Jow Forums is filled with chads i need chad's opinion on this
i'm 30 years old. i've been told i'm really fucking good looking by several women recently (no, not my mom). i'm 5'11 160lbs in good shape with light brown hair and blue eyes.
i get a lot of attention from girls but it's never women my age. it's always teenage girls (i'm going to college) or old used up hags. i've had girls' jaws drop when they see me.
i want a girl my age (+/- 5 years) who doesn't have kids. why is this so fucking hard to find? i worked at a restaurant last summer and the bartender was super hot but she's got a 6 year old half-breed kid. it's just frustrating. 90% of the women in my area are fat and horrible. i don't mind chubby girls but my local women are fucking fat. it's not hard to lose weight. just cut out carbs. it's literally that simple. tired of obese women who can't safely mother children; they're own belly fat would crush the baby. i fucking hate this world. should i move to a different city? i'm getting desperate.
Join some clubs or extracurricular activities. You have to go find them op.
Cameron Perry
Most girls 25 to 35 are working or go to specific female oriented clubs/events. You mentioned college I'm assuming it's undergrad. You'd find more girls 25+ in post grad courses.
Angel Richardson
You want fit chicks but you don't know where they are? I'm no ubermensch but id be willing to guess that they are probably somewhere doing whatever makes them fit. Go join an athletic organization dumb nigga.
Ian Ward
yep this. Women always go to things in groups with zero men in sight being super gay to each other and stuff. Boggles the mind how this became socially acceptable. It's nearly impossible to get them on their own w/o online dating services or previously established contact but it's possible at certain, non-party like events. Local festivals are probably your best bet. After that you either have to be really confrontational and ask them out directly or use online dating services Good luck
Jaxson Watson
thinking about starting a physics studygroup there's a qt who just transferred into my class, three weeks into the semester. i can tell she's confused and she's terrible at taking notes. might help her pass the class and then try to gf her
i don't really exercise and i've never been to a gym. i heard it's poor etiquette to hit on women at the gym. is it really a place to find a gf?
Gavin Cooper
yes unless you work there. Gym staff mingle a lot
Caleb Garcia
post body
Grayson Evans
Go to a dance studio Learn dancing Ez access to super hot chicas
Maybe your problem is your personality and not the women around you. All chads I know are very nice when it counts And don't think of other people as lesser due to bad life choices
Jason Peterson
I know male
Nathan Russell
>i've had girls' jaws drop when they see me. imagine being this delusional
Benjamin Gray
Maybe it's your personality. Just from reading your post I can see you're trying to complement fit/ and fit in with what you think people on this board find funny.
I don't know how to change a personality though, gl
Henry Cox
>calls older women used up hags >calls mixed kids "half-breed" >insults fat women >reeeeeee why cant i find a woman try not being an asshole maybe
Camden Foster
Here's the thing, as pointed out, you've got a lot of red flags in your description of your issue. I don't know how you talk outside of here, since Jow Forums is a place that brings out the shit in people, but if that's an honest impression of your attitude offline, it might be worthwhile to reevaluate your approach to conversation. People like people who are generally nice to them and make them feel good. The emotions that someone experiences when around a person leave a stronger effect on their memory of said person than the actual content of what is said. You might be able to get away on looks alone with teen girls, who are still basically kids, or older/fatter women who might be more desperate, but for a woman you'd really want to get interested in you, you have to have to learn to put forth a combination of qualities.
not going to waste my time with a used up 35 yo nigger fucker and i'm not this way because of Jow Forums. been this way for 20 years
Anthony Jackson
Go for the 20-25 year olds. Once a woman is starting to reach 30, she starts getting baby crazy and will put off a completely different demeanor than she usually has to try and rope a guy in.
And she won't have all the mental and pair bonding issues from having been pumped and dumped for over a decade. Girls in that age range are pleasant to be around and have few cares.
Sebastian Adams
I didn't say a gym I said an athletic organization. Join a rock climbing club, a spin class, swimming lessons, literally anything that is athletic and SOCIAL. Also if you don't workout then have fun finding a fit chick.
Ethan Sullivan
i have bigger issues any time a girl flirts with me / hits on me i assume she's a dirty whore
Hunter Reyes
I don't want to hijack but I need help from the Chads.
>been gaining shit tons of gains and gone through a pretty big transformation >do more strength based workouts but since adding hypertrophy weeks have been exploding like a weed >girls in gym are starting to notice and smile at me >been on no fap/no porn lately and notice myself talking to them involuntarily when all I'd do is workout and keep my head down >FF to now >cold as shit outside and off day >have 3 girls numbers from the gym and texting them all at the same time >have no social game but for some reason my text game is pretty strong apparently >don't care what I say through text so super crude >just asked one of the girls what she was doing and said she was going to take a shower >ask her for pics thinking she's lying >actually get them >tell her I'm going to jack off then go to her place and fuck her to death >get a message saying "i'll wait to take a shower till after, when you getting here?" >panic and completely stop messaging her >start talking to other girl and she invites me over to chill when I said I'm cold and if she can keep me warm
I'm now here with two girls starting to mass msg me of if I'm going but I've never been kissed let alone held hands and to be honest I'm nervous and scared. Any idea how to get through this guys?
I'll spell it out for ya >Join clubs >Meet people >Make friends >"Hm this female friend of mine is attractive" >"Want to grab dinner?" >... The ones who go out of their way to flirt might be whores so you don't pick them.
David Nguyen
You should man up and be a step dad OP. Raising my wife’s son has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Real men step up and don’t need biology in order to be a dad.
Jonathan Harris
not going to raise another man's retarded runt offspring
Carter Robinson
im right there with ya bud. its not looking good out there for us. id try to lock down an average slim college chick if i were in your position, one that doesnt strike you as having a mile of cocks in her so far.
Colton Diaz
Don't play chad if you are not one. If you want to play chad just get out of your confort zone user. If you didn't smash the shower girl you have the big gay.
Ethan Cruz
Get out there and make your mistakes. Everyone does, thats the only way you can learn.
Ryder Young
Make sure that you learn and don't repeat a mistake. Like riding a bike, the only way you learn is when you fall off. You get back on and know where the limits are next time.
Also you are a massive idiot for not at least showing up at shower girl's house.
Elijah Price
Just wanted to update since it's a pretty big moment in my kissless/hugless life and still filled with tons of adrenaline.
The first user said "just do it," So I grabbed my balls and just said I'll be by soon to both and grabbed a cyalis I got from my dads stash I took during holidays. I did not realize how nervous I was to pull my pants down in front of a naked girl before..porn really fucks up your confidence if your dick is just normie sized. Cyalis kicked in so I kinda relaxed knowing I wasn't going to pop but I didn't realize how horny I was going to be. the moment I was inside her I just started involuntarily pumping hard into her. When I finally came after like 40 minutes of straight pumping as hard as I could I went to the restroom and was legit shaking from the adrenaline.
I left the first girls house and going to the other girls place right now to eat with her and hang out. I still have half of a pill so I'm going to pop that during eating. I'm still fucking shaking but thanks for the kick in the ass guys.
Josiah Perry
Not a chad, but I say just keep doing what you're doing. Sure, you blew it that time, but she sounded pretty easy, so no huge loss. If you keep texting, fliirting, and meeting girls, you'll get more and more comfortable pushing your boundries. Your nerves are stopping you from going all the way, but wont forever. Just do what feels right, relax, and have fun.
Cooper Bennett
>i worked at a restaurant >cant find a girl my age >blatant racism and discrimination >i'm super hot i swear loser
