are chilling out
What sickness do you have?
A lot of autoimmune shit, why?
yes. if you want children then adpot
>hurr muh eugenics
actually autistic
I was wondering if it was genetic. Your children could be in danger then.
Yeah
T1 diabetes (autoimmune) is the.bane of my life
I was convinced Id never have.kids because
A. Hard on my body and
B. Its genetic
Then every guy ever said he loves me and it doesnt matter and itd be fucked to decline myself something I want so much
So
Yah
Idk
lol you're so emotionally driven that it's not even biology anymore
just have them, idiot
Bad timing tho
I do not want to hurt myself or them.because timing