How do you stop going back to your ex and she hurts you again

How do you stop going back to your ex and she hurts you again

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Pussy

by having a spine you worthless cunt

its complex user, i know your feel

i think its a combination of these things:
>time and energy put into the relship, feels like a waste if you just never talk again
>she is essentially a best friend, great chemistry, get along so well, laugh so much together
>know so much about each other, so much invested into each others lives
>gone through a lot together, can trust each other, can confide in each other
>you already know sex is good and welcome
>still have feelings for them, remember the good times, forget the bad
>easier to go back to an ex than to venture forward and find someone new

Overall user, i have the same issue as you. It will take a combination of setting boundaries and STICKING to them. Thats the hard part, the both of you can talk the talk, but you need to walk it.

If you want to move on, that door needs to close for a while. You can't live in the past, and you cant move on if you're still talking to her, seeing her, going out to the same places as her.

You have to remember why the relationship ended, and that usually it was because you two aren't compatible, as good as everything can be, you experienced more bad.

You just have to remember to ask yourself long-term questions:
>What will this get me in the end if i keep talking and going back to her?
>We likely will just end up having the same issue and breaking up again.
>Will i be doing the same thing in a year, still feeling terrible and not being with someone i am more compatible with?

And remember user, she has the advantage. She can go out any time she wants and point at a guy and say "you" and she has sexual release. She could be seeing some guy or banging chad the whole time she is texting you saying how much she misses you.

It's just not a good thing, she has all the advantage. She could be fucking chad for physical needs and using you for emotional needs.

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I did it again man and same shit with her
Same shit

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its so hard being inside the box to see things from an objective position

even NOW a part of me feels like "maybe this time" "maybe it will work out" " has changed now"

and i have 2 psychologists, 1 psychiatrist, and a social worker, ALL of them were like no please don't, please block all contact, they were begging me

and they bombarded me with logic and examples and experience and everything else, and deep down i know its a baaaad fucking idea and it likely wont work out

BUT STILL a part of me almost wants to ignore them and say "no, this time is different"

thats the killer user, this time is never different :(

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This is genius user, thank you

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I dunno Senpai. I’m in the same boat.
lift till you hurt so bad she can’t hurt you

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>this time is different
it never is, but this time... this time it must be

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Deleting her number, blocking/unfollowing all social media, deleting all photos, etc. Cut that cancer out.

plz b real

Bless you, user

i love u user

ty

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Checked!

Hello, I'd like you to meet my son, "user."

5 x fuck someone else

Absolutely bloomer

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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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Block her and realize these things take time to heal. Eventually you’ll meet other girls and she’ll just be buried along with the rest of your memories.
I got dumped last year on New Years and I spent the rest of the winter season weak and devastated. Fast forward to today and I look better, eat better, and have a couple girls that I fuck on the side.
I won’t lie to you: You may not feel as good as you did before you met her. If we’re being real, nothing will ever be the same, but they WILL get better.

Check!!11

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Checked

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checked, please be true ;_;

Will this post help me learn to love myself?

T-Thanks, we're all gonna make it.

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I put the rope away. thank you

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checkers
best not be lyin'

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i dont think i could handle true love desu

>Check this 1

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Nice

A woman will never love you as much as you love her, and the moment it's over she will move on to the next guy far quicker than you will move on to the next girl. It's just biology and life gets better when you accept this.

It's also the same reason dogs are better pets than cats, and the reason why dogs are more unconditionally loving than women.

thank you user

Thanks and nice get, but not this year man. I'm not ready to be in a relationship. I'm not even financially stable at the moment to have a GF. Maybe in the next few years, but I wanna stay single just so I can get my money on track and be debt free again. Thanks again for the lucky sextuplets!

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Ive seen this image so many times and only just now gotten the joke.
Also checked.

I started the new year by saying "I'm gonna get back in shape." I've gotten my gym membership back and I'm going after work all the time, even mornings and afternoons on the weekends. I'm not drinking beer and only now have I considered coming to Jow Forums to look for advice, and now I see this.

This is it, boys. We're doing it.

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top lel

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God bless

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right there with you pal. I actually read this and thought to myself
>even if I found it, it doesn't mean I'd keep it

I better get a big booty girl or I'll fukin hunt u down m8

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i came

Just in case.

Crinfe

fell truly in love with my gf this past week. Digits check out

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Cut off all contact, if you're being hurt by her then remove the problem at its source.

Time isolated from it will help you realise.

When you put the trash out on the curb do you ever go back out there to get something out of it again?
You're just going to end up getting dirty and making your neighbors talk about you behind your back.

I'm gonna get married!

Thanks user. I'm optimistic.

tanks based user i want my asuka gf

Replying for luck

No more sex dolls for me!

Well well well

YEAH LETS PARTY!

BEERS ON ME!

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I was this close to becoming a hero too. Saved muh life.

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Checked.

the blessed post has been check'd

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By having self steem. Which is obtained via self improvement.
The only reason you keep going back to someone who is bad for you is because you don't think you can do better.

I never thought I'd say this but...

I don't want to die.

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thank you based user

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I'm gonna get a girl preggers and have baby anons running everywhere!

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mama mia

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fuckin based

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blessed

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no thanks

You're all invited to my wedding faggots.

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I dont think i will but i check just in case

Thank you

Digits confirm, every user who dedicates themselves to Jow Forumsness will find their true love this year

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I believe in you and myself. 2019 is the year of the gf.

Thank you user

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You're one of the good ones user.

2019 is the year we all make it confirmed boys

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He based

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Checked
We're gonna be hitting critical levels of making it in 2019 the likes of which humanity hasn't seen before
NON-NEGOTIABLE

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Checked but looking to downgrade to disposable love

Thank you user, you did it!!!!

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p L e A s E

Sorry user, true love for everyone!

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Please be real

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Oh boy, I'm already engaged but maybe there's a chance for me anyhow!

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very wholesome, user :)

thank you user. You made my whole year

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murder

PLEASE user

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>blpd and depressive ex
>autism and depressive self
>so much bad shit between us at this point.
>not an ounce of trust between the two of us
>spend 3 years trying to fuck up eachothers new relationships
>have to rent a hotel not because were new to sneaking around but we dont trust the other not to intentially leave hints
>were eachothers best and basically keep dating people who look similar
>night of drinking fucking and crying basically any time we have a fight or a sentimental day roles around
How did it get this bad? I feel like we never left the relationship we just dragged other people into it. Thinking about that ass right now.