All I want is a man who wants me around, wants to cuddle and have sex and cook and watch movies. Talk about what's important to us and the dark things that cause so much pain when they're bottled up.
I wish I had a man who would love me and I would love him but I don't know where they are, In Real Life. On here there seems like so many men who would be perfect and make me so happy but in real life it seems like it's impossible to make a deep connection and everybody is preoccupied with their own lives or whatever.
I'm so lonely now and the longer I stay alone the worse I become. Everything backfires I just want somebody who understands and pulls me out of the pit.
Also I am weird looking and have a dissociative/depersonalization problem. I'm short, skinny but I have a big nose and a big wide face with large cheeks and jaw. People tell me I'm pretty sometimes but they don't act like it. I just wish a guy would be my partner and friend or at least hold me when I'm crying. I've lost my mind from all the isolation.
All I want is a man who wants me around, wants to cuddle and have sex and cook and watch movies...
I just wish I had one person to talk to, who would care. I have no one who I can go to and just be.
I'm going to die, maybe in some years or maybe some days. I can't make it anymore.
The probabilities of stumbling upon somebody like that offline are so abysmal that you might as well kill just yourself right now.
Focus on online relationships and try to meet in flesh when you manage to form a solid bond.
If you are looking for a man look in the mirror tranny
I'd take you up on the offer but you probs don't want fatties.
Id bet you look decent maybe
not hot persay
but odds are
if you're female
their are plenty guys who find you on some level attractive
even if you are by some mericle of mathmatics you are "unnatravtive" when compared to the average of the other 4 billion women in the world ( a large portion of which are malnurished tebetton peasant girls and shaved head african girls)
You can still attract a man
if you are confident and strong enough
its hard for anyone
and its particularly hard for girls
but if you want anyone to love you you have to love yourself
that isnt a fix all
but its a first step, and a needed step in the right direction
without that you cant move forward
but the good news is
you can do that
anyone is capable of it
and anyone includes you
once you accept that
really in your heart and soul do
anything becomes possible
>find people online
>meet the ones you get along with and are near enough
Simple, seen it work for a couple of people, fuckloads easier than talking to people in real life.
Spot on user
Post your discord OP, guarantee you have multiple friend requests in the hour, then is on you to see if you get along with any of them.
Assuming you're telling the truth, and that you're not really to fault, I don't know what to tell you.
I want what you want, but if we walked by each other on the street, we wouldn't think anything about it. The chance of finding someone who is true and what we desire in a partner is so rare that we end up settling for less
I hope you find what you're looking for
I hope I find what I'm looking for
Do you love yourself? What do you mean that? Like bolster up your ego instead of erasing it?
I would like someone in my life even if they weren't a chad. About a month ago I had one person in my life who I could see but he stopped replying to my texts. He was pretty overweight, maybe even obese.
In real life I see people outside in pairs or groups often, or they mention social connection in some way at some point in the near distant future or the recent past. How did they get there and maintain relationships?
To OP:
Tits or GTFO
To the rest of you:
Fickle off, you disgusting thirsty wankers.
That is all.
>How did they get there and maintain relationships?
They operate based on lust and physical attraction more often than not.
When you feel this way, how do you meet someone to fill this void?
Seriously. Like, if I said this to a girl the first time I met her she'd probably be freaked out. The same goes for a woman saying it to a man.
You have a penis, don't you?
Women rarely ever bring up sex when whining like this.
It's r9k, it's probably a guy.
>Do you love yourself? What do you mean that? Like bolster up your ego instead of erasing it?
It means find a reason to give yourself worth and justify your existence and happiness upon that
it can be anything
but you have to find it yourself
they're their in real life too, however everyone has the preconceived notion that everyone else is uninterested/preoccupied by their existing life
so most people arent willing to open up about it until they assume you may also like them.
but cuddle, sex, watch movies and talking is what every single person wants
Sometimes I pass a cute male out and about who is also alone and I'll notice him looking at me. Sometimes I think maybe I'm seeing similar feelings in his eyes but I wouldn't know because we are strangers.
Maybe we need to reunite our communities and start smiling to neighbors.
I just made a discord my name is sugaraddiction
>or at least hold me when I'm crying
I guess im not attractive to anybody. I've always secretly thought I looked like a freak.
Why do people get scared of the honest truth? It is so relieving when I hear it from another.
I don't I'm a biological woman
I want to have a family and someone to be there so I know this isn't all just a screen that I'm dreaming. Having nobody in your life is like living in an empty cage looking outside at the person (you)
I can't even prove I exist
Maybe we are all one machine, one energy, one consciousness split into different physical matters
I want to talk about this irl somehow but I don't want to scare people away
I feel you man, I'm the same way. I just need to feel one with another person so that I can feel complete for once in my life. Unless you're in Australia I don't think anything will come.
>On here there seems like so many men who would be perfect and make me so happy but in real life it seems like it's impossible to make a deep connection and everybody is preoccupied with their own lives or whatever.
You should get into contact with somebody from here.
Depending on where you live, there's probably somebody close to you.
Yes, you worded it perfectly. I'm not in Australia I live in New Hampshire.
It doesn't seem real enough if there's no connection like that, loyalty and understanding.
Maybe, I would hope so. We would be so perfect.
Yeah there's always that longing you have outside of a relationship. What I'd give to be able to explore a relationship with someone without having to feel stressed and to just enjoy each other's body and mind, zoning out the world so we can focus entirely on each other.
>New Hampshire
Maybe try following your homeland's heritage by writing depressing shit.
can that man be fat and have acne though, and have been a NEET until the age of 26 when he finally started trying again?
>Unless you're in Australia
They're never in Australia, user.
>have sex
Not until we've got rings, whore
I know man, our country is full of normie. Closest I've found was new Zealand but that didn't work out.
>There are people who unironically think this on this board
Fucking brainlet tier shit
Yes, for sure. I have tried and failed many times in my life. Anyone could be a loser, it's not a life sentence.
Allow me to predict what will happen
90/100 chance:
Anons contacts the attentionwhore and eventually gets ghosted
9.8/100 chance:
Anons get corralled into an orbiting ring around the attentionwhore while she disseminates stories about her sex life and other such things with some Chad w/ glass that she eventually comes upon.
0.1/100 chance: One (1) will get into a LDR with the attentionwhore that will eventually collapse due to disinterest and infidelity.
0.1/100 chance: One (1) user will some have an in person relationship that has a 75% chance of failing after it's initiated.
In short, you faggots are filling up my board with essentially hopeless thirst-posts that belong on fucking /soc/, and you are feeding an attentionwhore who will never reciprocate any meaningful emotion for you. STOP. FEEDING. THE SLUTS.
I'm horny though
Go back to making jewtube cooking vids Thalia.
What part of NH, I used to work in Salem
/soc/ has threads full of naked women, as does /s/, /h/, and /gif/. Fuck off to there for your carnal bullshit.
>STOP. FEEDING. THE SLUTS.
I'll feed the slut a mouthful of thick meaty braps, just like she deserves.
I am horny, but for love and a meaningful emotional connection
It's not the same user, you know that.
How do I know that I'm speaking to the right person, many can be larping.
I'm on the border of NH and MA I mainly wanted to talk about feelings of social deprivation and how dark loneliness can get. I didn't want to cause anything /soc/ like, besides soc is all pics and sext. I wanted to see if anybody else felt despair and a lack of connection everyday.
I see people outside and I read posts on here and I have a glimmer of hope that one day I could cross paths with a stranger who maybe has felt the exact same as I do. I wish I could know.
i've done this for 3 fembots now.
>first was the absolute worst human being i've encountered in my entire life, bar none
>second i was with for 4 years before she turned into a coke whore during a manic phase and i kicked her out
>third was a sociopath who tried to play mindgames and shit to get me to do their bidding, however they weren't very good at it and it was like they were trying to play some character they saw in a movie/show
how exactly would you be any better? yes, all 3 were varying degress of bonkers so you too would fit right in.
if you had nice boobs and good taste in music i would definitely date you desu
>first was the absolute worst human being i've encountered in my entire life, bar none
pls elaborate
Try better, cunt
You're literally dropping contact info and droppingyour location, you fucking vainglorious God damned cunt. I hope you get taped by a pack of niggers for your slut ways.
So are you animals? Are you dogs? Are you incapable of maintaining a level of decency and dignity in the face of your base desires? Get this filth out of my fucking sight.
I live 30 minutes away from the city I assume you live in. Are you actually looking for someone to meet or are you just baiting
I wouldn't be opposed to meeting up, I guess....
Email me at KILL YOURSELF YOU THIRSTY FAGGOT
>drug dealer and con artist
>prostitute
>pornstar/camwhore
>drug addict stripper
>murdered several people
>black mailed a married man to cheat on his wife
>thief
>snitched to the cops to have her roommate put in jail so she could have her things and take her boyfriend, who she left in the desert on a road trip because he didn't like dill pickles
>the only guy she didn't have sex with in her life was her father, who she also murdered
if you can think of it, she did it.
You need to post the number tag at the end of the username
>Murdered several people
JFC lucky you got out.
Dunno if op is bait, and frankly, I don't really care either way.
If you feel like you need someone else to keep you from falling into the pit of despair, you are doing it wrong. How can you expect someone else to validate you when you won't even do it yourself?
Learn to live with yourself first instead, your time is way better spent that way.
THATS IT IM DOING IT, I HOPE YOU CAN LIVE WITH URSELF U KILLED A HUMAN TONIGHT
I know how this feels user, but you're not gonna find it here.
Go lesbian if you're really craving emotional connection. Worked wonders for me.
How do I validate?
Come on now there are guys that want this too. It gets shipped out of us when we get turned down for being emotionally vulnerable
That could work. I am curious if you wouldn't mind elaborating on how you found relationships with another woman? Was it more fulfilling?
I meet the criteria and would bite the bait even if only out of curiosity, but we're on different continents, and while I'm mostly fine with long distance, you're obviously not.
There's always some but.
I've discorded at least 60 guys on robot in the past year and nearly all of them ghosted me. Two I really liked and when things got emotional they bailed, and we were getting very close. Fuck it. Only other women understand me.
I'm originally ok with it.
>all I want is a Chad that embodies some nebulous idea I have of an emotionally sensitive but still rugged and masculine alpha male apex predator who will give me free license to be an infant by shielding me from any consequences for my shitty decisions and shitty behavior
I'm always happy to try but my previous LDR have ended with then leaving or cheating on me and it hurt a lot. I'm happy to chat to see where things go if you like.
Acknowledge yourself when you pull something great off, reflect on your mistakes so you don't repeat them.
Once you can make mistakes without beating yourself up over them as well as take pride in your accomplishments, you're golden.
I was in a relationship with a girl from here and I wanted to tell her how I was feeling and how I needed some support and she said she didn't want to hear about it. Now I'm scared of ever bringing this stuff up to other girls because I become really depressed when people tell me to suck it up. She left me as well.
I've been with various women for prolonged periods of time and found them lacking when it comes to romance and emotions. They were all over me yet I felt alone most of the time.
Trying to share my deepest thoughts and concerns merely left them blank and got me nowhere.
I'm a man by the way.
I make friends with almost everyone I meet, and I tend to be very open so I'm close to many. A handful of those friends were bisexual and lesbian so I just started flirting with them and eventually was dating them. We were already close and had similar values from knowing each other for so many years, so it just flowed like a natural relationship. There was no chasing each other or trying to figure out where we stood with each other, like I feel when I'm with men. I know that those women have my back because we've been through so much together.
For someone who isn't around that many people, I'd recommend going to LGBT gatherings (they usually take place at coffee shops). You meet a lot of fun people, if you can sift through the SJW type that's just there to boast about how "totally gay" they are.
user, you can't just suck up your feelings. Trust me, it never ends well for you.
If you can't tell your girlfriend because you are afraid she will leave you, she's not the one anyway.
And do tell someone. Your parents, a good friend of yours, Jow Forums if you have neither. Gotta get some relief from your feelings every now and then.
Actually did laugh out loud. Great picture.
I do have fantasies of being infantilized being treated as some non compos mentis individual. So you did get me there. He doesn't have to be Chad and I don't want to go against his will either. Just someone who sticks with me through sickness and health, good and bad. A lasting love.
This is of course so hard to find now, I see people who are getting married end up resenting eachother.
Drop your contact info then, even if a throwaway mail.
I have bipolar so I'm really up and down. My mum used to be my support network but then she said I should stop telling her so much. I understand people want to help in the begging but when the problem doesn't go away the tend to want to distance from me.
>Now I'm scared of ever bringing this stuff up to other girls because I become really depressed when people tell me to suck it up.
I'm so sorry user. And I really mean that, I know how this feels and it gets in the way of me developing bonds with other people because I'm scared they'll shun me. I've been severely abused at home for being open about issues I was having.
>Trying to share my deepest thoughts and concerns merely left them blank and got me nowhere.
I really relate to that. I always felt dejected and numb after reaching a certain point in my conversations with people because they didn't know what to say back or they seemed apathetic and not very expressive.
Sometimes I make the same mistakes over and over, like the definition of insanity. I hope I'm not too far mentally gone so I can get out of this hell stimulation.
Send us a discord or something and we can chat.
If you just want to add me I'm Agent Dark Booty#6674
Also might not be on till a bit later
Then who is:
>I just made a discord my name is sugaraddiction
I'm so sorry user, bipolar is awful. I don't have it but experience some similar problems. I have found so much depth and connection with people diagnosed bipolar, so maybe we are closer to being on the same page.
I also have lost my relationship to my mother and she was always my support line. It is so difficult when you feel abondoned by parents.
I am wondering how you received that diagnosis and what led to "them" giving you that label?
Idk a different person? I'm not the OP I'm just some dude.
That is someone dropping their info for OP
>About a month ago I had one person in my life
Then fix that you dumb whore. Obviously you're on a social rebound here.
>The same goes for a woman saying it to a man.
No it fucking doesn't moron. Only women are freaked out by someone being a normal human being and not the perfect sociopathic daddy.
It was actually something I pursued myself as I have had crippling mental health issues for a while that were not being resolved with traditional methods. I went to a psych and they said I had bipolar 2. That was at the beginning of this year and it's been a bit of a nightmare. I think I'm stable at the moment but I want to be better than just stable. Thank you for understanding though, it's nice to hear that sort of stuff.
That is me, OP. #3859
Add me if you want to talk about loneliness or existential difficulties. I don't care what you look like or whatever else, just bring me all the feels
[email protected]
Send me your full discord username
>Add me if you want to talk about loneliness or existential difficulties.
Which you clearly don't have since you can get dozens of retards willing to talk to you as soon as you make a thread on Jow Forums.
>when the fags on Jow Forums they start messaging each other thinking the recipient is a "fembot"
Oh, I'm laffin'
itt everybody's a lonely and depressed fembot (male)
Granted, I don't have much experience when it comes to mental disorders, though if you have a problem, it might help to take a stoic approach to it. That is to say, if you can do something about what's bothering you, do it. If you can't do anything about your problem, you aren't doing yourself any favours beating yourself up over it. Sure, finding the motivation is hard, but it does mean you can speak your mind, knowing you've done what you can to help yourself along.
Youre assuming I'm not also a retard. Intellectually disabled, however you word it.
A long time ago I was in San Francisco because my own autistic parents didn't want to leave me alone by myself while they had a business trip (I don't understand their logic but whatever). I went outside of the hotel and I saw two yuppie stronk independenat thots bait a homeless guy by pretending to drop $5 in the begging up he had in his outstretched hands then snatch it away at the last minute.
So good on you for having some self awareness (even though it took me, a man, to force you to admit it). But you should still kill yourself.
Stop going so fast then. Take a breather and think it over calmly. When my ex broke up, I spent a couple months thinking over what went wrong, both on her and my end. Rushing yourself only means you make even more mistakes
I don't give a shit about what you are, what are you even talking about?
Have you tried growing up? You're not six anymore you dumb piece of shit. Your daddy is gone forever. You're a grown ass woman, start fucking acting like it.
Guess you are too
How to get out of arrested development and complete my metamorphosis into beautiful woman
I'm rotting like this
Try not saving pictures of ridiculous nigger nails shit while a woman is clutching a faux diamond. Christ almighty, fuck this world and all the women in it.
That poor man. He deserves someone to hold him after that. What is wrong with wanting to be coddled like a baby? The world has so much evil in it, where has empathy gone?
Yes, mindfulness and being aware of the present moment could help. I can only take so much before I break and lose it.
The crystal ball is so hypnotizing, I feel different when I see such a pretty design
Woman the fuck up or kill yourself, your choice. Just stop any contact with men while you're like this.
>I see people who are getting married end up resenting eachother.
This is mostly due to their expectations.
Go into the marriage with realistic expectations rather than expecting perfection and this isn't as likely to happen.
There are no places that allow us to be wimps anymore
not even here, the cesspool of all of those who hate themselves rotting away in sadomasochistic pathetic self-pity
Then hypnotize yourself into not being a big fucking baby, you shitter. 12 year old children worry about bedazzleling shit. Do something fucking productive for once in your easy mode life.
Ok.
Where abouts do you live?
My IQ isn't that high hateful user
I do try but I am met with consistent failures
At the end of the day I wish someone could just hug me so I dont die prematurely