25 and never had a gf here, I just broke down weeping out of nowhere...

25 and never had a gf here, I just broke down weeping out of nowhere, all the stress and loneliness got to me all at once I guess.
I just don't know why I'm so unlovable, I'm always kind and warm to people and I think I'm a sensitive guy, I've never blamed anyone else for my social failures.
How do you guys cope with these feelings?

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Instead of coping you should make an actual effort into getting a girlfriend. How many women have you asked out this year?

only 1

>I just broke down weeping out of nowhere, all the stress and loneliness
Feel yourself hugged fren. I am also 25 yo and never had a gf. Had sex though and loved the girl. But we lived like 3 flight hours away and I thought I could find someone like here at home as well.
To cut it short: I fucked it up myself she wanted a relationship.
But knowing what you miss out on and how nice it is to have someone who loves you and who you love back is even worse than never experiencing it. Trust me!
I also broke down several times the last few months. I also get always rejected here. And things got even worse.
What I can recommend you: Try to cope with something you're interested in, and what brings value. Not some gay videogame shit. Learn coding or so, and improve yourself. Stuff you can make money with.

>How many women have you asked out this year?
Also this!
And your answer is only 1???
Fuck off you god damn son of a bitch. Go and fucking neck yourself you god damn nigger. I approached more than a dozen girls per night, at my best times. That should give you an idea of how big of an autistic loser you are. Holy fuck. Grow up you manchild

>tfw when you were 16 you tried things like simple pickup and got rejected over 9000 times

Well then get back out there.

Nobody gives a fuck about a 16 yo idiot trying to be cool with some loser PickUp shit. Fucking autist.

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Try harder.

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You probably dont do enough, are fat/unbathed, have poor social skills, and or are just naturally ugly.

All of the above are fixable with enough time and in one case money.

I plan on trying again this week with a grill I'm curious about at work
how do I not get too emotionally wrecked if I fail?

I'm actually fit, I've been hitting the gym hard for about 6-7 months now and I don't think I'm ugly, I definitely have poor social skills though yeah

>how do I not get too emotionally wrecked if I fail?
Don't take rejections personally. Try it more often. Get rejected more often. You are a winner just because you approach. Look at all those losers who are afraid to even talk to girls.
YOU ARE A WINNER AS LONG AS YOU APPROACH. No matter what the bitch says!
And a second advice: Don't suddenly go and start rage approaching like I did.
It could fuck you up if you're not prepared. And after 3 months of that shit you will be broken, once you don't get the results you want

27 in the same boat. I'm going to try my luck in Asia, but if I still fail, I'll just give up on women altogether.

Was going to recommemd this. My wife is chinese - filipina, if you are white tyere is someone in SEA that will marry you. Philippines is easy mode

>but if I still fail,
If you fail to get laid in Asia, then you don't even have to come back. The best would be to kill yourself down there. Autistic fucks. Get some help

I'm a 2/10 ugly male ginger. My chances aren't good but I'm going to try anyways. Wish me luck lads.

Hit the gym and get a good bod going
Or you know just hire some Asian escorts

loser

Literally doesnt matter. Everyday i see bald fat U G L Y guys with at least 6s

Where the fuck do you live?

Good kuck lad, and do what said. Hit the gym! You can't be a 2/10 with at least a decent body.

i really just want you to understand there is so much more to life than women and social fucking whatever. "i'm 25 and never had girlfriend i'm fucked." your problem isn't that youve never had a girlfriend. your problem is that youre ashamed of who you are. no womans going to fix that. You have to love and respect yourself. And moping about never touching a vagina isnt exactly self respect. Start improving yourself because you clearly dont like what you see. deal with any childhood issues, start kicking your vices. Do this shit because you respect yourself. Forget about women. Not in some bitter "i hate women" incel way. Forget about women with the understanding "are women really what i need" "is a woman really going to make me feel like less of a piece of shit." when your vulnerable like you are, a woman will do exactly that. Give you purpose, make you feel alive. its temporary and fake. You could however cultivate real self confidence, do things to make you proud. Do whatever it is you know you need to do. You're not unlovable youre just putting your self worth in the hands of other people and becoming distraught about it. because at your core you're ashamed. No womans going to fix you. no amount of friends, or approval, or whatever. You can however fix yourself and flourish if you simply listen to your heart and do what it is you know you should do. Everyday, the ride never stops.

do you even try?

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Not as much as I should no

Why do I need to make this elephantine effort where other people with far less to offer get by without expending any energy at all?

For that matter, how much improvement is enough to be worthy of normal human interaction? Why am I so far behind?

I dont want to ask random girls out. Thats lame. I want to get to know someone. I am never motivated to ask someone on based on just their appearence. Just not wired that way

For me it was anxiety blocking me from connecting with people, is that what it is with you?
People with social anxiety have to put in A LOT more effort than most

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