How many sexual partners make a woman a slut?

How many sexual partners make a woman a slut?

My current gf has been with 11 dudes, including me, plus 5 more of handjobs and fingering but no intercourse. I don't even have half that, she's in her late 20s. I'm kind of disgusted, especially since over half of those were drunken one night stands. Maybe I'm being a prude. I'm not sure what to do, I don't want the mother of my kids to be a slut, but if this is normal for women then I doubt I could find anything better, since I like her in most other ways.

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Average is 8 partners for 25 year olds so anything more than that is slutty. Want my advice? Don’t ask how many partners they had the answer will NEVER make you feel good

its best for the guy to have a lower body count than the girl
you'll cherish her more.
lets put it like this. if ur gf slept with 11 dudes & shes still single. thats says something on both parties
both of them are probably bad lovers

I always say more than 1, unless her husband died and she’s a widow, in which case she can have 1 more.

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>I always say more than 1, unless her husband died and she’s a widow, in which case she can have 1 more.
u right

This is why you will die a virgin.

This user is correct.

That’s fine. And yes, this makes my mom a slut

What does it matter? Her life led her to the point that now she got to know you.

What if she ended up with guys who treated her like shit after a while so she dumped them relatively quickly? She should not meet other guys because "some retard will think I am a slut" ???

No, she should meet cuckolds who will willingly clean up Chad’s cum from her vagene

No one wants to seriously date the girl who fucked half her college sports team, doesnt matter what her reasons were.

I do because I’m not a bigoted piece of shit like you.

how is that bigotry?
its a personal preference

A girl who has 11 partners at 29 isn't the same as fucking a whole football team. That's one new person per year since age 18, perfectly normal and in no way a sign of loose behavior. It's just normal dating/being single

The funny thing is that the cucks mentality is literally started from the cucks themselves, because of their insecurity to "why does a hot girl like me?" instead of "this hot girl likes me so I have something she likes".

Also having 8 - 9 sex partners doesnt obviously mean she was a new week new guy girl. Jesus.

Christ you guys lol. Whenever one of these threads pop up I always get a kick out of the responses

Yeah, that “something,” is a big wallet, stable income, and desperation.

Depends on the age, but for late 20s you have to have at least 20-25 partners (blowjobs or vaginal or anal, fingering doesn't count) to start being in true "slut" territory as opposed to just dating around or having a brief phase. Realistically it's more like 30s or more

We weren't just talking about the OP girl, but in general promiscuity is unattractive.
Also Ops girl had 16 partners, and that's still alot.

Dellusional.
Won't waste my time on a guy who has this low self esteem.
Why are you asking us then? Just go fuck ugly hoes you don't like because that's your level after all.

30 by 30 is the average. I personally find that way too high and by necessity most women will have around that figure so I’m not sure if it makes sense to call half of women “sluts” but I will anyhow

I’d rather be alone than accept a slut (>1 partner), a gold digger (someone after my wealth), or someone ugly. I’m perfectly fine being alone romantically

Where do you guys live?
In my country my previous gfs after being adult were:
>0 at 19
>2 at 23
>6 at 26

Lucky. USA here

Which equation comes to an end that >1 is being slut?
Are you just having this opinion because you have had 1 or

>promiscuity giving any clear indication as to whether or not one is attractive or lovable

I and many other sane stable anons honestly dgaf about this, it’s not like I’ve never made a mistake or three myself nor had fun while doing it, it’s unrealistic to expect another to be meant for me without their own human experiences

Maybe its a matter of population. Greece here with those numbers.

A slut is less about body count and more about how they fuck/date. A slut to me is a girl who gives it up easily outside of relationships and has multiple sexual partners at once.

Anons who are trying to convince these "if she slept with more than one person she a slut" anons, what are you doing? Just let the natural selection take its course kek

Same.
I like a girl who respects herself and pinpoints that she d rather get to know me first (in a friendly level) see if she is interested and if she is having fun with me - in a communication level - and then tries to get to know me erotically and sexually , rather than finding out after creating a "labeled relationship" when we both don't know each other yet.

It's not strictly about lay count (though it's highly correlated ofcourse).

A slut, in my opinion, is a woman who has engaged in casual, uncommitted sex multiple times in her life. Also, any woman who has ever cheated on her boyfriend/husband in the past is a slut.

Ideally, you only want to date girls who have sex exclusively in monogamous relationships. Girls who have slept around for fun with random chads are almost always bad for long term relationships.

this just makes me want to scream. if this was an issue why did you go on as soon as you knew? why waste our time? like my recent ex knew from the beginning and said nothing then all of a sudden he started degrading comments, picking fights, avoiding me for hours and once a whole weekend only to find out he was "suffering" for being in love with a slut and couldn't see me at the time. well i put him out of his misery and found me another guy that will treat me right.

if you have an issue have the guts to say it upfront instead of pretending to care for me.

How convenient! I know this girl who has told me she’s been in 50 exclusive monogamous relationships while in college. I guess she’s ok. Thanks :)

Because they have to defend their used up gfs from big bad incels on the internet

>its best for the guy to have a lower body count than the girl
what kind of cuckery is this?

uncommitted sex is fun, im young, and gonna do it all i want and your opinion does not matter. there is no law and i, doing nothing to you

No, you're a fucking beta cuck.

This. Fuck standards and pairbonding. If an attractive guy wants thigh cooch he can have it

>A girl who has 11 partners at 29 isn't the same as fucking a whole football team. That's one new person per year since age 18, perfectly normal and in no way a sign of loose behavior.
Listen to this repulsive shit.

*this*
But thighs works too lol

Assuming for the sake of argument that she began touching games at 15 or so, that's slightly more than one a year. Allow her one wild year in college, and the average comes down even further.

But of course the question is NOT what she was like back then, but what she is like right now.

unless she is real young almost every girl will have more sexual exposure and experience than a guy will. thats just how it is

there will have been some older guy that got at her already before you even know her

>history has no bearing on the present
I don’t understand

>just accept it

im not in a relationship or want one. my parents married young and they are a mess and both of them regret not having some fun while they were young so i don't want to pretend to be with the love of my life as a teenager or early 20 something. there will be plenty of time later and just think of all the interesting people you'll be able to meet and go do things with that you could not with the responsibility of a relationship.

most of you guys don't want to grow up till you're 30 so go out and play a little

well for most of us some neighbor guy has already tried to get me to touch it way before 15. thats on guys

The greatest thing about mass literacy is that I can peer inside the mind of a female while she justifies her behavior. Doesn’t make it make any more sense but it’s a start

>unless she is real young almost every girl will have more sexual exposure and experience than a guy will. thats just how it is
>almost every girl
Because almost every girl is a fucking slut at best, literally. That's just how it is too.

yeah whats the alternative. look you need to blame teenage boys or men that went after some young girl and either tricked or forced some contact and she didn't know what was happening.

Or I can just remain alone and at least retain my dignity.

More than 3 kinda implies that she's a slut. unless she's in her 30s. It's kinda hard to go through long term sexual relationships that quickly. Once you've said "I love you" and have fucked a few times, it's one of those things where you'll try to quit each other, remember what it's like being single, and then wake up in the same bed thinking, "damnit. Not again!"

Girls with double digits kinda like to pretend that every chick is as off their fucking carts as they are, but in reality, the reason people hookup is because they're kinda unhinged, neglected, and want to spend a night holding something warm. The only exception I can think of are sorority girls, and I kinda suspect it's because they're really stressed out by their studies.

no almost every girl had some guy groom, trick or force her to do things when she doesn't know better. thats on you guys

what dignity? you masturbate to some weird stuff right? nothing dignified in that

I agree. The girl is totally innocent and didn't spread them legs wide lustfully and willingly.

Once again, almost every girl is a fucking slut. Got tricked, right.

I haven’t masturbated in a week or so, but before that to imagination and vanilla porn

when im 10 yeah TRICKED

i know how you predators operate unfortunately and yet you call us names

I don't think most women get raped at 10.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

>when im 10 yeah TRICKED
uh, listen, hateful bitter dudette, too bad you got tricked or whatnot. But we're talking in general here. Not all 10 year old girls get tricked by boys or men. I mean, you know this, right?

With all that said, stop projecting. Whatever the hell gave you the idea I'm a predator? Wanna cry rape next? Chill out and pass the bong, or tits and gtfo.

11 in early 20's for a girl isnt that much bro
To Jow Forums incels it is but to those of who s tually get laid thats a fairly conservative amount....however shes lying and the actual number is 22

You're both sluts, so it's a match made in heaven.

>11 in early 20's for a girl isnt that much bro
Do the math. Say early 20's is 22 years old. If she started at 20 that's 11 cocks a year, about one a month. How about it. Even if she started at 18 it's still like 3 cocks a year. So what is she like, then, a prude?

>when im 10 yeah TRICKED
uh, listen, hateful bitter dudette, too bad you got tricked or whatnot. But we're talking in general here. Not all 10 year old girls get tricked by boys or men. I mean, you know this, right? With all that said, stop projecting. Whatever the hell gave you the idea I'm a predator? Wanna cry rape next? Chill out and pass the bong, or tits and gtfo.

Girls that are even remotely attractive can fuck shitloads of guys if they wanted to. Girls ALWAYS have a higher a body count.
To me, because im also a slut but a male 11 by 22 isnt that much. Because society has gone to shit and ive stick my.dick in girls who had 20 bodies by 19

more than 1 is a slut in my book.

Nobody says girls aren't allowed to be sluts, just that almost nobody wants to be in a stable relationship with one.

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Everything more than 1

>its best for the guy to have a lower body count than the girl

Really? I'm under the impression it matters a lot to men if his girlfriend slept with many men than it does vice versa. My bf had a lot of girlfriends and experience in the past and I don't care, however I think if I were someone who had sex with loads of different guys most men would judge quite harshly

The point being?

This. Personally I love sluts. For a good time. But not to keep, no way.

You speak the truth.

slut is a meaningless term

Is there a minimum number men should have that is calculated the same way?
Right now I count every girl I have thought about naked when girls ask so I don't seem like too much of a pussy, but it still might be a too low number.
I hate these mind games.

Meaning is a meaningless term

Men and woman are sluts back in hs this bo

And you believe her?

>i'm young
>it's fun
Typical mindset of the 21th century slut.

What? That’s she’s been on 50 ducks? Yes. That’s she’s monogamous? No.

Term is termless

I didnt relize i was a slut at 25, but dont whine ,shes probably settled with you

>knowing that much detail about her past
It's like you're looking to get upset my nig.

My point exactly

It's alarming. Especially all those drunken one nighters. It speaks to a lack of self respect and a need for attention that one person may not be able to fill.

11 is slutty.

>cuckery

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>thats on you guys

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"No one" is obviously incorrect, as some people do. I prefer a virgin or at least a low count myself, but I don't disparage the people that have a different tolerance level. That's kind of the point of being a liberal.

Context behind each partner is what matters.
One-night-stands are slutty, so in your case she is.

This is the equivalent of a girl saying to some nerd "I wish I had a guy like you...but not you lol. You'll make some girl very happy some day but not me". Its pure horse shit, 95% of men would prefer not to seriously date a girl with a past like that. Some might settle, but would be disgusted nonetheless.

literally retarded

what is a slut, what does your gf have in common with another slut? do you care about what people think about her and therefore you? or are you scared she will cheat on you?
the latter is the only valid reason why you should care and it may have nothing to do with how many people she has been

>are you scared she will cheat on you? the latter is the only valid reason why you should care and it may have nothing to do with how many people she has been.

It MIGHT not, but there is a strong correlation between women with a promiscuous past and their divorce rates compared to women with no promiscuous past.

When you bring this topic up, you're immediately labeled as an incel, elliot rodgers or a beta loser. But the fact is, yes it makes sense to be concerned about your girlfriends sexual past because it actually does matter.

Look, a girl having sex is basically like a person eating a rat before kissing.
If it's 1 or 2 sterile lab rats that are sterilized then it might be ok, but since 99.99% are not. Allowing 1 or 2 is already pushing it.
Keep in mind rats are of of the deadliest animals on earth.
nationalinterest.org/blog/the-black-death-how-rats-fleas-germs-almost-wiped-out-europe-19745
That's basically what used girls/stds are like.

Even this thread gets invaded by gay psyops.

Grills don't tell. Simple as that. Follow rules btches!

wew this is embarrassing

I kinda doubt it. Fears of gays, I don't have. So sad for you.

What’s gay about wanting to be the first in a tight virgin cooch?

She a hoe
Nut n go

This. You're allowed to do whatever you want ladies, just don't believe that entitles you to equivocal treatment when the behavior is anything but.