How do I turn my life around? I believe the vast majority of you anons can sympathize with pic related

listen to all these shylocks
what has happened is a joke
to think that external forces aren't at least somewhat a factor is just ignorance

Either sell your soul to satan or follow the Bible
I recommend the latter, since you're a neet, start learning koine greek and read the septuagint

I need more money damnit.

Get the fuck off of Jow Forums every second you spend on here could be spent working towards a goal

the question isn't how. you already know how. the question is, when will you start turning your life around?

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>tfw turned 23 yesterday
Parties are fucking gay. Just a bunch of normies talking about themselves to make them feel like their life is worth something.

first world imagined problems for first world faggots

Well for starters, I don’t have any friends to go out to celebrate events like the new year or my birthday and I don’t know what to do with my life. I also have depression and anxiety.

Get a job and some hobbies

You need to whole heartedly want to do it, and you need to know it will take time. It doesnt happrn overnight.

I had shit credit and was broke. I decided I would fix my credit even while being broke. It would take three years.... Three years later I had excellent credit. It was a tough three years but totally worth it.

The biggest redpill n Jow Forums
Sad someone didn't talk to you? Don't worry I'm in this stage too. It's hard to open up when you've been a neet shut-in

How the fuck is that even possible? Do you live in a big city in a commie block? Every small town in Croatia everyone knows everyone.

Nick Mullen is one of the host of Cum Town. The podcast currently makes a little under 50k a month and he takes half of that. He makes 50k in two months.

No I hung out with my family.

Life is good :)

Yikes

So is mine, minus this

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It seems like a lot but how long do these things actually last? You think the show will make that much in 10 years? Monthly payouts are not a big deal if it only last a few years.

Get married and raise kids. You will never be lonely and will always have a family.

The answer has always been: leave the fucking house. Interact with humans. Don't shove your opinions or life problems down people's throats. You'll make a friend or two who you can confide in, for everyone else just be positive and fun to be around. It's not easy but it's what you crave. It's the only way to get a party started. You want to be the guy who has friends and a support system, but you have to make that happen, they are not going to come knocking on your door. Do it man.

It may sound cheesy to some of the violently anti-social here, but find somewhere to volunteer, go on group bike rides. You will meet new friends and women. It's like magic. Volunteering at events puts you in direct proximity to good women, and you're also being good is attractive to them. Positivity is attractive. Fuck these losers who want to burn the world. Be who you know you are. Hope this helps. I don't always follow my own advice.

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I cannot. I lived worse but i've never been so pathetic that i cry like a bitch and leach for attention.
Do shit, accomplish stuff or just kill yourself.

I do have a job and as for hobbies, I have zero interest in anything.

Read Evola

Amen brother. Can't stand these whiny bitches crying when they hold their own futures in their hands. They are fucking lazy plain and simple.

There is nothing wrong with being 23 and starting out. You could be like that and 12 months later you could be sitting in a mansion and drinking a nice seltzer.

All it takes for you to find opportunities to unlock value, that's all.

Your problem is that you don't have enough knowledge to unlock value.

Ok good for him, I dont watch faggotcasts so I didnt know.
Why is he still such a weak depressed effeminate looking pussy then if he makes 300k a year?
Is it like some cool artsyfag vibe thing?

Like what. Being a lazy bitch?

>tfw 23 next week
>have a job, but still live with parents

No, find nice Serbian boyfriend to fuck your sweet little ass.

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Have you tried shooting guns?

I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard to acquire some in your country.

19-24 was the absolute fucking worst
flirted with suicide
endless driving around avoiding things
failure after failure
this is what happens when you don't have a father

what do you seek in life, answer truthfully

haha imagine being 23 and thinking you're old and without hope. 30 is when you feel it.

Not even soccer? I refuse to believe that. All Croatians play soccer. Are you fat?

And you are Hrvat. Should start with that

surely this is an attainable career path for every depressed 20 something male

Well when I finished high school a lot of friends went their own ways because of the economic situation in Croatia, a lot of them moved out of the country and I don’t communicate with them through the internet anymore.

Can you explain some more? I'm still learning about this. I was a shut in during my youth and sometimes when I talk to girls it would feel natural and others I feel like it's forced

Well maybe you should do what every Croatian does and move to Germany, New York or Montana.

He's 30 now, has a full beard, luscious hair, and is ripped from working out. That tweet is from 2011.

Don’t know anyone who goes hunting. Well do I watch it on the TV but haven’t played soccer since I graduated high school.

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How I change my attitude?

You kinda have to figure out what you want to do in life. It's hard and yes you are young but you don't want to be 30 and in this predicament still. So turn off the porn and games and tv for a couple of games and try to think what you really want to do. Can you achieve it there? Do you have family in another country you can stay with where you can achieve it. Porn and media is making you apathetic if you turn it off for a week you will see your attitude change.

>joined the military at 18
Yes because they dont have any standards or tests or physical requirements.
Faggot, enjoy crying every time a loud noise goes off.

Wait until you're 80, everyone you've ever known is dead, no one visits you at your prison nursing home, every day you wonder where you are and why you're alone because dementia has ravaged your memory.

>How I change my attitude?

Just do it.
See, Be, Become

See the person you want to be, BE the person you want to be, then you will become the person you wanted to be

Isnt the suicide and homeless rate for veterans high as hell?

This made me kek

>goal
What goal?

I've read that book and I do agree with what he says, but it doesn't magically turn you into a pussy slayer. It just teaches you not to be a nice guy.

Can I be your friend? Internet wise. I'm a middle child so I'm lost in this crazy world

>Don't shove your opinions or life problems down people's throats. You'll make a friend or two who you can confide in,
Bit of oxymoronic sense we're on are we?

running or any athletic activity. anything to get your body in shape. diet too everything else starts to fall into place

Thanks, dad.

as you can tell by our responses most of us have figured out to get an easy job and live responsibly

you should try it

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I dont have a father and all I want to do is shoot stuff.
Too bad you need a lolcense.

>running or any athletic activity.
Been there done that.
Got another activity? Dont say gym I don't have the money.

Hi!

Find a hero (or a few), see the qualities in him that make him a great man. Try to live up to his (of their standards), in time you really will be living like the hero you admired.

Mine is Benjamin Franklin, the Chadist Scientist/Politician/Philosopher of his time.

I met a lot of my friends in AA.
Find a hobby or get together that you need to go to, and just push through the awkwardness.
I had crippling anxiety from addiction but after having to be around people and talk about myself, doing so became comfortable and normal. I soon realized that the setting, situation and general feeling is the same, I just can handle it much more.
For example awkward silence is only awkward if you feel like it is. Being more and more exposed to “awkward” silences makes it no longer awkward, or at least FEEL that way.
Same with talking to new people. It seems weird and you may think you didn’t make a good impression. But truth is no one becomes friends or begin to enjoy each other’s company after 5 minutes especially when first meeting. It takes consistent exposure to each other. And most people don’t think you’re weird if you don’t say much when first meeting. You’re not supposed to.
Realizing nearly ALL of your anxiety comes from you judging yourself (and I dont mean acknowledging this as a truth, rather understanding and implementing that thought in your life. Shift in consciousness and positive reinforcement) changes your entire life. Nearly everyone is thinking about how they look to you when talking to you, as you do with them. But working to get that loud voice in your head become more and more quiet will make being social much more fun and EASY.

>See the person you want to be, BE the person you want to be, then you will become the person you wanted to be
B ur self.
If I did that people would red flag law me and call me an incel like you people do on here.
Heres the real red pill.
Stop caring.

Fuck yeah brother, bunch of whinyass faggots these days.
>seething pussy/fatty who claims he didnt join for "muh politics" instead of admitting he is a coward while attacking vetbros
Many such cases.
Sad.

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>B ur self.
NO.. because now YOU are a unhappy failure.
Change YOU to become a happy successful family man and pillar of your community.

>Find a hero (or a few), see the qualities in him that make him a great man.
just not an eceleb, like many idiots here are attracted to for some reason

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I do sympathize, lived that way for many years. Not as much light, and more boxes of nothing, but the same.

I don't have any easy answers. Just don't kill yourself. I sat with a gun barrel in my mouth a few nights. Don't drink either. That won't improve anything. I didn't chase girls, didn't think a girl would even want to look at me in those days. Just kept my head down and stayed alive. It's years later and things are better. I became Orthodox. That may be the single largest decision to improve my life. The Orthodox Church is nothing like degenerate western churches. You have a nous, a special faculty that allows you to know and speak with God and He will reveal Himself to your heart and noetic faculty in time. Real theoria is possible, despite the western dogmatic failures, you can see God and have His life through uncreated grace.

I don't know where you are at though. It'll hurt, maybe the pain is necessary. Don't kill yourself.

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>just die for Israel goyim!!
Hope you come home in a box, zogbot kike scum.

Get into politics and post on Jow Forums about them. You could try starting that right after you delete your thread that has nothing to do with politics that you posted on Jow Forums you fucking degenerate loser.

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Find hobbies and network around them, you don’t even have to like the hobbies too much.
Redpilled hobbies with lots of whites include:
1. Guns/hunting/prepping
2. White sports like golf and tennis
3. Gardening/growing
4. Save money and move somewhere else to start over

Side note, make sure to exercise and learn how to control anxiety. It’s something I haven’t mastered, but it’s worth the struggle.
Have hope user

parties are dumb. either too many retards or too many liberals

>your only choice in life is to fight for Israel, get ptsd, and become a welfare queen

Also, something I learned was just to say yes. I did not want to go to social stuff and dinners and shit after my AA meetings. I wanted to go home and sit on Jow Forums. But my sponsor made me go. 4 months later I began saying yes on my own, not by force (or strong suggestion rather) from my sponsor. I STILL had no desire to go. Now I go because it’s normal to me. I actually “want” to go. Sure, sometimes I don’t go and sometimes I really don’t want to but I still say yes.
Say yes to more things. And obviously you don’t have to say yes to everything. But a lot of times the reason you aren’t invited anywhere is because either YOU don’t ASK to join or don’t reach out, and/or you said “no” so many times it doesn’t make sense to you an invitation.
Most people aren’t going to be pissed that you’re asking to join (unless it’s a intimate gathering).

Oh okay I'm starting to get it. I guess I've been an NPC my whole life. Can I ask you about girls? Because I'm still a virgin, just not a incel

>he was too fat/retarded/scared to join
Cope harder buddy.

At least Im not a whiny depressed "woe is me" bitch like 90% of the current 18-30yr old age group.

This is the most cringe thing I've ever read

>>Wait until you're 80
>Implying you won't be strapped into a VR headset for 14 hours a day playing super loli rape adventure except for when the robo-maid takes you out of it to feed you, sponge-bath or makes you put clothes on evert few months because some relative wants to visit because they "just wanted to make sure you were OK".

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>I had shit credit
>Three years later

For those broke niggas who don’t know, negative info on your credit report stays there for seven years.

>Can I ask you about girls? Because I'm still a virgin, just not a incel

Stop thinking "girls" (as a group) and start think girl (as the one).
You only need to be that someone special with ONE girl, so stop trying to impress all girls.
Become the man you want to be and be friendly with many people. SERIOUSLY LOOK at any women before you forma relationship. Do you see her as a mother of your kids, do you see her as a friend, do you both want the same things in life (finding a great woman only to discover she want NO children is a deal breaker).
The single most important choice you will make in your entire life is who you will spend it with.

The only iron fast rule in picking a mate is:
DO NOT FUCK CRAZY

Happy birthday, user

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How do I know if a girl is interested in me? How do I approach my feelings and how do I read signs?

[email protected] please email me. I'm interested in more

>his name remembered
PEAK boomer delusion

Spaz out from ptsd, kike.

God bless you user.

We need more people like you on Jow Forums

We call each other nigger and likes and shills but at the end of the day still have a sense of camaraderie.

No homosexuality

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Don't they have fucking scisors in USA? Or is it because they charge you 100$ per cut?

It was a new doctor

uci pedercino ljena

Fake it until you make it- pretend she likes you. Walk around and tell yourself "she digs me" "she does too" "that one wants to fuck me" etc. Even if it's bullshit you'll develop a look about you that that exudes confidence. Plain looking guys get girls with this approach but it takes time. It's an investment and a heathy mental game you play inside your head. Or you can walk around telling yourself that you're an ugly loser. Which approach do you think will more likely get you puss? Go forward with that false self-generated confidence. Get shot down a few times. It won't kill you. You'll grow a tougher skin.

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Sorry, but having disciples is not my thing.
This life is vacation time for me, quite with a wife and a child. The world is doing perfectly OK without my intervention.

Christ is an amazing man, I am proud to call my self a Christian.
All wise men sit at the feet of the Buddha and learn from him.

The best life is a that of a family man. Be a good friend to others and you will have good friends. Life is a one time trip, so enjoy the now and prepare for the end

last time I got stitches the bill did come out to $100 per stitch