Have crush on man in his 40s. Tells me I'm pretty and whatnot, that some guy would be lucky to have me...

>Have crush on man in his 40s. Tells me I'm pretty and whatnot, that some guy would be lucky to have me. I hint at that point that I like him. "You'll find someone someday" was his response.
>Go out for the first time, establish ground rules. Tell boyfriend early on my goal was to get marry. He had some time to think and told me he didn't want to get married, but I could easily find someone else who wanted to, then we broke up. More specifically, he dumped me.
>Flirting with a guy for several months and told me he's afraid of commitment and it would take him years to settle down, if he ever decided to. He told me I was a "great girl though" and "anyone would easily want me."

Why do you assholes keep doing this? This is just the male equivalent of, "You're a great guy, but I just see you as a friend." FUCK YOU.

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what is the age gap op?

Find a guy who actually wants you. Like puts in effort. It's that easy

Why do you want to get married so badly? Marriage kinda sucks

From my virgin loser experience, I cant even comprehend how these men exist

stop fucking larping like holy shit

First guy, 20 years.
Second guy, 6 months.
Third guy, 5 years.

Literally no one puts in the effort, and I always do.

But you are a great girl. And that special someone in the future is gonna be very lucky to have you as his wife.

Are you attractive? Have you tried becoming more attractive?

>Why do you assholes keep doing this? This is just the male equivalent of, "You're a great guy, but I just see you as a friend." FUCK YOU.

If you keep having similar problems with different people it's likely you are the one causing it. My guess is some personality disorder shit or something like that

The silver fox was the last true gentleman. He didn't want to saddle a young lady down with the baggage of having to care for a doddering old man when she's in the bloom of youth. Second guy wanted to get sum fuk and get out. So what? He knows the game and he's playing it. Third guy was based and redpilled. He's seen enough of the roastie fields to know the only way to win at a rigged game is not to play. Even if you're a larping tranny, thank you OP, you've done wonders to restore my smile and optimism that the universe finds a way to balance everything out in the end.

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It wouldn't suck if both people put in the effort. I want someone I can share everything with, from our thoughts, to our experiences together.

My experience with an overwhelming majority of men is that of immaturity and inability to put effort into a single relationship.

That would be a no; I'm just average. Putting effort into my appearance only got me more flirting, but never any real connections.

I'm not quite sure what it is I'm doing. I always think things are going well and suddenly the guy stops talking to me and is flirting with other girls. It hits me out of the blue. I always feel stunned after it happens.

GO HOME FEMALE

Where do you meet these guys? Maybe you're looking in the wrong places

1st guy was college
2nd guy I was friends with for over 5 years since high school
3rd guy was, well, this shithole

This is what happens when you Chad chase. You need to just accept that you're damaged goods now because you got fucked like the roastie whore you are.

stop giving this roastie attention, that's all she craves and you're biting on the bait. this board died a long time ago

The third guy told you he was afraid of commitment. Literally just talk about how serious you are early on. Withhold sexual intimacy for as long as you can

Marriage is a ritualistic tradition that has become a legal nightmare for men UNLESS you plan on having children drop the Marriage requirement EVERYTHING you described you can do with a serious BF. Marriage isn't some type of magic spell even your own comment says it "It wouldn't suck if both people put in the effort." if you want to economically entrap someone so their wallet and assets are fucked if EITHER one of you decides they want out then you should really reconsider if you actually love them THAT is what you're doing wrong.

There has to be a reason you think Marriage is important so what is it IF it's not children?

>Second guy wanted to get sum fuk and get out.

If that's what happened, avoiding fornication would have avoided this particular situation. Life is sometimes simpler when Christian morals are maintained, even if you're an atheist. It might be the case that you're not meant to marry, and that doesn't make you any less deserving of a happy life. In fact, you might be happier taking your mind off marriage and relationships for a while.

Stop putting out you dumb slut

>Chad chase
The first guy had been single his whole life, the second was an autistic virgin. Maybe the third could be considered Chad, but I never chased him. I'm still a virgin btw, I never agreed to have sex with any of them when I knew it was going nowhere.

We did, he told me he wasn't serious at all so nothing ever happened from there. He stopped talking to me, which sucks because we were still good friends. I guess when pussy was off the table, so was all of our meaningful conversations.

He said your "pretty", not hot. Basically the equivalent of calling a guy "cute".

You are going after Chads, that or your a uggo.

Jesus fuck if I got approached by some 20 year old, (I am 31) and we got along and had same hobbies I would easily marry her.

I never forced myself on anyone, these guys flirted with me and when I took it seriously I guess it dawned on them they shouldn't have said certain things.

I want children, and I see having a boyfriend as fucking pointless and a waste of my time.

I'm a virgin, I never once said I put out in my post.

read

I legitimately don't trust women. I just can't anymore.
The world's going to hell anyways so I guess I really don't care anymore either, why bother procreating when your species is about to destroy itself anyways?

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>The first guy had been single his whole life
ah the one night stand/friends with benefits guy, that or he had a wife that you didn't know about, and no you would not of known no matter what you think

>the second was an autistic virgin
The second guy was a homosexual who was just your friend.

>Maybe the third could be considered Chad
He most certainly was.

i relate to everyone my age being not virgin and not interested in long term relationships it fuckin kills me (im a guy though)

>The first guy had been single his whole life, the second was an autistic virgin.
These people are never going to make a move unless you give very, very clear signals. Not hints but explicitly asking them out. The first guy probably never allowed himself to even entertain the notion that a young woman was actually attracted to him.

My goal is to get married, and I would love a commitment filled wholesome relationship. Pls respond

i obviously dont know the full story but maybe they were just intimidated by how you brought up marriage so suddenly? guys that dont have problems getting dates unironically shudder at the thought of marriage and kids

>I want children
see you should've lead with that.
I myself am looking for a real House Wife type
>species
Just because the west fucked up and Progressed itself off a cliff doesn't mean everyone followed them. You aren't the world, the world will survive

I've responded to tons of these and they've gone nowhere, so what's going to make this any different?

>I'm a virgin, I never once said I put out in my post.

In that case, it sounds like you've basically done everything as well as you could. You met a handful of guys with whom you had no lasting chemistry, but that's a normal part of life and you shouldn't take it as a personal insult. Like I said, you might never find the right person to marry, but chances are you will, and that person may come precisely when you're not seeking a relationship. Take a step back from dating for a while. Focus on something else.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I understand if you don't wanna talk. Merry christmas anyway

Kek, so am I. The likelihood of things working are so small though. You'd have to be a girl(female), live relatively close, and find me attractive. Unlikely

I've had a woman do that to me though, not really a guy exclusive thing. Everyone just has Peter Pan syndrome these days.

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This is good advice, thanks user.

Sorry if that came off as mean. Merry Christmas user.

How about you just give me your discord and we'll see what happens?

>I-I never had sex before I don't g-go for Chad
Kek. That's how you know she's a histrionic thot who doesn't believe that sexual intercourse "counts" if she feels it doesn't, and that she only exclusively interacts with Chads.

>Take a step back from dating for a while. Focus on something else.
Booting up CoolWineAunt.exe

It didn't come off as mean. More bitter than mean. Are you open to friendos?

The west is the only thing stopping a myriad of wars and genocides from taking place, and ironically in stopping them it's fucked itself along with the rest of them. The west falling apart is just the first of many pitfalls on the road to extinction, starting with the planet's most advanced civilizations and going on down the line until there's not enough people left to continue the species. At this point I welcome it, fuck this species and the god forsaken rock we're stuck on.

throwaway#4364

Sure user

>This is good advice, thanks user.
Happy to help. Have a Merry Christmas!

A, if this is you, just PM me and we can talk. There's things about you, me and your mother we need to discuss. J is obviously your father but there's some... weirdness we need to talk about. We need to talk about that,

pic related should be a clue.

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do you send nudes though? you need to not be too prude if you want the attention of guys in >current year

>The west is the only thing stopping a myriad of wars and genocides from taking place, and ironically in stopping them it's fucked itself along with the rest of them
Muh "Israel has a right to exist" lie
Muh "West is superman muh goys"
Muh pretending that the tribal warfare that has plagued humanity since it's inception will suddenly magically become too much for the species because the Most Powerful tribe to rise in the last hundred years is about to fall

War Never Changes and it won't be enough

Why has r9k become a place to share whorescapades?

"tons of these"

Did everyone who stood against this commit suicide?

These guys don't really "hate the idea of marriage" they only really hate the idea of marrying you.

If you were a young, debt-free virgin with no tattoos they'd buy engagement rings a few months after dating you.

>This is just the male equivalent of, "You're a great guy, but I just see you as a friend."
I'd gladly fuck you, pay for your meals, give you gifts, and have a low commitment relationship with you is the equivalent of, I want you to give me your attention and give you nothing in return

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I'm 20, have no debt, and am a virgin. Your argument is invalid.

Pretty much.

> I'm still a virgin btw, I never agreed to have sex with any of them when I knew it was going nowhere.

>I guess when pussy was off the table, so was all of our meaningful conversations.

Now you're starting to get it you stupid bitch. No one wants to marry you or have a long relationship. One reason is because you're "average" AKA ugly, secondly you're clearly not
that smart or interesting which is proven by your posts in the thread and thirdly which is most important, if there is anything you should remember it's that who the fuck would want to marry an ugly stupid bitch.

Xdddddd epic, yeet.
Had 3 romantic partners already? Good for you. Guess what, many anons here can't relate in the slightest, because nobody even gave us a chance of going on a date. Hell, some of us don't even have female friends because they find us repulsive without getting to know us.
So FUCK YOU.

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Where did I ever mention Israel?
And NATO is probably the most powerful coalition on the planet right now, Russia having more drunks than all the pubs in Ireland and China being a paper tiger.
Shitskins lack empathy for whites and will slaughter us without mercy when the gates fall, certainly none that we have foolishly shown them. The east is in just as bad a state, if not worse than we are in. The remainder are religious whacks willing to commit genocide on each other for believing the wrong kind of Islam and nogs that will mostly serve as their cannon fodder. Seeing that Iran has nuclear capability, and the others will be itching to achieve it with those pesky white people out of the way, it won't take long once the restrictions are lifted to have what's left turned to glass by the dune coons.

Hey OP I just wanted to stop by and say I, as a 29 year old man, met and married a 17 year old virgin church girl we're on our first child, with many more to come. She knows her place in the relationship, and does as she is told. Without question. You, on the other hand, will never get married or have children and will instead become a used up, nagging waste of space. On behalf of everyone, kys.

sad pedophile bait

High five larpbro tell this dumb roast beef the ugly truth

Based and redpilled. OP probably looks like pic related

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I would marry the fuck out of that

This is true.
The only reason Israel is not getting invaded by a million muslims at this very second is Western protection. The second a Great Depression level disaster comes and NATO eventually collapses the world would be 1960s Africa on a larger scale.
I unironically hope that happens just to ruin every normie's plan for their future and they can be finally crushed under their ignorance. I don't care if I get Droned(TM) on day one

how is nobody seeing that this is just swapping out male for female and turning the age up to 40

And the second she ODs in her bathtub all of her family members that ignored her existence to that point will come forward and lawsuit you into oblivion so they can get their paper. You will then end up homeless.

Hehe this bitch looks like she says "HUUUUUUUUH?" a lot when she doesn't understand something or hears something that doesn't fit her worldview.
OP, do you say "HUUUUUUUH?" a lot?

Wow its not so great when it happens to you huh

Perhaps its your ground rules that sucks
Perhaps these guys got feed up of hearing
>> your a nice guy I'm sure you'll find someone

Or perhaps its down to the fear mongering of the media and SJWs involving divorce

Anyways GL out there

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This board is rotting in the ground at this point, yes you are right. Time to migrate or can't someone create another site is it hard to do that why hasn't it been done yet? I'm no programmer but dammnit I hope there is somewhere else that is the way this place used to be

Take the pinkpill. Men are all degenerate pigs who only want to use women for their holes. Join misandry gang and take a vow of celibacy to spite those horny retards. Never spread your legs for an ungrateful sperm donor. There's more to life than being someone else's cumrag

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Lolcow is leaking, but you're not wrong

>kills self at age 40 with no children

>the premier female problem is "no one wants to financially support me for the rest of my life" 100% of the time

Meme gender

It's called wizchan but it's really slow compared to here.

>take a vow of celibacy to spite those horny retards

Yeah, you're really sticking it to this community of expressed virgins by dropping out of the dating scene and crashing your gravy train.

Are you all retarded?

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Ok retard. If I want kids I can just adopt. There's no need for a hypergamous sperm donor

>If I want kids I can just adopt.

Good luck with that without a spouse, retard.

Are women really do dumb they don't even know anything about child rearing, the only thing they're good for?

Since you're using Jow Forums I'm gonna assume you're in the 18-24 demographic. Here's the thing, most guys in their 20s don't want to get married. Fucking deal with it. You aren't entitled to a spouse. Your 20s are supposed to be the time of your life where you don't have responsibilities like that. Your life as an individual basically ends when you get married. Within under 5 years you'll either be having kids or feel like shit because you're not having kids. The whole thing just seems like a wreck to me.

>It wouldn't suck if both people put in the effort. I want someone I can share everything with, from our thoughts, to our experiences together.
HAHAHAHAHA
Are you serious? Your understanding of what marriage is, is essentially that of an 8th grader. Sure marriage is like 10% those things and the rest is having to live with each others glaring flaws and going through devastating hardships.

>My experience with an overwhelming majority of men is that of immaturity and inability to put effort into a single relationship.
No shit. This is the baggage that comes with a male, if you find a male that isn't like this he's probably an emasculated twink or an old man. It's like how men have to put up with women's passive aggressiveness, neediness and nagging. So, yeah. Literally every man you meet is going to have faults.

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