I care about him. We have already discussed how it is impossible for me to even have an online relationship because it is forbidden for us and I do not want to be indecent. He told me he would kill himself if I did not let him orbit me. I care about him but I am not sure if continuing to talk to him when we both know we will never be together is even good for him mentally and it stresses me out whenever we talk. He tells me about his sexual fantasies and i dont know what to say. What should I do robots?
How do I deal with an orbiter?
>He told me he would kill himself if I did not let him orbit me
Sounds like you can kill two birds with one stone. He kills himself, his suffering ends, and he stops orbiting you
Hmm, not sure what to do? If this is real, I think blocking them on everything would be the simplest solution, he can move on, but if he's already a obsessive person he can do it to someone else? even if he doesn't mean any harm, but its your life
Just block him you stupid whore.
Stop feeding off his and, now our, attention.
Fuck you.
Just tell him that you don't care
Better than stringing gum along
>what should I do robots
Disembowel yourself on cam for our amusement, roastie. That's all you're good for.
Stop letting yourself be manipulated by the "waah ill kill myself" shit, if you wanna block him then block him.
I have told him to stop talking to me MANY times, he will not go away. Last time I tried to block him he got mad and found some personal info of mines which he planned on leaking, so I can't stop talking to him either
No way I don't want blood on my hands
Let him die and be out of his pathetic misery. You're just as pathetic for taking it seriously imo.
only respond with memes
Dude wont kill himself, every orbiter says bullshit like that, he prolly even orbits others
Block him and if he leaks shit you could prolly report that to the police, depending on the stuff and your location of course
call the police then you empty headed whore
the beta wouldn't do it anyway lel
It's not personal enough to involve the police, but it is personal enough to interrupt my life negatively.
Well then
He live close to you?
Ask a male friend to bother him a couple days and he will stop
Nope, lives on the other side of the world.
>What should I do robots?
Start by gtfo my board you underage faggot
Whatever you want. Be a boss
I'm orbiting a girl really hard at the moment. She's going to try and dump again tonight so I got all my shit on invisible mode, she usually spooped to contact unless she sees I'm online, might call me later but ehh, I deal with it then. Truth is nothing you can say will break it. Read up on Limerence. Part of what makes orbiting so addicting is the intense emotional states. Any little crumb of affection and it's proof that she is my eternal love and soulmate. Any slightest thing could be a sign that she is unsure or mad at me or hates me. Highest highs and lowest lows, but I can't stop coming back to the pain. I don't know if he's legit better than you but if that's the case just give in and let it happen. If not then fuccit it, you do you but ignoring is best. Blocking is cruel, saying you're over it it cruel, saying you're not sure is cruel, saying he's cute is cruel. Ignoring is heartbreaking but he can safely orbit from a distance and maybe he will get pulled into another roastie's gravitational pull. Guys are fundamentally different from girls in that we can only love or be infatuated with one person. Just ride it out.
It's really the opposite though. I dreamed of doing cute things with a boy until I got raped and realized that's basically all men think about on a daily basis.
Is ignoring him really the best though? I have been trying this strategy for almost a year now, he just keeps coming back...on different outlets, all kinds of things. I also don't think it's universally true that only males can only hold a single object of their affection. When I felt "in love" for the first time I didn't care about anything else, not even eating or sleeping. Like the worst/best sickness.
post his phone I'll talk to him
Just let him kill himself because you are a woman and women have no empathy
I want the object of my affection but I could never hurt her. I don't think the guy who 'raped' you was an orbiter, or represents any decent portion of men. My girl has some weird sexual hangups, so I don't push her and the topic rarely comes up. I beat of to her normal clothed pics and imagine married life together, fall asleep looking at them, and write in my journal a lot. Some stuff still leaks through and is actually sent to her, but for the most part I try to stay in my orbit and read her mood. Your situation is different because it sounds like you're decided where mine is still back and forth on the idea. I'm also financially stable and better off than her so I know I could improve her life in ways besides just having some creepy obsessed lanklet in her bed each night.
Infatuation is a beautiful thing. I still go to work and hold life together. but even then she's all I think about. I go home and look at pictures, write about her, think about her, all that stuff. I work 12 hour shifts and have an hour long commute one way, but still I'll stay up late with her when she is in the talkative mood, sometimes I only get 4 or 5 hours sleep before having to go back in. Weight loss, it's all there. Sounds like you can related somewhat to the love thing. When you were like that would you have been able to divide that obsession between him and another guy? It's intense, and there's so very much of it, but due to the nature of the beast you can only focus it on one person. You could be ignoring him for years but once he moves on it will be sudden and radio silence. I just hope you don't miss it too much and try to pull him back in. My girl is flakey but once I finally let her alone and move on she does something that starts the love all over again.
>that's what basically all men think about all day
No, not really, I'm struggling to survive and get my financial shit together atm, and thinking about work. As far as sex I don't think about raping anyone, I think about hugging, cuddling and being intimate. Performing oral is a big thing for me, but all of that is just a means to make someone happy, I don't really care about sex beyond that, I've been jerking off for more than a decade without sex, its not a big deal to go without it.
You are talking about Brad, and you ignore robots who want to make you happy. Your dumbfuck orbiter is just a pseudo Brad. Don't generalize me just because of your cringeworthy orbiter who constantly has to get you to indulge in his sexual fantasies, faggot. You led the cringeworthy faggot on and now you have to deal with it. Next time don't pick someone like that. Pick a real robot.
What does orbiting even mean?
No he wasn't an orbiter but it's hard to deny that between males and females men think about carnal sexual desire more often than do women. Anyway enough dialogue about that pic.
>some stuff still leaks through
like what?
Oh yeah I definitely think it's hard when the orbit is so close he's a borderline meteor
Yeah he's definitely not richer than me, nor does he really have plans to improve my life. He knows the reason I won't get in a relationship with him is b/c it would practically ruin my life. He even told me that if we met in person he would impregnate me with or without my consent.
> I think about hugging, cuddling and being intimate
Are you a sub? Or a vanilla guy? Idk maybe I just know the wrong people but I've never heard a guy say that he is interested in that except to trick a gullible girl into bed with him.
>performing oral
Like, the girl on you?
>you ignore robots that want to make you happy
I do not, there are several very practical reasons why our relationship could never work. I find him attractive and like him as a person, but it cannot. And I did not lead him on, i told him within the first week of us talking that we'd never be a thing. I just cannot stop talking to him or he freaks out.
Call him a jew continuously until he leaves you alone. Or you could kill yourself. Imo, two birds with one stone- he stops orbiting you, and there is one less roastie on thia board
It means obsessing over a girl who you will never actually be with. Stalking, thinking about constantly, dreaming of, texting a million times, etc.
I am a sub
>trick into bed
My ex used me as a teddy bear despite my crippling anxiety and borderline heart attacks from having her sleep on my chest and I'm still a virgin, figure that one out genius. I'm obviously a master manipulator trying to trick women into bed where its easy to rape them.
You're delusional.
>I am a sub
Well then you should know that your particular inclinations don't speak for the majority of men
I don't think you in particular would trick anyone, but most men would.
not him but you can stfu about telling me that am like your desperate orbiters who you keep leading on roastie
Literally the best way of getting rid of an orbiter is having a bf. You should send photos of yourself with some other guy hugging or posing for the photo. Guaranteed he'll feel turned off and find someone else.
As if I could get a valid irl boyfriend
I'm not intentionally leading him on, i want to know how I can stop doing anything that makes him think I am. I've tried saying weird things and being distant and giving one word replies and flat-out ignoring him and blocking him and pretty much every trick in the book I can think of but nothing's worked
Fucking block him you attention seeking whore and fuck off no one whats your kind on this board or site in general
cut him off. give no attention. accept no attention. its for his own good. now fuck off this board.
Start talking nonsense at him, like he says hello you say MOOOM PULL THE PLUG
Hahahahahaa best idea yet
Give in and do exactly what he tells you to do
May I orbit you psychiclee fembot?
We could do and feel things we've never felt
Will that really make him lose interest?
LOL I wish I were as pretty as Brooke
Think about it fembot
He'll lose interest after awhile until you try to escape again.
Why would you willingly volunteer to orbit an unattractive girl though?
Huh, interesting
After a few times of repeating this cycle it will probably be over for good.
You should probably call the police, op, I only read like three of your posts and it sounds like you should've called the cops a while ago.
Tell him he has to pay you money or you won't reply to his texts, give him a paypal link or w/e, make some money off the cuck
Don't think about it too much but because I like spaghetti
>never forgetti moms spaghetti
Besides what makes you think your an unattractive fembot?
>tells me about his sexual fantasies
Fucking same. Some creep knew me for an hour and started talking about being a translesbian and into vote. I told them I was not interested in a date and they still ask me how my day is? Fuck off, hate orbiters.
>He told me he would kill himself if I did not let him orbit me.
Someone that pathetic should just be left to their fate.
Everyone used to bully me in school and I also can see how I look objectively compared to other people.
Kitty!!! Yeah that must be weird from a sex you are not interested in.
The main problem is also that he has something on me so I cant block him.
>The main problem is also that he has something on me so I cant block him.
The fuck does he have on you?
It's not all that serious, but it's some info about me i don't want passed on.
What does Brooke have that you don't?
She is a lot prettier than me. Light skin, beautiful eyes, long straight hair, skinny, great body shape, small nose, good bone structure and face in general. She is just a really pretty girl. I'm barely a 4/10
Are you acting like we've been in this situation?
I know a lot of you have been orbiters, I wanted to know how best to make him actually leave in a humane way.
Yes I would orbit you but do you like sub guys?
No, I'm a huge sub and masochist also.
Well if he kills himself it shouldn't be a problem, right?
I would feel guilty and responsible, so no.
You can't get this faggot to leave because all signs point to him being a cringeworthy fedora lord who blackmails you. Just fucking ignore him and bite the bullet about whatever info or "blackmail".
I thought you wanted to cute things like you said earlier?
Someone who manipulates you into doing what they want by threatening to kill themselves is a subhuman. He won't actually kill himself, he's just a cringeworthy faggot, probably jobless trying to play the pity party. He probably smells like shit too. I knew several fags like this in high school. They're mentally ill, but they aren't going to kill themselves. He will probably stalk you tho.
Learn to pick better robots to orbit you next time, you fucking retard.
I would like to do cute things with a guy, although most of those aspirations were dashed for me early-on.
I have no desire towards vanilla sex, have trouble with intimacy and affection, and the idea of sex where I get off disgusts me for the most part.
I would like to do nice things with a nice guy but I just think that overall it is impractical. I also feel guilty sometimes because I know I can handle an abusive husband. It wouldn't be fair for me to have a nice boyfriend and some other girl get an evil bf when she deserves better and I don't.
I got a (you), what's that mean?
Nick I don't understand you, everything you say and do is confusing.
Can I worship you anyways even though you don't deserve it, supposedly? Where do you live, user? Do you like dogs, cats, or both?
Just reject him and turn him into a woman hater. Why is this difficult for you the rest of your gender does it all the time. If you cared about him you would be with him you liar.
I'm not posting the places he orbits me since they're like my email and whatsapp/phone number. And I really don't need any more orbiters that's just stressful.
I live in the north-east and prefer dogs but I really like both. My favorite house-pet is probably the snake.
In a good way?
Are you fat? Not that it matters..
I'm NE USA too. Okay, sorry for bothering you, I don't want to stress you out, just wanted to talk
Honestly just ignore him. Block his texts And don't respond to his emails or anything. He won't kill himself.
>My favorite house-pet is probably the snake
goddamn whores
>He won't kill himself.
Sure he might. All the world is better with one less orbiter.
All my niggas really gangbang
blackmail or block, sweetie.
user, what country does he live in?
For an hundred bucks, I could make sure he stop bothering you.
Yes I'm fat
ok i will
lel I would never bother a qt snake! Snakes are pure
>this whole thread
How do you people exist.
How much do you weigh, and height?
>for research
5'3, 160 lbs
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That's really good, not bad at all!
What black mail does he even have? Can't be that bad if the police aren't needed
It isn't that bad in general, it's just disastrous in the context of my life. I'm not telling on this board.
block him. he won't actually kill himself; he'll just orbit another girl who gives him the time of day. if you don't want to do that, give short replies like "lol" "oof" "lmao" "oh really" and take a long time to respond
>I can't post my problem on an anonymous image board
yikes you don't need to get into details