How am I supposed to tell my parents I want to be a girl?
How am I supposed to tell my parents I want to be a girl?
you don't ,you're fucked in the head lad.get some help
You're not supposed to. Ever.
On a fucking suicide note
by killing yourself orignigger
lol did you actually let r9k brainwash you? Fucking brainlet.
I told my parents when I was 13 and they were not surprised at all. Just do it.
>Me: ''I wish I was a fucking girl. I could lay on my back making money, and I wouldn't need to do shit for the rest of my life.''
>Dad: ''I hear ya.''
This
Kek
Fuck off faggot
By blowing your head off
You don't, just take homones and cut your ball off and dress like a girl, they will get the picture.
send an email explaining it perhaps
>le get some help meme
dont, thats gay and being gay is WRONG
>Dad: ''I hear ya.''
kek based
Aw man looking at this made me feel bad. OP if you wanna chat we're here for you, sorry I called you a brainlet.
Just tell them. I've had tons of trans friends and every single one of their parents have been nothing but supportive. You deserve to be happy and comfortable in your own body.
be my bf, stay a guy, like fem guy and I'l ltreat you like a girl, and you don't have to tell them anything.
Be independant, and able to cope without them. Then drop the red pill on them.
I wanted to be a gril years ago and now I am 2 years HRT.
Good feels.
p.s. I have had nothing but support, even from the people who don't like my choice.
You were supposed to when you were an egg. You missed your chance, live with it.
You masturbate too much
You do not have ambition or purpose
You waste time and money every day
You do not take care of your self or the things around you
You should rethink if eating pills will make you any happier because it will not if you are not going to do anything to improve your life
I am a much better person and my life is in a lot better order since transitioning. Ironically, I even clean my room and make my bed. I can't stand to be doing nothing or having mess around me now.
I went from a boy, to a man-boy thing, to a transwoman. I never grew up until the transition.
It is not right for everyone but it was right for me.
I think a big part of "feeling trans" is the FACT, that most people are capable of "running" both the male and female version of themselves.
I mean think about it from a logical perspective:
How do you distribute the "software" for being male or female to people?
I mean on a biological level.
The easiest thing would be to distribute both and then have the person choose one based on environmental factors.
Because of this, most people are capable of acting out both parts(if we would ever admit it) and socialization is meant to kill the part that we don't need.
Real trans people are only those who are incapable of acting out their natural part.
Then they fall back on the other one. It is literally a disorder.
But by encouraging everyone with "everything goes", and "oh, you can choose", leftists have created a climate where everyone who has difficulty fitting into their natural gender role automatically is encouraged to change it.
BUT THAT IS NOT HOW IT WORKS. You have your own biological reality, and it is absolute. You have to make do with what you have. If you think that you can be what you want, then no, it won't happen. You will never ever have a family if you do this. It completely obliterates any and all chances you had in life. You have no more future left. I mean, what the hell do you want to do after that? Oh, so you are a transgirl now, and next?
The worst part is that I actually understand how one would come to a conclusion like that. If I wasn't me, I might have fallen for it as well:
You watch cute girl doing cute things anime, and then you discover that you lack the closeness that those characters have.
You see real girls, and girls can do what they want, they are allowed to show emotions and always to get their way, and they are cute and wear cute dresses, and they have it easy at school(because the system is made for them) and you think to yourself: "what good life they have, I wish I could be like that!".
Everyone who has a high level of openness thinks this way (even if they won't admit it). And it is true that they have it much better.
When you are a guy, then you are worth as much as dirt. You have nothing, you are nothing. But girls, girls matter. And when they are finished playing around and doing cute and fun things, then they find a man to take care of them for the rest of their lives.
And everyone subconsciously realizes this.
And so? Only because this is all true and you are doomed to play the male role - like everyone else - you decide to take the easy way out and become a transgirl? Never getting a family, never amounting to anything. What do you think your life will be like then?
You might be able to play around and do cute things like the girls do for a little while.
But then at the end of the day, you will realize that there is nothing left for you. Women can do this because they will just get children and a man will take care of them. And you? What about you? You will just be left with nothing.
And then you will kill yourself.
The only thing you can do is accepting your fate and go on living in this world.
Choosing HRT is choosing death.
By writing it in the death note
dont. you arent a girl. go outside
Why is it so critical that everyone have a family? How does having kids I don't want with a woman I don't love to be raised in a culture that rejected me good for anyone in any way?
Ask faggot.
You don't, accept you're a dude and ask for some medical help.
Well, what DO you want then?
Where do you want to end up at the end of ends?
Have you ever thought about what you want out of life?
I mean, there are lots of things that you can aspire to be, but as far as I can see most people who choose the HRT, just do so because they think:
"There is something wrong with me, and it is that I should be a girl! One this thing is fixed, everything will sort itself out, everything will be fine. I need to fix this and then I will be better."
But then you do it, and a realization starts to dawn on you:
Nothing really changed... well, for the better at least. Lots of doors that were once open are now closed.
So where do you go from there?
>kids I don't want with a woman I don't love
People who don't have it are miserable. That's a fact.
You are just alone then, and friends only ever help you that far.
Oh, it IS possible to get away without having them, sure. For example, if you want to archive something that needs all your time. But then you will be a director of something important or a CEO at the end. That might be worth it.
Btw, if you are gay, then you can be gay, that's a different thing altogether. You can get happy like that. But being trans is a different thing entirely
you don't, get your fucking life together dumbass
>i've had gender dysphoria my whole life
love this meme where fucking everyone on the internet just happens to have these insanely rare 0.0001% of the population in all of human history diseases
How do you know it is rare? Only a small fraction could be the ones coming out and transitioning. I bet most suffering from gender dysphoria take it to the grave.
Societies reaction to it is worse than the illness itself.
Tell them you want your genitals sawed off
I liked Hanayamata, shame it didnt get a S2.
Kill yourself so you won't have to.
>I bet most suffering from gender dysphoria take it to the grave.
>suffering
I'm suffering because I don't own 10 billion dollars
I'm suffering because of X, Y, Z and W
But nothing of it is so bad that I'm going to cut parts of my fucking body off.
You know, most people just don't fucking care.
Gender Dysphoria is honestly not that big a fucking deal. I mean, choose one of the following things:
You are the wrong gender, you have no feet, you have cancer, you have no hands, you are blind. CHOOSE ONE.
It's "you are the wrong gender?", IT IS? Oh really? So it is not that bad, huh? And guess what is the group from all of those people who kill themselves most? The mentally ill. What a coincidence!
You are correct in your assessment that gender dysphoria isn't that bad compared to much worse stuff. The difference between condition that you mentioned such as cancer or blindness is that those people will get real help, no one hates them based on their disability. With gender dysphoria, they are almost universally rejected by society. That's why the suicide statistic is so high. The cure make people hate them.
I think the common method is by hanging from the ceiling
you don't know what gender dysphoria feels like.
by tying a noose around your doorknob and hanging yourself from it
There is no cure.
>That's why the suicide statistic is so high
It's so high because those people are:
1. mentally unstable
2. have no purpose in life
3. disenfranchised themselves from their roles in society
4. have no perspective for the future
5. are under very strong medication
6. mutilated their own body
And 7. last and not least - of course - because of social pressure.
But its far from the only factor, that is in great part caused by all other factors above.
I actually do. I have a level of openness under the big 5 personality system that is off the chart(pic related). Its impossible to not have an ambivalent gender identity at that point. It's not that bad.
At that point, you are between categories, you feel like you could be a girl, or someone innocent. You want to connect with people, but being a guy prevents you from being able too.
And so? Do I now go around crying like a fucking faggot?
I wish I could change my form however I like, like the mc from slime Tensei (The fact that isekai protagonists often get genderswapped or something is NOT a coincidence).
I wish I have magical powers also.
And money would be nice.
All of those things are nice to have, but it's just not that bad without them.
>I know what gender dysphoria feels like because I took an online personality test that says I have high openness.
My autism detector is going off the charts.
Hopefully unironic and super based
How can you misread a post so badly?
Do you want to avoid its contents so badly that you have to intentionally misrepresent it?
What part did I misread?
>you don't know what gender dysphoria feels like.
I actually do. I have a level of openness under the big 5 personality system that is off the chart(pic related).
The part after that
>you feel like you could be a girl, or someone innocent. You want to connect with people, but being a guy prevents you from being able too.
>I wish I could change my form however I like, like the mc from slime Tensei
I said that I know how it feels like because I felt it.
The part about personality is only about the cause of where I think that it comes from.
What if the changes in you form were within your reach? Would you not pursue it? Sure it's not bad now, but why not go for something better?
Cost/Benefit.
They aren't within my reach.
When you become a trans"girl", you DON'T change your gender.
You become a mutilated boy, a eunuch who is put on hormones.
That's just retarded. How could anyone think that this makes you into a girl?
But you are still a boy. You just damage yourself with medication and operations beyond recognition. You also ruined your reproductive potential. GJ.
Only because I would like to be a girl sometimes, does not mean I wouldn't like to be a boy at other times.
The biggest part about it is that I would love is if boys could be completely open about themselves and wouldn't be pathologically afraid of closeness.
And I think that this is the biggest part of gender dysphoria.
And I honestly just act how I want because I can. And so far it worked out pretty well for me.
If I could just change my gender without any consequences and back however much I want, then that would be great.
But I'm not going to cut off my dick, and I'm not going to kill myself over something this pathetic.
Do you consider yourself passable?
If I had had mega liberal parents and no friends in middle/high school then I probably would've started HRT. Now that I'm 20 though I don't know how effective it would be to justify having to go through the social transition, I doubt my parents would disown me or anything but it would be the most awkward conversation of my life. Don't even think I'm trans anyways I just want to be girly, I might try cycling HRT and stay in boymode.
wew, max repressor tryna convince everyone else to be as miserable as him
Buy a KSG and use it on yourself
when I was 20, I was a super cute trap with a perfect little body for it.
I put on a ton of weight though as I moved towards 30, and I don't mean from binge eating or anything, just normal weight that most men have. Now I make a not very good CD and it's not nearly as fun as it used to be cause I'm not anywhere as cute.
so just be careful cause everything can change.
You don't, ever, don't even think about it.
You must understand they are normies and well this idea of being a girl is out of normie culture.