People staring at my GF's chest

Good for you, so strangers do not star at your gf anymore. If you want to swim with here you have to deal with it. Speak to them that they should stop or deal with it.

It's probably a blogpost but this reminded me of something that happend to me this year.
It happens to me to stare at people (not woman in particular, but people in general, and not their boobs of all places) pretty frequently, probably because I'm autistic.
Men usually don't really care, but I've noticed that woman are pretty sensitive about it, even if you're just looking in their direction, they can sense pretty well when you're paying attention to them.

Anyway this year in my computer class there was this asian girl, one day I wasn't looking at her in particular but at the front of the classroom but as i'm pretty strange I think made her uneasy so her boyfriend started fixing me, at first I was intimidated so I only looked at my deskop to make myself disapear. The thing is after that they started paying more and more attention to me, I think for a time they even made fun of me for how weird I was.

Finally at the end of the semester there was two final exams, in the first one I noticed that she was in front of me, so I did everything not to see her but she probably noticed it and then told it to her boyfriend.
Last exam that came after the guy started following me, I think to pressure me or something (he probably thought I was in love with her even though I didn't give a shit about her). I was so pissed that I started following him back and staring at him, I think he understood how pissed I was because he stopped (he at least seem to understand from his face but as I said it was final exam so last time we saw each other).

>Two autists misunderstand each and never try to communicate: The Post

Stop demonizing male sexuality

When you go to a pool or beach everyone stares at everyone. Even you and your gf stared at the old mens beer bellys. People take their clothes off and there is scrutiny.

If your gf becomes uncomfortable just put on a T Shirt

She needs to build confidence, and you need to learn to be a fucking man and show her off when some dudes stare instead of insecurely shying away.

Did she get tit-shamed by flat chested bitches or something? I haven't been ashamed of my C cups since I was 14.

>staring is not okay at all, especially people in there 50s.
hate to break the news to ya,
but yeah it is

y'know whats not ok at all?
policing other's thoughts

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Seems insecure to care that strangers can see your skin.
Seems more insecure to care that strangers can see the skin of someone that isn't even you.

And it's not okay to have your girlfriend sexually assault people by wearing immodest clothing

Every year beginning in March I start dieting and exercising getting ready for bikini weather. Finding the right bikini each year is always fretful and have to admit the first time out I'm a bit self-conscious but get used to it and pay men no mind.

I imagine had OP not made such a big fuss his gf would have ignored them too. OP will tell her not to wear a swim suit or even go to the pool anymore if he hasn't already.

Hey OP, I have to get a bikini wax during summer does your gf as well?

Actually I did not mentioned it first to her, she saw the dudes herself
>OP will tell her not to wear a swim suit or even go to the pool anymore if he hasn't already
No I'll never say that. I just hope it doesn't scare her to show herself dressed in swimsuit.

>the lifeguards were watching us
That's their job, to watch after you

You're not wrong, there's an insecurity problem somewhere I believe. She just lost some weight, and It's been years since the last time she went to the pool
And yes I care when "someone" I love feels unconfortable.

She told me every time she looked at the two lifeguards, right above us on a plateform, they were looking at her
At first she thought she did something wrong, but when the old men came in later it was just to much stares to handle
Also we were the only young couple around that morning, didn't help

They are all porn-addicted and disconnected from tribal society. That is, if you shared a small, close-knit community with them, you would never consider eye-raping anyone because you'd have to deal with the consequences. These tit-starers don't have any consequences so why not stare?

>Realize you're in a place full of creepy people who are making you and your gf uncomfortable
>Leave and go do something else
You've got this pretty much figured it out on your own man. You already did exactly what sane and well-adjusted adults do.

The only other step you could take would be to talk to management at a place and raise your concern about the creeping. It's not like managers and business owners *want* creepy weirdos to set up shop at their spot and drive away customers - odds are they'll really appreciate the heads up. But if that doesn't help, always default to just leaving and finding something else to do. It's recreation - life is too short to hang around places where creepy people make you feel uncomfortable.

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holy shit.
this thread is so full of idiots.
The only thing OP should do is just isolate themselves in their house if they can't fit into society.
It's useless if you fight them or report to management.
There's still plenty of men that will do the same outside.
if you wear something that expose your breast, then you agreed to let others to stare at it.
Wear a burka if you are so unhappy about people staring.
Fucking retards.

There's a reason there were bathing suit measuring police in the 1910s. Your girlfriend is going around, nearly nude in a sex-deprived society, showing off her big jugs in a skimpy bra bouncing around. You're lucky Tyrone and co. didn't abduct her

Openly oggling a stranger's tits is creepy and rude. It's always been rude. Every adult knows this. You need to be 18 or older to post here. Leave.

>sex-deprived society
You live in Saudi Arabia?

everyone from babies to women like boobs and will stare when they move it was a dick move to keep stareing however
just hug her or stand beside her next time

you live under a rock?ifstudies.org/blog/number-3-in-2018-male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim

porno is not sex

Why are you posting an incel blog that pretends to be a study? Just because you are too dumb to figure out how to get sex doesn't mean the rest of men can't. Sexlessness is rising in both men and women because they just don't feel like bothering. It is literally the easiest time in history to get sex.

Buddy it's a government study. washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/
You really do live under arock

You really are an incel cultist. What you posted first was an incel blog, not a government study. Then you posted a different link where it shows both men and women are having less sex.

theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/nov/21/millennials-sex-stressed-young-people-worry

Here, have some easy to read deprogramming that will hopefully undo some of the indoctrination you've had from the evil death cult known as incels.

Well, if her chest is one of the best she is gonna get looks from the rest.

There are only two ways to handle this really
1)you and you gf have to accept there will be people looking, you can not control a strangers actions they are going to stare. Accept this and do not let it bother you. Just be careful of people who approach and try to touch.
2)throw something over them, like a top that doesn't show cleavage or a over sized t shirt. It may not stop it completely but it gets less attention that way.

Since we like throwing out words, you're an incel.

When will we ban the word incel?
There is no point on this site where this buzzword has ever brought anything of value to a discussion, it just gets thrown arround as an insult by retards.

It seems more practical to resolve your insecurities than to ask everyone else not to trigger them.

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It's used to identify them. Of course incels hate it and try to dilute it by calling everyone and everything an incel.

Stare back like you do. If they don’t look away,
>hey man, how’s it going?
If they’re not a sport they’ll detect the micro aggression, but sometimes that’s all it takes to avert ones attention.
If they keeps staring, ask what’s wrong with them. If you gotta fight you gotta fight but your gf is begging you not to then don’t. Just don’t throw the first hit.