Do you blame women or yourself for not being able to get a girlfriend?

Do you blame women or yourself for not being able to get a girlfriend?

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Myself, I'm a self hating piece of shit. Its probably better that I don't have a girlfriend because I'm sure that I'd put up with whatever abuse, especially emotional, because I'm a submissive faggot into gentle femdom.

all mine, I expect someone I would really want to be with and not some random person...too high expectations

My fault. I'm fat and lazy

I blame my genetics.

Me. I don't try because I have no experience with women.

Both.
I'm fat and ugly. Which I'm working on but still.

However women share some blame.

I have a good job, my own place, and have been described many times as charming and a genuinely good person.

And there are complete dirtbags who are fatter and uglier than me who have devoted wives and girlfriends.

So I dont know.

>blaming genetics
So it's still someone else's fault isn't it

If you are fat and ugly you can't blame women at all for not wanting you

Sure I can.
Women are fat and ugly and are still fawned over.
And as I said. There are plenty of fatter, uglier men with women.

Myself.

This board will make up any excuse to make it someone else fault instead of their own

>Chad
>tyrone
>stacy
>goverment
>muhh generation

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You just have not found the right one yet user. Do not stray.

>tfw don't have genitals that feel good on being roped like that

I blame
1)My genetics because I'm ugly
2)My father for he never taught me how to act like a man

It's not women's fault. It's my fault. But my faults come from circumstance and genetics. Though, if women wanted to, they COULD help me out of my suffering, but seeing how they're just as bound by the same amount of circumstances and genetics I can't really get mad.

no that is not the problem. the problem is the laws that overprotect women. also women don't even need the laws to completely destroy your life and all she needs is a twitter. no evidence or police reported needed just a #metoo.

Nah, women have always been nice to me bar very few exceptions. It's not like I've asked any girl on a date.

Myself, for I love the dick.

I blame the jews, as you should too.

Please tell me when in the history of humanity, people could manually select genes to pass onto their children. Ugly people have children who grow up to become attractive, and attractive people spawn ugly offspring. Its just luck of the draw.

Same but add intimacy and trust issues.

How could I blame a woman for not liking me? I make the choice every day to be fucking lazy and poor

i'm mentally ill and bad with interpersonal relationships. i want all of the take and no give in a relationship but i'd rather not make anyone suffer like that so i'm alone

I've never met or heard of a girl I was interested in, so there is no one to blame. Not an incel for the same reason.

Myself entirely, although i have issues that may stem from earlier experiences and heredity.

I don't blame women for not, for the most part, being sexually attracted to me. Don't get me wrong i could be worse, and in a massively egotistical sense i think they miss out on things i can offer outside of looking pretty, but how could i be mad at them.

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Ok i admit, i blamed other stuff, but the point still stands, it's not women's fault.

I have a girlfriend.

The key is ceaseless self-improvement. Not having a girlfriend can be either rotten women or some part of you is not up to par, but you should always strive to be your best.

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Myself for being an entitled lazy faggots who thinks being "nice" will just bring pussy to my door. Also, low self-steem, no confidence, random panic/anxiety attacks, brainlet, dumb as fuck, ugly, fat, autistic, and a bunch of other things that I have that not even myself can tell.

When I feel like I'm starting to like a girl, I just think the obvious in my head like, why the fuck would she be with someone like me when she definitely can do better. I guess I'm gonna be alone the rest of my life.

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I mostly blame my poor genetics.

myself, I'm mentally unstable and I don't want subject my issues on other people. If a girl would ever show any interest in me I'd probably just push her away. It's almost guaranteed she would find a different boyfriend anyways and she would be much happier with him than me.
>but-but, muh happiness user
I don't give a shit about my own happiness, and the less people that know me the less people I'd hurt with my inevitable suicide.

myself for being a total fuckup
my mother for turning me into a total fuckup from an early age
the left for creating and propagating the underlying ideology behind it all

I blame myself and society at large. Not women in particular

>inevitable suicide.
Why inevitable?

I blame my mother. Shes crazy, psychotic, manipulative cunt that ruined my life.

Women are so awful that they've turned half the population of this board gay.

I have had girlfriends. It's not that I'm unattractive. Women are shit. They're the ones to blame.

Both.

Women are absolute shit and 20 years of the internet has exposed it. No hiding behind the pussy-pass anymore.

And I'm partly to blame because I don't want to do TheRedPill or anything that works on women because there's nothing in it for me.

All you do is put on a cover and pretend to be amazing to women. Lie, lie, LIE your ass off to make yourself seem great. Then fuck the chick as long as you can and drop her. Rinse and repeat.

Neither, I didn't choose to be ugly and women didn't choose to not be attracted to me. It's just the way it is

partly women, partly men

Men for being such hornbags willing to fuck anyone and women for having too high standards, to the point they'd refuse their looksmatch

A bit of both. I had a girl tell me she likes me but I didn't kiss her on our dates so she lost interest. She asked me out again recently and when I tried to set up the date, she said no. That one I'll blame on her.

I hate this game pretend to be something else other than yourself. Even flirting is do this to do that and etc.

myself, but also society, which is controlled by (((((them))))).

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Myself. I am fat, lazy, unsocial, a sadist.
I don't meet people outside of my friends group and within the group I am knows as the guy that can show you a video of whatever kind of weird shit or death you want to see, new people will instantly get notified of this because it is funny. I can't imagine that anyone would like to date someone like that.

The only girl that I have ever loved (she like my weird videos, she even played euphoria which we discussed for an hour) is getting married I a few months.

>I can't get women because I'm fat and ugly
>Guys fatter than uglier than me get girls
Hmmmmm.

Myself
I wasnt born attractive to the market

If its inevitable then that means its not in your control if you die by suicide.
Its not inevitable.. thats not possible. You make the choice to kill yourself, regardless of environmental or internal pressures. You still weigh the option of killing yourself or not in that moment.
But by all means, since youre so convinced its inevitable, then just kill your self

RIGHT FUCKING NOW

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Myself i should simply just talk to women but i get super twitchy in public and im afraid ill be an abusive asshole

>im afraid ill be an abusive asshole
Why would you think that?

I blame nobody, I don't want to date and I don't plan on ever dating or having kids, even if it means the end of my linage
but that means I don't apply to this thread, as I am a volcel and not an incel

It's because I can't control my mental state, sometimes I feel like I'm on top of the world and my life couldn't be any better, then an hour later I'll e curled up in a corner having a nervous breakdown. I don't know what my brain will decide to do when it's feeling broken. Most suicides are spontaneous and not thoroughly thought out.

also if I owned a gun I guarantee I'd be fucking dead right now. I've tried to kill myself once before and I still regret it, but sometimes I wish I did it properly. If I had access to such an easy and instant method when I was in a state of delirium I wouldn't hesitate

Seems like bipolar thing. Have you tried medication?

I had a gf for a few months in 2008. I've been single since then.

I'm a low status male with nothing to offer, thus I have no worth as a man or a partner.

no, although I have done a bunch of research. It happens to me a lot in short burst like several times a day unlike normal bipolar which your happy for 6 months then depressed for 6 months.

There are different variations. Maybe meds could help.

some times.... other times I blame myself... and some other times I just don't give a fuck

I have mild gynaecomastia but I am not fat just a little overweight. Always thought that tiddies will disappear after puberty but I still have them . It's the only thing holding my confidence back.

I hurt my friends inadvertently and have problems controlling my anger

yeah I don't ever talk about this shit with people in real life. I should really go get myself checked out, but knowing myself I probably won't, I've already tried to convince myself to see a psychiatrist like 1000 times. Thanks for talking about it with me like a normal person instead of just antagonising me like the rest of the shitheads on this board do. You're a nice person user and I hope you lead a nice life.