I thought i was done with this shit when i got married but here we go

I thought i was done with this shit when i got married but here we go

>Be 27 year old software dev with good job.
>Wife of 8 years cheated on me.
>Still friends with the person she cheated with.
>Always hanging out with this person, never wants to spend time with me.
>Meet a mutual friend that just got out of a breakup.
>23 year old 10/10, a literal model.
>Been talking for a couple months now, been over to her place once.
>Shares almost all of my kinks, super into dd/lg and wants me to be her daddy.
>Still love wife obviously.

Like wtf am i supposed to do here, attempt to fix things with my wife or let things go and try again with this other girl? I already signed a pre-nup so my rich boy money is safe.

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Cheat on her as long as you have proof that she cheated ergo photos etc
Remember it takes 2 people to get a divorce

I have surveillance video of her cheating on me, is that enough?

As long as you can prove in court she cheated first and breached the contract of marriage you’re good

This is why i saved it just in case.

Does she know that you know?

As for question in OP. I would cheat in that circumstances. If your wife choses friend over you every time given opportunity your marriage is basically over. Have fun

Yeah, but doesn't know about the evidence i have for it. Am a little afraid that she is only staying right now because she doesn't have to work and gets to live in a nice house. As much as i love her she has a massive ego (for how insecure she is) and acts like shes earned all of the shit i pay for.

Youre being exploited. Thats not love OP. Get divorce and fuck that model girl ASAP

Sounds solidified. You can tell her the marriage is open until the divorce papers go through. Separate stuff and move on.

Prenups only allow monitory assets unless stated so his whore wife just gets money

So garage sale stuff you bought for her time.

Bingo op will make a killing

wait, she still hangs out with the person she cheated on you with without you there? and shhe'd rather spend time with him than you?

yeah that marriage sounds pretty over lmao, maybe the universe sent this other girl your way to make the breakup and moving on as mutual and amicable as possible

I had all of my rich boy bank accounts listed on the prenup as explicitly mine, im good bruh

Yeah so heres the one embarrassing part, she still hangs out with HER.

Elaborate? I dont quite understand (not OP)

Divorce your wife.
>inb4 no

Matthew 19:9
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her who is put away does commit adultery.

Cheating is a God sanctioned reason for divorce.

Hes saying that the prenup only protects object not money unless stated in the pre-nup (which it was) and to sell the objects.

Not religious at all but this is still one of my biggest issues with it.

Pic of the other girl

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Hope your prenup won't fall through, go see a divorce lawyer asap, best you can afford. Gather everything you can to make the divorce as smooth as possible. If you have assets that are not listed in the prenup, sell them. If the house is one, just tell your wife you want to move to a better area/bigger house/build a house, and sell your current home with most of the possessions. Then once everything is set, serve that gold digger with divorce papers and then jump into the arms of your qt model friend. If you want to get really devious you could give yourself bruises, take pictures and use them as evidence to get an order of protection, so she has to leave the house and stay away from you.

House is well over 700k and definitely protected. Does everyone really think that divorce is the correct answer here?

don't listen to this asshole

high road her.
Divorce her now and keep everything

Her model bf will leave her for a hotter younger woman soon anyway.

Cover her in your semen as often as possible. Leave your wife if she becomes a bitch. You have all the power now so keep fucking them both.

If you think you can live with the fact she fucked him and is likely to do it again then no you don't need to divorce.

if you can't let that go, or can never trust her again on that level then yes. Divorce, and do it now. its a long horrible process, might as well get it over with so you can get on with your life

>Loving someone who cheated on you
???

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Talk to a lawyer ASAP. Consult with him to determine if your evidence can even be used.

DO NOT talk to your wife about this, she is effectively your enemy - be friendly so she does not suspect you. Your love for her has been betrayed and she will not spare you.

Pre-nups are ROUTINELY ignored by judges if they are deemed to be unfair to women.

TALK TO A LAWYER.

What? the model is this girl

Will do

Its not so much that i can live with it so much as it is that over the past month since it happened i have been caring less and less about things in general.

A bad woman is a like a vampire draining you of vitality. You will lose all will to live if you just let this slide and ignore it. You are young and can do so much better, don't throw your life away just because your wife is a bitch. You can and will move on.

God damn, this has to be the most brutal response in this thread.

Get a lawyer, plan your divorce, go through with it, then see new girl.

You have evidence, you have the moral high ground, but the longer you wait the more advantage you lose in divorce proceedings. Do not engage with the new girl until the divorce is final.

Nobody thinks theres any chance of fixing things with my wife?

She cheated on you man, what the fuck is wrong with you? God, people like you need a smack upside the head.

She cheated on you and isn't groveling to try and mend your relationship, while you admit you're losing interest.

Time to move on.

She's too young. Date someone your own age

Stop being a fucking idiot. She doesn't love you dumbass.

There is something innately wrong with her. Cheaters cannot be brought back and be expected to be with you. Like criminals they will likely commit the crime again.

>Got married at 19.
>She's blatantly cheating on you and having an ongoing affair with this guy while she lives in your house and eats your food for free.

Normally I don't reply to these threads, but just divorce her and fuck the model. It sounds like a big scary change, but once you do it your life will drastically improve and you may very well have a chance at actual happiness in a real relationship.

People change too much between 18-25 and you're a fucking idiot for getting married so young.