My gf is a born again christian and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage...

My gf is a born again christian and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage. The problem is she is not a virgin and apparently amassed a lot of emotional baggage from a past relationship which she also don't wanna disclose.
What should I do?

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Why are you even asking?

Run.

No thank you. Leave now or put your foot down and say you *have* to fuck.

I started out as some hedonist atheist porn-watching fuckhead. I took my Christian girlfriend's virginity before marriage, but now I am a Hitlerite pagan who would have waited. There's nothing wrong with wanting to find a family instead of a fuckbuddy.

The emotional baggage is a dealbreaker no matter what though. For a real partnership, you don't want someone who's ugly, or fat, or mentally defective, or has emotional problems, who's a slut, and so forth. Drop her before you get more attached and let her keep her principles.

>the problem is that she is not a Virgin

Problem for whom?
If she’s changed her sexual habits due to emotional baggage then that’s her choice. If you can’t handle that, or feel as if you’re entitled to sex with her because
>”well you aren’t a Virgin, and I am your bf”
then just leave and find someone who fits your casual sex needs.
If you’re really curious about her past relationship just ask her about it when it’s a good time, preferably when (IF) you decide to marry her. She’d be more open with her life once the marriage is sealed.

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Dubs confirm.

Sounds like you want sex in the relationship and she doesn't. Tell her you respect her choice, but you guys want different things and it's better that you part ways so you can each find what you're looking for.

Simple.

>born again
Stopped reading there. Born again Christians are some of the most cult-like people I've ever met. Their batshit crazy surpasses Mormons and even Jehovah's Witnesses.

rape

>marry someone before finding out how fucked in the head they are
>marrying someone who changes their core beliefs on a whim
have fun losing half your shit

Absolutely disgusting. The state of kikestianity and the poor chums willing to date its whores

>which she also don't wanna disclose.
Well this is just smart. Nothing good comes from it.

I wouldn't go on with the relationshp, personally.

>kikestianity
You will burn in a lake of sulfur for all eternity if you don't take that back.

Yahweh can have my soul.

That's the Jewish name for God. We're talking about Jesus Christ, the King of the universe. He can see what you're writing and wants you to heal in His name.

No thanks.

You don't have a choice, sinner. You're literally going to be tortured forever very soon, heathen.

The point of saving yourself for marriage is having only 1 partner
She's already been fucked in all holes and that's why she doesn't wanna disclose
You should talk, REAL TAWK, with her because this doesn't make sense

That’s ok.

get out. This smells like bullshit from her

Christian femanon here. She likely has a lot of guilt and that can really weigh a Christian down, especially since she has already given away her virginity and can't get it back. Let her grow more comfortable and if she knows you'll be there for her no matter what, she will eventually confide in you her past. Don't force anything. Good luck OP

Run for the hills nothing good will come from.her

>roast defending a roast
I’ve seen this somewhere before

Leave her bro. You have the downsides of dating a slut and a prude with none of the benefits.

prime bait

fyi OP waiting until marriage to make her tell the truth about her past is a bad idea

sigh femanon is right been there done that. although sometimes you can convince them anal is not losing virginity .

Dump her, can't turn a whore into a wife.

what the what? I will have to go with the consensus here. Run. Just run. There is absolutely zero chance this will work. She went born again Christian because her shit was fucked up, and instead of dealing with it and moving on she tried to push it down with some self-delusion of virtue. All of that shit will come bubbling back up even worse than before, and it will all be projected onto you.

Run.

nigga unless youre also born again just dip.

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This is automatic disqualification. Why are you even putting up with this? She was a whore and wants to pretend that it never happened by playing you.

Born Agains, in my experience, are just compensating for being or having been total shit
It's not a great demographic to date from. I don't know why you chose one.

While the ideal would be to save yourself from one, it sounds like she had a sexual past and due to fornication being wrong in the eyes of the Lord, decided to stop that sin, also known as repentance. It makes sense in a Christian worldview.

I thought I should give her the benefit of the doubt

I'm leaning towards this

She's been saying some stuff that doesn't quite make sense. Like, marriage is a way to go to heaven. Also her goal in life is to become a saint.

>why she doesn't wanna disclose
She says it's because we don't know each other long enough

I imagine this is how one of those dead bedroom marriages start.

She says she would tell me what happened eventually, but If it's a deal breaker I should know it beforehand, especially since in that scenario I would be giving up sex for a while.

So it seems....

Yeh, I was hoping there was an angle or way to work this out. But I feel I would be walking into a sexless nagging riddled marriage. So far she's been completely sex averse.

This is exactly the reasoning she gave me. But with the sexual baggage and everything, I don't know if it's that simple.

The first thing to your solution is to understand the religious meanings in her actions and if for you to see this to your girlfriend as a path to Christianity requires for self to repent from their sins (drugs (alc., tobac., ect.) tattoos, fornication, and intent to murder on grudges with other things) This is her setting herself for a new path to become closer with a more Biblical relationship with God. All these hurdles are hard to overcome and can be possible through God. In conclusion she is making a spiritual choice in this relationship. If you still want to be with her and she is fine without you joining with her on this journey. Ok but respect her new rules.

>My gf is a born again christian
Are you a Christian?

>She says she would tell me what happened eventually
Does she speak in the plural form when mentioning this?
Cause at the moment, it sounds like she did it way more than once.

>She's been saying some stuff that doesn't quite make sense. Like, marriage is a way to go to heaven. Also her goal in life is to become a saint.

I don't know all the particulars, but my guess is she is using the born-again Christian title to dupe people. Has she actually read the Bible cover-to-cover? Cause it doesn't sound like it.
Let me guess, she's also big into wearing cross necklaces? Maybe a little exposed cleavage at the same time?

>What should I do?
Other girls.

>My gf is a born again christian and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage.
If you're waiting until marriage and actually are a virgin, then you have every right to leave someone who only changed after they broke the standard.
If you're not waiting until marriage, or aren't a virgin either, you have no right to complain and she's probably the best you can get, so you would be foolish to ditch her.

That's a gigantic meme only engaged in by hedonist trash. If you have to 'lawyer' your way around standards, the only person you're convincing is yourself.

>I started out as some hedonist atheist porn-watching fuckhead. I took my Christian girlfriend's virginity before marriage, but now I am a Hitlerite pagan who would have waited
What the fuck did I just read?

Sounds like familial rape.

But there is a huge potential liability for me in this. I jokingly let her know some of my expectations regarding sex if we ever got married, and she was quick to shut it down. I think I managed to soften her a little bit on that when I grabbed her by the jaw, motioned her face towards mine and said she would have to comply with that because it's what I like and that's important. She complained a little becuase I was manhandling her face but I think she came to terms with my expectations.
But the thing is, how am I suppose to eventually marry someone who has more intimacy with some other guy that abused her than with me? What if all these restrictions get worse once we are married?
She said she was in an abusive relationship, broke up with the guy and then gave him a second chance because he asked her to. Then she stayed in the relationship for another couple of years despite the abuse. I asked her why, but she won't tell me becuase she doesn't know me too well.
This is basically a russian roulette for me.

If you're waiting until marriage and actually are a virgin, then you have every right to leave someone who only changed after they broke the standard.
If you're not waiting until marriage, or aren't a virgin either, you have no right to complain and she's probably the best you can get, so you would be foolish to ditch her.
I'm not a virgin, but that's not the point. The point is she expects me to eventually marry her despite the fact that she shared the deepest part of her intimacy with some other guy and not with me.

I have other options but I actually like her.

In this day and age marriage entirely benefits the woman so bail.

>If you're waiting until marriage and actually are a virgin, then you have every right to leave someone who only changed after they broke the standard.
>If you're not waiting until marriage, or aren't a virgin either, you have no right to complain and she's probably the best you can get, so you would be foolish to ditch her.
I'm not a virgin, but that's not the point. The point is she expects me to eventually marry her despite the fact that she shared the deepest part of her intimacy with some other guy and not with me.

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>I'm not a virgin
That's all I needed to hear, and of course it's the point. Most people don't ever bother repenting, even if belatedly after having had their fill of debauchery, so she is already ahead of the curve compared to most other candidates for marriage. If you like her, I don't see what the issue is here--she'll be much more amenable, I would assume, to raising her (your?) kids to do better and avoid the same mistakes. While I can understand the discomfort with a partner's past, you don't really have a right to demand anything more when you can't meet the same standard.

I'm not religious, by the way. It's not necessary to be moral, though it certainly helps.

Just run OP this is a train wreck that has gone off the track and it’s going to end badly

Run.

You’re going to be putting up with her baggage for the rest of your life if you don’t cut yourself free of that shit.

i usually dont say leave her and all the incel shit here but first thing came to my mind reading your question was
>find another girlfriend

someone's butthurt...

Based.

This.

>It makes sense in a FALSE Christian worldview.
Corrected.

>My gf is a born again christian
Your gf is a hypocrite.

Stop samefagging faggot

>born again Christian that doesn't wanna have sex until marriage but is also not a virgin
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA garbage. She's just playing with You. A girl like that only pretends to not want to fuck, her entire sin is wanting to fuck alot. She just thinks you're her provider with money and she's the provider with sex.

>roastie desperate to have another incel as her pet

I've seen this exact scenario before. Run as fast as you can. It ends HORRIBLY.

people only become born again christians when they have a fucked up life doing drugs, porn, being the town bike, crime etc

I think you're in a relationship with a girl who used to be a slut, did everything with everyone and now she doesn't want to have sex with you until marriage. Check out this dude who waited till marriage

I might show this thread to her. Thanks.

i've had ENOUGH i want those TOES in my MOUTH right NOW

Wont fuck, won’t tell you exactly why.
She was raped man, I don’t know if dating her is a good idea. Be a friend and someone to talk too but find another woman who isn’t so secretive.

OP is baiting
image is bait
story is made up bait used to datamine and feed AI

Give her meds to help her feel good with sex, diphenhydramine, alcohol, sleep meds like eszopiclone, Zaleplon, Zolpidem, and more.
Most of that is over the counter.
If your able to give her that stuff in her drinks/food, then after you help her have sex a few times, and make some videos on your phone (make sure your phone is locked and videos are in separate app lock app/hidden)
Then break up and leave her.
Unless your gay, then do anything other then what I said if your gay.

Stay with her if your cool, bail if you're not.

Have you asked her what is exactly her redemption? As in what does Our Lord Christ expect from her? What entails to follow Christ? And for you OP do you follow Christ?

>OP is baiting
>image is bait
>story is made up bait used to datamine and feed AI
who's behind this kind of shit?

If she doesn’t wanna tell you about her past relationship that’s a bad sign. If she lost her virginity to her high school sweetheart that’s one thing, she’d probably tell you. But I bet she’s gonna tell you some weird shit like she used to gangbang niggers or her boyfriends dog or something.

>Have you asked her what is exactly her redemption?
No, she just told me she wants to become a saint.

>And for you OP do you follow Christ?
Yes, for the most part.

Every woman that has ever wanted to "save themselves for marriage" is just lying to themselves. I am saying this by experience both personal and observed.

She likes you, probably even truly loves you but doesn't want to fuck you. Don't hate her for it, women are just complicated like that. Even if you get married your sex life will not improve much. I cannot stress this enough that its nothing wrong with you. She likes you but just isn't sexually attracted to you. I know those words can be hard to hear but where one woman wouldn't even touch your dick with a ten foot pole another will gargle your balls until she chokes. I promise you this.

My ex didn't want to have vaginal intercourse for the same reason and would just give me lazy head. We eventually broke up and now i'm with my current partner who is WAY more attractive than the previous. She loves to fuck me, we do everything. Been with her for 3 years now.