Do you catch girls looking at you?

Literally not once at any point in my life

All the time, especially at work. I'm a personable person though, so I get a lot of smiles from people in general.

Only the ugly ones, the cute ones are either to focused on their pack of Stacies, their phones, or making damn sure they dont even glance at me

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This shit fucks with me all the time. I have never had a gf and I am pretty good at talking to girls. But in my mind whenever I catch a look they always look again as if they were checking me out and then taking a second look because they were disgusted.

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Yes and its probably because they're insulting me in their head so I don't care
Easier to just stay inside so I don't have to deal with this shit

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All the time some good some bad
>Very bad
>Get good stares for the girls at the gas station were I buy beer
>Get bad(Good) stares form my cousins 13 year old daughter

Yes often, but im assuming its because I have a very visible birthmark on my face.

I'm always looking away so I wouldn't know.

no i don't know if anyone is looking at me since i look at my feet when i walk desu

Legally blind, so no

Yes. In my dreams
This is original as your mother's asshole

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fucking rip topkek

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Sometimes. I never do or say anything about it though

Yeah and I'll keep glancing at them just to see if they still are or would notice me looking at them... testing them. If they glance at me as they're leaving, I'll assume they're attracted to me, but that never happens. I guess they just think I'm attractive at first, but they make second glances just to me sure but then decide I'm not good enough. I'm very reserved emotionally and socially, so they just see some guy who doesn't seem to be interested in them, but I am. I'm just not gonna put the effort in trying to get to know you because I know what's going to happen.

Holy shit, im not the only one. I fucking hate this

Yes, once, from my oneitis no less. Although I don't know if it was a stare of repulsion or attraction.

at work yea. don't think much of it other then its nice to think someone isn't too put off by me but other then that I don't think of it or her at all. great thread op

they look at everyone

but do they have a reason to hurt your slow friend by making it obvious to stare at you?

No, they catch me looking at them.

Why are girls checking me out? I'm a fat piece of shit, what's so fucking attractive/interesting about my appearance? Yeah sure, my face might look a little good, especially with the grey eyes and straight brown hair, but come the fuck on, I'm 6'1 weighing 300 lbs; nowhere near as good as I was in high school, in the late 00s. I'm not athlete or bodybuilder, so you're wasting your time!

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>thinking if you were fit you would have a reason to date
>not knowing that any relationship your in would dissolve because of your personality

you need to leave

Then what the fuck is with the Chad memes? Fucking normie.

no girls look at me, but i barely go outside since im in a shitty small town where the average age is over 45 probably.

It doesn't happen too often, but when it does I try to fuck with them by pretending to pick up on their signal (looking over, smiling) and then leave immediately afterwards. It's fun.

Yeah every once in a while, but usually I don't notice it and my girlfriend just tells me.

several times, although I could just be seeing things
>be at the neighbourhood private lake with my parents, around 17
>go for a swim across the lake and back
>get out and go to the a locker room area to buy some shit
>see a girl and what looks like her younger sister, cant be older than 14
>buy my shit and leave
>go back to the towel my parents are at, and my mom points out these same two girls behind me
>mom later tells me that it looked like one was pushing the other to go talk to me but she was too nervous
the worst thing is, usually these things give me a small confidence boost but I never do anything about it and I end up depressed and lonely 1 month later thinking im an ugly fucker

Bunch of girls look at me in public
*whispers*
>he looks sad

Bunch of girls look at me in public
*laughter*

Bunch of girls look at me in public
*whispers*
>he's fine but that nose

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not anymore. I aged like milk during my twenties.
I'll rarely receive a compliment about my eyes but the rest of my body looks like shit now.

I can tell when women are looking at me and purposefully ignore them. The thing with many women is that they want you to catch them. They want that validation, the feeling of being desired. It doesn't matter if they would never touch you; its the tease than pleases them.
So fuck them, I ignore them. Strangely enough, it tends to drive some of the wild and they get aggressive until out of sight (prolonged stare, walking into your path, slight bump, tilting head in your direction).

another time
>be me in 8th grade
>this chinese autistic kid I was sort of friends with accuses me of ogling this blonde Stacy in our class, and tells me to ask her out
>I have no idea what he is talking about, he literally pulled it out of his ass
>in french class later, some random dude I dont even know his name asks me if I am going to ask her out
>apparently this asian kid was spreading this rumour around
>later on I am in english class cutting some shit up for a project, stacy is like 1 desk away from me with her stacy friends
>she randomly addresses me and I ask what
>She asks me "user do you have abs?"
>think why the fuck is she asking me this and respond with "i dont know..."
she was always nice, not sure why she asked this, maybe it was meant to be some joke

It's all over the place, but majority would be more gazing in pitiful curiosity. I've gotten more impatient and am a bit more anxious and frustrated, so I think they notice that alot and I get a lot more senses of disgust and repulsion, probably because I don't make eyecontact anymore and am more quick to deal with people

Slight bump

All the time I have so random girl touching me. I could be sitting on the bus and I magically find her way to bump into me couple of times.

But once a girl seen me from far away so pushed me onto the road with her back. -_-
I was trying to overtake them as they blocked the foot path. I know that bitch seen me walking.

whenever I make eye contact with a girl they gag :(

Oupss
>All the time I have some random girl touch me. I could be sitting on the bus and magically a girl would bump into me couple of times.

really? If I somehow manage to pull of a normal smile, they treat me normally, but once I start being noticeably impatient and irritated, they a lot of times literally start panting. They will like sigh to calm themselves down, this type of shit makes me want to quit my cashier job, but it's only half a dozen women a day that do that.

>do you catch girls looking at you?
from strangers? no

I've been given looks and even been flirted with by coworkers. Maybe I'm too hard on myself but the girls who have done this to me seem really out of my league.

Yes, stares of disgust count as "looking" I guess.

Maybe but I'm pretty convinced it's just wishful thinking.

What the fuck are you saying about the 13 here

I sometimes like to think I am not that bad looking, so either I'm wrong or I'm wrong AND I'm the least physically interesting person of all times because I do not catch them glancing often.
That being said, sometimes they have looked at me but I believe it's in disgust or in pitiful curiosity.
The very few times they've seemed interested I feel good for a moment but then I remember that I'm an asocial, boring, not flexible and elitist person, and that provides me with the conforting certainty that I would disappoint them, and thus I need not worry about the stress of approaching them because I know it's futile and that thought makes me calm down.

I get approached by young women a couple of times per day even when I am absolutely not dressed well.

Occasionally, but does it really matter? Even if I had the courage to talk to her my stale personality would ruin everything.

yes, but I ignore them because they want you to look at them. I pretend they don't exist and hope that it annoys them even a little

They used too but not they don't. Or maybe they do I just don't bother looking anymore.

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I have a bad habit of checking out girls. At work I'm always staring at butts. I try to hide it by looking around a lot. I think when girls are looking at me it's in a "this guy is a creep" way.

sometimes since im a ginger and im a cutie

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Yeah but I always find a reason to think it's for any reason other than attraction. I'm moderately handsome, but not enough to stop the show when I walk into a room. I think that because of who I am and how I look, I attract girls who don't openly eye flirt like that

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Yeah. I figure it's cuz of the long hair and the scar.

>do you catch girls looking at you?
Yeah but since they won't start talking anyway, I ignore it as best as I can.

>implying girls would want to look at me

Sometimes man. When I catch a girl looking at me, i feel the best thing out there, but then I realize I'm not really gonna talk with them or break the ice.

It really improves your self estrem, even if you are not gonna do a move

fuck if I know anymore, I pull my hat down when I'm on the bus / train and that's the only time I'm really near the opposite sex

man I love my hat, no worrying about finding a spot to look anymore..

Yes.
I've been called good looking few times, so there's that. But it's not gonna change a thing when I spend most of my time indoors and talking to strangers is hard.

Absolutely never, not even once. People in Australia have an amazing ability to not look at anyone in public, though, we're secretly a nation of autists. That's why there are so many of us on this terrible site.

>be about a month ago
>waiting for a coach
>leaning against a wall minding my own business
>group of about 5 or more girls walk past are looking at me
>talking about me casually to themselves and still looking when they pass
>no laughter and no direct mockery so I doubt they thought I was ugly

That was a true wtf moment in my life

I look directly at every attractive women walking in my opossite direction and most of them tend to smile at me. I'm still a nogf virgin so it won't get you any pussy but it feels good

I had a girlfriend for 2 years - my only one. She was kind of fat and insecure, but she insisted that many girls in public were hitting on me overtly when she was with me. I never knew if it was just her own poor self-esteem, or if it were actually true.

If it were true, it'd make a lot of sense. Women's interest is largely just that subtle. Despite being an autist, I am "conventionally attractive", and while I'm not surprised I've never been asked out before, I am surprised I've never really picked up anything from girls (aside from pretty blatant stares and statements from mentally retarded girls with no social filter in middle/high school).

Has anybody here picked up any overt flirting from women before? What's it like?

at high school I was friends with mainly girls. I noticed other girls would sometimes look at me then.

Now I'm a loner so no-one looks at me

the only women eho overtly flirted with me with a 4/10 fat fuck and she did it only by giving me a modicum of extra attrntion compared to anyone else at the party. Atractive women don't flirt, and if they do they only flirt with chad, if you are a normie you are expected to do all the work

Women automatically smile at everyone who makes eye contact with them it's an instinctual thing
It's kind of like the body language way of saying "please don't rape and kill me"
Since you're an incel this goes double for you since I'm assuming you are autistic with low emotional affect and are death glaring at them

Girls don't look at me. It's like I'm invisible

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>We're secretly a nation of autists
>Secretly
It's not a secret if everyone knows

That's the thing, no one knows. We're an 'outgoing' and 'friendly' nation to everyone else. Truth is 90% of the cities are chings and streetshitters and the suburbs are white trash bogans, the only thing shared being a mutual distrust of everyone else.

>picked up any overt flirting from women before
Oh yeah. And your past gf was right- girls will seem you more attractive when you present yourself in public with a gf. Proving that youre dateable is highly attractive to girls, no matter how uggo the girl is

Alright, heres a greenie from yesterday
>go to animal hospital
>need to get pets meds
>see woman across the hall
>she has a dog
>she is making eye contact with me
>prolonged, uncomfortable eye contact
>decide I have no energy for this
>begin to ignore her
>move to other side of hall to get my receipt
>I am closer to her now
>hear her say to friend
>I think she (the dog) needs to go out
>vet nurse is printing my receipt as it happens
>begin to connect the dots
>ohfuck
>I exit the building quickly
>I turn the corner
>she is half a step behind me with dog
>She coughs very obviously
>I put my head down and march to my car
>I hear her laugh pretentiously as I drive away

Fuck women

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Yes and I don't get what's the intent behind it at all.

Just this last semester I had several girls staring at me in college, sometimes even defiantly. Like, I'd look at them and instead of looking away, they'd stare. Then I'd look away and look back after a few seconds and they'd still be staring. Others would make sure to enter my field of vision before looking at me, as if to make it obvious. And they'd do it regularly, I recognize at least a dozen chicks there just from the constant staring, despite never having interacted with them.

Everything I know about people and flirting (through an almost anthropological interest I have in my normie friends' stories) suggests that they were into me and signaling it. Everything I've been through, including the amount of bullying I suffered over being ugly and my lack of experience with women, suggests that they probably think I'm ugly or weird, and are staring aggressively. But I have changed my appearance a lot in the last years, so I can't make up my mind over which one it is. Now my mood is always oscilating between "maybe I'm handsome now!" and "oh god I'm such an incel people just hate me I'll never be normal" all the time, and the anxiety over it is driving me insane.

When I was a kid I knew this schizophrenic Aussie, the madlad was absolutely cooked. From then on I've assumed most of your kind are like him lol

THE VOICES ARE BACK
Sorry did I just type the first line of the Australian anthem?
>t. jealous saffer

Give more info about this kid, i might know him

The guy is middle aged and married now with kids, but he got raped by a random bloke in the outback and then got tattooed everywhere because the alien mind control waves told him to do it. He eventually got the tattoos removed with lasers

MAKE THAT 2 SCHIZOPHRENIC AUSSIES LADDY
>TFW SHADOW CRABS BACK TO RAPE ME INTO A COMA

A GIANT PURPLE BILLABONG WITH PURPLE LIGHTS SHOOTING OUT FROM IT, THE DEAFENING SILENT PRAYERS OF AN ANCIENT PEOPLE RINGING OUT FROM THE DEPTHS OF IT

Yes, all the time. Just like pic related.

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No, I am afraid that that does not happen.

Now that's a face I am familiar with

Yeah, it's weird
They prolly think I'm hideous, which is true

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>tfw no qt lolis mirin me

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only like this

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What are you supposed to do when a girl makes eye contact with you