GIOYC

Morning, lets all try to have a good day.

This distance thing is getting really difficult. I don't expect to be her top priority but it feels like I'm not even in the top 10 of things she thinks about during the day. Texting/calling is so fucking infrequent, and whenever we are talking for longer than 20 minutes at a time it's inevitable that she'll just stop responding and radio silence will go on for another day.

I realize the irony in me feeling like this, since my last relationship saw me being the one that seemed unreachable or distant. I want to be certain it's not my insecurities distorting my view of things though, so I'm not going to be a blowup about this until we've gotten back together and I can actually feel the vibe in person. If this is just going to be how it is though, I'm going to find someone new. I know that I'm objectively not that needy or affectionate of a person, and if my minimal needs aren't being met then something's up

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You know shyness just as well as I do.

For you...
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I hate women as much as any guy with a brain, but I learned to use women too for my own benefit.

I deleted my social media because I am just not into that stuff. But I did cave recently and made a fakebook to see how someone was doing. Looks like he is out traveling, or recently was, in another country. I am so jealous I have never even left my home state except a couple times. They look like they are doing well, I would reach out but that wouldn't be like me at all. I just can't do it I am too cowardly. I will just cheer them on from a distance.

I forgot how tired I am

I want to know why those shitty satellite beach cops asked me if I had feelings for my teacher after they got me to confess that I looked up how to commit suicide and after I said yes, then they said they had to Baker act me. I want to know why I was being harassed at my work place before I had to talk to those shitty cops.

Mind you, my parents called them at long doggers cause I didn't feel comfortable around them. I didn't exact to go back home in the car with them. They kept mentioning giving me pills and I got scared. Then right at the ends the cops asked if I contacted my teacher Scott mental health. How and why did they know that from an unrelated thing?

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I'm pretty sure my roommate is fucking my ex, and has perhaps been fucking her since before we broke up. He was too quick to tell me to "leave it" with her, to the point of interrupting me. The other night he was on the phone and told a woman he loved them...it sounded like he was about to say her name out loud and said "I lover you Ali-almostsaidyourname" and hung up. I'm devastated because he's an incredibly abusive person, though not physically. He's lazy and makes his wife baby him, yet he magically find motivation to do whatever HE wants. He was an alcoholic for most of their relationship and treated the people closest to him like garbage, and I have held the resentment in for so long. I tried to play a big warehouse show to promote my music project, but he ran sound for it and sabotaged everything...I'm a very loud and dynamic vocalist, but hardly anybody heard my voice...he is very good at his job and could only have done this on purpose. We had a band together and he was so anti-laptop that he tried to make me use a minidisc player for backing tracks, and then sabotaged the recording of our first album entirely because he was secretly jealous and vengeful that I'd rewritten all his and his wife's songs from scratch, by ear, exactly the way they originally wrote them so they could finish the thing and make all of us some damn money. I feel so fucked over by everyone close to me right now. My Ex verbally abused me and used my mental illnesses as an excuse to leave, even though I'd been forced to forgive and forget her bad behavior the whole relationship. I just wish I had real connections. I've been becoming more and more schizoid over the years and I really don't want to be. I want to think about other people again. A life enthralled in a fantasy world of my own making, without real intimacy, sounds like hell.

Being on Tinder only makes me realize how little I like the average woman. But I'm still in love with somebody I can't have. What the fuck is wrong with me?

Just failed my work call.
> What about your bugs, user?
> I have some yet
> *awkward silence*
Ughggghh... Fuckin lazy ass

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I failed at having good day. How do I get my lazy ass working the work?

Sometimes you won't be able to have a good day, but that bad day is just one of many days in your life and you WILL have a good day if you keep moving forward, keep improving yourself, and keep loving yourself. Gradually make having good days easier, work on small things first.

Could be a lot worse, bro. You could be a virgin like me.

I was best friends with this girl and her now ex for about two years now. Its a complicated situation, she pretty much left him and started coming onto me but always justified it with just being friends when I was skeptical about the things she would do. She wouldn't do them when she was with him so I was getting suspicious. Then it started getting uncomfortable and she treated me like her bf, but I don't want to be with her, she's got slutty tendencies, always seeks male attention, mostly from fuck boys, she feeds off of drama and I feel like she's using me as a crutch to get over her ex and possibly fuck me. I decided that its best if we separate and she was devastated, but it did eventually happen.

When she was with my friend then at least he "absorbed" all the shitty parts of her personality that I didn't like because I didn't have to care about it, but now she was doing it all to me and I didn't even feel comfortable being friends with her. Despite all that I do miss her, she was one of my closest friends and I'm having a difficult time separating myself from her because of all the good memories we share, but because of how she's been acting lately I wasn't happy being around her. It's difficult to separate the two, the friendship and the feelings she had and I let her go because of one thing, but that meant sacrificing the other. I'm struggling to move on because of that. I'll be living in the same town for college as her so we'll be seeing each other a lot after summer, I don't know how I'm gonna deal with that, seeing her everyday, possibly knowing she's fucking some other guys and her being surrounded by people like that would upset me, i don't like her being around this kind of company but its her life and if she wants to be around them then that's fine, but I don't see myself around. I just wish I knew I did the right thing, it feels terrible cutting people like her out of your life like that, I almost feel like I made a mistake...

I'm 27 and always loved being single and not chasing for relationships or women in general and just devoting my whole time just to myself, planning to spend the rest of my life like this, but lately I have been questioning myself, that perhaps getting a gf is the right way to go.

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dude, can you tell what I am thinking of?

I wanted to spend my life with this woman, problems or not. She does things for me emotionally that nobody has ever done for me. The worst part about this, is that our breakup has to do with her mental health. She attributes things to me, but she's some dodgy/crazy things this past year. Blew through $5k in two months and wouldn't tell me how, considering her bills couldn't account for it alone. Then came back after our first breakup when she needed to stay over for groceries, got a new job, got shitfaced with coworkers the first day and nearly died, then began having moodswings in response to a mild psychotic episode I had where I briefly bugged her about a .gif I saw that looked like her. I didn't even act with aggression and apologized immediately after. It was sad and annoying, but she called it "toxic patterns repeating" and began to shut down on me emotionally and dodge plans. She packed for three hours to come to my house once and came over with less than a day's worth of clothes. Being a virgin may actually have been preferable. I'm utterly fucked. I know I can get someone else, but when you love someone even being horny can fuck with you. It's like a 50/50 chance I will cry for a bit before wanking because I'd rather be with her.

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Chicken tendies

Time to stop being sad, I felt my biorhythm or whatever dictates my luck shift today. Things are going to go my way very soon, I think.

You've got this really bad habit of testing my knowledge of a particular band to see if I really like them or if I'm just saying I do. Our friendship doesn't hang on my trivia knowledge of this band by any stretch and it's to be expected of a legitimate dead head to quiz new fans, but man, it gets tiring sometimes.

I get that it's really all we have in common, but we still haven't really hung out for an extended period of time so it's hard to find more common ground with you. You're a great guy and I do look forward to getting to know you better.

Whut?

Did I get it right?

Being in a relationship atleast once in life is worth it, I think. Even if it goes bad, you still had the experience and you can then say for certain if you want to be single forever. There's nothing wrong with that either, some people are better off single, but it's worth atleast one try.

Get your ass out in the game, sling dick like I know you can.

I'd better never know you

Umm.... I have to cook chicken tonight, so....

Nice digits.

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Huh? Do they scare you?

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Well... You better not rely on the impressions Facebook gets you.

they know me too well plus are too close. I have no space for vanity. I need someone new I could show off to.

I'm okay around people, but when I'm alone thinking about my social interactions or emails I've sent and all that shit, I feel so fucking awkward and uncertain. I keep wondering if I should have said what I said, if I should've messaged/talked to/explained something to them, or even if I should be around them at all.

Whenever I feel like that, I have this sudden urge to impulsively post something nonsensical to GIOYC or /s4s/.
I don't really understand it.

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Pour yerrruurrr musery downnnnnnn on meeee

MARRY ME.

Okay, what is it tonight?
Please just tell me what the hell is wrong?
Do you wanna eat? Do you wanna sleep? Do you wanna drown?
Just settle down, settle down, settle down

I'll give you candy, give you diamonds, give you pills
Give you anything you want, hundred dollar bills
I'll even let you watch the shows you wanna see
Just marry me, marry me, marry me

I'm so sick of you tonight
You never stay awake when I get home
Is something wrong with me? Something wrong with you?
I really wish I knew, wish I knew, wish I knew

I'll give you candy, give you diamonds, give you pills
I'll give you anything you want, hundred dollar bills
I even let you watch the shows you want to see
Because you marry me, marry me, marry me
Marry me, marry me, marry me

I was young, I learned a game
That love and happiness were the same
Now I'm older and I don't play
I found out the hardest way

I got wasted, she got mad
Called me names then she called her dad
He got crazy and I did too
Wondered what I did to you

I gave you candy, gave you diamonds, gave you pills
I gave you anything you want, hundred dollar bills
I even let you hear the songs I want to sing
I gave you anything anything anything
I'll give you anything, anything, anything
I'll give you anything, anything, anything
Anything
Anything
Anything

I like fantasizing about being biggest Chad Chaddington on the block, the hottest and the most popular one. It helps me to cope with my pretty much looserish life. Then I think like what if someone guess that. I cringe heavily, want to run away in woods and be never seen.

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You don’t care, you never cared. You think you are so sneaky because you never said you cared. You’re a sociopath and I don’t like you anymore. You take everything, I don’t care though. You still lose.

k

Green notification light on my phone = message/contacts in general

I saw my phone flash a minute ago. I think ooh maybe my best friend messaged me back after 4 days, nah it's just an email from pintrest.

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Why am I not surprised by your response?

hmmm, do they suggest something nice to repost?

I dont even fucking know at this point

I want to die because of you so excuse the harshness...

dude, please....

I meant you don't, I NEVER meant "please, die"

I hope you feel better.

Yeah, usually I just get some nice fanart

What?

I haven't felt like getting out in the world lately. I need to concentrate on myself. A silent retreat. It's been 6 years I didn't breathe.
For this short time, I need to let the fact that I don't matter sink in.
It'll be isolation until autumn.
I can make a short aural resume every week if you'd like so.

My sex drive is pretty much completely gone and I can only seem to get a semi these days.
After some cursory research into the potential causes for this, I realised that I ticked pretty much every box almost.
It's just one more layer of life being a dull pain-inducing pile of shit and I feel like it's about time that I checked out.

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I'm conflicted.

On one hand I want to be with someone who doesn't attract attention all the time and that I can get along with and essentially be best friends with.

On the other I want a hot, slutty girlfriend who shares no similar values and deep down I know is wrong for me.

Knowing from previous experiences that I can attract both makes me even more puzzled about this. I don't sleep around and I don't plan on it, I need to get comfortable with the person first but the indecisiveness always puts me off from making a move on a girl because I want to be 100% sure I know what I'm committing to.

I cared for you once you know. Like a lot. But you never seem to notice that, because you kept doubting me. You kept looking for red flags and I just can't take it anymore because you keep taking me for granted. So go ahead and keep crying wolf. That grass is greener on the other side.

I think about sex really often, but I guess it's out of boredom

why wouldn't you like them to attract attention?

You'd be surprised to discover some women are both of those things. Randomly. Unpredictably. But it's rare to find it.

I want my fucking money.

friend of mine has his job because his dad works there

I once jokingly said I should try and look for work over where he's employed.

He ended up laughing at me Infront of people mentioning how I lost my first job

This summer I couldn't find work again and he just kept telling me basic motivational stuff like "put yourself out there and keep trying"

I really had to hold it in to not tell him to fuck off/why he seemingly cares now

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most people like flattery but it just makes me feel insulted that someone thought i would fall for it

If he cared then he would have said so.

There's still some barely burning pilot light in me that still notices and acknowledges beautiful women when I see them, but the rest of me just isn't along for the ride anymore.
I don't know if it's my mind pre-empting the inevitable disappointment and rejection I've become accustomed to, my bad eating habits and lack of exercise, my continual, suicidal depression, or just that I've fried my brain on too much porn over the years. But at any rate it seems I'm broken now.

I've dated a few girls before where they would go out of their way to get attention from other guys that were around, while I was around. Then they were surprised why I didn't want to date them again. I don't do this sort of thing and it seems like it's beyond their control so I don't want to subject myself to that. There were girls I dated that never did that sort of thing and were also much nicer and valuable people so it's the kind of thing I learned to avoid.

I don't mind if they're both, as long as the slutty side isn't the dominant one and constant while the other one is just showing up every now and then. I mean the kind of girls I dated I ended up separating into those two categories and its like I want both, but can get either one or the other. Haven't met anyone yet who is both but with a healthy balance of both

i’ve got a massive crush on him but he’s 11 years older than me, lives almost 200 miles away, and i hardly have a relationship with him. i only see him when he choses to hangout with my brother, who also happens to be his best friend. i just think he’s so cool, so handsome. we have quite a few things in common but i’m very shy and the last time i saw him i gave him the cold shoulder and very slowly began to open up. my brother and i are super close, so i feel like that keeps my hopes up but i just feel like it’s silly at this point. holding out for someone who probably has absolutely no idea about how i feel. plus i’m 15, by the time i’m 18 he’ll be 31 and probably will have settled down with someone. just can’t get over this fixation. i mean, the upside is that i might possibly be staying at his apartment for a night cause of a concert i’ll be going to in almost exactly 2 weeks. got the whole master plan to spiff myself up for it. god i’m sad and delusional.

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I shouldn't have slept but as I woke up I realized that if I didn't sleep I would've probably died.

So I just got rejected and the chick spent around 5 to 6 hours talking to me about it trying to console me, what the fuck should i be feeling about it?

Why do you bother? Leave me alone.

>Why do you bother?
I'm lonely

I don’t hate women, I’m starting to not feel anything towards them at all. I feel like I live in an alien world, that theres something I’m doing wrong or not at all. Then I’ll get some perspective, realize I’m a normal person and life goes on. However, nothing ever changes. I meet no women, and when I do they seem entirely apathetic to me, or even outright hostile. I’m a quiet guy, but I go to school and go out with friends and socialize at least a little bit. I keep on waiting to meet someone I like but I never do, and tinder is the single most disheartening thing I’ve seen in my life. I don’t know what to do, I can’t hate women because I have literally zero interaction with them. It boggles my mind when women complain about male attention or any trivial dating issue or peeve when I have gone literally months without talking to a female who is not my mother. I don’t know, I have hope so I keep on going on, but for gods sake please just let me meet someone I can connect with.

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I just want you here.. I'm so lonely and just want to be held by you again...

karma karma karma karma karma chameleoooooon, you come and goooooo, you come and goooooo-oooooo

Why? Is the one you love married?

Home sweet home

Sometimes... I tell myself that I have what it takes to do what most people won't. To change the world or be a pioneer. I'm always let back down to earth though. I'm just one man. I can't do anything. What are the chances I even make a difference? What are the chances I even matter? Probability isnt on my side. I'm not special. I'm not built for any specific grand purpose

How am I supposed to believe I can go out there and be the next person to discover something great and truly be a pioneer among pioneers? How?

Did I seriously fail to get with a woman that was all over me?

Tell me how do I keep doing this? What the fuckedy fuck mang

pioneer something duh what did you expect to hear

tomboys or

or feminazis

Not sure what you’re asking, I don’t blame either of those groups for this.

Shoot I didn't read your post ignore that
Some dating apps have specific sections to only meet friends but honestly it's pretty hard to meet and talk to women directly. Try talking to more dudes and getting into more friend circles those friend circles might know girls that'll occasionally make casual conversations with them or girls that make up the group.

EX AND E HENTAI IS SHUTTING DOWN, GUYS!!! I'M FINALLY FREE OF THE JAP'S DIRTY GRUBBY HAND JOBS AND BRAINWASHING!!! FREE AT LAST!!!
HATCHAAAAAAAAAAAA

get those from torrents or watch online

Nope! I'm an adult. I don't need porn in my life. Time to find me a girlfriend ans eventual wife!

Not gonna chase you down for any closure. It'll be up to you if you want to help me find some. I will be waiting for that day, but I won't put my life on pause for it. See you when I see you, if I ever see you again.

I feel bad cause me and my bro used to be close, but over the past 2 years he’s turned into a bitch. Like he is groveling over a single mom who cheated on him then dumped his ass, but he still babysits for her for free.
Now he thinks he’s a dad but he’s not, and he’s all into men’s divorce groups and men’s rights. When my (now) ex punched me so hard I lost a tooth, my bro asked me what I did to piss him off instead of being supportive older bro.
I tried to talk to him recently but he still goes off on why can’t I be nicer to my ex (who I now have a protective order on) and “this is why men don’t respect women.”
Feels bad but I’m gonna wish him a good life and I guess I don’t have a bro anymore.

You have no idea how you affect me. I won’t allow you to make me feel like I’m in the wrong. I tried.

Just sent my first dick pic.
I feel proud of myself.

I want to tell everyone that it's alright and see the look of relief on their face when they see how much i mean it and care, i know it will never happen and people will live difficult lives and not get as much beauty out of it as i do, i feel lost but like i belong here for this purpose, and im trying to keep going but life is so difficult and confusing.

Every thing feels fake and pointless, like no matter what i do it wont make me happy only degrees of miserable. Like a big play or part in a movie its all just plastic masks and rehearsed lines. The meaning in anything seems like it came of a assembly line.

This post brought back so many memories of good times for me user, thank you.

Congratulations youve become a basic bitch