hi Jow Forums
what's it like to feel love? i don't even care if someone would love me back. i just want to be hopelessly enamored and devoted to someone.
Hi Jow Forums
You just gotta imagine it my guy. Make yourself a world tailored to what you want.
like you are being mind controlled
>feel love
you love your family or family should love you no?
how can i imagine what it feels like when i have no point of reference for it?
i don't care how it happens i just want it.
you know what i mean, silly user
Just gotta do it my dude. Use your thinking bone.
>i don't care how it happens i just want it.
being in love with someone feels like you are being mind controlled
feels terrible if not mutual
you'll just be suffering all the time
how? how do you feel love
I'm so glad I found you, OP.
ive been running into a similar problem as of late
i dont think I can feel love, and I dont think ive ever felt it in my life
ive felt lust for sure, but never love
are we gonna stay this way forever? is there no hope for us?
i dont give a damn anymore
i want to feel love for something, towards someone
i just want a fucking waifu, is that so much to ask for?
I guess I'm just good at imagining shit. Nowadays I just lay in bed whenever I can and daydream. I have a whole cozy world built for me and my waifu to explore. And then I snap back to reality and everything is shit.
i-i'll try my best then
oh, sorry for the misunderstanding user. that sounds unironically nice though.
i'm already suffering, at the very least the alternative is suffering with someone special in my life. i don't see how it could get any worse than the way i feel now. this one gets it
i have too much spare love inside of me if i don't find anyone to love on i'm gonna explode and then i'll have no love left for anybody ;_;
>oh, sorry for the misunderstanding user. that sounds unironically nice though.
it's not its very bad.
grass is always greener
part of me is afraid i've already run out of love, thats why it seems so impossible for me to feel it
i hope that isnt the case though
i just want to feel love, more than anything in life at the moment
Good luck. If you can't manage it, try and live a virtuous life in case heaven is real.
>to feel it
you have never cared for someone?
It feels like shit. A few brief highs and then some really low lows.
i honestly dont think I have
crushes are just lustful experiences.
i never really felt close to my family (mostly because I was an only child with a distant single mother) so i cant really say I love them
and obviously ive never had friends
no, I really dont think so user.
i guess thats why the idea of love feels so foreign and hard to comprehend to me
god is real and he watches you.
I can do this too, it's super nice. I really recommend that the other people in this thread try it
okay and how do you do that?
imagine finding something so precious that it makes anything else in your life less important, including yourself. in a nutshell that's what it's like and i've never found anything to replace it.
There was a Calvin and Hobbes comic wherein Hobbes put it into words pretty well (for men). General gist:
Your heart runs up to the speed of a hummingbird and then liquifies, dropping to your stomach. That's the first stage.
You don't want to eat much after that and you can't think of fapping, because you're just thinking of Her (this is how it differs from lust). If you need to do something else, like study for an exam, you'll have to train yourself to thinking that She would be happy that you got (here) a good grade on it.
That was me being infatuated when I was a teenager. When I got to college and found someone who would reciprocate, the feeling was more like fireworks and my best birthday all at once.
It's kinda hard to explain, but what I do is get comfortable, close my eyes, and imagine that i'm where I want to be.
I want this so badly
it isnt fair, this shit isnt fair
i dont really have an imagination anymore user
but thanks for replying regardless. any help is worthwhile
You don't want that user, if they don't have feelings for you, it will hurt.
how so? can you explain user?
i hope it's not too late for us user. i feel like if you still care you're probably okay, right? when you become completely apathetic you lose
>when you become completely apathetic you lose
oh fuck
i think it's too late for me then, user
i dont find joy our of life anymore. I dont enjoy anything and nothing really makes me happy anymore. ive grown numb and apathetic
it's over for me user, but for you, you still have a shot
godspeed user...I only wish the best for you