Sexual fitness

A thread for advice and tips of sexual nature.

I lost my virginity at 23 recently. Surprisingly, I can last as long as I want and I have stamina to pound away and I make her cum 90% of the time, so I'm doing my part. The girl I'm dating is a bit older than me and she's an absolute retard when it comes to sex. She can't ride a dick, she can't jerk me off, she won't suck me off because she's afraid she'll embarrass herself. Im actually getting pissed that I have to do all the work and I intentionally provoked several fights because she's constantly saying how she's gonna suck me off the next time and never does.
She's in love with me so I can use that to my advantage. How do I make her do stuff without it feeling like she's doing it only because I'm making her? Is it okay to get angry with her because she promised she's gonna do it this Sunday and then didn't and made bullshit excuses again?

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>how do I manipulate her into doing what I want?
this is how you go full speed towards a sexless relationship.

Glad I'm not a fucking child like yourself anymore, dont worry, certain things and traits come with age. And if it really matters when she's going to suck you off - and she's going to eventually - you need to sort your life out mate

If she’s in love with you just threaten to break up unless she gives you
t h e z u c c

Just leave her and if she asks why tell her. You’re young. Don’t waste time in a relationship that you’re not happy with, fag.

My gf didnt want to zucc either, turned out she just wanted me to clean my dick first and not suck it after I had been inside her, but was to embaressed to say it. Most boys wouldnt lick a pussy they just nutted in either. Just communicate

>tfw haven't had sex in 2 months
I'm dying bros.

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sexual compatibility is important, if either of you aren't satisfied it will eventually poison the relationship. Also worth noting, just because you "make her cum 90% of the time," doesn't necessarily mean she's satisfied.

>2 months
try 27 years

>haven't had sex at all

VCF films plus pulling out for thirty sessions of the sexy time. Is that enough to not become a father?

Any girl can get 5+ men delivered to her place with an hours notice. We live in the tinder age. All sexual decisions are with her, no matter how attractive you are. What is your value? Probably convenience. It is more convenient for her to have you there than to summon digital dicks. Money, car, status, apartment, cooking, your fitness, these are all your real value, not your peepee.
>oral sex, anal sex are not as convenient nor as pleasurable to her as dead fish sex
imo, you need to remove the sex as a reward mindset. Try to have sex very often and focus on her pleasure even when your not feeling it. Getting to daily sex on a routine is the goal you need to establish if you want to start experimenting with less convenient sex. If shes holding it over you like a carrot or squemish about it your never gonna get anything but dead fish missionary.
>you should read up on operant conditioning, basic petco dog training, and stable vices
>people are animals training works on them

It is easy if you haven't done it before. Once you get a taste of the real thing you want it even more. Every day feels like an eternity

>im the real victim here, not you virgins

when you get the succ and every time subsequent to the inital make sure that you act like it was the best thing ever, be extra nice and do shit for her afterwards. If she thinks she’s amazing at it she might develop a thing for it.

Try 29, lad.

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If only you knew how bad things could get

MOMMY

How can I give my gf vaginal orgasms with my dick? I'm average sized with about 6 inches but shit just doesn't happen. Any tips?

Consider surgery

>there are people this close to wizardom
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I thought the Jow Forumsizen virgin thing was a joke. Did y'all not go to high school or college?

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Take that bitch to war. I'm talking mental warfare. You're not just inserting your dick into her princess part. You're surrounding her mind with your aura and taking control. ASSUMING CONTROL. Your mind over her mind as you surround her. She can't take any more. No No no shes overwhelmed but you keep giving more. She can't handle it oh nooooooooo~

Ive been overweight my entire lift and am only in shape after college

Not all women can orgasim from penetration. Better learn some tongue game on that clit of hers.

>y'all
Fucking disgusting.

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So just endless pounding? Maybe I should do more cardio

She orgasms from clitgame fine. But it gets boring to me

More about presence imo. Are you, dare I say it, too comfortable with each other and too soft with her?

What the fuck user

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Literally all of them can desu

>Not all women can orgasim from penetration
Kek dicklet cope

Yeah I guess so. Although I pull her hair sometime but only out of habit. Maybe I should fuck her straight out of the gym

I’ve literally been surrounded by women discussing this, yet user mc mvirgin on Jow Forums surely knows better.

>wear a strapon with a dildo larger than 6"
>the absolute state of

I want to see your god damn war face user

Thank you for conceding that at least, you are gracious in defeat fren.

Have you considered that those women mostly have slept with men who fuck for 5-15 minutes, only missionary or doggy, and then sleep? getting a woman to orgasm from penetration isn't hard, it just takes time. Especially if you don't warm her up first.

Easy way to make a girl go crazy is put her legs up. Most girls cum within a few minutes

I say it in every thread and I'll say it in this thread

celery, lots of raw celery

I eat it all including the leaves and it is hands down the best aphrodisiac I've ever had. I eat a whole package every other day

women cum from vaginal penetration when they're raped

guess we found the solution huh

make sure it's a black strapon, then she will cum for sure

Read up on game. If you're capable of holding a relatively normal conversation already, there's a good chance that you just never learned how to correctly express sexual intent toward a woman.

At least, that was true for me. I lost it at 26 after reading up and learning a) what flirting is and b) that you're supposed to actually touch people.

Once you learn whatever basic shit you were missing, 'advanced' game is just learning how to make a woman believe that you already get laid a lot.

Dated during high school but never got beyond fingering, came close once and got stage fright.
I think I make a shit romantic partner so haven't even tried to date in 8 years. All I want now is to work, train, and occasionally do enjoyable shit so I can at least be happy with what I do since I can't imagine being happy with my self.

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Hearing Jow Forums talk about sex is the cringiest thing on this whole website

Every thread needs a town rapist

This is the most intelligent post I've read this year in all Jow Forums

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This guy knows what he's talking about. Once I learned how to flirt I got laid within the month. It's a shame cause it was a few months after I graduated college, now I'm having a hard time even finding girls close to my age

Yeah honestly this.

OP you're too young to be in a sexually dissatisfying relationship. Leave. You can't make someone want you.

That is why most rapists are black.

Not true
Also it isn't about time, but stimulation.
if you can't get her to cum from your dick alone, after trying different positions, try sliding a finger or two in there. If you think you just need to last longer but don't change techniques, it's going to suck. Women like longer sex than men that's true but just mindlessly jackhammering her for hours on end will just make her pussy sore if you don't know your moves.

my last ex could only cum with if i rubbed her clit in missionary, my current girlfriend would fall asleep doing that but busts her nut practically the moment I bend her over.

Women are different, ironic are the dumb posters calling others virgins when if you slept with more than 1 woman you'd know this to be true.

>Not true
lmao @ you atm

>posting in a thread about sex when you've clearly never had sex
lmao @ you atm

lmao

How do anons with a non-virgin gf cope?

Started going out with current girlfriend about half a year ago and things are generally great when we're together but flashes of disgust intrude if I think about her non-virgin status combined with other negative traits. A girl with her good qualities plus others certainly exists but the path to that person would considerably difficult, uncertain, and unpleasant - not impossible though.

That said, think the best route would be some way to cure my disgust instincts, but how?

>fell for the virgin meme

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This nigga fucks

How many did she have?

how old are you? that usually goes away with life experience

lmfao you sound like a total push over. Tell her she better get gud or youre going to find somebody else.

They will never leave sorry to break it to you. The only way to be okay with it is if you become a cuck.

How do I get to a point where I start having sex?

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Talk to women. If she eye fucks you then ask her out. Go out and if shee keeps eye fucking you go in for it and enjoy.

nod an argumend

>imagine being 40-something and having a trophy wife, that looks like that

Young girls are fun, lads, but at the end of the day. This is the fucking goal.

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>wife
cuck

We can all make it bros.

Non-virgin GF > virgin GF
Anyone that tells you otherwise is a meme. The virgin GF will get curious and WILL end up sucking other dicks. The non-virgin has something to compare you to.

It's about the person and their values, not the number of dicks that have been inside her.

Put it this way, would you rather bang a girl who's fucked two guys twice, or one that's had one long-term BF who she has done anything and everything you could imagine from filming amateur scat videos to pegging.

>not getting Jow Forums, procreating, carrying on your bloodline, and instilling traditional values, and health education in your children, within a healthy marriage to combat the sheer amount of degeneracy in today's world.

And I'm the cuck?

>this is possible with modern western women

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You just contradicted yourself. Of course you want a virgin girl that will be loyal. No one ever said otherwise.

>It's a shame cause it was a few months after I graduated college, now I'm having a hard time even finding girls close to my age
I'm in a similar boat. People my own age think I'm a kid because I stayed out of the sun my whole life and they look like beat up leather handbags compared to me. I think I'm just going to say 'fuck it' and seek out a younger crowd. I'll just spend my 30's building a rotation of 18-24 year old thots.

>fell for the virgin meme
Yeah you really did. Virginity is just a proxy measure of fidelity.

To ensure fidelity, think more in terms of motivations and less in terms of muh purity. You could take the purest virgin waifu in the world and she will cheat and leave if you are weak, emotionally cold, dogshit in bed, without ambition, dirt poor, etc. Conversely, if you're the alphaest motherfucker who ever lived and just being around you delivers emotional, sexual, etc value, then even Thottina McThotterson, Whore-Queen of Thotland won't think twice about staying loyal.

Yeah man, you're spouting some hardcore sklavenmoral right now. Pretty cucked. Where's your will to power?

>he virgin GF will get curious and WILL end up sucking other dicks
marriage infidelity and divorce rates increase with the # of previous sexual partners the woman has had. keep rationalizing dating a roast that's spent years riding the niggerdick carousel

do you have best friends? best friends in happy relationships? you will realize theres nothing wrong with a girl not being a virgin if you have best friends that bang out. Not every girl on earth is yours nor are they waiting for you. For example this one is your best friends girl. shes a person and not a virgin and has fun with your buddy. My bro is really handsome and has a 10/10 girl hes gonna wife. Not gross honestly there both really hot.
>girls wash the cum out and make hookup boys wear condoms
>more sexual experience is more fun
>STDs can hit anyone, they arent some punishment for too much sex
>tight pussy is uncomfortable imo
>any hot girl who tells you she is a virgin or almost a virgin isnt telling you the truth anyhow
If you care about having family, find a girl younger than 28, thats the cutoff for fertility the media tries to hide. 30+ is mostly sterile.

No, I only have a 6 inch dick and am not a millionaire. So unless I want trailer trash there literally is no point to trying or caring

At least he doesn't want a daughter.

Lost virginity at 15
Didn't have sex again till 20
Met an old friend from school, went with her for a few drinks and some weed because I was nervous, it helped me last long and made her cum, she loved it. Next morning I cum in like 2 minutes, she's disappointed but whatever, become FWB.
No more going out, she comes straight to my house. Cum fast but go 2nd round but still not as good. She later looses interest and rejects coming over (it may also be my fault because I did ignore her but still...).

Had sex another time but came fast, did go round 2 but still only lasted a few minutes. She was disappointed of course never fucked her again.

This last time the same thing, fucked drunk was okay. Next time cum really fast like < 20 strokes, next day a BJ also cum in < 2min, she was really into me but now not so much, she brushed off the subject of "next time".

Anyway seems I have PE.
This is really ruining my sex life. I rejected many "high profile" girls just because I knew I'd cum fast and she would be disappointed and tell all her friends where I study, can't risk it.

Also never had girlfriend after my first time so I don't have anyone to "train" to get good, like some of my friends.

Help me Jow Forums I'm 22 now and I need to meet high standards on one night stands. This shit is ruining my sex life

*HITS PIPE*

forgot pic

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>If she eye fucks you
Implying this happens

Not saying its common. If a female does eyefuck you take advantage of it if you wanna fuck.

>tfw had sex for 3 years straight, two relationships
>tfw broke up and went to college
>tfw now in 20s, Jow Forums and zero money or time for anything else but school
>haven't fucked in almost 1.5 years, after fucking 9/10s for 3-4 years like rabbit

hold me Jow Forums, I've never been more lonely and I can't fuck some 7/10, since I'm out of their league and don't find them attractive enough.

Did you do 0 foreplay?
If I spend half an hour on her she doesnt care how long i last

Poor you :(

Haven't had sex in a week but it was licentious and meaningless. Sex without love is truly lame as fuck
I don't miss my ex but I miss being in love

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This is bad advice. You need to swing at every woman even if she isn't a perfect pitch (obvious signals/eyefucking). Remember, you are the prize and she is just some stupid roastie with a hole.

You poor deluded fucking idiot. You absolute beta. How much Jow Forums shit can one man possibly fall for? Go outside, fren. Beautiful, relatively sane, non-trailer trash women litter the fucking ground out there. All you have to do is pick them up, you fucking sperg.

Honest question: When you're in public, how much do you make eye contact with the people around you? I used to think like you, but then I started actually looking around, and I realized that eyefucking was happening way more often than I could have imagined. It's by no means common, but if you made a point of looking around more, I guarantee you you'll start catching eyefucks.

neat little trick i learned with current gf: do the regular shit, lick the snatch, bite the nips, fuck for a bit and change positions, etc. when you're ready to cum, go in deep and use a magic wand on her clit while you're inside. when she's getting close to cumming, start fucking her slowly and you'll get the timing right to cum together simultaneously.

I really don't know what to do. I can't afford relationship from financial standpoint or to bother with it during studies, but I feel like I'm going to snap any moment and go on a dating and sex rampage with 7/10s and creampie everything that comes along my way.

i got a 5.5 and regularly make her cum with my dick. just look at her face. is she about to sneeze? keep doing what your doing. go harder. harder. clap the living shit out of it. look for her queues. its not over till shes pushing you off.

Same brah.

No people definitely don’t eye fuck me. When people look at me it’s because they are merely just looking around

There is a book by Barbara Keesling The Multiorgasmic Man you might find some exercises there useful.

>0 foreplay
Looking back, yeah I did do 0 zero foreplay.
Still, how that would help PE?

Then don’t do it. Casual sex is trash and risky anyways

fpbp
She deflowered u op don't be a dick

I agree but unfortunately I am base. Working on it.
One day at a time

Just the way I look at it. I have no negative judgement towards friends who have gfs/wives. I just have high expectations for myself and want to be the best version of myself before I get a gf, and perhaps exaggerate the number of passable women out there to keep myself focused on that goal. Maybe that makes me crazy, but maybe it will motivate me to succeed.

How is this level of social awkwardness even possible in this day and age? I’m fucking three attractive girls right now.

What? Just stop having casual sex right now. Wait until you have a gf

Don’t get STD from some dumb whore when you could just wait for a gf who won’t do that to you

There's a rapid consolidation of everything--wealth, women, property, etcetera. Enjoy the spoils if you have the privilege!

I am 28 and only had sex once when I was 20

>old
>doesn't give blow or do anything enthusiastic for sex
>she's in "love" with you, aka wants your commitment because her eggs are drying up

Get your last pump in and dump that piece of trash. You have a used up roastie who's reached her expiration date.

FYI, if a woman doesn't want to do sexual stuff with you
>she's not attracted to you.

Time to move on OP

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