>Liked a girl in college
>Suddenly sees her facebook on my recommended friends
>It's been 2 years since I graduated
>Talked to her a few times because we had the same class, but we weren't friends or anything
>Want to add her right now and tell her I wanted to always ask her out
Is this beyond creepy and autistic? Or should I go for it bros?
Do it, do it now!
- Plagueis
I dunno. It depends on if you're actually autistic or if you're attractive. How would you start the conversation?
I would probably say like "Hey, I saw your profile on my recommended list and remembered you from class. To be honest, I always wanted to ask you out when we took classes together, but I was busy with school and work, so I didn't think a relationship would be best."
Then I would wait for her response and see where it goes? I'm 6ft, dress nicely, good hygiene, stable job, and probably a 7/10.
I mean if you aren't too autistic when you are talking to her you'll probably be fine, also depends on how autistic your facebook profile looks.
I pretty much have nothing on my Facebook. I deleted mine awhile back and I remade it a few weeks ago because I wanted to reconnect with some old friends. I don't have like a huge bio and my life story on there. I don't have posts either really. It's honestly for messaging.
It's worth a shot. You've got nothing to lose really. Good luck user.
I've been debating whether or not to finally create a Facebook. I've held out for this long though, so idk if I want to give in. I just hate the idea of putting personal information online and advertising just how few friends I have, since the only people that would add me are family members.
You can make it so that only you can see your friend list. And that's honestly not a big deal. Most people do that for reasons other than "Oh I don't have a lot of friends."
Rather start with the "Hey, I saw your profile on my recommended list and remembered you from class." part and just observe how she reacts. You can do a bit of small talk, but not to much, and then go with the second part. Both in one seems somehow drastic and desperate.
Alright. That does seem better
>Is this beyond creepy and autistic?
Both. But we have only one life and you don't have nothing to lose. Go on. Left this sick place.
Just make small talk at first and then tell her how you felt. Saying your feelings right off the bat decreases your chances drastically because it just sounds... desperate
>inb4 she's married and has kids
girls have lives you know.
Or just don't say anything about feelings at all. Just that you found her interesting or so.
go for it you prob won't see her ever again if you dont
Alright I added her bros. Hope she'll accept
OP, I am a chad and I will give you this one time free offer of advice, you are are free to take it or be a pussy and not.
Add her, but don't tell her you 'always wanted' to ask her out.
Just fucking do it.
Just ask her out.
I'll give you a template.
"Hey, #WHORE_NAME, we spoke a few times while we were in our #SUBJ_NAME class, but I never really got around to asking you out. I saw you on my recommended and decided to give it a shot, are you free to go for coffee or dinner sometime soon?"
Then quit being a fucking pussy.
If you're unable to do this type of confrontation, you're unable to do anything period. Don't waste your time otherwise.
This actually seems like it would be good
It is good. Women are fucking simple, you just can't be duller than a fucking butterknife, and you can't be afraid to be assertive. Telling a girl you "always wanted" to ask her out, is like telling a girl you "always wanted" to fuck her. If you're going to tell a girl you want to fuck her, just go all out. There's nothing to lose. The meaning is the same either way. Same with asking them out on dates.
I don't have a facebook can you really use it to get a gf?
I very much highly doubt it.