>one in eight still virgins at 26 years old, new research has found >"Millenials have been brought up in a culture of hypersexuality which has bred a fear of intimacy" >Young men fear being humiliated that they can't live up to expectations >research also found that as young people get older they are less likely to have sexual partners >90% of those who had lost their virginity having done so before 19-years-old
Finally some data on the recent incel phenomenon. So glad I am not included in part of the 1 in 8, sounds like things are rough for these virgins lmao
>>"Millenials have been brought up in a culture of hypersexuality which has bred a fear of intimacy" >>Young men fear being humiliated that they can't live up to expectations Don’t forget #metoo culture either
Luis Ross
1/8 aka 1/4 dudes
Evan James
Finally, we are evolving and not prioritizing primal carnal desires in our life path.
You don't have to be a virgin to be an incel right? I lost my virginity at 17. Fast forward and I'm now 27 and haven't been touched by a woman in almost three years. I basically feel like an incel at this point. It doesn't help that I'm jaded and I spend most of my time inside.
Austin Young
Too bad it's for the wrong reasons.
Henry Robinson
>>one in eight still virgins at 26 years old, new research has found im a virgin at 27, all the girls that i took a liking to turned me do, and i suppose i became stubborn and ended up alone >>"Millenials have been brought up in a culture of hypersexuality which has bred a fear of intimacy" most of my friends are monogamous/married. >>Young men fear being humiliated that they can't live up to expectations i have no fear, the girls just turnt me down >>research also found that as young people get older they are less likely to have sexual partners i dont give a fuck, as long i have my dumbbells to do my OHP % of those who had lost their virginity having done so before 19-years-old that's so genuinly odd for me to be honest.
I guess I sort of fit the trend. Lost virginity at 19 to a girl that I was "dating" for a little while. Long story short she ghosted and then dumped me (only upon me going out and confronting her about it) after only having sex the one time. How in the fuck do you maintain confidence when you get that kind of response after your first time?
Without a word of a lie women will outright hit on me, call me handsome, make untoward comments about my eyes, ass, hair, but I just feel like an imposter. I feel like women expect something out of me that I can't provide. I used to be able to embrace and roll with fake it until you make it, but after the first time ending in that kind of result I can't help but think whatever I do, my inexperience at this age (21) will be a complete letdown.
Nicholas Sanchez
W-we can have some fun with our d-dicks and p-pecs if you w-want user
Christian Gray
Did they forget to factor in the fact that some people are ugly as shit? >Be me 5 years ago >Young fag in highschool >Try being friendly and funny to qt >Ask her to be my girlfriend >"Eww no user! You're fucking ugly man.." >Mfw all my friends and classmates saw the whole thing >Self confidence is stomped >Try again and faced with denial because of uglyface >Never had sex because of ugly ogre face
I did pretty well with whole dating/hook-up thing until I turned 26 or so and realised just how empty and vapid it all is. Haven't had sex in 2 years and I'm pretty happy with that.
the point is that you got to experience how shallow it felt and made a choice to abstain and focus on more important things. the rise of incel culture stems from the frustration that they never got to make that choice. All that pent up frustration has to go somewhere, I wonder if it'll end up like it did for the muslims (spergs literally exploding everywhere)
Isaiah Flores
It's all your parents fault. Kill them.
Nathan Reed
You ohp with dumbbells? Definite incel
Ethan Davis
Virgin at 30. Raised by a feminist, and her hatred for men taught me that women were to be feared, not approached.
Maybe I won't feel like talking to women is an insult once I'm fit. I hope so.
Why don't they just start using hookers in sex ed classes to make sure no one graduates as a virgin?
Dominic Williams
nah that 1/8 is all guys, let's be honest. It's 0% of women and 12.5% of men
Jacob White
Because everyone should be a virgin until marriage, degenerate.
Sebastian Robinson
It's like some cunt who's traveled all around the world coming to patronize some guy who's never been able to leave his state/province about how theres "no place like home" and trying to convince him to never leave and not to focus on what lays outside.
Parker Wilson
Correct, I'm 30, have had sex with 15 girls, most of whom were in college but also have not had sex, let alone kissed a woman in 3 years
Brody Gomez
When turned 18, I fell for the "it's about what's inside that counts" meme and I thought that maybe I could find someone. But nOpe. >Always be nice a cheerful >Always make everyone happy >Help out everyone >Didn't work >I'm told again that I was ugly as shit by the person who I thought cared about me.
Important life lesson. Don't fall for the "looks don't matter meme" a heart of gold doesn't matter
Jonathan Ross
this only applies to wh*te bois brothas been makin them cheeks clap since we born
Samuel Ortiz
I'll answer this unironically. The most pleasurable thing about sex is the release of seratonin and oxytocin upon orgasm. When you have meaningless hookups, you feel some pleasure from sticking your dick in a wet hole but honestly people are already pretty good at making themselves feel good with their hands. The reason why guys can't orgasm is because they don't know how to uninhibitedly release during intercourse. But that feeling, post-sex cuddling with someone who accepts you and is willing to be vulnerable for you (the act of sex) is the best feeling in the world (oxytocin and seratonin flood your system). Having sex with a hooker will not accomplish that sense of acceptance, so ultimately it is empty. It is not the act of putting your dick in a wet hole that people crave, it's the closeness with another human being.
t. part of the sexually successful 7/8
Hunter Jenkins
Got my balls licked at 12. Lost card at 13. Slowed down after that. Haven't fucked in years. Hoping fit can change that.
Alexander Ramirez
Use a helmet that covers your whole face then, tell the cute girls that your face was brutally damaged and deformed so you need to hide it.
Robert Bell
This post smells of roast beef.
Carter Taylor
This is accurate. I get nothing out of banging random sluts anymore. It's fun at first but after 10 different women in a week you realize it doesn't compare to a connection and actual love.
t. I've sexually intercoursed around 200 women and have been married and divorced.
Dylan Sanchez
>You ohp with dumbbells? Definite incel >he likes locking his elbows and shoulders and not getting good shoulder activation by performing an arch like movement to the top.
lol. stop putting your penis in vaginas it's making you retarded.
>t. I've sexually intercoursed around 200 women and have been married and divorced.
i can't even fathom how that even works. how do one night stands happen ? -hey you random woman waiting for the bus lets go to my place and fuck
Eli Campbell
what the fuck are you even talking about? lmao incel terminology is getting out of hand. try not to sever your connection with reality too much son.
I'm literally trying to explain things in neurochemistry so you understand what's going on at at scientific level. I'll try again. The drive to seek out new sluts and bang them? That's a neurotransmitter called dopamine at play. It's what makes you seek out novelty. Back in the day it would have caused you to go on adventures to plow the peasant lady from another village. These days you get your dopamine release from browsing page upon page of pornography. Tinder culture is a more 3D version pornography but it's not much better, because the dopamine will make you swipe and conquer, but won't give you the long lasting satisfaction of oxytocin and seratonin. Because there's always a hotter broad to conquer, one swipe away! Your dopamine systems are getting taken advantaged of by silicon valley jews.
Read a book instead of spending all your time on incel forums mate, it'll do you some good. I recommend "The Molecule of More" which goes into detail of the role of dopamine.
Women like sex and just want an excuse to have it.
Girly: "I have a headache."
Me: "You know orgasms clear headaches up. Come over and I'll eat you out."
Girly: "Oh yeah, I've actually heard that. I'll see you in 30"
It's hella easy my dude
Julian Torres
You are thinking way too much about it. Like a female would. Busting nuts into a hooker during sex ed would have been amazing. All this touchy feely nonsense is stuff for girls.
Joseph Wood
>Women like sex and just want an excuse to have it. yeah but how do i even get to that ? chicks i have tried talking to have that look on their face they can't wait for me to shut the fuck so they can excuse themselves. i know im not that ugly. and i might be socially retarded but im ballsy enough to keep on talking because i've read that's the key, women like men who can hold a conversation.
>I might be retarded but I can OHP 2pl8 at 175 lbs is that one rep max ? pas mal
Leo Garcia
Sex 3 times, all women. Oral 12 times, 4 women 8 guys. It's not hard guys just drink a beer to relax you. Not to get drunk just ease you up alittle. They're just as nervous. It gets easier ever time you hookup.
Remember the movie Cast Away? Tom Hanks at the end. When he had to get over that big ass wave? The island is virginity and the wave is your first girl/dude. Get over that and it gets easier. Does is get easy? Hell no.
Remember, you're never gonna get over that wave unless you do something about it.
yes, women are emotional creatures. the way you attract them and keep them coming back to you is by condescending yourself to their level and manipulating their emotions. if you can tap into her primal lust and desire (protip: it's to be dominated in bed) they will be hooked on you because you have proven yourself capable of giving them a 'wild ride' of emotions. if you can't even understand this basic concept, it's no wonder you're never gonna make it. no matter how many hooker you fuck lmao i'm trying to school you a bit here so maybe try and listen.
Isaiah Robinson
That doesn't sound like love to me. If you have to manipulate someone then it was never meant to be and won't end well
John Gray
The result of a generation ruined by communism and participation trophies. The whole 80/20 thing makes me lol. Really? You cant get into the top 20%? Its not that fucking hard just be >not fat >with a job or career path Rather than stewing in self-loathing how about you guys go get fit, you know the name of the damn forum, and clean up all the ez roastie pussy (w/ condoms). Once you MAKE IT, shit is CASH Nothing feels better than emotionally breaking these modern whores.
Joshua Price
HAven't had sex since 2015
Probably related to giving up on life in 2012 and nto changing my mind about that before now
Now unsure if can claw my way out of hole
Feels very bad friends, never ever succumb to consumer nihilism if a youngfag...
1/4 of men and no women make up 1/8 of everyone, dumbass.
Hudson Scott
this is the nice guy fallacy that i see a lot of guys fall into. personally i think there has to be a right balance between romanticism/idealising a relationship, and looking at the reality. The whole courting process is a big song and dance for women to select men worthy to sleep with.
witty banter/cockiness/confidence/good looks/earning potential all signal things like status, upbringing, values, intelligence etc. different signals attract different mates. they aren't made explicit but these signals are constantly being picked up on. it's the basis of all behaviour because it's responsible for human evolution. when I say manipulation, i am simply saying if you are aware of these levers then at least you can start figuring out which ones you are lacking. and not in some faggy fake PUA way but really inherently adopting the characteristics that will help you become a better man. that should be your primary motivator, then pussy comes easy trust me.
Owen White
Because your FACE is 85% of your attractiveness. Even if you're not fat and have a great career, if you have shitty forward growth, a recessed maxilla, downswung lower third, garbage orbital support or a really bad gonial angle or chin projection then you're gonna be fucked almost guaranteed unless your other features are really good
Kayden Moore
don't bully pls
Leo Martinez
>gets rejected twice >woe is me, never try again!
Samuel Davis
The only thing more pathetic than a robot is a lookism autist.
Daniel Cooper
yup, this guy clearly fucks. it's fucking insane that we're on a fitness forum filled with retards obsessed with things like . it's always very clear who is here to improve and who have given up from the start and just want to bring others down. the people who understand life is cruel and unfair but with the right MINDSET it's possible to drag yourself up and dominate the mediocre masses... they're the spirit of Jow Forums. too bad they're a dying breed. this beta uprising is getting out of control.
Oliver Green
>Virgin at 30. Raised by a feminist, lol my mom is team jesus. almost same thing regarding how much she kept me in a protective bubble.
> >Once you MAKE IT, shit is CASH >Nothing feels better than emotionally breaking these modern whores. wtf are you even saying. sometimes i wish i was gay, banging dude must be so much easier.
There's alot you can do as long as you face isnt totally fucked. >but thats me user Sorry then bro, people with cerebral palsy dont get to fuck either some are lucky. Even those things you mention if you work hard and make it you can get the chin plastic surgery, etc. There is always a way. But the type of person who just gives up WILL NEVER MAKE IT
Jayden Barnes
Every single person looks better than average if they lift weights and get in shape.
Joshua Gonzalez
I haven't had sex since 2010. Isn't it weird that there was a time where sex and romance were part of your existence, but now they're out of it for good?
For those can't understand, this really means that 1/4 men has not had sex by 26, and I suspect the real number is 1/3.
They say 1/8 because they are including the women. A woman is a born slut - she only forgoes sex if controlled by a father, or if she is one of the unicorn-rare true believers in God, or if she was raped as a child and is scared of sex.
Caleb Clark
Regardless of whether you think I am a mega autist for knowing this, I am mostly correct
I'm not obsessed with shit, I just realize that if you have a bony morphology on your face that is deficient in one way or another you are going to have a MUCH harder time getting women than the average guy simply because "be confident bro, be funny bro" is a cope that only really works if a woman is already on the fence about fucking you. It isn't going to persuade anyone unless they are already very close to saying yes
Nicholas Carter
The definition of incel is someone that wants to have sex and can't for long stretches of time.
Connor Sanders
I'd like to believ eit's not gone for good...
I still wnat to fight to get out of this grave I dug for myself.. I finally realized that I actually care and actually want to live, however long it takes.
Body wise I agree, you can make up for your face somewhat, the problem is that depending on how fucked your face is you're just going from a 2/10 to a 3.5/10. It does better your odds but you're still in a massive uphill battle. It doesn't apply if you have a very average face, if that's the case then having a good body means you'll be able to fuck girls occasionally and probably find a gf eventually (though she might be settling for you)
Alexander Lee
the things you say may be true in an absolute sense but when you CHOOSE to make it the centre of your subjective reality, it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. yes, henry cavill's bone structure benefits him. NOBODY DENIES THAT. but analyzing every little imperfection is going to sap your confidence when you could be spending that energy working on the things that you CAN improve like your ENERGY, ENTHUSIASM, DEMEANOUR. it's as bugenhagen once said: >it's a mindset mental midgets are NEVER gonna make it
Justin Clark
>The definition of incel is someone that wants to have sex and can't for long stretches of time. then i don't think im an incel. as a turbo virgin sex is not even a priority anymore, i just want a gf to hang out with hold hands all that fagshit.
Same for me, but after almost 9 years it's difficult to keep up hope. Good luck man.
Leo Perry
Do you really go through all that with women? Haven't you ever met someone who you just click with?
Luke Miller
>I regret having sex #MeToo >but you conse- >#METOO #METOO #METOO HE RAPED ME #METOO #METOO #METOO
Nicholas Bell
Obviously I don't sperg out about this bullshit irl, I completely hide it and bury it because nobody wants to hear it and it's better that my friends and acquaintances remain ignorant for the reasons you stated. I do usually still try to improve myself, and have fucked a few girls, I just accept that realistically I'm not going to find a relationship. I don't let it rule me but I keep it in mind so I don't have weird false hopes shattered for no reason
Luke Mitchell
Jesus christ. Me and the missus just broke up a month ago. If this is what I have to look forward to I'm literally going to die or loneliness in like 6 weeks.
Anthony Diaz
yes, i've gone through it multiple times. i'm trying to spell it out for you guys since we're on an autism support forum, but what you say as "clicking" is actually 10,000 signals being sent back and forth seamlessly. But if you haven't had successful experiences having social interactions ingrained from an early age, then it won't be very seamless. and you'll end up spilling your spaghetti, because you don't KNOW HOW to read signals and interact effortlessly. "CLICKING" and "HITTING IT OFF" and "ATTRACTION" are all names for the same thing, signals being sent and received and approved. It takes practice and real inner confidence to pull it up. set that as a long-term goal and start with working out. it all starts in the gym. the test increase, endorphins, mood increases, aesthetic gains all tip the scale in your favour but you still need to go out there and make up for lost time by interacting with normal people to counteract your autism.
Austin Hall
>they didn't buy my nice guy routine >his happiness depends on others and not the innate beauty of life not gonna make it
Wyatt Hernandez
>Nothing feels better than emotionally breaking these modern whores. Based. My fave thing to do is knock them up, then gaslight them into thinking they're 'empowered' by having an abortion. Extra point for poor girls. Watching the fallout then ditching them is so satisfying. They've had a hint of what happiness could be, their prime and only reason for existence, despite all the social YAS GURL conditioning, once they know they had a heartbeat in them and 'chose' to eggbeater it because 'muh career', they go off the rails and are truly, totally, irreparably broken. Me> Idgaf, it's just cells and shit, but the whoremonal changes it causes in women really wrecks them for the next dude kek.
get your testosterone levels checked. when i broke up with my highschool sweetheart i resolved myself to become the best person i could financially, physically and emotionally. it's the only way to guarantee success in the dating pool, but taking it upon yourself to improve. when you start thinking there's no hope, there should be an inner voice telling you "i will create hope through my efforts". when you start seeing other successful men, there should be an inner voice telling you "i will better myself and dominate him". without a healthy hormonal balance it will be difficult for you to have these healthy attitudes towards life and success. channel that rage and sense of injustice into something productive. read stoicism, go to the gym and lift heavy, look for small victories in life. but for the sake of your future self, stop filling your mind with this negative incel mentality that is invading everywhere even my beloved Jow Forums.
Almost the exact same story but I lost it shortly after turning 20. Now 22 and coming up on 2 years without any experience.
Jaxon Mitchell
sorry i mistyped, what i meant to say was Yes, I have 'clicked' with multiple different women. it is second nature for me, but i understand it is not second nature to a lot of virgins who never got to experience and make mistakes in relationships at in the adolescents/late teens. odds are stacked up against you but it doesn't mean you can't overcome it with effort. but you definitely WON'T overcome it if you've given up/accepted incel mentality.
/SIG/ guys are 1000000x more likely to make it than guys who shit on /SIG/ for trying to improve.
Ryder Nelson
>we're on an autism support forum am i retarded for expecting to love to play a factor in a sexual relationship ?
if everyone called you fucking ugly too and you knew it im sure youd be pretty unhappy too
not even factoring the whole incel rejection rage thing
Gabriel Murphy
i love my current girlfriend, because we accept each other's weaknesses and admire one another's strengths. we share a vision for a future together which aligns with our shared values. i make fun of the way she eats, and how different she looks when she's videochatting me vs when she's all made up ready to go out. we have fucked up inside jokes about me getting her pregnant, and then she'll say unjokingly that she wants my kids one day. yes, these feelings of intimacy can be described as love. but i would have never reached this point if i couldn't attract her in the first place, charm her into liking me, and showing her that i'm worthy of her love.
Benjamin Phillips
Approaching 23 and still a virgin. Used to be severly insecure cause of bullying, loneliness and being a fatty, but I'm doing much better now My dad lost his virginity at 30 with my mom. At the very least I don't want to end up like him. Anyway, meeting a girl for the 3rd this saturday (which is the first girl I ever dated), hopefully i can make a move
Ian Russell
This is me at 25. Honestly surprised it's as high as it is. Tbh I'm not even ugly. Just absolutely terrified of women/intimacy. Can't really explain why or control it, but whenever the opportunity to have sex or make a move arose, my fight or flight kicks in and my brain shuts down, making me act like a retard. Other than that I'm introverted and social anxiety also keeps me from going out pretty much ever. Not sure why, maybe it has to do with growing up in a broken household where parents screaming at each other was an almost nightly occurance and my mom cheating on my dad and abandoning us both when I was 5.
Lincoln Rogers
D-d-does this mean finding a pure wife who isn't a slut is actually somewhat realistic???
Hunter Powell
See
Dominic Williams
Would be interesting to break down these demographics by gender; how many women of equivalent age are virgins compared to men.
>"Millenials have been brought up in a culture of hypersexuality which has bred a fear of intimacy" Nothing summarises 2019 better than this. It's rarer than the dodo to find love and sex is becoming more and more like a handshake. This board is the one on here that embodies this mentality the most.
Ethan Green
Lads, when I was was khv at 26 I bought a heifer off with a milkshake.
That's when I realised that sex is what you make it. If you want it to mean more then act accordingly. And if you don't care, the self same.
Jack Howard
>how many women of equivalent age are virgins compared to men. women start having sex at 13 cope there is 0 legal protection for a man who gets married
Evan Green
>spend the entire highschool beating the kids over and over with how nobody should have sex and stds and teenage pregnancies are the worst things ever >"wtf why aren't they fucking, all we did was do everything we could to scare them off sex"
>When did Jow Forums lose their virginity? >If it was after you turned 18, why did it take so long for you? >Were you bad or good at it during your first time >When was the last time you had sex? >Do you think it's overrated?
Maybe in some shithole. Born 1990 germany, all my female friends startet to have sex at 16-17. 13 is only possible if they were raised by whore single mothers and therefore molested by their stepfathers, making them cope with sex for a lacking love in their home. Most girls don't even get their periods till 14, let alone beeing interested in sex.
Unironically MGTOW create what they ht, through fucking women outside of marriage an creating single mothers which scare their boys and make new whores through their daughters. The only consequent MGTOWs are those living celibat, gay or fucking post-menopause women.
Owen Wilson
>Could probably have a good go at hooking-up with random girls >Sometimes I'm tempted to >Think about it >Realize how much of a waste of time it'd be >Would rather have one cutie that I'm serious about than have sex with many women >Part of me doesn't want to commit right now either, especially after my last break up
Anyone else? I think I should just be single for a while. I need to get better at math and Japanese, save more money (already at $10k), actually get my license and a car (not underage, just have a fear of driving), get Jow Forums and get through my anime and vidya backlogs.
>Born 1990 germany that's another generation already >Unironically MGTOW create what they ht MGTOW are completely irrelevant, they don't create anything and they don't matter how many men know what MGTOW are let alone follow them? 1%?
Levi Collins
Not the user you replied to but I feel you bros. It's been year since I haven't had any relationship and sometimes one can think it's gone for good. I can't even completely move on from my oneitis, fuck.
Keep it up bois, we're going to make it
Christian Howard
>>When did Jow Forums lose their virginity? 23 >>If it was after you turned 18, why did it take so long for you? I could have lost it years ago, but didn't because I was embarrassed about how my parents might react to me bringing a girl home or staying over at a girl's place. Money was an issue too. >>Were you bad or good at it during your first time I made the girl I was seeing at the time cum a few times, so yes? I just emulated what I saw in porn and it worked. I'm above average in dick size too, so that helps. >>When was the last time you had sex? October. >>Do you think it's overrated? I can't properly judge because I have death grip syndrome. It takes forever for me to cum and I don't feel much.
Owen Lee
Same, I'm building down my walls though, realised that I was just using aspects of myself to run away from others, I have conquered all of my fears and issues so now it's time to join the normies and put 4chinchin on the backburner.
Lucas Davis
>>When did Jow Forums lose their virginity? 20
>>If it was after you turned 18, why did it take so long for you? I was an ugly aspie, but I somehow got a gf for years but I didn't want to have sex with her while she was under 18, gotta be careful
>>Were you bad or good at it during your first time Bad, very difficult to put a condom on, too stressed and condom was too tight for my dong Still worth it tho
>>When was the last time you had sex? November, with a spanish thot
>>Do you think it's overrated? It truly is, sex is overrated but intimacy is not imho, and you don't get any with the common thot, you gotta be more involved than this
I also have death grip syndrome like user, tho
Ayden Brown
>It truly is, sex is overrated but intimacy is not imho, and you don't get any with the common thot I completely understand. The intimacy made it great and at least right now, I don't care to go out of my way for casual, meaningless sex.
>I also have death grip syndrome like user, tho I think I came naturally like twice with the last girl I was with. And we had sex a lot. I think it's honestly one of the reasons she lost attraction towards me. It was anti-climatic for her, but she also never let me cum inside her either, which sucked.
