Why do you hide your sorrow from others?

Why do you hide your sorrow from others?

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Because I am uncomfortable being emotionally vulnerable in the presence of people I am not familiar with

People don't like, respect, or want to be around or with people who wear their sadness on their sleeve.

because showing weakness is looked down upon user. not very difficult to understand.
still everyone can tell im depressed if they talk with me for longer than 5 minutes

it's common courtesy not to involve others in your shit

Nobody likes a whiny weak man, not other men, not women, not even childern.

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the information I give out can be used against me

Because it isnt their business

I ask myself that question every day. I think its because I dont want to force people to do what I want just because they pity me/they feel bad/they dont want to feel guilty.

Fear of being seen as weak or childish and also because I don't other people to worry about me

Can I save this image, amigo?

ITT: Low self-esteem leading to self-fulfilling prophecies.
>I never confide to others because [excuse].
>Wtf no one cares.

Because a real man controls his emotions even his sorrow.

Hiding your emotions is not controlling them. You're not overcoming anything, you're trying to keep face out of fear of showing weakness. You're not fooling anyone.

Do you even need to ask? I have no rights to the images I post

Why would I have to hide it if it's already under control? Do you really need someone else to do that for you? Are you that weak?

I'm taking it, and I'm going to draw a big flopping cock for your pleasure.

Embarrassment/pride/not wanting to be a burden.
Nobody can help with my sadness

I don't know, how about you think things through before replying? Because this exchange:
>Why do you hide your sorrow from others?
>Because a real man controls his emotions even his sorrow.
Indicates you consider them one in the same.

I relieve stress by sticking things up the butt. I bet you're too scared to do that.

faggot

Stop hiding your faggotry and take a real dick, you pussy.

this honestly but I can't be a tough confident guy either so I just never speak

People don't wanna feel bad, they wanna feel good and if you make them feel good they're more willing to give you stuff like jobs and money.

>I relieve stress by sticking things up my butt
>Faggot
Hmmmmm

Wow, dude.
I can't believe this accusation is being thrust upon me! I'm NOT a penis-man kinda man. I'm big, straight, tough guy!

So next time: watch what you say!
Or: there'll be trouble, kid

This but with everybody.

What if I jack them off?

Will that still count?

Men aren't allowed to be weak or vulnerable because women are self-absorbed hysterics ruled by their hormones and any male who shows a hint of betaness will be completely written off by them.

Nobody really gives a shit and nobody can really help. Or if they try to help it's some stupid fake platitude to make them feel like they're helpful.
>user you have so much potential
>user you are still so young.
>user nobody is alone forever. I know it hurts but it'll get better
Tired of it. Tired of everything. I'm feeling like tonight could finally be the night I get off this rock.

That's sexist, dude, and wildly inaccurate!
You can't generalise an entire sex that that; dipshit.

Bitch bastard cow

Moo moo

>if you make them feel good they're more willing to give you stuff like jobs and money
Or rather more willing to take advantage of you because you're always compliant.

The patriarchy is why men can't show weakness and vulnerability.

No it's not. It's the matriarchy.

Certain aspects of the so-called patriarchy are propped up by women far more than they are by men. Women are happy to scream and shout about patriarchal oppression and traditional gender roles when it might get them a pay rise or some more freebies, but you can probably count the number of them who sincerely want their men to be anything other than emotionally distant 10/10 ripped as fuck daddy surrogates on one hand.

Hey, bun, you can't make wild accusations like that, you fucking nobody!

The matriarchy is all about openness about such things. It's patriarchy that demands men clam up or else they'll look like pussies (ie like women).

>The matriarchy is all about openness about such things.
lmao good joke. Women are more prejudiced than men. Just listen to some girls talk when they think they are alone you will realize how prejudice they truly are.

I've never had problems opening up to a guy friend emotionally. They're usually supportive and understanding.

Whenever I've been emotionally open with a woman I could practically hear their vaginas drying up.

Women too can be perpetrators of patriarchy, you know. That's how pervasive sexism is.

That's just because your a whiny faggit -SAD

And here we have the "emotionally available" woman

>all of women's flaws are the patriarchy
>all of humanities flaws are the patriarchy
Why don't you just fucking admit you hate men? Why do insist on lying to yourself and the world?

People don't actually care if you're a bit sad.

Sounds more like you're insecure around men. Men are so deadly afraid of being perceived in a negative light by women, they project these harsh standards onto women that they must meet by putting on pretenses of being macho.

*around women

Because it's mine, not theirs.

Don't speak to me like that, you fucking faggot bitch!

Your mamma's a fat stupid slapper!

I don't hate men. I hate the patriarchy that oppresses both men and women and causes them to oppress one another. I'm saddened that you are obviously someone hurt by women but misdirect hate against them that should be directed against patriarchy.

>I don't hate men I just blame them for all of the world's problems even their own problems
>but of course women are absolved of any sin because women are all perfect XD

Womans have vaginas, right?

I don't blame men, I blame the patriarchy that oppresses men as well as women and causes them to oppress one another (which means women are not all perfect). You're being hysterical, but I expect nothing less from a raging misogynist.

>I don't blame men I blame men who do things
Damn you are right you don't hate men you just hate everything that makes a man a man.

I hate your silly notions of what makes a man a man, or a woman a woman.

Because it shows weakness
Just repress the bad feelings until you don't feel them anymore

>Sounds more like you're insecure around men.
sounds more like you're projecting, you dumb broad.

So you think men actually want to have zero fucking power in society? Are you that retarded? Having weakness doesn't mean you want to be fucking nothing who doesn't do anything ever.

You are literally projecting on women.

I don't like putting my burdens on others, instead i'll suffer in silence. - i've accepted this fate

No, I'd be literally projecting on women if I came all over that fat face plastered on your empty fucking head.

Because most people don't care, and the ones who do care get tired of it pretty quick

How the fuck is this even a question?

Because other people generally don't care, I'm just another nuisance. And if they do act like they care, it's usually cause they're going to hurt me worse later.

>So you think men actually want to have zero fucking power in society?
No and I don't see how opposing patriarchy leads to men not having any power. If anything, it will give power to those marginalized by it. You seem under the impression men in general have always had power, when the concept of male equality is rather recent in history. Equality is an affront on patriarchy, which thrives on inequality of relations, which means there must be lots of marginalized men. That you identify a system that limits male power is pretty sad.

All i wanted was a fucking feels thread but you faggots couldn't even keep it together for more than 10 posts and now it's a fucking discussion about patriarchy and muh sloots, fucking incels shoot your dick off.

What system? You talk like you are describing capitalism not patriarchy. Why do you gender capitalism? I assume you are probably a socialist so you likely hate capitalism and you choose to gender it because? I think it is because you hate men but you pretend not to because in your world prejudice is the worst evil so you have to wash yourself free of that sin despite it being embedded in your character.

>fucking incels shoot your dick off.
Make me faggot. Why do you think I hide my feels? It's because I'm a shitty person.

because i'd get called a bitch pussy and i'm also disgusted at myself when i cry every 3 years or so.

Nearly every thread on /r9gay/ ends up like this;
>muuh sjw
>something something traps

Because fuckers will use my sorrow as a form of weakness against my responsibilities. People in my area are too stupid or doesn't give a flying fuck to reassure others, so why would I vent out to idiots?

because no one would care if i made it public anyway lul

That's your homosexual fantasy to entertain, but the sad fact is you are insecure around women and psychological project hostility onto them, much like you are getting upset at having your weaknesses pointed out. No one is out of eat you, little Tim, but you'll have to grow up to understand that.

I'm not upset, I just really like thinking of creative ways to tell someone to hop into their shitcopters and fly the fuck away from me.

>What system?
Patriarchy, the ruling social system. Why are you rambling about capitalism, you sound mentally ill.

I am painfully aware
It's because you are emotionally stuned due to bad experiences/trauma/whatever fucks people in the head and now you don't have anyone left to talk about it and making new friends isn't an option anymore because you are already in to deep. Only death will free you.

Alright now I know you are just fucking with me.

I don't have to hide it because I'm never around anyone. I get to be as miserable as I want!

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You went off on a tangent about "engendering capitalism". This isn't an argument, you're just lashing in any way you can out of impotence.

You really think patriarchy is the system of society? Doesn't even make sense mate. Men and women can both have power the system is your shitty system now. Maybe years ago when we actually had rules like that not now though.

Look, you're obviously too stupid to debate with. Just stop posting; okay? Good!

because I have 0 empathy so it confuses me when people feel sorry for me and it kind of annoys me when people care about me

You also have 0 charisma and 0 grammar.

Soak your face in piss.

Because I was diagnosed with psychopathy and even after lots of therapy I still come across overwhelming so there's very few people who actually are willing to stick around when they understand me.

>Because I was diagnosed with psychopathy
So, do you inject dog shit into your veins? Or is that a myth?

nice unoriginal spacing faggot

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>hurr durr im too stupid to even argue a single point being made. i better just respond with inaccurate ad hominem
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I tried showing it to people when I was around 17-18. They quickly taught me that shit isn't acceptable and no one cares

No one likes whiny men if you haven't noticed

I never hide or pretend anything, don't really understand how I would. It's true, though, that it doesn't really make you any friends. You gotta play all these social games to get people to not walk all over you. I don't really care about that, I'll just be open and honest alone.

It's not their problem I'd rather support them and deal with shit myself. And talking about it doesnt help anyways.
My friends say that's unhealthy though.

I hate depending on others, i'd rather suffer alone than look more of a retard depressed worthless sack of shit.

It is. It's also hypocritical. You're not being fair to others by denying their support, and not being fair to yourself by insisting you're not worth the trouble.

I know that in my head but when it comes down to it I just start sobbing because of how little I think of myself. When someone tells me they want to hear my problems or help me it just snowballs into this extreme self hatred. It's a miracle I dont tell them to find a new friend in that state, cause it's what I'm thinking.

They're not worth it, and it's not their business besides.

I don't say anything to anybody really and only speak when spoken to. However even when I speak to people they can tell something if "off" about me

This. People would take advantage of me too so I keep my sadness to myself.

>people actually ask you about your problems instead of just ignoring you 24/7

You don't realise how easy you have it.

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Its cause I support them at pretty much all hours of the day

Cuz at the end of the day nobody gives a fuck. But its obvious to people that im miserable, i just dont talk about it

They can't help and I don't think I'd like the result if I tested whether they care to try.

I told someone my sorrow and he didn't care. I expressed it as anger and then he paid attention but he got really defensive and now he wants nothing to do with me.