Am I a creep/asshole if I date my ex-girlfriend's little sister?
My girlfriend and I broke up pretty recently after a very long relationship. The reason we broke up is she told me that she cheated on me a couple years ago during college. We went to separate colleges and we just trusted each other to not cheat. We met in high school when we were 14 and immediately fell in love and dated until recently at age 24. We were actually engaged and going to be married on our 10th anniversary together but I guess that's not happening anymore. All things considered, our breakup was pretty amicable. We didn't fight or anything, it was just a really sad and heartbreaking breakup. She came clean to me before we got married so I can't hate her, I'm just disappointed.
I've found myself talking to her sister a lot lately. Her sister and I have always been on really good terms. We've known each other for 10 years, and I've considered her my little sister. She was on my side when I broke up with her sister and was ultra supportive of me. She told me today that she's actually had feelings for me for a long time but always kept it to herself. She told me she wants to date me if I'm up for it.
I really like her sister, she's really pretty and she's sweet. But I met her sister when she was 8 years old and for me, she's always been like a little sister to me. So its going to seem like I've been scoping her out this whole time if I choose to date her. I have not of course but its definitely going to come across that way.
Plus more importantly, my ex. She's going to think I'm doing this to get back at her or something and its going to hurt her. I don't want to hurt her man, I still have feelings for her even though she did what she did. But at the same time, is it worth throwing away with a relationship with a really pretty girl who likes me and who I've known for a long time because my ex might not like it? I'm very conflicted.
>Am I a creep/asshole if I date my ex-girlfriend's little sister? > I met her sister when she was 8 years old Jesus Christ, yes Find someone else
Camden Clark
Nope. Your girlfriend doesn't deserve any consideration. Don't be a dick about it though, don't even talk to your ex-gf anymore. Just do your own thing and if she doesn't like it then too bad.
If you don't fuck her sister, marry her sister, and have babies with her sister, then you're not a man.
Jack Turner
In my opinion, the rupture was amicable, and the family knows you well enough that you did not plan this beforehand.
The sister seems an incredible nice girl, if you can move past that "little sister" thing then go for it. She looks like a nice girl.
Hudson Long
Well as long as the younger sister is over 18 I don't see anything wrong with it. I knew a girl who dated a 25 year old then dated her 18 year old brother. It's obviously weird to some degree but it's something you could probably get over quickly.
Jaxson Taylor
>Am I a creep/asshole if I date my ex-girlfriend's little sister? No, especially since she's the one who approached you and you weren't the one who wrecked your and her sister's relationship. Go for it breh
It's going to ruin the relationship between your ex's little sister and your ex. Do you honestly want to do this to their family? Also, yes, it's kind of creepy and feels like grooming.
Anthony Phillips
Honestly I would say no. She came to you about it and the break up with her sister was amicable. It’s only going to be weird if the family isn’t cool with it, but it’s worth a shot at least. Can’t say you didn’t give it a try then
Elijah Watson
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Grayson Diaz
It's always funny seeing someone try to rationalize and talk themselves into a situation that they know is awful.
Charles Hall
Do you think you're clever for making posts like these?
Jace Torres
t. redditurd OP doesn't owe his ex shit. If his ex's little sister wants a shot at OP and OP finds her attractive, he should go for it.
Jaxson Clark
Do it.
It's no one's business except you guys.
You clearly enjoy each others company.
Jacob Miller
Yeah don't do it. It won't end well, especially in the long run. Think about how this will make you look and how it would reflect on the family, even if you successfully get into a relationship with her. It won't be good. You need to think about your future, user. Don't think with your dick.
David Russell
there are other chicks out there man going out with the little sister is just scummy
Connor Wright
It's not about saving his ex's feelings. It's about not tearing her family apart. If my sister ended up with the guy I dated for 10 years, I'd stop talking to her all together. Especially if I knew she had a crush on him all along and waited around to go for him. Ultimately it would create a really complicate situation at home and break our family apart. Which is unfair for everyone, including the little sister. Also if my daughter ended up with the a man 6 years older than her who behaved like her older brother for 10 years, since she was a little kid, I'd be very, very against it.
I can't understand why in this situation you think the only important thing is to get his dick wet. He probably can get it wet elsewhere.
Chase Roberts
There's just one problem with your retarded scenario: OP's ex cheated on him and that's what led to the end of the relationship. There was no "growing apart" and neither did the little sister muscle into the relationshp. Big sister fucked up the relationship on her own and led to the break-up. Even if Big sister gets upset, she'll be told to grow up and keep her legs closed next time she's got a man.
Jeremiah Stewart
Yeah, and it doesn't change anything. Her ex of 10 years is still her ex of 10 years. The girl's parents will never go against their daughter: my ex cheated on me and his parents still think I'm a cunt for breaking up with him after 10 years. If the little sister says anything like that to the big sister they will probably end up beating each other. The relationship between OP and little sister will still be seen negatively by the parents, hated by the older sister and probably considered creepy by anyone around them. And this will impact the girl's life negatively because she will end up losing her family support if she sticks to the relationship, and possibly a lot of her friends too. Plus, it's a kind of unhealthy relationship due to the difference in age and the fact the was an almost family figure for most of her life.
If OP cares at all about the girl, he should move out of her life and find someone else to fuck.
Kevin Roberts
Don't stop at the sister go for the mom too. You will achieve God status.
Justin Wilson
all three at once, obviously
Kevin Kelly
>and it doesn't change anything. Except it changes everything. >The girl's parents will never go against their daughter Their older daughter has no grounds to has no grounds to object over anything seeing as how she cheated, she ended the relationship. >The relationship between OP and little sister will still be seen negatively by the parents No it won't >hated by the older sister She's the one who cheated, her ex owes her nothing. >and probably considered creepy by anyone around them No it won't. >And this will impact the girl's life negatively because she will end up losing her family support Maybe she'll grow apart from her older sister until she grows up and/or someone cheats on her and she gets to see what OP went through and why no one cared that he gave her little sister a shot after she cheated and blew up their relationship. >and possibly a lot of her friends too. No they wont.
Once again: OP doesn't owe shit to his ex and if little sister wants a shot at him and he finds her attractive he should give her a shot. His Ex blew it, everyone knows it, no one will care.
Jayden Martinez
>Their older daughter has no grounds to She was with him for 10 years. She clearly is attached to him emotionally. Her little sister not caring about her feelings for him and going for it will hurt her, it will make her feel like she cares about him more than about her, and it will fuck up family dynamics. This isn't court, she doesn't need "grounds to object". It's emotions 101.
>No it won't Yes, it will be. Your daughter going out with a man 6 years older than her, who has known her since she was 8 and was almost a family member is not something most parents would be happy about.
Your whole "cheating thing" is not the reality of things. Most people IRL will side with the older sister. I'd never even sleep with with any of my man I've met because they were dating a friend, much less my sister's ex fiance. I care about my friend's feelings, even if they fuck up. Most people are like me, not like you.
Henry Sanders
Lol this is pretty fucked up. She's obviously 18 or whatever and interested so in that sense go for it. But this will be a huge shit storm for you so enjoy that.
Dominic Clark
Imagine not being happy in life because you're afraid of what a roastie who cheated on you multiple times behind your back might think. Do. It.
>she cheated on me a couple years ago no youre fine dawg go for it
Jaxson Morales
That is pretty fucked up and EVERYONE will look down on you for doing this. If you are fine with moving in a year or two, then it is fine. But she isn't just your ex girlfriend in a version that didn't cheat on you.
Asher Sullivan
>She was with him for 10 years. She clearly is attached to him emotionally. And yet she cheated, such attachment, such care!
Jose Collins
he defended himself from her mind control drugs now his anus can finally be at peace
Noah Allen
Tell her to "wait until about two months after the breakup, at least so it doesn't seem like I'm doing this to be spiteful." Then proceed as normal. It's not your fault that your ex cheated, you're just moving on. You parted amicably. The fact that it's her sister is of no consequence, you're just trying to find love and be happy. If your ex is a decent person otherwise, she wants both her sister and you to be happy. She probably won't be overjoyed about it, especially at first, but that's life. You can't please everyone. On the bright side, you've already met the parents, so that's out of the way.
Sebastian Ross
Smash but do it carefully
Benjamin Lewis
Cheating doesn't mean you don't care about the other person at all. Relationships are more complicated than you think.
Levi Kelly
Don't take out your anger and hurt on the sister. You don't love her and your break up is still raw. In fact the best for you is to not date anyone right now.
Best you move on and stay away from the family.
Wyatt Lewis
>Cheating doesn't mean you don't care about the other person at all That's exactly what it means.
Matthew Rivera
I’m with you bro. Keep fighting with this idiot. In the real world and not an incel ridden image board what op is talking about is actually a pretty normal thing.
Even though he met her when she was 8 OP was only 14 and now they are both consenting adults. The ex dug her own grave in this scenario and if op and the sister are really great together I think they should give it a shot.
Cameron Hill
No, make sure to have violent loud sex hitting the wall violently when she's around
Jack Foster
Do it OP ! Fuck your Ex she fucked up big Time and both you and your Ex's Sister are both adults just try it out you will maybe find another love . Your Ex you didnt give a fuck while fucking another dude . Do it for your own sake . You would be a fool not to.
Hunter Russell
What would be aweful about this ? Seems like a win win Situation Dont Listen to those people OP .
Caleb Bailey
>but she cheated! That's not the point, you idiots. The little sister can and will suffer out of this.
Lucas Baker
Nah, you’re fine. It’s gonna stir some drama, but your ex wronged you, so fuck it. Sister is good to go
Adam Bennett
You assume this sister is a incapable of choices and responsibilities. You kinda suck.
Gavin Clark
No idea were you got that from, but it's completely wrong.
Lucas Bennett
Then why defend the sister? No, actually never mind. You’re too dumb.
Connor Wood
imprego the sister
Charles Stewart
It's not my fault you have zero reading comprehension, user.
Evan Martinez
Go for it. Don't miss this chance.
Sebastian Rivera
Be sure to update us!
Charles Ross
Don't hinder your own happiness over an ex that cheated on you. The little sister could very well be wife material. Just don't rub it under your ex' nose and let it seem spiteful.
Godspeed, user.
Jace Flores
If you decide to date her, you need to be serious about it and you need to take it slow to show her family you're not just trying to fuck all the women in the family. Then after a while and if you guys are falling for each other, talk to her parents about it with her, might be uneasy, but it will be better in the long run to be straight forward.
Samuel Rodriguez
No, go for it
Angel Rogers
sisters are fair game and she already fucked up her ties to family by cheating. >i don't want to hurt her she didn't care about hurting you. you don't owe her any respect and you shouldn't protect her feelings
Adrian Johnson
This, but with the condition that she talks to her family about it first.
In my opinion, your relationship should be between you and your s/o. The opinions of others shouldn't be something you care about. Having said that, even if you aren't caring about other opinions, you should still care about others feelings. Specifically her family.
Wyatt Gray
>she cheated on me
why would you care about her feelings at all? You're not creepy and not an asshole especially to someone who cheated on you
Josiah Phillips
Not only should you fuck her sister, but you should make it clear to her that you are cumming inside her every night.
Chase Jenkins
Op I say go for it. If she doesn't like it then that's too bad you both are consenting adults and are allowed to be with whoever you want.
Plus she cheated on you anyway and lead you on for years so she definetly deserves karma whether it is from you or someone else.
Heres a quick guide: Do you love her? ' ' ' ' ' ' Yes No -------------dont date ' ' ' Does she loves you? ' ' ' ' ' ' ' Yes. No --------------- dont date ' ' ' Is she legal? ' ' ' ' ' ' ' ' no ----------- dont date ' ' Yes ------------ go for it
Jeremiah Roberts
go for it the older one was broken goods this one picture perfect you're a moron if you let it go
FUCK REDDITCELS
Juan Garcia
cuck Do it. Have you never wondered what pounding that imuoto pussy would be like? You're basically getting a free ride to an experience most guys can only ever dream of. If it works, cool, if it doesn't, whatever - unless you're scoping a yet unmentioned third sister for future use.
Carter Rodriguez
>Do you love her? what a retarded condition
Why do redditfags insist on using a term as ambiguous and ill-defined as this? You can't "love" someone you have only just started dating the same way you "love" someone you've been with for a long time. They're completely different sets of physiological emotions.
Julian Hughes
It's not creepy and it doesn't make you an asshole. Objectively speaking ,there is nothing wrong with pursuing the sister of your ex.
But obviously, you can bet your ass that if you do end up dating her sister, your ex will no doubt do anything she can to interfere in your relationship. Sabotage it in some way, shape or form. Your ex will probably not approve of this and she will try to screw you guys over.
Dominic Davis
The obvious solution is to use the ex's frustration to make her part of your harem.
Justin Martinez
Based on all counts. Nothing wrong with a younger, fertile, and loyal version of your ex.
Isaac Moore
It’s a younger, hotter version of your ex, go for it
Easton Young
Yes, but does that matter to you?
Luke Russell
What does that even mean?
Jeremiah Adams
>Do you love her? Do you often love people you have never dated before? If you have, that's kind of weird and creepy.
Jaxon Thomas
Yeah but it'd make a hell of a story, go for it user, some opportunities are once in a lifetime.
Nolan Rogers
Best option: have her talk about it with her family if all hell breaks loose don’t go for it. If everyone but the ex is fine with it then I say go for it. Your ex cheated so she has no right to be jealous in the first place. If you treat the sister right and avoid contact with the ex it’ll probably go smoothly.
Angel Jenkins
Pump, lead her on until the family gets to know about you two, then dump, lay back, grab some popcorn, watch the drama.
Nathan Wood
OP claimed to have known her for 10 years. He should know if he loves her by now. If you need to stick a dick in someone to know if you love them, you are the weird one.
William Morgan
>grooming in this case, would look too much like grooming, I would back off. it’s what it seems like, not what it actually is. nobody will ever believe you didn’t groom her.
Robert Edwards
She was 12 when you were 18. Yes it would be suspicious.
Daniel Gutierrez
Why bring that example up? It's not like he's dating her at 12, you absolute fucking retard. Go kill yourself.
Noah Robinson
>She told me today that she's actually had feelings for me for a long time but always kept it to herself. She told me she wants to date me if I'm up for it. YES YES YESS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MORON YESSS DO IT. You can’t pass up something this good because you’re worried that the person who cheated on you will take it the wrong way and you shouldn’t be concerned how everybody else sees it. You have a great opportunity, a young girl who fancies you and this could be the start of a great healthy relationship. Go for it man, if people get the wrong idea just tell the truth. A man and a woman who like each other over legal age is not some sort of crime. What are people gonna say >Can you believe user? He likes YOUNG women So does fucking everybody. And the fact that she’s her sister doesn’t mean anything. It’s a girl you know so she’s fair game. The fact that your gf cheated on you puts it on her. You’re allowed to be happy and she shouldn’t be hurt about it. She sure wasn’t thinking about you being hurt when she was riding the cock carousel in college.
Zachary Reyes
What? What a moronic statement. You do realize that everyone was a baby before they were adult and dating?
Elijah Morgan
>Why do redditfags insist on using a term as ambiguous and ill-defined as this? It provides the perfect justification for making an entirely arbitrary decision which fits in with their morally relativistic attitude. They believe there is no real truth or objective right decision so if they say you should base it on an abstract vague emotion they provide the justification for making any decision at all as long as you convince yourself that you love the other person. It’s the same logic they use to convince themselves that penises can be female.
Aaron Miller
He knew her at that time. They grew together.
Eli Smith
At worst it’s creepy. Still all very legal and they both seem to want this.
Henry Jenkins
Legal, yes, but being an ex’s sister just makes it (even more) morally tricky. What if they go through a messy breakup, and she decides to get back at him by hurling accusations? Too risky.
Kevin Anderson
Yeah, that makes sense. I didn't think of it that way and women are certainly capable of doing that. Sorry about calling you a retard and telling you to kill yourself. I thought you were one of those roasties against men dating younger girls.
Camden Williams
No problem man.
Blake Carter
I'd wonder more about the little sister who's ok with fucking what her big sister already fucked and dumped. Ewwwwww. Sisterly sloppy seconds.
Wyatt Moore
>you still have feelings for your ex >you clearly are not in love with the little sister.
Why even risk to start a family war? This would definitely make suffer your ex, and potentially her sister too, if you have no true feelings toward her.
Maybe you're still heartbroken and need some comfort, and you seem a bit confused atm.
If I were you, I would wait waaaaay longer before thinking about dating my ex's sister. Just to be sure about what I feel.
Sebastian Moore
Fuck her brains out.
Oliver Jenkins
Yeah do it
Dominic King
Go for it man. Hope the best for you
Mason Fisher
these its time for your onions
Nicholas Peterson
OP, you're living the dream and you don't even know it. Get off this godforsaken website ASAP and go enjoy your fantasy realm while it lasts. Now!