Been in uni for 6 years

i am your friend user, every night look up into the sky at 2 am, look for the star called Sirius and remember that someone across the world shares the same stare with you in that moment

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Right there with you, I just finished my 5th year and the only friend I made made by complete accident.

empty internet conspiracy

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>Like to think if I go to uni now things would be different and I'd at least have 3 friends I'd talk to

>Know that realistically the closest thing would only be group participation and I'd experience uni devoid of anything

Sounds like me, user. Also did 6 years (one year in industry). The thing that kept me going was getting the qualification at the end of it all.

Ten years later I've moved to the other side of the world and built a new life, and shit is going pretty good. Learned not to focus on the missed opportunities thing where it seems like things should have gone a different way. That way of thinking is real fucking bad for you.

Things worked out well in the end, by just keeping focused on landing a good qualification, then job, then building a good life.

ok user ill do that

Clubs might not have made a difference. I was a member of two when I went and I could never relate to the normies.

Did you get a degree? Because Im pretty sure thats why you go to to uni.

I know that feeling. Then when I started working I realized that this takes pretty much all my time so I accepted that my life was pretty much over.

I haven't made a friend since high school. With one exception, but he lives out of the country and I haven't seen him in over a year.
I don't know how people do it. When I was in college or whenever I start a new job, everyone around me seems to naturally become friends, and I'm just left out. I feel like I'm missing something.

At least you made one

Have you tried though?
I mean sorry for presuming but you have to actually make an effort, put yourself out there, consistently and frequently. If you go to uni waiting for friends to happen to you, your going to have a bad time.

If you did and still no luck. Im sorry man.

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oi lads can I be involved, make it a trio, lets go on gmt time as well

>put yourself out there
What the fuck does that mean you normalfag?

No, they never do. University is the one place where there are social groups for basically any interest you have, no matter how weird or nerdy. It's also the time where the most free help is available if you have anxieties or other issues.

It means go outside, join club or societies or whatever they do in universities. Force yourself to talk to people in your class, and if your eating lunch go and try to talk to some people you kind of know. Go on those uni nights out and shit.

Its not being a normalfag its called not being a retard. how do you expect to get friends when your not putting yourself out there? do you think just being the same old person and doing the same old things are going to get you results? no, you have to change if you want something to change and they didnt because you didnt.

God there are going to be loads of people who want mates in uni. So you have to go looking for them, and with any luck you'll find them. But staying in the same routine isnt going to do shit.

Your teenage years are a critical time for the brain to develop.

If you don't have friends as a teenager in high school, then your brain doesn't properly develop the ability to socialize.

Not the guy you replied to, but I tried everything you listed there, but fucked it all up somehow. As a result, I spent my entire time at uni (5 years) without a single friend. I don't blame anyone else for what happened. I tried but looking back I just didn't belong at uni.

Your advice is common sense but it doesn't work for people like me because I shouldn't have gone to uni in the first place. Should have got a job for a few years rather than go to uni, probably would have built confidence that way.

do you at least pass your classes? I just finished my second year, havent passed a single class (chem engy) and havent had a single friend

I only failed one class, so yeah I graduated. At least I made my parents proud.

Dude youre fucked.

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shiet. I'm proud of you, man.At least you are good at something

This, I never went to peoples places in highscool and only ever talked in large groups. I cant function socialial if there is less then three people

Thanks man. If you are failing all your classes and lonely then maybe you should quit and find a job. At least then you can make some money. Get out of uni asap. Don't stay for years, it will only make your life worse. Good luck user.

>falling for the job meme

capitalist whore

>empty internet conspiracy conspiracy

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I have gotten a job as a waiter in a hotel for the summer and its even worse. I feel as if i'm eating away months and none of the people are relatable and always nag me for being to myself and not talking much even though i try to be as much fake social as i can.
Besides, you cant find a normal job today without a bazillion degrees, only side stuff like that