Dire need of advice

>I don't think she could keep a secret even if she wanted to, specially something like that.
You'd be surprised the secrets women can keep from their husbands and boyfriends.

>Also, she is not universally hot, she is just totally my type
I don't think you're being honest with yourself judging how you're shifting. You also have to realize that women have a lot more opportunity than men, even if she's not hot.

>Yeah, unfortunately that is how life is. That is definitely something I ponder and take in consideration, but ultimately my solution is to simply not think about it
That's a little more honesty, but you're still not facing this. She will, at a minimum, have offers while you're away and you won't know due to the distance.

>She is also very short on cash which makes it harder to go out, and she is not really looking for other people as much as I would be.
Actually, that may be a motivation for her to go out more. Women do go out with men simply to have free dinners. A lot of women actually admit to doing foodie calls. So keep that in mind.

>Currently I'm on a good spot regarding this, because I have a reasonably lot of money, a car and my own place, plus a little bit of flexibility in my life (my only real commitment is work, but I can go out and get back late at night ultra smashed and still make it through the day)
If you have cash, you might want to consider surprising her. Just realize you may discover something you'd rather not when you show up.

jus cheat on her lol

>you clearly want to stay in a useless ldr
I'm honestly very divided about it. At the same time I really like her and she really likes me, I wonder if I shouldn't enjoy this time more freely instead of being together far away

I actually installed a dating app and started talking to some girls, but then I accidentally found some pics of us and she looks so good. It is a tough choice. Both options have their pros, but also some risks

>You'd be surprised the secrets women can keep from their husbands and boyfriends
I'm very aware. But it is really not something she would do, she is really not good at lying or pretending. It is not even about how much she likes me, "she would never do that to me" or anything like that. It is just that she is completely transparent. I know that since the first time I met her, because the faces she makes are so obvious

>She will, at a minimum, have offers while you're away and you won't know due to the distance
If we are together, I'm really not worried about it. If we are apart, it would no longer be my place to be worried about that

>Women do go out with men simply to have free dinners
I find it hard to believe we would do that. Where we come from that is REALLY not a thing (though I think it is where she is right now), and a lot of women here are very hardcore about it, she being one of those. Even after we were together for quite some time and I knew she was currently having some money problems, she would completely refused to let me pay for her stuff even the times I tried to offer

>If you have cash, you might want to consider surprising her
I hate travelling and I hate visiting people. I rather sit down and wait 4 months than bother to go over there (or to anywhere, really)

>jus cheat on her lol
Not really an option to me. I praise honesty to others and to myself above all. I have no issue in breaking up because I want to see other people, but I wouldn't do it behind her back

>I find it hard to believe we would do that.
Huh? Are you a woman?
Regardless, it sounds like this relationship is doomed.

>Huh? Are you a woman?
No, just not native english speaker, so my mind bugs sometime. The point is that women here often are against that, and I know she for a fact is completely against doing something like that. This actually goes both ways - I for instance would refuse to pay for a girl on a date

>Regardless, it sounds like this relationship is doomed
Why is so? In fact the only thing dooming it right now is that part of me feel like maybe I should take this time to try new experiences

But i wouldn't be considering staying together if I didn't think it was something reasonable that had a very good chance of working out. She has made it clear several times that she wants to stay with me, and basically one of my charms is that I am very easy to fall in love with (so I think I can keep our relationship alive during those months if that would be the plan)

> The point is that women here often are against that, and I know she for a fact is completely against doing something like that. This actually goes both ways - I for instance would refuse to pay for a girl on a date
>Why is so?
The point is that she's going to a place where she's not playing by the same rules, is alone, has more opportunity than you, has limited contact with you, and you're indecisive.

>The point is that she's going to a place where she's not playing by the same rules
One can't just switch the rules of your own consciousness like that. Its not about what society thinks of it, is about what she thinks of it, and like many women from where I come from, for her its an absurd to have a man paying for her stuff

>is alone
She said herself she is already pretty busy with other aspects of her life and is not really bothered to about seeing someone right now. Though that could change as the time passes

>has more opportunity than you
Arguably

>has limited contact with you
That is one issue, yes, specially considering the timezone. But it is not impossible for us to work that out, specially considering it is only 4 months

>and you're indecisive
My biggest flaw it seems. Though if I make the decision to stay together, that would no longer be an issue. Right now she is slightly pissed because I haven't made up my mind yet, but if we decide to stay together I can tell her cute shit every day and stuff like that

>My biggest flaw it seems. Though if I make the decision to stay together, that would no longer be an issue
Hahaha. No, it wouldn't judging by your past posts and special olympics mental gymnastics going on here.

Im indecise about bug decisions like this, but on overall im very good in being a boyfriend. It is easy to fall in love with me and stay in love with me. Literally every relationship i had was super fast and got super serious very quickly

My current gf, for instance, only wanted something casual but fell for me, asked to be my gf, moved into my place in less than 1 year and us still madly into me. My ex was basically the same thing as well

So if there is one thing im good at is being a good bf and make gurls like me

Big* decisions