Ended up dating a trans girl I met here on r9k

afab? So you're a girl? Why not just say that? Gender is a meme and does not exist. Females are girls and males are boys. It's pretty fucking cut and dry. At least be nice to your trap partner, you seem like the abusive type. I'm not gay, jsut super lonely. I could see myself getting with a tranny so long as she was super nice and didnt want me to do things to her penis. Basically I'd treat him like a girl at all time and he'd have to be ok with that. I briefly dated one but holy shit, nuttier than squirrel shit. Would always complain about the chasers and how glad she was that I'm not one. Then I'm dumped because I don't acknowledge her faggotry and treat her like a girl almost as if I'm uncomfortable fucking a larping man or something. Like no shit, I was upfront the whole time if I'm with a trap she will be a girl and my eyes and treated as such. I won't even acknowledge the existence of trannyism. Very nice of her to wait a few months so I grow fond before deciding it's suddenly a problem and that a chaser would make a better partner.

Ahh I really hope I'm not abusive? I really hope I didn't disrespect her because of this thread, I'll show it to her when she wakes up.

I'm a little curious about the afab thing.
Does it mean that you were born female but choose to live life as a man or is it that you don't sexually identify yourself and simply happened to be born with female genes?

In either case I find it weird that you'd choose to identify yourself as what biological gender you had at birth as opposed to coming up with something like: Self-Detemined Male, Reassigned Male etc.

Seems almost like you identify more with the transition than with either male or female states.

daw thats really cute, idunno i have a problem being to clingy so im not really sure what to say
my girlfriend constantly reassures me but sometimes i still worry i guess
it means i was assigned female by a doctor when i was born dude
gender expression doesnt equal biology

Yeah thanks for understanding
also yeah afab means just that, I don't like calling myself a girl, just afab

The reason I feel weird about the tr*p threads is that it makes me feel self conscious for thinking trans girls are valid? like... its so weird to go out of your way to say they're not valid if it makes sense? inb4 anyone says I'm trying to get lgbt ally points. I just don't like talking about this because I don't want to come off like I'm trying to get points

So afab is basically saying you don't care what gender you are whilst at the same time drawing more attention to the fact you were born a girl?

That's fucking dumb.
Seriously.
You're fucking stupid.

Jeez
I'm sorry?
Its just hard for me because people always tell me to tell them my gender when all they need is my pronouns I'm sure

Tr*ns people are mentally ill you dummie, how did you fell for it idk. Don't make the same mistake, report faggot threads (that means diapers, trans and other gay shit) and you'll be fine

ofc!
>So afab is basically saying you don't care what gender you are whilst at the same time drawing more attention to the fact you were born a girl?
no its me telling people i was assigned female at birth :V)

>muh pronouns

I grew up in France for 10 years.

Tables are feminine. Why? who fucking knows.

There are both feminine and masculine words to describe both a male and females genitals.
No one cares.

No one cares that you can't decide what you want to be called or what toilet you want to use.

When they talk about you they're gonna use he or she. If your gender truly wasn't an issue you wouldn't care which so just pick one and stop making everything about your gender.

THIS IS NOT OPPRESSION. THIS IS SIMPLY PEOPLE NOT GIVING A SHIT ABOUT YOUR DELICATE FEELINGS.

Your "afab"

Op here, we're already for the long haul, she has heard me talk to my parents and has heard my doctors appointment.

STOP what you're doing right now. get yourself a cute bf and start a family. if you're a shitskin then kys.

so is she upset with you?
i want this relationship to work after meeting op i ship it so hard

You haven't met me but we can exchange Contact info and become Honest Friends?

YEAH she's upset with me because I kept acting like a clown at the doctors

Oh, so you're grossed out by me. Ok

wow yeah i'd like that
i guess we havent met
talking on imageboards is as much as i meet most people
awee i hope she doesnt stay upset long

What's your discord tag user who said they met me?

umm it has an emoji in it so i dont think i can actually post it here haha

HER? Sorry faggot, that is a MAN WITH A COCK

Here's mine, if you're the user who said they met me,

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i am i am dont worry desu

>Tables are feminine. Why?
Because it's on all fours, like women should be

wow i wonder why girls dont like you

welp this thread kicked off

It's just being contrarian for the sake of contrarianism.

>you are female and every single part of your body and mind is female so we will call you female
>>umm no sweetie hecc u, ur not my *reel* doctor
>w-what?
>>Kill all people reeeee, fucking bigots I want to commit mass murder and genocide, how dare you imply that female means female, fucking shitlord I piss and shit on all that is cool and good, I only like bad things and want the whole world to suffer for no goddess damn reason fuckshitpissniggerdeathtorturesatanpenisdickcumbuttholeshit!!!!!1!!!1111!!!!!!!1!111